Personally. I've always been the "Nice guy". A few weeks back. Due to my owned stupidity a person I've known told me "why didn't you ask me out?". Perhaps it was due to my "niceness, and gentleness". So either way I lost this girl physically and socially. I did try to get her, but well let's just say things didn't end way. So after that friendship brake up. I noticed that perhaps I've just been to nice most of my life. So i've just been filling my ego and learning to put my asshole face on.