Well, your article is well written and you got some points. But you're wrong about 1 thing. Guz I know women who don't drink, don't party and look like high class ladies. But are the biggest sluts I've ever met. Even worse than party girls like you discribe. There are just sluts and not sluts in the world. Some like to party some don't. It depends on the person not on the things they do. Just trust instincts ( your real instincts, not your misquided butterflies) , there never wrong. You can always sense when someone is sinsirly or not, doesn't mean the girl is perfect, but hej nobody is. And perfect things are boring anyways. Just enjoy them and don't take them to seriously and do your own thing. Saves a lot of headache.