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property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/700#comment-700\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EEven worse if that girl is\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EM (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Friday, 30 September 2011  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EEven worse if that girl is just your type and you feel a connection with her, that makes you so confident that you feel it\u0027s just impossible to reject you -\u0026gt; you rationalize everything she does in your favor, when she\u0027s just playing you.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOne girl I met who was just playing me, actually told me: \u0022I wouldn\u0027t talk to you like that if I thought of you as a partner. And you just allowed me to talk like that.\u0022 Which made A LOT of sense for me. Now I think \u0022is she trying to make me spend more time with her, or she actually wants me?\u0022\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/468\/700\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-735\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/735#comment-735\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/735#comment-735\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ERe: Even worse if that girl is\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 11 October 2011  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/700#comment-700\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHey M, totally man. Those can be confusing.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYou can avoid wondering altogether if you\u0027re strict about only scheduling dates that are going to move things forward with you and the girl, and declining all things that aren\u0027t going to accomplish that. Girls who aren\u0027t interested screen themselves out, and girls who \u003Ci\u003Eare\u003C\/i\u003E interested screen themselves \u003Ci\u003Ein\u003C\/i\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ECheers man,\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/468\/735\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-10472\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/10472#comment-10472\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/10472#comment-10472\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EI disagree\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAnonymous (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Thursday, 20 June 2013  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/735#comment-735\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EDon\u0027t you think that some of the effort you put into those long years of dreaming would give you at least part of what you tried for.for example, a kindergarten teacher says she is giving a cookie to the best worker. You try harder then anyone else for a long time, but in the end you end up with fudge. You like fudge just as much if not more then cookies but you realize that what you had been trying to get this whole time you didn\u0027t even end up with. The discouragement is in the fact that you expected a cookie, but ended up with something that wasn\u0027t your main goal. My point is there should still be a chance, but don\u0027t let it linger on for too long. Instead,  put it all in one gift or something and say if she wants to be with you then horray, but if she doesn\u0027t, move on. There are also advantages of being this way. If she asks you a question like; \u0022am I like able?\u0022 It triggers some sort of spark though you body as you start searching for the right thing to say. As your mind looks, you think of the good things that could come from the right answer. I sti agree with what you saying, but if you try hard enough, at some point. You could get what you want.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/468\/10472\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-36145\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/36145#comment-36145\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022lewis\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022lewis\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022lewis\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022lewis\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/36145#comment-36145\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003Ewomans way\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003Elewis (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Wednesday, 22 October 2014  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/735#comment-735\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EAt age 22 till up in the age I was in the league with don juan married girls older girls name em all races since ive decided to get real n find one to be with for good they all hate me now iam stuck one one that has a fiancee but acts like she wants me but cant make a decision I haven\u0027t had relations with her which is crazy for me to want her without sampleing\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/468\/36145\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-63882\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/63882#comment-63882\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Patrick oneil\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Patrick oneil\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Patrick oneil\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Patrick oneil\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/63882#comment-63882\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EI don\u0026#039;t know if I am worse\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EPatrick oneil (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Sunday, 26 April 2015  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/700#comment-700\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EI don\u0027t know if I am worse but I found one that was perfectly my type but she had so many RED flags that I was afraid that the will accept me.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nShe did show some strong signals and I couldn\u0027t avoid looking at her so beautiful she was but I just couldn\u0027t trust her. Then I lost her and I know I did the right choice but it hurt.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/468\/63882\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-64069\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/64069#comment-64069\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Sean11\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Sean11\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Sean11\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Sean11\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/64069#comment-64069\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EWhat red flags did she show?\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ESean11 (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 4 May 2015  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/63882#comment-63882\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EWhat red flags did she show? You should\u0027ve just went for it. Now your left thinking what if. How did you meet her?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/468\/64069\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-702\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/702#comment-702\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Matthew\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Matthew\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Matthew\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Matthew\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/702#comment-702\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EGreat article\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EMatthew (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Friday, 30 September 2011  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EI think that was one of your best articles. I have a certain girl in mind, but I\u0027m not obsessed like that lol. I\u0027m still open to metting other girls. I guess I\u0027m really attracted to her because she\u0027s really hot ; she\u0027s a part-time model, and most of my friends think that she\u0027s the hottest woman that they have seen. Also, Chase, I kinda have a big problem, and I don\u0027t know if I can fix it in some way : I\u0027m only attracted to VERY, very beautiful women. I\u0027m super picky, and it seems I can\u0027t do anything about it. It sucks, because of that reason I don\u0027t have many targets.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nDo you have any tips for that?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E(By the way, english is not my first language, but I did my best ;) ! )\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI\u0027m gonna say it again, this post is great, Chase. it made me realize quite a lot of stuff!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThanks!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/468\/702\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-737\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/737#comment-737\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/737#comment-737\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ERe: Only liking very beautiful girls\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 11 October 2011  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/702#comment-702\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHey Matthew,\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EGlad you liked the post so much, man. The only-liking-very-hot-girls one is tough, to be sure. There\u0027s really two schools of thought on this one:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cul\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EKeep your focus to beautiful girls only; they\u0027re the ones you want, so they\u0027re the ones you should concentrate on learning how to talk to and date.\n\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EExpand your focus to all girls you find \u0022attractive enough\u0022 -- and even some you don\u0027t. Getting a lot of experience in a hurry and building momentum into your dating life is more important than being picky.\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt\u0027s going to be different for everyone, but for me anyway I think somewhere in the middle is optimal. I also tend to be pretty picky, but most of the guys I learned my game from were guys who\u0027d just as soon go to bed with an ugly girl as a beautiful one, and they\u0027d bed many of both. There\u0027s a certain utility of being willing to settle for something less than what you\u0027d normally go for; you get to train yourself up faster and get more of an abundance mentality faster. I still think it\u0027s important that you\u0027re focusing much of your time on women you\u0027re very attracted to, when you can find them, because those are the ones you want to do best with anyway and the ones you\u0027ll be happiest about having in your life.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/468\/737\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-1431\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/1431#comment-1431\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Alex1\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Alex1\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Alex1\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Alex1\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/1431#comment-1431\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EI agree with you matthew,\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAlex1 (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 13 March 2012  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/702#comment-702\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EI agree with you matthew, this is definitely one of chase\u0027s best articles (i\u0027ve only read 2 so far but he seems like an absolute genius to me so thank you chase) I feel the same way in the sense of only liking girls that are basically 15\u0027s on a 1-10 scale (10 being the highest). I too really like this one girl but am also open to other women and have trouble finding the few that meet my standards so to speak. This site has been very helpful so far and i am definitely thinking about everything in a new light. Thank you again chase for all your time and articles, I\u0027ll definitely follow your advice man. I really appreciate that you want to help other guys rather than just keep your strategies to yourself so just keep doing what you\u0027re doing and I know you\u0027ll end up changing a lot of peoples lives for the better\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/468\/1431\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-79605\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/79605#comment-79605\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Richard_melon_apicot\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Richard_melon_apicot\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Richard_melon_apicot\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Richard_melon_apicot\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/79605#comment-79605\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EVery VERY beautiful women\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ERichard_melon_apicot (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Wednesday, 6 July 2016  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/702#comment-702\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EChances are, what you think is very very beautiful. Another guy wouldn\u0027t look twice at. eg Perhaps for you it\u0027s some model with massive fake-tan legs and blond hair..\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nFor me it\u0027s a quirky brunette with glasses and slightly buck-teeth.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI once \u0027hung out\u0027 with a girl I had zero physical attraction for , we were friends for 3 months. Then she got a boyfriend and left. Guess what,..suddenly that girl was the most beautiful woman in the world to me. I was brought to my knees , I wanted to marry her. But it was too late. If you haven\u0027t fallen in love with a girl you didn\u0027t initially find physically attractive, then you have not lived the life of a man.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/468\/79605\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-915\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/915#comment-915\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous J\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous J\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous J\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous J\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/915#comment-915\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EWhat do I do now?\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAnonymous J (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Friday, 18 November 2011  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EIt\u0027s been a year, and I really really REALLY like this girl. She knows that I like her a lot, and initially, she indirectly(as in, gave me a hint) said that she would\u0027ve dated me if I was in her grade(shes a year older). Then, months passed, and one day, when I asked her if she\u0027d date me when we go to college, she said \u0027maybe\u0027. That gave me hope. Its been a long time since that... Weird thing about her is, she doesn\u0027t like \u0027cheesy\u0027 and \u0027emotional\u0027 stuff that works with other girls. She says that stuff \u0027freaks her out\u0027. Anyways, now, Im CRAZY for her, and she just doesn\u0027t want me anymore. Shes a really nice girls so she doesn\u0027t say it, but I feel like she just does not want me anymore in her life. :( \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EP.S - I\u0027m not THAT attractive, but Im good enough to have a couple girls having crushes on me. :P\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/468\/915\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-996\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/996#comment-996\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022dexter\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022dexter\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022dexter\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022dexter\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/996#comment-996\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003Enice advice made me think\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003Edexter (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Friday, 9 December 2011  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003Enice advice made me think alot about my life and why i obsess over my ex girl that i fucked up on and through a series of events made her cheat on me.... whatever though your right and im grateful for you putting up this article or what ev thanks much love\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n(no Homo)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/468\/996\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-25534\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/25534#comment-25534\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/25534#comment-25534\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EGirl\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAnonymous (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Wednesday, 26 March 2014  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/996#comment-996\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EI can\u0027t stop thinking about this girl who sits next to me in class. She is stunning and a really nice girl and she looks very pretty the way she dresses.. She is very sexually appealing and cant build up the courage to talk to her and i really would do anything. Thought of her kissing me gets me weak at the knees.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI need to take your advice but too transfixed on this girl.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/468\/25534\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-40479\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/40479#comment-40479\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022DelonAtion\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022DelonAtion\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022DelonAtion\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022DelonAtion\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/40479#comment-40479\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EHey Budd! :)\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EDelonAtion (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Friday, 23 January 2015  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/25534#comment-25534\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EListen to me Pal, I\u0027ve been in your position not once not twice but many many times and you kn0w what happens, Nothing! as this respectful man stated above that you need to get your Balls up darn it!,\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nthe way you\u0027re expressing is concluding that you\u0027re just afraid to loosing hope, don\u0027t think about it al right just go on ask her out but first just for PRECAUTION :D , make an eye contact and give her a lil smile( if she ignored you after making an eye contact that proves everything that dude she ain\u0027t right for ya trust me!) if she respond you with a smile that your Que to go and start introducing yourself! \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EDelonAtion Ali ;)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/468\/40479\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-1224\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/1224#comment-1224\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/1224#comment-1224\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ECan\u0026#039;t stop thinking about her\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAnonymous (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Sunday, 5 February 2012  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EChase, I followed your articles and book as best as I could.... and things totally worked out! I got together with this girl on the first night, and I had known her maybe a day. I had no idea things could move so fast if you just make every action one that moves things forward. Problem is that one-night-stands aren\u0027t really my thing, and I liked the connection I made with the girl. I\u0027d love to date her, and maybe more, but she started giving me the whole, \u0022I had a great time with you, but I\u0027m just really busy\u0022-talk. She even followed it up with a, \u0022And that\u0027s not a stupid excuse either. You should check out my schedule sometime!\u0022 So, great, now I\u0027ve invested in her, and, as far as I can tell, she\u0027s not interested in me. And, I can\u0027t stop thinking about her! The only thing I can think to do is start the process all over again, and try to find another girl. I just can\u0027t think of what I did wrong. But, hey, the first half worked out, so thanks, Chase, for all the help. I certainly wouldn\u0027t have made any moves or gotten this far without your book. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/468\/1224\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-7155\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/7155#comment-7155\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Beta\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Beta\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Beta\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Beta\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/7155#comment-7155\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ERe: Can\u0026#039;t stop thinking about her\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EBeta (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 12 February 2013  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/1224#comment-1224\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EI think I\u0027m on the same boat as you Anon. Been with this girl for 3 dates, brought her back to my place for the 3rd date and it was amazing. Before reading this post by Chase (which is really awesome btw), I was starting to feel anxious of the \u0022what ifs\u0022 like what if she doesn\u0027t want to see me again because she\u0027s already bored of me. We agreed to see each other two weeks from now but now I\u0027m leaning on the mentality that its cool even if this next date does not happen, I can still go out and find other girls, instead of anxiously waiting for the next date to happen and continuously building up my expectations for the next time that we meet.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI also think this mindset plays as an important role as to how you want to project yourself towards women. For example, as how I understand Chase\u0027 article, you don\u0027t want to be obsessed that it eats you up, I\u0027m pretty sure you also don\u0027t want to be perceived as an obsessed guy by women, unless of course as mentioned, that the feeling is mutual.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EInstead I\u0027d rather be perceived as this \u0022James Bond\u0022 type of guy who is interested (to spend time w\/ her) but might or might not be there the day after. And I think keeping this mysterious uncertainty about yourself can possibly keep you \u0022interesting\u0022 that women end up chasing you, instead of the other way around.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut I guess that still depends on the type of women that you are seeing, and it still depends on your own personal preference if you want women to look at you this way.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/468\/7155\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-1227\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/1227#comment-1227\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Jak\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Jak\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Jak\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Jak\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/1227#comment-1227\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EI can totally relate here, I\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EJak (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Sunday, 5 February 2012  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EI can totally relate here, I just started seeing this girl last month, we\u0027ve been out twice and things are went great. Problem is I find myself thinking about her all the time and totally over-analyzing everything. I know that by doing that the chances of totally screwing it up are rising. Got any tips on how to take a step back so I can just be me?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/468\/1227\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-1344\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/1344#comment-1344\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Cabizzle\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Cabizzle\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Cabizzle\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Cabizzle\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/1344#comment-1344\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EThank you so much\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ECabizzle (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Saturday, 25 February 2012  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EVery insightful article, found out that it can\u0027t be healthy to hold on to this obsession much longer. It\u0027s just so hard. I tried making last night the last night I think about her, look at her pictures, and obsess over her, and then the pains and struggles of having to face the reality that I can never see her again and this is finally goodbye was too much, and I already relapsed on her tonight.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOne thing that really gets me down about this article is when you say that you can never, ever be with \u0022that one special girl\u0022, even way later once your obsession is gone and you have dating experience. I like to think that, yeah, I will try to get over you, it\u0027ll be hard and painful, but I can do it eventually. And then, MAYBE later in life, once I\u0027m able to look at her objectively (of course this just would happen if we happen to run into each other) that we can actually give it a fair shot. I really want this to happen. It seems like this is going to be the only way I can truly get over her, if for now, I can live with the hope that maybe later in life we can be together. And if we do happen to connect we can have a shot at true love. Without this hope I won\u0027t be able to face the sad truth that I will NEVER be with her. But, then again, I do see how holding onto this belief would prevent me from fully getting over her. I don\u0027t want to forget about her completely, I just don\u0027t want to be overly obsessed to where it\u0027s detrimental to my life\/well being.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhat I want, and I don\u0027t even know if this can happen, is for us to go out there, date other people, both gain the dating experience, and then maybe at a high school reunion or something we can give it a shot. If we gave it a shot now, for one I couldnt rid myself of the anxiety of making a mistake and losing my perfect girl, and two since were both not very experienced in the dating world were both not ready to call it quits so early and tie yourself down to one person. We\u0027d be more apt to be ready for that later after gaining experience. Of course, thats not what I REALLY want. What I really want is her, right now and forever. Even though I haven\u0027t gone out and dated tons of girls yet, for some reason I\u0027d be totally fine (more than fine actually. Its all I want) with settling down with her so early. But, that\u0027s irrational. Plus, I dont even know her. Truely know her. I never actually had a good conversation with her past the usual small talk that accompanies first meetings. So I guess by writing this Ive come to the realization that it\u0027s probably not good to want to settle down and marry you already, without even getting to know you first. All I want is the chance to get to know you, to give it a shot.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI feel very guilty about doing this to her. Its incredibly creepy. But I just hate the thought that I\u0027m gonna see her picture 6 years down the road, and just consider her as ordinary, or something that I dont even want to pursue anymore. Right now, the only way I can let myself try and forget about you is if I promise myself that maybe later in life we can give it a fair shot, creepy obsession not involved this time. Is that healthy?? I know its probably not the best way to get over her the fastest, but really, it could happen. I could see her 6 years from now, still think shes one of the most beautiful girls to grace this earth, and actually try to approach her this time. It would be different because we\u0027d both have the experience and previous feelings and misconceptions wouldn\u0027t be present this time. Thats all I want. After mulling over you for the past 5 years of my life, beating myself up for every day I don\u0027t act, and having it be the number 1 thing I regret in my life, can\u0027t we at least try and see what happens when I\u0027m over all this stuff? \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI realize that I must get over her if I want my best shot at getting her later in life. I\u0027m tired of living in a fantasy. If I held on to these feelings and tried to pursue you I\u0027d fail miserably, I\u0027d feel like this is my one and only shot and then I\u0027d screw up for sure. How could I not with all that pressure? But If I\u0027m able to get over you, then later if I see you I\u0027d actually have a pretty decent chance.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIs it bad to hold this notion? Should I just try and push it out of my mind, tricking myself into believing that I\u0027ll never ever be with her? Because, realistically, there\u0027s always a chance that 6 years from now we\u0027ll be looking back at this together and laughing at it. I\u0027m sure it wouldn\u0027t be the first time someone lost their high school sweet heart and then reunited later in life. But, thanks to my anxiety, you were never even my sweet heart.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHahah, I just realized I kind of used this comment as a way to write down my feelings, in a way that was directed towards her.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESorry, but please, if you could, respond to this post and give me your honest advice. I\u0027m sure you have a pretty good notion of what I\u0027m going through right now.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI know I have to get over her, but I dont want to ever completely forget, and there to be a 0% chance that it can ever happen later in life.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/468\/1344\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-1346\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/1346#comment-1346\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Katie\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Katie\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Katie\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Katie\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/1346#comment-1346\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EHi Cabizzle:0)\nI have just\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EKatie (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Sunday, 26 February 2012  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/1344#comment-1344\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHi Cabizzle:0)\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI have just read your comment and I am so sorry you have been passing through all this...I am in similar position .Who knows if not even more difficult than yours -looks like you are still single and very young ,the same the girl you love....What I think is -if you are in love with her and you feel you have ,both ,special connection-you should just talk to her ,try to get her and start dating so this opportunity doesn`t pass you by.I am in much worse situation as I am married and have children .We keep this marriage ONLY for the wellbeing of our kids,there is no love and I doubt there has ever been.I got into a relationship having no experience ,at all....he decided to stay with me because  I got pregnant ....but this is called taking a responsibility and not love.I just thought :if he wants to be a daddy than I`m sure he will be a good one for my daughter  and we got married .Cold approach to the life.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nMy husband is a devoted  catholic - he does nothing to hurt GOD ...bla blabla...\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI have told him long time ago to keep things as they are but to be open to the true love...It is not because I was tempted by other men before ,not at all!!! I knew already that there`s no love ,no passion between us and soon or later ,one of us can face it and it would give a temptation to cheat ...but if you know in advance that you can ...it`s not cheating anymore .You are prepared and know you don`t need to feel guilty because you fell in love... I know it looks like cheating your kids but it is still better than a divorce...we still could do a ``good job`` as parents but feeling loved ....ok anyway:I ended up with a massive crush on another man.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nIt is an amazing feeling ...I`m 37 ``feeling 17``:0)....it started last year in April or around....it gets worse and worse to the point it became an obsession to me and life is impossible to carry on without that guy....This is incredible ,sacred ....cosmic???...I got crazy! I cannot read any book ...have difficulties studying ...forgot half of the things I already knew...horrible.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n I cannot do anything with it...anything.All I can have is the opportunity to look into his eyes ,or hear his voice ,see him .....dream about him...and write cheesy poems ``to him``.....and I have an impression that if I don`t do anything -I will let my soul mate go, and will never see him again....even in 6 years .I found something special ,something UNIQUE ...my missing half ...and I have to let him go...it seems like life has been teasing me ,tempting me and watching for my decision...what will it be?\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nOn the one hand I can betray my husband and be happy with the man I love? betrayal is betrayal .My husband is loyal to me or rather he is loyal to GOD...he doesn`t want to hurt GOD by betraying me......but still....if he loved me at least a bit.....\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nOn the other - I won`t  give in to this feeling ,if I don`t try - It will be always chasing me with a guilt that I gave up on someone so special to me This is for some people an easy thing to judge :\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n``lets hung the traitor!``...but things sometimes are complicated this way .I have never understood it before ,but now I do -this is the lesson I got from all this mess :do not judge others because there are reasons behind someone`s actions ....or reasons why people feel this or other way......\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI know it is too much writing ...Cabizzle -you love your girl -ask her out NOW!!! :0)...You are free ,you CAN do it!!! Think of all those who love and CANNOT even SHOW it or talk about it ...because it`s forbidden for some....\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nGO THERE AND GET HER NOW!!!...\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nKatie   \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/468\/1346\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-1629\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/1629#comment-1629\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/1629#comment-1629\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003Ehave you tried talking to\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAnonymous (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Thursday, 19 April 2012  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/1346#comment-1346\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003Ehave you tried talking to her? Sometimes girls are mysterious and don\u0027t reveal their feelings.. You don\u0027t have anything to lose... WHATEVER HAPPENDS HAPPENDS.. GO FOR IT. TRUST YOUR HEART.. 600 MILES OR MILLION MILES..IT DOESN\u0027T MATTER..\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/468\/1629\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-1351\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/1351#comment-1351\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Cabizzle\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Cabizzle\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Cabizzle\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Cabizzle\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/1351#comment-1351\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003Ethanks for the reply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ECabizzle (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Sunday, 26 February 2012  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EKatie,\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI appriciate your help and concern with my situation!  The thing is I know its not TRUE love. yes, it has to be a type of love, but because I dont even know her, basically next to nothing about her personality, likes, dislikes, that it cannot be true love. Rather, it sounds just like what this author is describing, an obsession.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nAnd alas, she is away at college, probably about 600 miles away, its hopeless now. And on top of that, i\u0027m riddled with all sorts of my own problems that would probably be a stress to our relationship as well. Depression, anxiety, some ocd thoughts, and just recovering from a 3 year on and off drug habit. nothing too serious, but still, when I try for her I want to be in completely a 100% normal and natural mindset. I know I have my chance with her if I wait.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nIt just scares me that the author stated if I\u0027m able to get over her, which he says we all probably should, then I might never feel this same way about her again. I dont know if i agree with this however, i truly believe that no matter what, she will always hold a special place in my heart. However, if I go for her now, all those problems I listed would be holding me back. If i wait till I settle all of those, then most likely I wont be completely obsessed anymore, and have a way better chance to take a step back and approach her without the do or die mindset I\u0027d have now. If i went now Id be too incredibly nervous that if I screw this up then I\u0027ll never have the chance, which would cause me to perform less than admirably.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nIf i could go back and change one thing in my life, it would be to go back to freshman year, first day, and grab her right from the get go. The drugs I was on throughout highschool were clouding my mind from my true feelings for her, and didnt really realize how serious they were until I stopped getting high all the time.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nOn top of that, shes never really had a boyfriend before. Ive had numerous girlfriends, but nothing ever anything too serious. While we could end up being eachothers first love if I went now (and succeeded, mind you I feel like I have less than a 5% chance of that), the chances of us staying together forever would be slim. As much as I hate to say it, and as much as its gonna hurt me seeing pictures of her with other guys, if we both play the field first then later in life if we ever meet up we\u0027d have a greater chance of having something much greater and lifelong then we would have now.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nBut then again, as the author stated, once I start going out there and dating other women, my feelings for her might fade over time, and then I would never get the chance. And you are right, I am pretty young, to me this seems just like a childhood first love, not the true feelings that true love is suppossed to bring.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nOf course I want her and of course all I want is just to give us a chance, but really, what am I suppossed to say??\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI had this huge crush all the way through highschool, never acted on it, and now I regret it. Oh and I stare at your pictures so much now that I think I have fallen into some type of love with you.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nLooking at it objectivly like that she would probably think it was the creepiest thing ever, and since she never felt the same way about me (it was never mutual), my chances of her choosing me, some random guy that wasnt even her friends in highschool, over all the possibilities that come through college, are slim to none. Seriously though, what would she say to that?? Shed probably say something like, \u0022wow, you didnt even know me. you really should just get over me and move on\u0022, and probably forever think of me as that creepy stalker guy from highschool.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI hate this situation. I should of acted on my feelings back in highschool and not been so hestitant.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nWhile I want more than anything to get together with her now, as you can tell my chances are pretty low. The best chance I have is through fate. Hopefully fate will bring us together later in life when Im fully recovered, we can both look back and laugh at this, and then try our chances at true love to see if we really are meant for eachother.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAs for your situation, Im so sorry to hear that! you should really talk to your husband about it, as Im sure he knows there is not any more true love in your relationship. He will understand, but its the kids im worried about. As bad as it sounds, maybe you should just have an \u0022affair\u0022 type thing with that guy you are talking about so you dont lose him. Although, I guess it wouldnt be an affair cuz you would tell you husband about it. You guys would just have to put on a show for the kids, which by the way is very respectable of you.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nIf you know there is no love left in your previous relationship, and think this new guy could be your soul mate, definatly do not let this chance pass you up!! please dont make my same mistake, trust me you will regret it for years to come. And along with those feelings of regret are feelings of deep sorrow, lonliness, hopelessness, and depression. NO fun.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nTry to work something out. Im sure your husband will understand as you stated there is no love left in your relationship.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EGood luck, thanks for your reply, and keep me posted!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/468\/1351\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-1355\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/1355#comment-1355\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Katie\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Katie\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Katie\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Katie\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/1355#comment-1355\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EHi Cabizzle:0)\nThanks for\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EKatie (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 27 February 2012  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/1351#comment-1351\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHi Cabizzle:0)\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nThanks for advice:0)\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nLook ,I was thinking about you....if you don`t do ANYTHING right now ,this girl will be in your mind for long time ,maybe even preventing you from building a beautiful relationship with someone else,never know...because you have never tried anything with her!It will be like chasing a ``dream girl``....not gooood(\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI used to have an Italian friend ,few years older than me.He met a girl ,once ,fell in love with her ,was running behind her ,etc etc ...all bla bla....she couldn`t date him although he was really really sweet....but anyway -he was dating girls later in his life but was comparing them to that girl who he was in love with years ago and they never passed the ``comparison test``..... now he is still single!!!.....and trust me I know if he tried harder ,if he pushed a bit more he would have gotten that girl.He would build a happy family -OR soon or later he would find out that she is not a perfection and she has her issues etc etc THAT HE DOESN`T STAND  - what I `m trying to say is -he could have get rid off his ``obsession`` with that girl .\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nIt is like a lesson....somehow.Nobody is perfect and this girl of yours is not an exemption.Go and get her !Find out she is not all that fantastic and beautiful you were seeing her and you will ,naturally,be free of your infatuation.See?\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nHow simple?\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nAnd with regard to my marriage ...hmmmm....I kind of told my husband I fell in love with someone .He wasn`t angry (?!?)...and he`s usually quite aggressive....but he simply said he would take kids away from me if he finds out I`m ``f...ng`` (sorry but that`s what he used() anyone behind his back.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nSo -he likes his ``slave Isaura``)))...but I won`t worry now -I will leave it for later)))....who cares?..life is beautiful,this is all so small .\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nSo please don`t stress yourself over another human ,please don`t forget she IS A HUMAN LIKE YOU !!!....NOBODY BETTER !!!!she makes poo like you ,she rolls her hair up and looks like an alien freak ))))....she breaks winds !!!!\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nand all other stuff ......try not to imagine her licking ice lolly though -you are in control of your mind ,don`t imagine her naked because it will be worse.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nImagine her but funny way and it will be over .Good .I`m done !\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI should open my own sex business now hahaaaa))))......\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nRight and who would read that?\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nUhhhh!!!...I fogot to tell you that if you wait for being PERFECT YOU ,with perfect income ,with perfect health to approach the girl -FORGET IT.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nIt never comes ...EVERYTHING IS ALREADY PERFECT !!!!!! Open your eyes and see it !!!!.....we ARE perfect the way we are ...she will just help you to enjoy all that ...if she falls in love with you she can give you strength to overcome your fantasies (she will be your fantasy )))....she will help you with your addiction to video games ...or drugs....she can help you to boost your income ))))....\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nAnd yes you are right that it`s difficult to say ``true love`` while you do not REALLY know the person you`re ``in love with``.In love is not the same as LOVE,isn`t it.You can really say you are in love with a girl not knowing her yet .....falling in love might be a beginning to love....now the big mystery for me is this Soulmate thing ,because I feel like that man is mine ,that I should be with him .....it feels so so  awkward to see him there in front of me ,talking to people ,doing his work etc ....and not being able to simply hug him ,hold him or stay close to him ....it`s so hard to pretend that I`m fine with all that because I am not.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nYou have the choice -I don`t seem to have any.You -go for it!\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI won`t and I know already this is the biggest mistake ....maybe I could make him a happy man ...for some reasons I couldn`t make my husband happy .Maybe just becuase he IS NOT MINE ....\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nThat was too much ...but good to talk to you:0) KEEP SMILING :0)))))))\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nDon`t forget that you are PERFECT :)))))))))\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nxxxxxxx\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nkatie \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/468\/1355\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-1354\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/1354#comment-1354\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Andy\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Andy\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Andy\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Andy\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/1354#comment-1354\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ETorn between letting her go and trying to get her back (somehow)\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAndy (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 27 February 2012  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EI am in a kind of similar situation. I saw a girl who made me all crazy about her. Although I knew she\u0027s far away from me, both physically and emotionally, I could not stop thinking of her, and still can\u0027t. Thinking of the fact that those emotions will fade away with time makes me somewhat disgusted and enraged, albeit it will relieve the heartache. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENevertheless, fingers crossed for Katie and Cabizzle! May the luck be on your side!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/468\/1354\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-1818\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/1818#comment-1818\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/1818#comment-1818\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EShikira loves Andy \u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAnonymous (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Saturday, 19 May 2012  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/1354#comment-1354\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EIf you are the man I love, then you will know me well:  Shikira.  I am not sure if you are this man I can\u0027t get out of my head, yet I never feel that he and I will ever be more than distant faces.   \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/468\/1818\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-1366\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/1366#comment-1366\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Lust sick\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Lust sick\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Lust sick\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Lust sick\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/1366#comment-1366\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EMan, I am going through this\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ELust sick (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Wednesday, 29 February 2012  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EMan, I am going through this right now! Totally and unbelievably obsessed, I really cannot get out of it, I\u0027m blinded by her and what I want to happen. I would even settle for friendship just to have her in my life but she ignores me now that I\u0027ve told her how I feel; and still with all the ignorance I can\u0027t stop hoping that maybe we could even be friends.  She made me so happy and I just want that back, and the saddest part of all is that I\u0027ve fallen into depression, I honestly don\u0027t have the strength to even smile and the desire to want her is driving me over the edge. I honestly don\u0027t know what to do or where to go. :(.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd the post is amazingly true, everything you mention is everything I have and am experiencing, its good to know that I am not alone in this, so I thank you for the post Chase. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/468\/1366\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-16956\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/16956#comment-16956\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022NoBody\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022NoBody\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022NoBody\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022NoBody\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/16956#comment-16956\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EYou are Definitely not alone in this . \u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ENoBody (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Friday, 15 November 2013  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/1366#comment-1366\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EI am going through the same situation.. She know how I feel . it is Frustrating and Depressing .. I feel like I have no control over my life.. can\u0027t do anything.. lost interest in everything. feeling helpless.. I thought i\u0027m stronger.. but I\u0027m disappointed in myself. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHope we can get out of this as soon as possible.. I want my life back. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/468\/16956\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-1379\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/1379#comment-1379\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022katie\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022katie\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022katie\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022katie\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/1379#comment-1379\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EHi `` Lust Sick`` ....I hope\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003Ekatie (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Saturday, 3 March 2012  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHi `` Lust Sick`` ....I hope you are a bit better :0)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf you rearrange all letters in your ``name`` you can easily change it from a sad :``Lust Sick`` ...to a happy  ``Cult Kiss``.....:0)\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nLife is like that - you are getting some ``HAPPY LETTERS`` but you build something upsetting -and all by yourself !!!\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n``Is the glass half empty ?..or is it -half FULL?``...\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nLook at your life and at your feelings - in a FULL WAY !!!\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nDoes it make any sense ...?\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nTake care of yourself and please cheer up a bit:0)\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI`m in a similar situation now ...and I think I`m getting addicted to this site brrr:0) ...but it`s kind of funnier than anatomy:0)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/468\/1379\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-1423\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/1423#comment-1423\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Lust Sick\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Lust Sick\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Lust Sick\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Lust Sick\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/1423#comment-1423\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EHello Katie,\nThank you for\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ELust Sick (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Sunday, 11 March 2012  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/1379#comment-1379\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHello Katie,\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThank you for that, I am feeling a little better thanks but those dark days come back again to be completely truthful. I\u0027m still not fully over her I don\u0027t think. Why what\u0027s your situation? \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/468\/1423\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-1427\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/1427#comment-1427\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Katie\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Katie\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Katie\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Katie\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/1427#comment-1427\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EHi :0)\nI`m happy you got\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EKatie (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 12 March 2012  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/1423#comment-1423\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHi :0)\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI`m happy you got better :0)\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI am ``lust sick`` too....cannot act upon my desires as they are prohibited.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nSo I have been fighting with them for several months already ....and cannot see any results -things just get worse: I cannot sleep ,cannot focus on work on studies ....The universe is giving me some signs ,believe or not,that THIS GUY is someone too special to let him go ...funny because this craving of being close to Him brings me  ``close to him ``the way nobody would believe ..the very fairy tale way - I do not believe it myself!....maybe I just got crazy,don`t know...but this is what love makes of you :a crazy ,lust sick Dumbo :0).\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nAnd this deep in love Dumbo will have to make the brain working somehow ....yep :just to find the ``on switch``in left hemisphere ,pronto:0)\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nTurn on the logic and put in my head that this is going to ``No Good Land``.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nThis overworking right half of brain tells me to get upset when I see him flirting with others...like he was mine .But I know he ISN`T and he WILL NOT BE because he CANNOT be ...he can do whatever he wants to ,date whoever he likes ,show off if he is proud of his new girlfriend and I have NOTHING to do with that...just keep on hiding my ``LUST`` ,get sick at home ,dream about him on my bed and falling asleep with ``Anatomy`` underneath my head...tough but what doesn`t kill you MAKES YOU STROOOOONGGGGERRRrrr.......beat it !!!I can DO IT !!! ...and YOU  -CAN DO IT TOO! \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWe are ``super Power Can -Do -All ``ATOMIC KITTENS :0);)))))\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBy the way - I don`t think this kind of Love is given to all and I am even more grateful for letting me feel something so amazing ,although so painful in the same time. Like giving LIFE to your baby ...through so much pain.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nGood luck ``Lust Sick`` and Take Care !:0)\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nxxx     \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/468\/1427\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-1461\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/1461#comment-1461\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Lust Sick\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Lust Sick\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Lust Sick\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Lust Sick\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/1461#comment-1461\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EHello Katie,\nThanks, but it\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ELust Sick (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Friday, 16 March 2012  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/1427#comment-1427\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHello Katie,\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThanks, but it comes and it goes, i\u0027m suffering again.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nprohibited in what way? mine was similar, it\u0027s harder when it\u0027s somebody you know you can\u0027t have, the ache and the longing becomes unbearable. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf he flirts with others without paying any attention to you just tell yourself he isn\u0027t worth it, why waste your time thinking and longing for him when maybe he doesn\u0027t feel the same? and the fantasies just make you believe\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nthey are something their not. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd yeah I felt the same I was grateful for feeling something I had never felt before, but later after years had passed I wished I had never met her because the pain after she was gone was not equivalent to happiness I felt when she was there, it\u0027s not worth it, if I could undo time I gladly would.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ELife can be so harsh at times.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/468\/1461\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-1390\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/1390#comment-1390\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Raj\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Raj\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Raj\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Raj\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/1390#comment-1390\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EYou just opened my eyes man.\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ERaj (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 5 March 2012  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EYou just opened my eyes man. I was living in a dream all this is time. I will from today, get rid of her from my head. Super useful post man.. Addressed my problems exactly ! You are a life saver !\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n*This advice changed my entire thought process .. Thanks a ton \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/468\/1390\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-1393\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/1393#comment-1393\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Andy (again)\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Andy (again)\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Andy (again)\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Andy (again)\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/1393#comment-1393\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ELetting her away although I don\u0026#039;t want to\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAndy (again) (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 6 March 2012  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EWell, I\u0027m facing the truth. Somehow. I don\u0027t know why and don\u0027t know how. Having in mind that I, unlucky as I am regarding relationships and stuff, will never see her again totally destroyed me, but forcing myself to face it resulted in slowly letting her away. Licking wounds won\u0027t help me, right? Still, I wonder what could be if I see her again. Seems like I\u0027ll never let her go for real. Damn feelings.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/468\/1393\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-1405\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/1405#comment-1405\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Katie\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Katie\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Katie\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Katie\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/1405#comment-1405\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EHi Andy!\nSo sorry to hear\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EKatie (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Thursday, 8 March 2012  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHi Andy!\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nSo sorry to hear that and hope you will solve ``your problem``soon.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI`m actually sure YOU WILL :0)\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nMy situation completely changed when I saw HIS other girlfriends....bleahhh....I have NOTHING against his girlfriends at all ,they are really nice and helpful towards others etc,lovely to talk to ....-I know that because some are my own ``friends`` ....and I have never had anything AGAINST other girlfriends as I knew who was with who much before he started showing them off...you know -the Outlier theory etc...\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nWhat really hurts is the fact he KNOWS how I feel ,he Knows its my friend (she`s so jealous :0) by the way).....whatever he intended with that silly trick -he got opposite: it is so wrong ,it made me feel low ,and I realized how much he actually cares about me knowing what I am passing through ,knowing ``I `m dying of love (?)``for him......see Andy ? - imagine HER with her boyfriends ,many of them,having wild sex and not caring about YOU AT ALL - BETTER EVEN - imagine HER having sex with your best friend smiling at you in the same time .....will work miracles!!! I guarantee !!!...and you know what you will feel? YOU WILL JUST GET ANGry - not at her ,you will be mad at yourself that you were so STUUUUPID and fell into someone so COLD AND HEARTLESS!\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nDONE - ARE YOU CURED already ? Because I AM - WISH YOU THE SAME !\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nHurts a bit but only in the beginning ....then you get used to and start feeling HAPPY AGAIN!..and start giving MORE VALUE to yourself as NOBODY deserves to be treated like that! Watch yourself next time ....don`t fall for tricks and chase ONLY WHAT IS CHASE-ABLE...\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nAll the best Andy ,to you and to all who are facing similar problems.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nTake care:0)  \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/468\/1405\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-1460\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/1460#comment-1460\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022J.B\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022J.B\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022J.B\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022J.B\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/1460#comment-1460\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EWonderful read. Wish i had\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EJ.B (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Friday, 16 March 2012  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EWonderful read. Wish i had read this before i went through this. Im glad someone can explain this in such an easy and well versed manner. Cheers Chase!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/468\/1460\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-1488\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/1488#comment-1488\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022BW\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022BW\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022BW\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022BW\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/1488#comment-1488\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EUsing \u0026quot;the one\u0026quot; or \u0026quot;just friends\u0026quot; to your advantage?\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EBW (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Thursday, 22 March 2012  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EChase,\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u0027m working on a new theory in how to use girls like this to your advantage while developing game. Most of the time, these girls:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E-like you as a person, even if it\u0027s not sexually\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n-are open and receptive to flirting and game, even if it\u0027s ultimately impossible to close with them.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n-have most likely friend-zoned you, meaning you are a pillar in their life and they will still continue interacting with you no matter how many times you flub your game. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIn other words, they\u0027re the perfect test bed for practicing your art between dates. I agree, the chance of closing on these girls is so remote that it should be considered impossible. If you can accept that, though--accept that you have, in your possession, a girl that will always be completely emotionally honest with you and always keep talking to you at your disposal--you can literally run absolutely any technique you want on her with no fear of rejection. Your worst nightmares are realized, buddy--she ain\u0027t goin home with you. Liberate yourself with that knowledge. She\u0027s still a woman and will still react like other women will all the way up to the last 5%. Just pop in star wars when you hit the final five and worry about closing when you\u0027re not practicing with your personal sparring partner. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe key to this, though, is legitimately giving up on her. Your article is right, chase--as long as your emotions for this girl are outpacing your skillset you don\u0027t stand a chance. Disappear until the feelings are gone and you\u0027re back in control of yourself and seeing other people and have significantly upped your skills since the last time you interacted with her. If you\u0027re not 100% in control, you\u0027ll just fall back in. Because of this, I recommend being at least intermediately confident in your game-beginners will not have made their new habits concrete enough to resist sacrificing them to regain the status quo. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u0027ve started using this to magnificent effect. My \u0022the one\u0022 lasted 6 years. 4 years off, and she\u0027s back in my life and ostensibly just as unattainable. The difference this time, though, is that my every interaction with her is another chance for me to experience and evaluate more situations without the pressure of trying to close. And if I blow it? Clam up, wait 1-3 days, and she\u0027s back again for another round of practice at my leisure. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhatcha think, o sensei amante? \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/468\/1488\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-1539\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/1539#comment-1539\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/1539#comment-1539\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EMe too.\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAnonymous (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 2 April 2012  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EShe\u0027s my closest friend. She helps me with my life. From emotional support to tangible things like painting the flat. I try to do the same and offer kindness back. We go way back, 23 years. When my mum died recently she was round right away and stayed the night, being cheery and sharing her own insights and experience. We like the same things, music, going out, politically and philosophically attuned. We\u0027re very close. I do think she is amazing. It\u0027s not just me who thinks this. It\u0027s great, except..\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u0027ve fallen for her. She\u0027s the closest thing to me I\u0027ve ever found. While I sometimes think that the fact she exists and wants to be my friend means somewhere on the planet there\u0027s likely to be another chick who I could feel this way about who may want to be more than friends, I also feel that 47 years old is pretty late to expect to meet it. After all, I already met it. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAll classic obsession so far, right?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWe spend a lot of time together. She visits. I know we care about each other. But she doesn\u0027t seem to see me as anything more.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESure there\u0027s other women I could date. Sometimes I do, tho nothing comes of it. They just ain\u0027t got what I need. And I tend to usually have a few larger ladies eager to put out, but I just don\u0027t fancy larger women .. Sorry, i just dont, though some I like as friends.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI hate that i must be coming across to her  as someone who fancies her who she doesnt like in that way. I really don\u0027t want to be a drag to her, so I try do hard to stay positive and keep looking.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt\u0027s extremely frustrating. It\u0027s also extremely fortunate, a close close friend is cause for rejoicing, right?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI don\u0027t know what to do. So much of me tells me it\u0027s real and mutual ...based on our mutual actions ...yet other parts of me say I\u0027ve missed the closure opportunity.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThis has happened all my life so I know what happens next. I meet someone I don\u0027t like as much, it works and boom I\u0027m in some relationship with someone I don\u0027t really like. I\u0027m sick of that circle though. For once in my life I\u0027d like to choose someone I really like and actually, you know, win her. This doesn\u0027t seem to be the outcome the way I live gives to me. Something masochistic about that.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u0027m really fed up about this at the moment. I don\u0027t want to break things off. I don\u0027t want to lose her friendship, as there\u0027s so much else that\u0027s good about what we do together. The thing is I\u0027m really really attracted by her, and she isn\u0027t by me, at least not in that way. She matters to me so much, and yet I\u0027ve ended up in the friendship box, albeit as a friend she cares for very much too. Like I say, it\u0027s not all bad. I\u0027m close friends with a super cool chick, so I must have something going on. She has other friends, right?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EDamn but I know I\u0027m gonna have to keep searching, hopefully with my fun friend in tow, offering the advice and kindness and mutual help I need to make the journey better. But I\u0027d love to get to bed with this woman. Its upsetting overall. Most upsetting is that I\u0027m probably messing up a good friendship because im so attracted because it is such a good friendship, and I always hoped to find a relationship that\u0027s got such a good feeling at the heart of it. Nothing lasts forever, but surely it\u0027s better to care than not to care.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI don\u0027t know how to break any of these cycles, and currently can\u0027t accept the way things are. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI think we mug ourselves in love. It\u0027s a shame. She\u0027s my best friend and I love her. And I\u0027m really annoyed at myself.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ECan you help me with this one? And if you do, will I be able to listen?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EFrustrating.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/468\/1539\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-61329\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/61329#comment-61329\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022LordVngr\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022LordVngr\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022LordVngr\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022LordVngr\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/61329#comment-61329\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EOf All the comments I have\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ELordVngr (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 9 February 2015  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/1539#comment-1539\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EOf All the comments I have read on this subject your is the one I feel for most of all. Yes, there is a girl I pine for too but I have only dated her once or twice so even though I like her a LOT my investment is pretty small when though of in Real terms.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYOU My Friend sound like you have Met Your Soul mate and better yet SHE is Your Best Friend. That is the stuff life long marriages are made of and I should know as I was married for 25 Years and divorced her to find a Friend like you have.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EDon\u0027t know what to tell you thou.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nDoes she know your True Feelings for her.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nHas she told you Her True Feelings for You.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nSounds like you two are friends enough and close enough\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nto actually have a honest discussion about it.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf it was me I would have to have that discussion myself.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nIMHO it is better to have expressed your feelings and lost\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nand at least Know it could never be so you could move on then\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nto keep everything bottled up and never say anything and Always\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nwonder Because as long as you have those feelings for her\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nNO WOMAN will compare to her and NO Woman will make you happy\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMy 2 cents.....\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/468\/61329\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-1550\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/1550#comment-1550\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/1550#comment-1550\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EThank you so much for this.\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAnonymous (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Wednesday, 4 April 2012  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003ESadly, I\u0027m stuck in a vicious cycle of the \u0022One Special Girl\u0022 and have indoctrinated myself into believing that she is somehow superior to all other women and not to bother accepting anything else (the \u0022shes ugly\u0022 thing won\u0027t work though, because she looks like Hilary Duff). At first it seemed like she was really into me, then she started pushing the \u0022just friends\u0022 deal, after I started being over-enthusiastic.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u0027m a good looking guy, but, after a family tragedy when I was in my late teens, I  went from being really cocky, the classroom joker, to quite reserved \u0026amp; introverted, which I think only serves to make the \u0022One Special Girl\u0022 issue worse.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/468\/1550\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-1588\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/1588#comment-1588\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/1588#comment-1588\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EGood read, looking for a different thing though.\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAnonymous (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Friday, 13 April 2012  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHello, I think this was really cool, but at this moment I\u0027m only  interested in getting to know this girl, she\u0027s like the perfect girl for me, so pretty and nice, the problem is that I don\u0027t even know her, and is so frustrating I wish I could introduce myself to her, other girls had come up to me but I just pass, I\u0027m just waiting for the perfect time to talk to this girl I\u0027m pretty sure It\u0027ll be worth the wait. She\u0027s in one of my classes in college but she sits kinda for from where I sit, and in the breaks we never really get a chance to talk. It\u0027s really challenging and I don\u0027t wanna let this one go. What do you thing I should do?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/468\/1588\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-1610\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/1610#comment-1610\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Snazzy\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Snazzy\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Snazzy\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Snazzy\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/1610#comment-1610\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EWow, are you me? I related to\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ESnazzy (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 16 April 2012  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EWow, are you me? I related to this article a lot. It was incredible. Thanks man!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/468\/1610\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-1618\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/1618#comment-1618\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/1618#comment-1618\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EI have this problem...however\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAnonymous (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 17 April 2012  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EChase, this article is awesome, and I feel like I\u0027m going through this right now; however, I have not been simply obsessed with this girl. I have talked to her, danced with her, and been on dates with her. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI met her in January and we immediately hit it off in the club, and she even refused to let any other guy dance with her. She gave me her number, but she wouldn\u0027t let me kiss her or take her home. She texted me immediately after leaving the club that she had an awesome time. I texted her all that week and eventually mustered up courage to ask her out to coffee, but she said she was too busy. I took it as a hint that she wasn\u2019t interested.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nMonths later, on Saint Patrick\u2019s Day, I saw her out again at a bar. It went exactly like the first night I met her, and this time I was more direct with her saying, \u201cI\u2019m taking you out to dinner.\u201d She smiled and accepted my offer. Once again, however, she refused to come home with me and still no kiss.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI took her out to lunch twice and she told me personal things like her exact birthday, her family\/friends, accomplishments, desires (i.e. she said that she thinks during her 20s she wants to be married and have kids). She brought up at the end of our second date that she had a boyfriend over the summer. I was taken aback and asked her is they were still together, and she said no. I said, \u201cGood to know.\u201d I thought I was showing interest. Besides that minor concern, I was majorly concerned about this: I am studying abroad next year in the fall and she is studying abroad next year in the spring. \u201cCould this even work?\u201d I thought. I was willing to let it work; she was worth it.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnyway, this girl is heavily invested in my college taking 20 credits and partaking in numerous charity events. She barely had time to go out with me on those first two dates. I was unsure if it was a hint that she wasn\u2019t interest or if she honestly was busy. My friend\u2019s girlfriend asked her about our dates, the girl I likes said she was busy and didn\u2019t want me to think she was blowing me off.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe day before Easter Break I asked her if she had time to talk, but she had already left for home. Over break we texted each other a lot and we agreed to have dinner the Monday upon returning to school. She said she couldn\u2019t eat with me on that Monday because her roommates\u2019 grandmother prepared dinner for her room. I wasn\u2019t sure if it was an excuse to not see me or an honest reason. Then, she texted me that she could do dinner the following week as \u201cfriends.\u201d \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI immediately began crying and my sadness soon turned to anger as I threw random objects as hard as I could. I asked her the next day over text if we could talk in person to see how we stand.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EDuring the conversation, said she didn\u0027t have that \u0022feeling\u0022 or that \u0022spark\u0022 or whatever. She just didn\u0027t like me. She said I didn\u2019t do anything wrong, and that I was the nicest guy she met at my college. I wanted to tell her the same thing, but I froze. My heart felt numb. I was prepared to tell her how I felt about her, how I liked practically everything about her, but I didn\u0027t after hearing she just didn\u0027t have feelings for me and simply wanted to be friends. I asked her if the time frame was the problem, meaning that we only had so much school left, but she responded again that she simply didn\u2019t like me.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI keep thinking about her and am in fact dreaming about her every night. In fact, I am waking up frequently as the dreams I\u0027ve been having seem to be more vivid and memorable than usual. I want to let her go, but I can\u0027t. I\u2019m tempted to stalk her Facebook too; I don\u2019t even know why. And I know you suggest trying for other girls, but I\u2019m almost ready to give up. I may have dated many girls (one of which for 4-5 months), but I\u2019ve never had a girlfriend. I want her to be my girlfriend. I would even lose my virginity to her. In a heartbeat.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EShe actually seems perfect except for the fact that she isn\u2019t into sports. She has an incredible body and loves to workout (like me). She loves kids and wants to be a teacher (I teach karate and love kids). She\u2019s talkative and I find her easy to talk to, unlike other girls I\u2019ve interacted with. She is very dedicated to her activities (I respect dedication being an Eagle Scout and Third Degree Black Belt). She respects herself so much that she wouldn\u2019t let me take her home when we were drunk; she wasn\u2019t easy and I liked it. She rarely parties (like me). I know she\u2019s not the most attractive girl in the world, but in my eyes, she\u2019s the most beautiful there is.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase, I don\u2019t know what to do. We haven\u2019t talked since the face-to face conversation, except when I Facebook messaged her last Friday. I was drunk and about to go out, and she was home. She talked to me, and she didn\u2019t blow me off. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI feel like it\u2019s over and she gave me closure, but I don\u2019t feel it. I almost feel like maybe she\u2019s suppressing her feelings because she knows it would be nearly impossible to stay together with our opposite study abroad times.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/468\/1618\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-1622\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/1622#comment-1622\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Lance\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Lance\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Lance\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Lance\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/1622#comment-1622\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EThat one special girl\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ELance (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Wednesday, 18 April 2012  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EI\u0027ve read this, and I related to it in so many ways. But there are questions I have, and things I can\u0027t understand. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u0027m a second year in college, and I\u0027m in a music program of like 40 people, where all we do everyday is study music for a career someday. This girl that came into the program was new to me, and I didn\u0027t really start to get to know her until the beginning of the second semester. I\u0027m not the average cocky guy. I\u0027m a really nice guy, and I\u0027m not as outgoing as the other music students that I\u0027m around every day. But yet, it\u0027s weird, she treats me very  nicely and even talks to me so sweetly at times that it seems like she\u0027s talking to a child or something, haha. Anyway, I wasn\u0027t just interested in her right away. The more I was around her and noticed her personality, and even talked to her in person, the more I started feeling a connection to her. I became very attracted to her. And everything about her just became so beautiful to me. She\u0027s more of the outgoing type, and she acts like a dude a lot of the time, which makes her very funny, but after getting to know her, I found out that underneath that \u0022dude type of personality\u0022, there\u0027s also an emotional, very sweet and kind hearted girl. We both share the same passions for a lot of music, like Phantom of the Opera (she\u0027s not obsessed with it like I am, but she still loves it. The orchestration fascinates her.) On that note, she loves the sound of symphony orchestras that you hear for concerts, or musicals, etc. She\u0027s shared a lot of her own music with me that she\u0027s written, and she even told me herself that not all of her friends would just be willing to sit down and enjoy listening to her songs that she\u0027s created and be fascinated by them. She\u0027s aware that I\u0027m an emotional kind of guy, so I think she\u0027s more comfortable telling me things on a deeper level than she is with her other friends. Anyway, I realized that the end of the semester was approaching, and that I may never have the opportunity to tell her how I feel again, (since she\u0027s moving back to Minnesota (we\u0027re both in Iowa currently), so a couple weeks ago I ended up spilling my heart to her at dinner. I ended up telling her that I really like her, and she told me that as strange as it may seem, she likes girls. Before I continue with that thought, I want to say that she had just broken up with a guy a week or two before I told her, and this guy was a guy that didn\u0027t show her much affection and didn\u0027t put much effort into the relationship at all. So, that\u0027s why she just cut it off. The relationship she was in before that guy, was a guy that ended up cheating on her in her first year of college, and it caused her so much stress that she didn\u0027t continue with that college and she came to this school that I\u0027m at in Iowa. AND, a couple weeks ago, she had gone on this tour with a few other students in New York, and had met this guy that she felt was a lot like her in ways. Apparently she ended up sleeping with this guy, after getting to know him a bit, but I don\u0027t know the whole story on that one. So, anyway, she told me that it has been difficult to tell her mom, because she was afraid that she\u0027d lose her relationship with her mother. So, the way she was telling me these things, it didn\u0027t seem like it could have been a lie because she seemed so serious about the whole thing. BUT, at the same time, it feels like a lie, because why would she even go out of her way to be in relationships with guys, and have sex with guys, and even get heart broken over a guy cheating on her, when she says that she\u0027s not interested in guys?? And yet, this guy that she met over tour, really likes her, and they talk on the phone at night for a few hours on a regular basis it seems, so it doesn\u0027t make sense. She told me that she had already come out to this guy as well and told him that men weren\u0027t her sexual preference, but yet they still talk over the phone, knowing that he\u0027s still interested in her. And the other day, when we were out for ice cream with a group of people, she was eating something with gravy, and she said \u0022I wonder if this will be comfort food if I\u0027m ever pregnant someday....\u0022 and I thought, \u0022WHAT?!\u0022 This doesn\u0027t make sense! Did she forget about the talk her and I had, and did she think that I didn\u0027t hear her say that, as if I were stupid or something? So, she\u0027s just showing a lot of signs that make it hard to believe when she says she\u0027s not sexually interested in men. But here\u0027s the thing, she\u0027s a very honest girl, and a very good friend, and she told me she\u0027d always be honest with me and never sugarcoat things. She said \u0022As much as I\u0027m certain that our friendship could never go beyond what it is, because she\u0027s never been more certain of her sexual preference at this time.\u0022 She said she was proud to say it. It\u0027s so crazy, because I really love her. I\u0027m not a song writer and I\u0027ve made attempts to write songs in my life, and I\u0027m just not that good, but this situation moved me so much to write a song. I\u0027ve never been so moved in my life. She said to me \u0022We will always share the same passions, and nothing can keep us from being good friends, Lance.\u0022 But yet, I just wish there was hope, that one day I could be with her. Everyday I wake up and she\u0027s the first thing I think of, and it saddens me that she\u0027s never there right next to me. I want to ask for advice on how to at least make a closer friendship with her, or even try to get to the point where a relationship COULD happen between her and I. Because, at this point, it seems like I\u0027m the one asking her to hang out all the time, and she\u0027s never the one to just come up to me and ask to hang out (even though she said herself that we are good friends, so it doesn\u0027t make sense that she doesn\u0027t want to hang out with me a lot...ya know?) PLEASE, I\u0027ve never felt so passionate in my life, and I feel like I\u0027m in the biggest hole, and I need all the help I can get. I feel like I\u0027ve tried and tried, but I just don\u0027t want to keep pushing it with her, as much as I\u0027d like to, because I\u0027m afraid I\u0027ll push her away. Make sense?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAny help and advice will be greatly appreciated. Thank you.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/468\/1622\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-1628\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/1628#comment-1628\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/1628#comment-1628\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EHERE IS A TIP\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAnonymous (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Thursday, 19 April 2012  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHere is an advice!!\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nif you can\u0027t stop thinking about her then go up to her and speak. I met the love of my life this way. A year ago I had seen the most hottest guy who had classes in the same building as me. The first time I had seen him my heart had melted. I rmr him trying to talk to me when we bumped into each other, but I had kept on going which I regretted it after wards. I thought I was going nutzzz. I couldn\u0027t stop thinking about him. I never had felt this way about anyone else.. I am a very very very shy person, \u0026amp; i thought it would be awkward just to start a random convo with a random stranger..you know. Well anyways oneday he kept on staring even though I am so shy to even smile..guess what I did.  He spoke to me and said \u0022You are the most beautiful thing ever\u0022.. from this point we instantly clicked and had coversations..and today we are engaged.. The feelings\/symptons he had for me before we talked for the first time were mutual. SO IT\u0027S DEFINATLEY A SIGN THAT THIS PERSON MIGHT BE SOULMATE.. WHAT HAVE YOU GOT TO LOSE?????? NOTHING ..GO FOR IT and just intiate.. it will be well worth it... \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E(excuse my English, I am German)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/468\/1628\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-1655\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/1655#comment-1655\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/1655#comment-1655\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EBizarre...\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAnonymous (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 23 April 2012  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EI thought it was just me. I\u0027ve felt stupid for obsessing over missed opportunities.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI obsess\/pine over girls who to me would show clear signs of interest, but they all look rather intimidating as they feel out of my league looks-wise, socially. So I get paralyzed at the thought of making a awkward move like going for a kiss but missing her mouth.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/468\/1655\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-1697\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/1697#comment-1697\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Ashu\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Ashu\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Ashu\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Ashu\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/1697#comment-1697\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EHelp\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAshu (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 30 April 2012  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHelo.. chase big fan of u.Now there\u0027s a girl who im obsessed with.She has told me she likes me but in class she flirts with another guy.I feel like she sends me  mixed signals.Sumtimes v chat for hours and hours and sumtimes she just ignores me.Please help me!\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nHow do i get her.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI would be glad for your Personal advice.:-)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/468\/1697\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-1731\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/1731#comment-1731\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Andrww\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Andrww\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Andrww\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Andrww\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/1731#comment-1731\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EThat One Girl\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAndrww (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Saturday, 5 May 2012  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EI am having the exact problem you described in this article.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThere is a girl I really like, but I haven\u0027t known her all that long (only 3 months). At first, she chased me, I wasn\u0027t all that into her, but we talked out of mutual interests. Then I noticed myself seeking her out to talk with, which she seemed to really like. We talked more and more and I found myself falling for her (we\u0027d text all day long and chat together every night). Then, I told her exactly how I felt about her, how I thought about her all day long and she, well, let\u0027s just say let me down easy and we remained good friends and still flirted like crazy. Well fast forward to now and we\u0027re talking less and less and I feel as though she\u0027s lost interest in me (Only responds to the odd text and we hardly talk when we see each other). I feel as though I should do either one of two things, move on completely, or give her some time ( Hey, we havn\u0027t known each other that long, right?) The problem is that I see her almost everyday and I\u0027m almost compelled to chat with her, even though she seems mostly disinterested now and I wish I could just avoid her for a while. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhat do you think, Chase?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/468\/1731\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-6640\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/6640#comment-6640\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022James\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022James\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022James\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022James\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/6640#comment-6640\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EMate u are exactly in the\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EJames (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Thursday, 24 January 2013  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/1731#comment-1731\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EMate u are exactly in the same boat as me,except after a month of chatting,went out with her n slept with her, then she decided she didnt want to rush things which is kool. Kept txting her n stuff n she was txting back. But think i was too full on with the txtin n she doesnt seem to be that interested anymore,seems like i have to txt to get her attention she wont make the effort. Whens shes drunk she will ring me n tell me she loves me n wants to be with me but when shes sober she dont say anything n im getting mixed signals. Think i might jus leave it for a week n if i dont hear from her then il leave it,its soo hard not to think about her though. Good luck anywayz.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/468\/6640\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-1776\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/1776#comment-1776\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/1776#comment-1776\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EWhat if I don\u0026#039;t get other offers?\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAnonymous (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Saturday, 12 May 2012  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EThe way you are portraying this obsession is as if theres plenty of other girls that want me, which there aren\u0027t. I wouldn\u0027t classify myself as nerdy or geeky, in fact I\u0027m the captain of the wrestling team and work out daily, I\u0027m not ugly, but I\u0027m not the most attractive guy either. I guess it might be my confidence or whatever, but girls don\u0027t seem attracted to me. I just didn\u0027t talk to many girls until this year, and most of the girls I talk to have boyfriends, or \u0022things\u0022 with other guys in my school, which I am completely fine with, since they really are just friends. But theres one girl, who I cant stop thinking about, I can\u0027t seem to talk to coherently, I feel like I missed my escalation window, because in the beginning of the year when I first started talking to her it was a lot more \u0022equal\u0022 but now, she responds to texts late, so I\u0027ve given up texting, and everything just sucks. How can I improve on this and get her? Sorry for rambling, please help, I\u0027m getting kind of depressed. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/468\/1776\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-1783\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/1783#comment-1783\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Marc\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Marc\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Marc\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Marc\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/1783#comment-1783\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EThat One Woman\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EMarc (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 14 May 2012  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EAfter my divorce I was slow at dating.  Eventually I met several woman and went out a few times.  Made a lot of friends on line from other countries too. There have been some interested in me, but I wasn\u0027t with them.  Ruined a good friendship a few years ago when I told a friend I had feelings for them and they said they had feeling for me.  We got too strange and it fell apart.  They told me to start seeing someone else because I couldn\u0027t belong to one woman.  That maybe true, but my nature I need to care about someone.  Just that one special person.  As a single parent it isn\u0027t easy to go out on a date.  I tried dating and social sites and made a few friends, but none seemed to connect.  Then one day I was contacted by a woman from a dating site I had recently joined at the suggestion of my friend.  Most of the ones who contact me were not my type.  But here was one a bit older who shared similar interest, which is like totally rare for American woman.  She physically takes my breath away when I see her.  When we first met it was like an experience I never had before.  I kissed her on the first date.  That was the second time in my life I ever did that, the other was 35 years earlier.  We seemed to hit it off and did a lot of things together.  She however got back with her ex, but that was a mistake as that fell apart.  We still stayed friends throughout.  Then one day she gave me a friendship ring.  Believe it or not, outside my own sister, she was the first woman to ever have given me a ring.  (Even my ex didn\u0027t get me a wedding ring, I got it myself and she got hers.)  So I did the same and gave her a friendship ring.  Next thing we are talking about marriage.  We get engaged even.  But she wanted to take it slow.  She moved in with us along with her daughter, everyone having their seperate rooms.  It seemed like magic, but my own daughter kept throwing wrenches into the works and things began to fall apart.  It was partly my fault for not cracking down on my daughter who was very disrepectful, lazy and flunking school.  It was too much stress.  Her daughter graduated early and moved in with her boyfriend and my friend moved down the way.  My friend knows I am crazy about her, way too much, still.  We shared some of the best times I\u0027ve had in over a decade, just being with each other.  We are still good friends.  But she is the one that set the standards now that no one probably could ever match.  We are so much alike it is spooky.  She did nearly everything just the way I like things because she liked it that way too, from food, movies, most music, the way we fold our cloths, how we organize things.  But for many months now it was just her as I have no interest in any of the others even if they did in me.  There still are Ukranian woman friends I\u0027ve known for years who still actively try to get my attention.  There are others at work who actively flirt with me.  But no one seems to be able to break the spell I\u0027m under.  We talked about her problem, she calls herself an ice princess.  Things in her past made her that way.  Seems I\u0027m the first guy who has treated her with any respect in decades.  But the physical side of it all, she is having real problems.  So many have hurt her, emotionally and physically she really doesn\u0027t want to get close, but we have on rare occasions before she moved in.  Wanting to build on a friendship is what she desires and I am sticking to it as best as I can.  I\u0027ve even tried to keep us apart physically but there is that bond we seem to share that seems one or the other can\u0027t break.  Things seem to actually be getting better, as far as our friendship goes now that she is by herself.  Sure the wedding is off, but the friendship is still on.  I don\u0027t know if seeing others is something I can do just yet.  Once it was known that it fell apart others have been quickly trying to get my attention.  But it doesn\u0027t work.  So I will just remain good friends with her and see what develops.  We were very blunt with each other about each other\u0027s faults.  It should have hurt my feelings but I honestly took it as constructive criticism and have been trying to work on them.  They are doing the same.  We are both trying to let the dust settle after the split but are in contact with each other and helping each other through this.  She hopes in time that the ice around her heart will melt because she does want in me in her life.  My ex had turned my heart to stone and I realize just how much damage had been done when seen from another\u0027s perspective.  My problem is I am still so darn physically attracted to her, she is in my dreams every night and has been since we met.  In these dreams we are just by each others side, rarely anything erotic.  We aren\u0027t spring chickens any more and it is so hard to start as 60 years is just down the road for me and she is 60.  I have been with many women over the years but this one is so different yet so ordinary.  One thing to note, she has inspired me to get things done like I used to do.  I\u0027ve also physically transformed, loosing weight, got the spring back into my step I lost 20 years ago.  Just knowing she has my back has given me a sense of inner security I haven\u0027t had since I was in the military.  I haven\u0027t worked so well with anyone in I don\u0027t know how long.  It is like we are on the same sheet of music.  We may never be lovers again, but I still cling to the belief we will one day again.  If only we had met years before we were both put through the ringer.  But we wouldn\u0027t have been the same persons back then.  She has made me feel as no other has ever made me feel.  That brings me back to what were all the other relationships.  No one has ever made me feel this way.  This is so much deeper than anything I have ever experienced.  I\u0027ve only read about things like this happeneing to others.  It sure blows me away and she still takes my breath away.    \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/468\/1783\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-1790\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/1790#comment-1790\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/1790#comment-1790\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EI dont know where this leaves me?\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAnonymous (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 15 May 2012  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EI fell for the perfect woman, thing is she fell for me first. we became boyfriend and girlfriend, and i never had anytime with all my work. then later she breaks up with me goes out with my best friend, tells me she still loves me. Tells me she still fantasizes about me. But She wont leave the other guy. I dont know what to do she wants me to share my fantasies with her but i dont know if i should. then she tries to have a secret meeting with me, i mess up, head back home see her boyfriend then minutes later get hit by a car and ride back home, and she doesnt tell her boyfriend about it. She actually only wanted a hug, so i wanted to give it to her but she didnt want anyone to know... i dont know how to get her or even if i should move on. 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