In the comments section under the post on "Get Girls in Bed," a reader writes in asking about dance floor game:
“Hey Chase,
Been reading your blog for the past couple of months now, and I think there's less than 10 articles to go until I have read everything on your website.
Awesome stuff to say the least, I feel like I've hit a goldmine after reading your pieces.
From your writings I can see you are not the biggest fan of seducing women in clubs since it's loud and not conducive to many aspects of seduction. However, I keep seeing guys who do pretty well in clubs. Can you write a piece on gaming in clubs? Particularly what to do on the dance floor when conversation isn't really an option?
Thank you.
Best regards,
A”
In fact, as I commented in my response to A, I do like nightclubs for meeting women - I've hands down spent more time honing my abilities with women in them and have met more women at bars and nightclubs than anywhere else - but I find them to be some of the most difficult places to do well with women for most guys, the environments in them are the most stacked against a man you'll see, and they're among the worst places to look for girlfriend-quality women you can go to... so I tend to recommend against them for guys when giving advice.
But, for straight training purposes, for coating your skin with a layer of steel and developing rock-solid frame control, and for quick pick ups once you've got your vibe and your process down right, clubs are hard to beat.
A's question is one of the first one's that come to mind when you start thinking about nightclubs though, and it's one we haven't discussed in any detail on this site yet: what do you do about dance floor game?
Comments
Taking her home
Hi Chase, interesting post! I felt the need to know more about this because I too don't like dancefloor game while going out in bars/clubs is the best place to look for (available) women while the vibe is one of seduction.
I don't think though that it is realy ideal to fuck her outside in a dark corner as there is no privacy and most girls are not going to do that.
What if you want to take her home which is 15 minutes by bike (I live in a bicycle country) from the bar? Say you haven't kissed her yet, you have managed to move her outside of the bar fast and you want to take her home. The moment you'll say "let's go to my place" she would also think like "wait, this guy is actualy trying to have sex with me" right? How do you make her (invest to) come home with you?
Hey Chase, awesome post just
Hey Chase, awesome post just bought tickets for a concert can't wait!! One thing tho, you said that wait till the girl gets off the dance floor then talk to her. Do you mean just walk up to her as soon as she heads off the dance floor or get her attention to come to you?
Chase how important do you
Chase how important do you think dancing is for touching as in her getting used to your feel. I mean if it's a girl you like for a girlfriend and you dance with her (salsa for example where there is more sensual contact between you and her).?
I think clubs messed up my
I think clubs messed up my life, as a young teenager I always heard the thing of how everyone gets laid easily in nightclubs, then I first started going as a baby faced 18 year old (strangely the regular club I went to was called Chase) I always ended up walking home alone, I thought it was something wrong with me, everyone else is getting these hot girls and I'm not. I basically gave up on women until YEARS later when I discovered the PUA community. Clubs can mess up your self-esteem if you're a chode
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