Remember that one guy back in high school who always finished tasks before you? He got a kick out of beating everyone else to the punch, and you were left feeling inadequate because you didn’t do them as well?
In life, this happens all the time.
Here’s someone doing something you’ve never heard of before, doing it perfectly, and there’s another doing something different, also perfectly.
You end up looking at yourself, thinking, “Hey, what the hell, what are you doing right now, eating some chips, come on!”
So it is only natural when you look around a club or the street, and you see everything happening that you haven’t done before, and you get that same feeling.
You have to learn to relax that anxiety and start to look at the situation differently if you want to progress.
About the Author: Cody Lyans
Girls Chase’s resident “man of mystery”, Cody shows shy, quiet guys how to turn these traits into assets. Girls call his style “cool and calibrated”; he’s adept at smoothly meeting girls everywhere from the beach to the dance floor. Cody prides himself on versatility, and specializes in both fast (~20 minute) hookups, and slow, sensual seductions. Book a phone coaching session with Cody today to learn from him directly.