I don't know if you're a hypocrite or not, but you sure hold some double standards here, don't you? And if every man was thinking the way you are, that would lead to a situation where men were "allowed" to party and women were not, if they wanted to be "good enough" for relationships. I see many problems here but, then again, of course you must be allowed to make your own decisions.
The thing I'm interested here is, are YOU good dating material, then? Because, if what you tell here is true about women, I can't see why it wouldn't be true with men, too. You said it yourself, you do clubbing. Doesn't this induce the risk of YOUR straying? If not, why not? If yes, is it because of some other reasons that you still think you're worth their while, I mean the women you date? Or are you, at all? I mean, you said it yourself that you want to date ambitious quality women who probably have goals in their life, just like you, and who lead demanding lives, just like you do. So, do they not need the same amount of support and security as you do? If you don't think you can get this from a party girl, can they still get it from a party boy, meaning, from you? If yes, how can that be?
I don't mean to get into an argument here. I'm just curious about your way of thinking, I hope you don't mind. :) I find your views very interesting. And please excuse my English (again...), I'm from Finland.