This article brings up a good point. I've been guilty of falling into the trap of wanting more socially hot girls. It would be great to meet more of them and see what it's like to date them, but I've gotten over the need to go after them. Nowadays I focus on types of girls I've always wanted to meet: fit blonde chick, exotic Latina, etc. I just went out with a Turkish girl I met on tinder. One of the most beautiful girls I've ever gone out with. I let my nerves get the best of me the second date, but luckily it was enough to bed her. She isn't down to meet again sadly but at least I pushed through the anxiety of it and can be cooler around my types of beautiful in the future.