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Your Beliefs Aren't Real

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By: Chase Amante

May 23, 2013

Just when you think you've got it all figured out... it turns out your beliefs aren't really 'real' at all.

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Cognitive Dissonance and Upset Commenters

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By: Chase Amante

May 20, 2013

Why do people get upset when they encounter views that clash with their own? We look at cognitive dissonance, and how it works.

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Lower Your Standards (and Date Hotter Girls)

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By: Chase Amante

May 3, 2013

The latest research shows that the men with the highest self-esteem lower their standards with women the most – and there’s a good reason why.

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5 Steps that Let You Visualize Anything into Reality

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Apr 22, 2013

Visualization is a powerful long-term tool for running simulations in your mind. Find out how to unlock its power and start training yourself to live the life of your dreams.

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Events vs. Process: What Spectators Don't See

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By: Chase Amante

Apr 7, 2013

When someone makes it big, is that an event – or another part of the process? Success isn’t luck or talent, you see; it’s simple hard work.

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The Purpose of Life from a Practical Point of View

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By: Chase Amante

Apr 4, 2013

A practical handbook to understanding and selecting purposes and causes in life, with a dip into the philosophical with a look at life itself, and what it all means - or doesn't mean.

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Black and White Thinking: When It's Useful vs. Harmful

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By: Chase Amante

Mar 12, 2013

Black and white thinking is a potent tool for decision making and influencing – but it has a dark side you need to be aware of as well.

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Stop Being So Judgmental: It's All Actor-Observer Bias

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By: Chase Amante

Feb 19, 2013

Actor-observer bias describes the inherent disconnect in how we think about our own actions compared to those of others all around us.

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How to Be More Aggressive with Women, Dating, and Life

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By: Chase Amante

Feb 16, 2013

In the modern West, many men have forgotten their traditions on how to be aggressive and bring the things they want into their lives.

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How to Take Your Self-Esteem to the Stratosphere

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By: Chase Amante

Feb 8, 2013

Self-esteem doesn’t go up by happy songs or trying to “feel” good. It’s built or broken by those in your life. Learn how to take control.

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I Don’t Chase 'Em, I Replace 'Em

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By: Chase Amante

Jan 20, 2013

Cutting contact with a woman you’re emotionally invested in is hard. Use these hard rules to know when to say “enough” and walk away.

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Your Mental Model is Flawed

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By: Chase Amante

Jan 16, 2013

Your mental model governs how you see and interpret the world. Everyday, you run into situations you didn’t expect and aren’t prepared for.

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Does Confidence = Success? Actually... No.

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By: Chase Amante

Jan 9, 2013

Most people tell you that if you want success, you first need confidence. But do you really? Truth is, you don’t – you need something else.

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