justification as a means to a harem

this is highly counter intuitive, if you justify that your not looking for a relationship it allows you to move forward and still get the girl. from there on its about managing the scenario. don't spend to much time with her and have multiple groups of friends that she can Meetup with you from time to time. never mix and match the girls your sleeping with, however its ok to invite them out one by one when your doing stuff with friends. Its ok, for her to know you have other girls but causes a lot of issues if they were to meet. establish boundaries so you don't have uninvited quests at the wrong times.

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