" But there are lots and lots of men with unmet physiological sexual needs. Big problem for many men, at the most basal level of the pyramid." ... I would wager the vast majority of men !! Also going without sex does not really bother most women , & the more sex driven women have sex on tap as you rightly state , most single women I know are single & celibate by choice. Now a single dad , also working FT , I am so thankful my own libido has dramatically decreased , the " male curse " has lost most of it's grip. Very interesting articles , have actually applied some of your points in the past & not known it , but have also , like all men , F-d up too.