Informing A Recent Partner Of An STI?

Yo,

Bad news boys. Title says it.

What's a general rule of thumb to inform your other partners?

A couple things:

- I have no symptoms
- It had to be one of two partners I've been with
- Unprotected sex was agreed on by both of us
- It's curable


My approach right meow is just to send a ping text like, hey you got a minute to chat? And then call her and give it to her straight, telling her it's okay and be understanding about everything. Then, talk as normal and perhaps even schedule a date.

Tidbits or thoughts?


Hue

Update: I tested negative.

Good that you tested negative. And based on your other post, the other dude is the guilty party

As to your original question though, what you suggested is exactly what I did and it went off fine.

I actually felt that my value could have been increased in their eyes by just tackling it like a man.

I did suggest another date with one of the girls, nothing came of it but she was friendly enough on the phone.

Before bringing up the issue on the phone, I made sure each girl was alone, as I didn't want to screw up her reputation.

cheers, Ray