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Hector Castillo's picture

I Need a Girlfriend
Do you need a girlfriend? Maybe. But perhaps you’d be better off without one right now. These considerations will help you decide.

What I’ve learned over many years of teaching, mentoring, and coaching, is that my desires have not always matched those of my students and clients.

One of my most common recommendations for guys at all levels is to sleep with a few women before settling down with one.

I know – from both ends of experience – why this can be helpful for men. My first serious girlfriend was the girl I lost my virginity to. Then, a few months into dating, we had to shift to a long-distance relationship when I went off to college.

The relationship itself wasn’t bad, and I learned a lot. Additionally, my life has led me to where I am, so I have no regrets. But regarding that long-term relationship, there were many better paths I could have taken, given how many chances I had with hot, thirsty girls at college.

It’s tough to judge the past from the future, since it is self-evident that the past – every detail and crease – led to this future.

As for girlfriends, something that takes time and focus on your part... that’s a tricky subject.

When should you have a girlfriend?

The question “Do I need a girlfriend?” comes to mind, as a teacher of the romantic arts. But for many guys out there, it takes the form of “I need a girlfriend.” Two different sentiments, but both lead to the same inquiry if one is calm and introspective.

There are times in your life when a girlfriend is nice but not necessary. There are also times when you really shouldn’t have a girlfriend, and there are times when you really need one.

Comments

Benjamin's picture

I can relate to this article very well. I'm very inexperienced and never had a gf and sometimes I think I want a gf in the form of I need to get a gf because I never had one and at my age of 21 I should've had one already. But there are other times where I dont care about that and my male hormones take over and all I think about is getting laid. What if the first girl I take to bed makes herself available as a gf to me? Should I pass that up even if she may not be the best gf material? What about having reference points for relationships?

Torua's picture

Hi Hector,

Great article. I had to admit myself that I was not going for the highest quality women I could, just having funny with pretty and caring girls, but rarely amazing, so I could feel abundance. Admitting that I want a high qualitu girlfriend actually let me to slaying spree lately, with girls I would have taken as girlfriends before. Almost as if the feel: this badboy is looking for commitent - take me!

Thanks for this article, giving allowance that opening fully to one woman can be a great step IF it is the right time. I think it will be amazing to have hold back the amazing gifts I have. Which I partially do to not get casual women hooked and later hurt to much.

I would love to hear more about how and if you handle monogamy willingly after a long lover lifestyle.

Best Torus

 

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