Just like you don't send texts or post on social media when drunk, this is why you do not post on the forums when drunk or under the influence of alcohol. Now I had a chance to read OP's thread where Chase went out to help him out and in OP's defense, he has taken some steps to improvement but at this point, I think it is time to take a break. I've been there myself and it took a lot of going out to do it.
The other issue I will point out is that compared to getting your dick wet, social life is a pain in the ass to get. I know how it can feel like to be the only one really wanting to go on this path as other people are too broke, scared and inhibited to take risks. At this point I am going to share a post on social life and discuss actionable steps.
While I think a ban would be draconian, it is time to give dude a break. I know in the past Chase has outright banned members but my thoughts have always been that there should be some sort of an actionable warning system. Give the guy a month ban or maybe two month ban, make him get his shit together and then check back with him to see what he has done after that. If he has shown improvement and put in the work, keep him around. I know Chase does not regret keeping me around because I have made strides here and continue to do so.