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I've been reading your articles for a while and have read articles over and over especially the ones about approaching. I basically have no women in my life right now. I try and try to approach, I just can't do it. It's unthinkable, I read an article and get hyped about approaching, then in reality im just thinking "oh shit" I can't do this, im going to make a fucking fool of myself and waste my time, who the fuck goes around and does this, she'll find it awkward and weird". I keep getting stuck on the newbie assignment part on when to even say hi. I can't do it, I want to, I go out just to do it, but I can't. I really don't know how to do this and it's been years I've been reading and I have no cold approaches under my belt.

How can I make this easier on myself? I feel like this is impossible to do and imaginary. Me going up to strangers and asking them on dates? Sounds like I want to look like a fool.

im not saying it doesn't work, im saying for me to even pull this off is like a fantasy.

I tell you the truth, I try to do it I really do, I go out my selected days, but no :(, just can't do it.

I have no positive feedback or reference points to instill confidence in myself that this can work. All I have is negative feedback with dating and girls.

Is there anything I can possibly do or something I can start with to make this easier and finally after years of not approaching to start approaching? Thank you good sir.