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Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Meeting this girl at the bookstore. She was going with her mom. Chatting with both, her mom was helping me with the conversation. I got the number.

She wasn’t free in any evening, so I opted for a lunch date instead.
Thus I went to lunch.

I wore some good accessories. She kept staring at the ring in the left middle finger (later on I looked on the Internet, the ring on the middle finger meant anything, so my relationship status was a mystery and she was figuring it out).

She loved travel. I shared my traveling stories.

This girl had the penchant to call things out. For example:
Her: “You have a powerful eye contact”
This had to be a test. I didn’t know a standard way to deal with it.
Me: Reeeealy
And she explained that most people didn’t have good eye contact.

And the, “You must do this a lot” test. I just said yeah, it happened a lot in my country.

50 minutes in. I asked for her plan. She said she had plan but she was open to hang out another hour. Thus I ended the date in 5 minutes, and in a high note.

Her: “You’re powerful”
Me: “Yeah, 2 powerful people go back to work. Let’s go”

She laughed, and the date ended.
 

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Tool-Bearing Hominid
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So did you kiss her during the date or take her home? Do you think you did a good job establishing yourself as a lover or bf at the very least?
 

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Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Neither. I didn't think her interest was high enough. After 1 hour I had the choice of going to different place with this girl or going to work. She was only moderately interested, thus ending the date was the better choice.
 
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