no offense. i'm not really sure why you think it's impossible for woman to a. have a master's degree b. know how to cook c. like to go out and have girls nights every once and again. are you trying to date a girl with no friends? wake up, it's 2014. when people hang out with friends these days they meet up at a bar for a drink. that doesn't mean she doesn't have her shit together and and is driven and ambitious.
it's that kind of thinking that makes guys so unable to find a suitable girl. you might as well go to a mormon combine if that's really what you want. i know plenty of ambitious women who also have some homemaker skills that like to go out and get sloshed every now and again. you are severely limiting yourself...but if that's what you want to do go ahead.