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Seductive eye contact is about more than eyelids and gaze
direction. With these 3 basic eye contact rules, plus a few advanced
tactics, you’ll melt her.
Lately I have been making posts on non-verbal seduction. Non-verbal seduction is a lot of fun and has a lot of benefits – such as being possible in loud clubs. If you’d like my lesson on pulling off verbal seduction in a loud club, here it is: you can’t. This is why those of us (myself included) who enjoy using fancy verbals tend to avoid loud clubs or stick to smoking and lounge areas.
But this will no longer be a problem, for today we will go further down the rabbit hole of non-verbal seduction. One common misconception is that non-verbal seduction is easier than verbal seduction. This is wrong. However, it is important to keep in mind that it is easier to occasionally “get lucky” and enjoy freebies with non-verbal seduction. Becoming consistent and enjoying repeated success, on the other hand, is hard. This requires more than just “gazing her down” and touching her like a caveman.
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This forces us to become more calibrated and develop more than a simple “trained eye” and that “smooth vibe” that usually results from field experience. To achieve success and avoid failure, it is still a prerequisite to gain knowledge. And in order to get good at non-verbal seduction, one has to get deeper in the analysis of those concepts, which at first glance to a “clueless” eye, may seem banal. For good non-verbal seduction, the devil is indeed in the details.
In last week’s article, we discussed the oftentimes overlooked yet crucial subject of positioning. Today’s topic, eye contact, is no different. Now, keep in mind that this post, the previous post, and the upcoming posts related to non-verbal seduction will cover techniques that can also be used when delivering verbals; for example, eye contact is obviously key in any form of seduction but is absolutely vital in non-verbal seduction – for obvious reasons, these are the only tools you have at your disposal when verbals are rendered useless. When given fewer “tools” to operate with, perfection is required.
Without further ado let’s get to it.
Comments
Clarification
Thank you Alek for this amazing article! One thing i've noticed is that I'm not very comfortable when a girl I haven't met makes eye contact with me for whatever reason and I always look away.
If I understood correctly, to solicit eye contact from a girl you should make eye contact with her for no more than 3 seconds? Today I was walking down the street and I see a cute girl coming towards me, I kinda tried to force eye contact, and she looked at me eventually for less than a second and then looked away. I think it was too intense.
Frost
Hi Frost.
Awesome thing that you are trying it out.
I should have clarified this in the post - that forcing eye contact during daygame is many times a bit too intense (I had nightgame in mind when writing this post) - however when it works is very powerful - high risk high reward I guess. You can either play the risky game, and "losing more often" but win bigger when you first win.
Personally in daygame, I prefer going for girls who gives me eye contact first - and play the screening game. But fi you want to trigger eye contact - this is the only way, however feel free to force it for a shorter time. And yes women can look away quickly - it isn't necessarily a bad thing.
-Alek
Looking Down
Hello, Alek. I have just one question: in a previous article Chase wrote about eye-contact flirting, Chase mentioned that one of the ways to seduce a girl was to look down after making eye contact for a second or two. He wrote that we should look down (but not all the way down) and perhaps add a brief smile on our face. I would like to know your comment on that and if you recommend doing so (as I tried it a lot of times before and it worked well without reflecting submissiveness). And could my strong personality have allowed me to overcome the submissiveness? Thank you.
Eye contact
Hey Alek, so Chase mentioned in another article that you should focus your eye contact on the bridge of the nose and occasionally the right eye depending on the situation. Here you mention it is okay to look at one eye and switch occasionally. Personally ive always maintained eye contact in one eye and ive been told i have piercing eye contact. Which is the best one however? On the nose bridge or one eye at a time?
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