I haven't had to deal with false rape accusations, so I don't want
to speculate, but if you find yourself in that situation the one piece
of advice I will give you is the one I hear from everyone who knows
anything about the legal system all the time: don't talk to the police.
Demand a lawyer and refuse to say anything to the police. Watch this
No matter how much they pressure you, how much they tell you it'll
be easier for you if you just tell them what happened, how cut-and-dry
you feel the case will be, don't talk.
Just think of it this way: whatever you tell them they will use to try
and get a conviction, so don't tell them ANYTHING and INSIST on having
a lawyer do your talking for
There's a book called What Cops
Know that's tremendously informative about the American justice
and legal system. According to that book, most murderers are convicted
on the back of their own admissions. The justice system is entirely
geared around getting confessions out of people; if no one ever
confessed, there'd be a fraction as many convictions. I'd guess it's
probably the same with false rape accusations: twist the details
someone gives you around enough that you can make it sound like they
did it. Do not talk except through a lawyer if you want to stay out of
That said, just steer clear of crazy
girls, and go out of your way to prevent sex regret.
No woman ever falsely accused a man she had warm and fuzzy feelings
about sleeping with.
As for discerning whether girls are aloof or just playing hard to
get, see these articles:
... but basically, if she likes you, she'll comply with you. If she
won't comply, drop her and move on.
If you don't want to be corny or lame, don't make corny/lame jokes,
or use goofy humor. Keep it witty and classy (or sexy).
Your motivation is what it is. You can do some things to ratchet it
up (e.g., lift heavy weights to increase your testosterone levels; use
some mind hacks to increase your
sex drive), but ultimately, if you want to sleep with thousands of
women you need a naturally (genetic) through-the-roof sex drive, and
that's just not something that most people have. You know the people
who do, because they have seemingly unlimited energy, are inveterate
thrill seekers and risk takers, and are ready and willing to have sex
with just about anything that moves. I think there's a limit to how
many women you ought to sleep with if you want to do other things with
your life; there's a point it reaches where it's too distracting, has
become an addiction, and otherwise sucks all your focus away. But,
depends on what you're trying to do with your life. If the point of
your life is to get inside of as many women as possible, then maybe
there's no upper limit.
As for me, I never make predictions about the future, especially not
permanent predictions ("I will
retire from X thing, forever"). All too often you see a guy say he's
always going to play the field, only to settle down and go exclusive
with some girl 10 months later, or say he's settling down for life and
will never look at another woman again, only to divorce a few years
later and hit the field harder than he ever had before. I have a hard
time imagining a life when I'd completely remove myself from the field,
and think it would be murder on my drive to accomplish what I want to
accomplish with my life, but I guess you never know.