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I don't know what it is about me, but I always tend to imagine scenarios that are too extreme on both ends.
For instance, if I'm thinking of visiting a new country, the first thing that comes to my mind is 'What if I get arrested or get in trouble, who will have my back there?'
Or, if I'm thinking about my future career, finances, and everything, I think 'What if I don't have money at all and become homeless?'
Another one, and a very common one at that, is ' What if I get into an accident and then become wheelchair bound for life?'
And, when I meet a new guy, I don't want him to come to my room cause 'What if he murders me?'
Similarly, when I imagine positive things, I envision everything to be perfect in my life in future.
Also, I worry about 'What happens if both of my parents die, who will be there for me then, financially and socially?'
What the fuck is going on? I don't like thinking in extremes, especially the negative thoughts?
For instance, if I'm thinking of visiting a new country, the first thing that comes to my mind is 'What if I get arrested or get in trouble, who will have my back there?'
Or, if I'm thinking about my future career, finances, and everything, I think 'What if I don't have money at all and become homeless?'
Another one, and a very common one at that, is ' What if I get into an accident and then become wheelchair bound for life?'
And, when I meet a new guy, I don't want him to come to my room cause 'What if he murders me?'
Similarly, when I imagine positive things, I envision everything to be perfect in my life in future.
Also, I worry about 'What happens if both of my parents die, who will be there for me then, financially and socially?'
What the fuck is going on? I don't like thinking in extremes, especially the negative thoughts?