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Always Hold the Moral High Ground

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Sometimes a girl might stun you by taking a moral high ground stance opposite you. To address this, you must be prepared to seize it back – with prejudice.

As Thanksgiving (if you’re American) winds down, I’m reminded of one of the cultural phenomenon we’ve seen over the past few years, with various people attacking the holiday and shaming those who celebrate it. “The settlers took this country from the Native Americans,” they say. It’s hardly a day for celebration, they tell you.

This movement to make others feel guilt over their heritage is part of a greater guilt/shame movement in Western society. The latest American presidential election, to a great extent, was a repudiation of this guilt/shame movement; it was to large extent a population saying, “We will not be scolded and chastised by those who think us their betters any longer.”

The competition for the moral high ground between different groups in societies never ends. However, it isn’t just groups that compete for the high ground; it’s individuals, too.

What holding the moral high ground is really about is frame control; it’s ultimate frame control. Because if the moral high ground is yours, facts don’t matter. Opinions don’t matter. Nothing else matters except that you are morally correct... And the other side, by opposing you, is the morally questionable. Which means the other side must yield authority to you.

Chase AmanteAbout the Author: Chase Amante

Chase woke up one day in 2004 tired of being alone. So, he set to work and read every book he could find, studied every teacher he could meet, and talked to every girl he could talk to to figure out dating. After four years, scads of lays, and many great girlfriends (plus plenty of failures along the way), he launched this website. He will teach you everything he knows about girls in one single program in his One Date System.



Someguy's picture

Invaluable stuff. These concepts have the potential to save lives. I think many even otherwise rather tough people are vulnerable to tooling and the following depressions etc..

Anonymous's picture

Hey chase can you help point me in the right direction as for what article to send to my cousin? Basically his girlfriend is not letting him watch movies/TV shows with nudity or vulgarity (her reasoning being an ex would watch porn while they banged) and he's just rolling over and accepting this. Also there was a time while around a fire with our family where she poured her drink in his lap for saying mad TV was better than SNL. He's becoming her bitch and doesn't even care. I know he basically needs to do a 180 on his mindsets and relationship skills (and probably needs to dump his girl, but one can only hope) but the problem is he simply doesn't see his submissiveness as an issue and also brushes off my advice because I'm five years his younger. He would however be open to reading one article were I to send one his way. I was hoping you could point out the one that you think would help him most in his current situation and hopefully cause him to click on a few follow-up articles.

Thanks in advance man

Hector Castillo's picture

Logic isn't the issue with homeboy; he needs to see the consequences of his behavior.

That should start to scare him. Then, once he's convinced that she is going to dump him, that she probably thinks about other men when they have sex, and that she very likely is already cheating on him, you can convince him to break up with her.

She spilt a drink on his lap for disagreeing with her about a goddamned TV show? She has some balls and he swallowed them. I'd break up with her on the spot if she pulled that with me.

Don't think there's any turning around of that ship. Best thing to do would delete her number, delete her off social media, tell her to fuck off, and go smash some other girls. Should go psycho-killer crazy to get him back (okay, maybe be a bit more gentle, cuz we don't want him getting stabbed).


Want to make her wet? I'll show you how.

Alex Taylor's picture

Hey chase, what happens when a girl knows you like her bad for sure but also know you speak to other women and there is social proof?how do i deal with that?

Chase Amante's picture


Um... Sleep with her? But then don't pledge exclusivity right away? :)

Situation seems unclear to me. But generally if a girl knows you like her a lot, and she's turning down your date requests, often all it takes it a little preselection to make her regain interest in you (because she realizes another girl may snap you up instead).

Check these articles out for more on that:


Mike's picture

Hey!! quick question.
Does this still work with celebrities when they do or say something politically incorrect? I see lots of them apologize after a racist joke or video they did gets exposed. Is this purely from a business PR stand point with record labels or production companies they cant afford to just let it ride ? What say you they should do?


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