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Hello chase, there seems to be another v on here. I don't know if you who's who, but I just wanted to point it out so you don't think im asking questions all of the time. When I think about this whole picking up thing, I get discouraged and feel like it's way too much to get good at this. I know to be good at anything you have to put the work in and it won't be easy.

But when I think about the amount of effort I have to put in to get to the highest level, it is so daunting to think about. I want to to do it and will. It's more of an emotions thing with me, I feel so excited some times, then I think about it, like damn I gotta keep getting rejected and keep going out and keep feeling socially awkward to sleep with a few girls. When I think of that I feel like a weight is on my back and I feel it's just too much effort mentally and emotionally to sleep with a few girls.

That's just how I feel emotionally, I know what I have to do to be the best with women. It's just these thoughts drain me and I don't feel like putting out so much effort for the rejection.

I don't know how I can stop this feeling of, "it's not worth all of these painful rejections to just sleep with a few girls". I want to stop that thought and make it something I really WANT to do.

The whole process to me just feels overwhelming. I hoped I explained it well, it's kind of hard to explain exactly how I'm feeling. Do you think it's possible for you to give me some tips on why it's worth going through all the struggles and coming out on top and making pick up not feel like a hopeless task? If you could make an article about it I'd appreciate that so much.

Thank you!!!