Articles by Chase Amante | Girls Chase

Articles by Chase Amante

Talking vs. Texting & Related Tips

Update: check out "Text Message Flirting" for a run down on the basics of text messaging, and "How to Text a Girl" for the most comprehensive how-to out there on text messaging women to build rapport and get them on dates.


Text messaging and talking over the phone are two different means of communication, and each have distinct advantages and drawbacks. Let's take a look here at what those are.

How to Kiss Her

Here's something that can vex a man more than anything: how to get that first kiss? When does he go for that first kiss? What's the right move, the right time, the right moment? It can be a big deal, and a big worry, for even relatively experienced guys.

Before we take a look at some of the (many) right times and places to go for that first kiss, let's explore the WRONG times and places for it.

The number one WORST time to go for a first kiss (the one you never want to do):

Dialing Down the Value Volume

Here's a surprisingly common problem that men run into with women: showing TOO much value.

Wait, how can that be a bad thing? The more value you have, the more attractive you are -- right?

Well, yes, to an extent that's true. However, the art of communicating value has a deeper, more subtle level that most men (even the majority of men who spend years learning how best to navigate the social arena) never reach.

dial down the value volume

Inner Game Workshop

The date for the next workshop is set! We'll be holding the Inner Game Workshop Saturday, August 15th from 10 AM to 1 PM in San Diego, CA. Here are some details on the class:

The Inner Game Day Course is designed to identify the inner beliefs that hold students back from achieving their true potential, and give them the tools they need to change those beliefs. Topics covered include getting past negative thinking, five poisonous thoughts, and facing fears. Sign up for the Inner Game Day Course and get to work changing how you see yourself and the world!

Girls Chase Seminar

Come join my partner Mateo and I for an introductory course Saturday the 8th of August right here in San Diego, from 10 AM to 1 PM; reserve your seat today for both the seminar and live in-field instruction.

Learn from the best:

• Learn EXACTLY what to say and HOW to say it

• Learn the PRECISE STEPS to get the girl of your dreams and surround yourself with beautiful women

• Make women attracted to you regardless of your looks, body type, or how much $$$ you make

Notes:

• You must be 18 or older

Invite Her Home

Guys go out for different reasons. I find that one of the most common ones, particularly for men new to meeting women on the street, at bars, at clubs, at bookstores and coffee shops, is to “work on their game”.

Totally understandable. It’s where I started out at. And, especially in the beginning, you have a lot of basic stuff you’re trying to get down and specific traits you’re looking to iron out and make a regular part of who you are and the way you interact with women.

Getting Past Small Talk

Small talk is one of those things in life that it pays well to be good at -- but also pays equally well to move beyond as quickly as possible. When you've just met someone new, dwindling on small talk can be one of the most stultifying "nowhere zones" to end up in. Many a great new connection has been lost by the conversationalists' inability to move past this sometimes daunting formality.

1-on-1 Training THIS Sunday in San Diego!

I and my good friend Mateo are presenting the first in a REVOLUTIONARY new series of classes in meeting women.

Come join us for an introductory course THIS Sunday the 19th of July right here in San Diego, from 12 PM to 3 PM; reserve your seat today for both the seminar and live in-field instruction.

Learn from the best:

• Learn EXACTLY what to say and HOW to say it

• Learn the PRECISE STEPS to get the girl of your dreams and surround yourself with beautiful women

• Make women attracted to you regardless of your looks, body type, or how much $$$ you make

Notes:

Pre-Opening

pre-openingOpening (or engaging a woman verbally for the first time) in-and-of itself is a necessity, something that must be done 96% of the time when you want to meet a girl (if we imagine that about 4% of opening is done by women themselves). It’s unavoidable and inescapable. Different types of openers can net you different results – with direct openers being of course the flavor of opening that typically offers the most bang for your buck.

But outside the words used in the opener itself, there are in fact a few other things you can do with your openers to have them serve you far better.

Enter pre-opening. A term I coined to give name to a handful of small nonverbal gestures that net big returns in opening percentages and efficacy.

This is stuff that will get more girls opening for you, more eagerly. If you want women falling all over themselves when you first say hello, outside of making changes to your clothing, hairstyle, posture, eye contact, voice, and other fundamentals, this – pre-opening – is the way to do it.

There are several categories of pre-opening I’d like to cover here, so rather than spend a lot of time talking about the how and why, let’s just dive into them and hash that part of it out as we go.

Stillness

stillnessWhen I was in high school, I focused really hard on being very still and moving slowly. I thought it made me seem more dominant and powerful, so I put a lot of energy into mastering it.

Nowadays, paying more attention when I'm out and hanging with girls, I'm realizing this is a big thing, nonverbally. Women are very attuned to how still you are. Being still radiates power.