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Women who are open to polyamory are few and far between, especially in conservative environments. To find poly-partners, you need to look outside the box.
Let’s start right off with a disclaimer:
If you identify as conservative, you may find a lot of what I say in this article offensive. Bear in mind that I define “conservative” in a very specific way, and you may not have the same definition of it as I do.
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In my last article, I talked about polyamory and one of my wonderful experiences within my polyamorous relationships. If that article piqued your interest and you’re interested in starting a polyamorous lifestyle, you probably have some questions. One of the most pressing questions you may have is:
“How can I find attractive, high-value women who would actually agree to being in a polyamorous relationship with me?”
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Conservative women tend to me more attractive…
Yeah, I said it, and I’ll say it another way, too: feminists tend to be ugly. I’ve fucked my fill of those and had enough of that. They’ve been the easier lays, which explains why my limited game worked with them, but I’m glad I had those experiences in the long run. I know better what I want now, and I am beginning to collect women who embody the traits I desire.
The whole point of feminism is to undermine traditional femininity – the exact qualities that make a woman beautiful: good skin, pretty, flowing hair, and a trim waistline…. AND a genuine desire to submit to a quality man.
I don’t technically identify as conservative, but man, oh man, that chic in the first picture looks like fucking shit to me. They usually come with horse shit loads of attitude and drama to boot. Fucking them can be a royal pain as they try to assert their fem-power aggression: shit like twisting my nipples (ouch, cut it out!), grabbing my dick like they want to rip it off, and literally pushing me out of their pussy (as if I should be even MORE dominant in order to fuck them). I’ve ended sex more than once with girls like this because I literally went limp from all the bullshit.
All this being said, I’m a polyamorous guy myself with a modest harem of three-ish submissive women. One of them is an older, formerly overweight, and very feminist woman, whom I’ve been training with weights to correct her figure. She’s lost 30 pounds to date, and we have better sex today than when we got started three years ago.
Long story short, I love Girls Chase for the inspiration they’ve given me to turn my life around in some pretty dramatic ways. It’s hard not to put my own spin on this journey, but I think it’s awesome to share our stories.
Kudos and long live!
-M
Generalizations
Making generalizations is unproductive. I could say that short Asian guys like me tend to have a hard time getting girls and construct my life around that limiting belief, giving up before even trying like some kind of incel. Or I could deny such a limiting belief from dictating how I live. I could say that Americans tend to be fat since two thirds of the American population are overweight or obese and vow to never date my fellow Americans. Or I could realize that these statistics are completely irrelevant and I can still find awesome, sexy Americans to date, like I had done many times.
The polyamorous community, along with the feminist community as a whole did indeed develop a reputation for being inhabited with conventionally unattractive people. That much is true. But such a generalization is still completely irrelevant to me since an endless variety of people exists. I aligned myself to be more similar to what I’m looking for and ultimately drew the kind of people I wanted into my life. The women in my life generally value making themselves beautiful as well as being true blue feminists. Many of them also love being dominated in bed and can’t imagine being in the dom role themselves. They respond to masculinity with femininity just as any woman interested in men would to a man who actually expressed masculine strength and edge.
Feminism does not necessarily seek to undermine femininity in a way that makes women less desirable to men. The experiences you have had with feminist women, and how you’ve interpreted these experiences, does not seem to be indicative of what feminism is fundamentally about, which is simply to change society in a more egalitarian way when it comes to gender relations. There are those who go to the extreme on either side of the debate, but it is not worth giving any sort of attention to extremists at all whether they’re radical feminists or sexist bigots.
The kind of women I am saying you should look for are indeed rare and exceptional, but they’re still abundant if you know how to find them and seek out those qualities with practice. And though many beautiful women (actually, just many women) will express conservative and self-marginalizing attitudes, it honestly isn’t worth the headache to build a relationship with them past something casual due to the fundamental differences between polyamory and traditional views.
What feminism means to most people in a region will vary from region to region, country to country, etc. but the vast majority of self-identified feminists (i.e. not radicals who want to subjugate men) will be perfectly reasonable and overall very pleasant. Unless you’re actually a sexist. Then they won’t be so nice.
Also, fyi the writers do not choose the pictures to use in these articles.
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I appreciate that by and large this is very pragmatic site compared to the manosphere which often wastes time ranting about how feminists are conspiring against their love lives, but I have disagree with you here.
I find it's usually a bad sign when a girl (or person in general) starts talking openly about politics when you first meet them. It usually means the person is miserable, and they're using politics as subject to vent their frustration. Preachiness is just an unattractive trait.
I also can't imagine a guy being a bad boy and being a staunch feminist. It's about as feasible as a Mormon missionary bad boy.
R.A.P.E.
Religion, Abortion, Politics, Economics: topics to avoid when you meet someone, whether it's a date or just a social thing, for the first time.
You're right that it's a bad sign when someone starts openly talking about or preaching these things when you first meet them, and that's not what I'm talking about. I'm talking about screening, which I didn't really get too much into detail so much because I've written this with the assumption that the reader will already know how to conversationally screen women.
If you ask her a question that touches on a political subject in a tactful way and she goes on an angry tirade that is a total mismatch to the energy level of your question, of course that's going to be a red flag. If you make a passing comment that expresses a certain belief in line with the qualities I outlined in this article and she verbally or nonverbally agrees with your frame with an energy level matching or slightly more excited than yours, that would be a very good sign and it would be as if she just passed a compliance test.
Oh, and if there were a Mormon missionary bad boy, I guarantee you that he'd be the more popular with more wives than all the other Mormon boys. ;) Utilizing contrast in your image and/or personality is basically a meta push/pull.
I like you.
“Oh, and if there were a Mormon missionary bad boy, I guarantee you that he'd be the more popular with more wives than all the other Mormon boys. ;) Utilizing contrast in your image and/or personality is basically a meta push/pull.”
Also want to say I appreciate your thoughtful reply to my comment and am in the process of going over your points!
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