Why I Quit Dating Girls Who Club, Party, or Drink | Girls Chase

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Hey Chase
I'm not a party man, but in January (this year) I started dating this girl who rented a room in my apartment, her boyfriend at the time helped she move in, 5 days later she began to talk with me and we had sex. At the time my trigger warning was already on, but the "she is different" won. In the beggining she didn't go out often and basicly expend all day with me, litterelly all day, from the first weak to the end; she was a amazing lover, and wanted to have sex all day, and so we did. I was planning to emigrate to Canada (I'm Brazilian) and I gave up because of her, she talked like her life deppends on mine, she was a "gluey person".
By the 4th month I had a thought weak, and I focused only in my study, she said I was rude with hear... Out of the blue, she tells me that a old boyfriend was going to sleep over because he didn't have a place to stay in the city that day. The next day she was already like a dog who knows she fuc#ed up, and I call her whore and stuff, and she lye on my bed crying.
By the 5th month ago she began to go out more, she meet a girl who is absolutelly hot, and began to go out one to three times a week.
In the last week I'm planning to go with my family to visit my syster, she went out and came 8am at home, the party would end at 5 am tops, I guessed at the time.
Didn't care to much, this the next party, it was a cold day, like 6º C, and she went out anyway. 2 AM was the last time I see her online on whatsapp.

By the 5th month ago she began to go out more, she meet a girl who is absolutelly hot, and began to go out one to three times a week.
In the last week I'm planning to go with my family to visit my syster, she went out and came 8am at home, the party would end at 5 am tops, I guessed at the time.
Didn't care to much, till the next party, it was a cold night, like 6º C, and she went out anyway. I gave her a ride and picked up her friend(girl), 2 AM was the last time I see her online on whatsapp, by am 5:30 I went to the club and found out that this was closed about a hour ago (I talked with a taxidriver who works in front of it). 6AM she was online on whatsapp, I didn't said anything ultil it was 6:35, I asked her where he was, and she said she got a ride from some friends and she and her friend was going to her friends apartment, Isaid that I could pick her up, she deflected, I went to the building and she admited that she was at a hotel. Then the history got even more confused and when she came back she was denying to the point I broke her bed-table and called her a whore, she started to hit me and I hold her arms and throw her out of my room, she threatened to press charges.
She said that she slept in a room alone, that room was paid by her friends and she didn't mention the names, and one time it was 3 and then it was 2, one time her friend was with her, the other she wasn't. She thinks this is normal, and I am the wrong because I called her a whore.
Thanks for your article, it was very helpful, sorry for my bad english.