I am not Chase, but for me it sounds that you have no REALLY defined goal with women.
What do you REALLY want with women?
Excerpt: "I feel that they're attracted that is enough for me and I don't continue the interaction because the validation that they give me and when I know they're attracted makes me feel more complete and I don't close the girls."
That is a goal and it's fine. But is that the goal you really want with women?