I am amazed that there are ANY "Nice "guys left. If a guy is a decent person but not "cocky" or "brash" he will not do well with women. In that case why would he continue to approach them, flatter them, be nice to them? It makes no sense. If these women are not going to date you, hold you in utter contempt and would not piss on you if you were burning, why would you even talk to them?