You know she likes you, but want to avoid resistance when you ask
her to do something? Don’t give her the chance to resist. Assume the
sale instead.
"Assume the sale."
It's one of the most recognizable sales mantras. Don't ask the prospect if he wants to buy. Assume he does. Then proceed under that assumption.
This advice has long made the rounds in seduction circles as well.
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It's good advice, when timed well and calibrated to the girl and the scenario.
When you 'assume the sale' with an interested woman, you aren't jumping the gun heedlessly, of course. You don't assume "Well, she said 'hello' to me, so now I can take her hand and lead her to the washroom" (what you can do when she says 'hello' to you? Assume attraction). Rather than jump any guns, instead you read a girl's signs of interest and when you can tell she's probably ready for something, you just assume she is... and lead.
That's all well and good. If you don't have any sales training though, how do you do this?
Today's Tactics Tuesdays post arms you with five (5) different ways to assume the sale with women - all you have to do pick the method most suitable for your girl and your situation, and apply.
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Tactic #3
I have seen tactic number three quite often in social situations where someone is trying to tool another person. How would you respond to that? Especially if the person is of a higher status socially.
Beating the "Could You...? Thanks" Tooling Tactic
Aaron-
Depends on how demanding the ask is.
If something not demanding, like "hand me that fork? thanks" then pick it up, but present it to the person with that little hand flip (you know... that kind of "here you are" flip?) with firm eye contact and a very slight "I know what you're doing" smirk.
If it's demanding, like "Would you go buy us another round of drinks? Thanks", easiest is to just brush it off: "Sure, later", then not do it. If the guy brings it up again ("Hey, I thought you were going to get us drinks?") you deflect another way ("Eh, I've had enough to drink. I think we could all use a break from drinking" or "I don't want to get more drinks here. Let's go to Sky Bar").
Chase
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