The 3 second rule says you must approach a girl within three (3) seconds of realizing you want to talk to her. When do you follow this rule – and when not?
For today's Tactics Tuesday, I've dug up an old pickup rule some of you well know, and others may not have heard of.
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The 3 second rule stems from the early online seduction community. It's a "Mystery" tactic (one of the early 2000s seduction pros). And while you don't want to be rigid about it, it for sure can be a handy little thing.
The 3 second rule works like so: from the instant you spot a girl you'd like to approach, you have three (3) seconds to approach her.
The purpose of the rule is to avoid all the downsides that accompany waiting too long to approach: the buildup of nervousness, worrying thoughts that lead to psyching yourself out, and the closing of the approach escalation window.
The rule itself is straightforward. Today we'll talk about a couple reasons it's useful... plus when it's better to ignore this rule.
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I'm guilty of this
Thanks Chase for this. It's been a long time since I heard of the 3 second rule but boy is it important.
It explains why I had a few approaches where I thought she was interested but she didn't respond well.
Shoot first! Ask questions later :)
Re: You had an article on relationships and drama
It might be a comment, but you talked about a girlfriend of yours was making drama.
You persisted in asking her what is really bothering her. You gave dialogue in the article I think.
She finally tells you that her friend's boyfriend recently bought her friend gifts and now she compares him with you and also wants to have gifts.
You addressed that without supplicating.
Because "gifts" isn't what she really wants. What she wants is the emotion.
And now I can't find it at all. Do you remember which article it was?
And any tips on when girls demand to get something and whine and complain, how would you handle this without supplicating and looking weak. Assuming they're type 1 of "Girlfriend moody? article and not "Genuinely distressed".
And advice on handling it when they add requests for things, listing one after another, then attributing it to you not liking her and all that messed drama...
p.s. it's not even those things they want. Because when you listen to her, she just rambles on. It makes no sense. It's not the things she list that she really wants, so how do we handle this?
Thanks,
Lawliet
PLZ HEEEEELP!!!
Hello chase
Got no time to thank you enough,
I live in Iran and families are very conservative,
My girlfriend got back to her home this morning shes very beautiful kurd ethnic
Sadly her father found out we had a relationship and he wont let her to come to my town to attend her university anymore.
all I need to know is any advise you can give me apply for myself and her just so that we have each other back again any tip.
I really am thankful if you could help with this.
I really Love her
Thank you so much, Sadeqh
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