Hmm. Well, the problem with a limited number of small venues is you
start running into regulars after a while. And all the staff gets to
know you. No matter how subtle you try to be, the staff and many of the
regulars will notice if you chat up new girls all the time.
So if these are your only real option to meet girls at, you want to
get the staff and regulars on your side, and include them in the
Best way to do this is just be the friendly,
social guy they all like. Talk to everybody and be friendly with
everybody. Aim should be for everyone to see you as just that outgoing
guy who chats up everyone. Then when they see you chat with a new girl
they can roll their eyes and smile and go, "Oh boy, there he goes
again." And when you talk to them later they can go, "So, how'd it go?"
Aside from that, you can't be much more under-the-radar than sitting
near a girl and casually chatting her up. Anyone who's paying attention
will notice you're talking to her, and there's not much of a way to get
around talking to her (can't pass her notes, for instance. Well, you
could, but she'll probably just start talking to you if she likes you).
So better to handle staff + regulars proactively, that way you don't
have to worry about them objecting whenever they see you make some
chitchat with another new girl.