I was married to a woman for 13 years that smoked weed everyday. And twice a week, would goto her friends garage and smoke weed, while single guy “friends” would snort cocaine.
I told her that that is not healthy or normal. She said I was too controlling and divorced me. Would she qualify as a “party” girl. Even though she did not goto clubs?
is her behavior healthy and acceptable? Or was I correct in wanting more from a life partner?