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\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/96574#comment-96574\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EWomen Dating Women\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EMillio (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Thursday, 11 December 2025  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/article\/why-womens-advice-men-so-bad\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003E\u0022most of women\u2019s \u2018advice for men\u2019 actually works well for women picking up other women\u0022\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nWell, in that case, how do you explain the experience of Norah Vincent.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/4576\/96574\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-96660\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/96660#comment-96660\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post 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Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/96660#comment-96660\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ENorah Vincent\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 12 January 2026  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/article\/why-womens-advice-men-so-bad\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/96574#comment-96574\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EMillio-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENorah Vincent wasn\u0027t picking up women as a woman.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EShe was picking up women under guise of being a man.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E-C\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca 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src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Marc\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Marc\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/96576#comment-96576\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EFirst of all good article\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EMarc (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Friday, 12 December 2025  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/article\/why-womens-advice-men-so-bad\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EFirst of all good article.Second sorry for my english, it is not my first language. But I don\u0027t completely agree with you. I think that with women it is a mixture of the unconscious and the conscious.  In particular, I think that with women, with the exception of that act that rime with grape, the biggest blow to their nature is procreate with a male they deem week and unworthy. Giving advice like \u0022be yourself\u0022 , \u0022be honest\u0022 is meant to reveal whether you are a natural alpha male or have learned tactics to mask your weaknesses. They don\u0027t see a man\u0027s progress as real progress, but as a way to cover up your weak beta dna. That\u0027s why the vast majority of women actually don\u0027t like to see a man working on himself, because for them it doesn\u0027t mean that you\u0027ve become a better version of yourself, but that you\u0027re going to trick some poor girl into thinking you\u0027re an alpha male and spread her legs for you, when in reality you (in their opinion) shouldn\u0027t be procreating. Gibing you advice is not ment to help you but ( if younlistened to them ) \u0022unmask\u0022 you, so you wont be able to trick some girl into giving you a chance when you dont deserve one.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/4576\/96576\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-96650\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/96650#comment-96650\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Samuel \u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Samuel \u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Samuel \u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Samuel \u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/96650#comment-96650\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EThat\u0026#039;s what Chase is talking\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ESamuel  (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Thursday, 8 January 2026  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/article\/why-womens-advice-men-so-bad\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/96576#comment-96576\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EThat\u0027s what Chase is talking about in the article 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class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EWomen\u0026#039;s Intentions\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 12 January 2026  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/article\/why-womens-advice-men-so-bad\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/96576#comment-96576\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EMarc-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EGotta be careful when you veer into mind reading!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe #1 question to ask when trying to pick apart someone\u0027s intentions is always this:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cem\u003EQui bono?\u003C\/em\u003E\u00a0Who benefits?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EFirst, we need to look at who the men are whom women advise, and what their relation is to them. The men are always:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cul\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EMale relatives\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EMale friends\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EOr Internet strangers\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIn virtually no case do women advise men who are pursuing themselves. They are always advising men pursuing other women; often, women who are not even known to the woman advice-giver.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EDoes the woman advice-giver benefit by reducing the mating advantage of the male recipient of her advice? Remember, this man is not pursuing her.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf he is her male relative, she actually injures herself by giving him such advice (reducing the odds of successful transmission of her shared genes, or condemning\u00a0him through her advice to a more dysgenic pairing, rather than a more eugenic one).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe only way we could say women\u00a0might in some way \u0027benefit\u0027 by giving men advice that reduces male mating advantage\u00a0is if women are all operating together in a sort of universal \u0027sisterhood\u0027, where one woman altruistically reduces a male\u0027s mating advantage in order to benefit another, unknown woman\u0027s mating advantage.. a sisterhood\u00a0of the kind feminist activists have rallied for women to have since the dawn of the feminist movement, though ultimately have taken to lamenting\u00a0does not exist, \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/medium.com\/@jolenegenevieve3\/there-is-no-sisterhood-5bf7c981a393\u0022\u003Eas they\u0027ve increasingly come to grips with reality\u003C\/a\u003E:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\u003Cp id=\u00222304\u0022\u003EAs I\u2019ve matured, I\u2019ve been forced to confront a harsh reality: the idyllic notion of sisterhood, so often romanticized in movies and literature, is often nothing more than a mirage. Instead of finding solidarity and support among fellow women, I\u2019ve encountered a landscape marred by envy, betrayal, and indifference.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp id=\u0022fdc5\u0022\u003EIt\u2019s a painful realization, one that cuts deep into the fabric of trust and camaraderie I once believed existed. From mothers who harbor jealousy towards their own daughters to so-called friends who wield friendship as a tool for personal gain, the concept of women uplifting and empowering each other feels like a distant fantasy\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWomen are women\u0027s own worst enemies. They are not altruistically trying to help one another out, I can assure you.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhen it comes to guessing at the intentions of others, \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Hanlon\u0027s_razor\u0022\u003EHanlon\u0027s razor\u003C\/a\u003E is generally the safer bet:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cem\u003ENever attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by ignorance.\u003C\/em\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWomen\u0027s advice comes from ignorance, not deliberate sabotage.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E(Case in point: when you actually make women aware of this fact, and really get it through their skulls, they stop advising men on dating; many\u00a0will even honestly tell men \u0022I can\u0027t advise you. You should talk to a man.\u0022 But they do not say this until they\u0027re made aware of just how bad women\u0027s advice to men really is.)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/4576\/96661\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-96577\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/96577#comment-96577\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Worm Johnson\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Worm Johnson\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Worm Johnson\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Worm Johnson\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/96577#comment-96577\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EThe late great comedian\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EWorm Johnson (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Friday, 12 December 2025  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/article\/why-womens-advice-men-so-bad\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EThe late great comedian Patrice O\u0027Neal always talked about this as women seeing men like scratch tickets. Their whole objective and journey is to scratch off the surface and see if you\u0027re a winner, move on if not. Then they\u0027ll sit around asking, \u0022Why do scratch tickets even have the numbers painted over in the first place? They should just release them with the numbers already showing so you know if it\u0027s a winner before you buy!\u0022\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMaybe the advice I give women is just as bad from their perspective. I say have sex right away, then try going out on substantive dates with him. If he balks and only wants to do basic drinks\/netflix after banging, then you know he only wanted sex and can move on. Saves you the weeks and months of him only going out with you in the hopes of just getting sex.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/4576\/96577\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-96662\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/96662#comment-96662\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/96662#comment-96662\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EScratch Tickets\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 12 January 2026  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/article\/why-womens-advice-men-so-bad\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/96577#comment-96577\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EWorm-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe scratch ticket analogy is just great. That\u0027s dead on. The only way you could make it better would be if there was some way the value of the scratched ticket could change: \u0022I scratched this ticket but the numbers were no good, so I threw it away. But then my friend wanted the ticket and I realized actually the ticket was a winner, I just read it wrong!\u0022\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\u003Cp\u003EMaybe the advice I give women is just as bad from their perspective. I say have sex right away, then try going out on substantive dates with him. If he balks and only wants to do basic drinks\/netflix after banging, then you know he only wanted sex and can move on. Saves you the weeks and months of him only going out with you in the hopes of just getting sex.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWell, yeah.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u0022Men chase sex, women chase relationships.\u0022\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOnce she has sex with a guy, she is now chasing the relationship.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf the guy did not work for it beforehand, all the power is in his hands.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe \u0022I\u0027ll just bang every guy fast and hope one of them sticks around with me\u0022 strategy is the one the lowest mate value women use for a reason; they are basically playing the slot machines. They know most guys won\u0027t want them, but maybe if they put out fast one of them will stick around.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYou\u0027ve got to keep in mind, too, that a lot of men, like it or not, value women based on how \u0022easy\u0022 or \u0022hard\u0022 it is to bang them.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe super hot girl who goes to bed the first date \u0026lt; the mid who makes them wait for it for three months, in most men\u0027s eyes...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E(Any guy with game does not view it this way; but most men do not have game...)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/4576\/96662\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-96581\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/96581#comment-96581\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Will Sun\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Will Sun\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Will Sun\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Will Sun\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/96581#comment-96581\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EGrowth Mindset\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EWill Sun (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Friday, 12 December 2025  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/article\/why-womens-advice-men-so-bad\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EIs this a matter of the vast majority of women not having a growth mindset? Women themselves don\u0027t believe they can drastically improve their own character and value and abilities, so they have a fixed perception of mate value. What if a woman actually did believe (and put into practice) that she can improve her moral qualities, her ability to converse and persuade, her fundamentals (facial expressions and tonality and movement), her athletic prowess, the depth of her empathy and compassion for others, wisdom to discern between black and white and good and evil? Does such a woman exist, and wouldn\u0027t she have a better capacity to understand that men can transform their mate value over time?\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nLikewise, plenty of men have a fixed mindset, and so they could not fathom what it takes to be able to land a higher value woman some day.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nWomen and the majority of males don\u0027t understand potential to improve mate value, because they themselves can\u0027t comprehend how much work is possible and required. Nor do they want to toil in the first place, or see a need to improve.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/4576\/96581\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-96663\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/96663#comment-96663\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/96663#comment-96663\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ERe: Growth Mindset\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 12 January 2026  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/article\/why-womens-advice-men-so-bad\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/96581#comment-96581\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EWill-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EInteresting question.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI would not say that women lack a growth mindset. There are plenty of women who are diligent about learning makeup, dance, exercise; there are women who enter into all manner of professions; etc.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut the way women think about growth is not the same as men. The male growth mindset tends to focus on excellence. The female growth mindset tends to focus on either enjoyment, problem resolution, or status. \u201cIf I can [whatever], the men I like will pay a lot more attention to me.\u201d That kind of thinking.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWomen aren\u2019t generally interested in growing in masculine ways, such as developing masculine morality (\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/beauty-greatness-and-goodness-female-moral-nature\u0022\u003Ewomen have their own morality\u003C\/a\u003E, which men often struggle to comprehend), or \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/purpose-life-practical-point-view\u0022\u003Eembarking on a \u2018hero project\u2019\u003C\/a\u003E \/ \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/she-must-never-become-your-mission\u0022\u003Emission\u003C\/a\u003E. Women\u2019s growth in adulthood tends to be growth that springs from their relationships: learning more about themselves, relationship management, communication styles, etc., as a result from needing to better sync with their boyfriends\/husbands; learning about parenting, communication, etc., as a result of needing to better parent their children.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAgain, this is due to the nature of the female: it is ultimately geared toward producing and rearing the next generation. Everything about women ultimately centers on attracting the right mates for that, retaining the right mates for support, and better rearing their offspring.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EDifferent from the male drive for excellence (excellence opens up hosts of mating opportunities women\u2019s biology is poorly suited to take advantage of, but men\u2019s is perfectly suited to).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/4576\/96663\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-96585\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/96585#comment-96585\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Nicholas Aguilar\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Nicholas Aguilar\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Nicholas Aguilar\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Nicholas Aguilar\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/96585#comment-96585\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EAwesome! Definitely do the\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ENicholas Aguilar (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Sunday, 14 December 2025  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/article\/why-womens-advice-men-so-bad\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EAwesome! Definitely do the follow up. Sounds like a good preventative measure.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAlso, I\u0027m wondering if you\u0027d ever write an article on influence? There\u0027s a lot of guys out there these days like Andrew bustamonte and Chase Hughs claiming to be expert\u0027s in hypnosis, manipulation, NLP etc. I\u0027ve used some of Andrews stuff and it\u0027s useful but definitely overpriced and Chase Hughs just seems like a fraud to me. What is your advice for learning influence techniques Chase? And where do all of these seduction influence techniques come from? I\u0027ve seen many work for me now so well that I know what I learn on girls Chase is legit. But where do these originate, and how can one dive into it to learn the principles and master it? There\u0027s obviously a lot of ethical conservations here, but would you shed some light on this topic in a time where there\u0027s a lot of BE out there?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/4576\/96585\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-96664\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/96664#comment-96664\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/96664#comment-96664\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ELearning Influence\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 12 January 2026  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/article\/why-womens-advice-men-so-bad\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/96585#comment-96585\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003ENicholas-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EInteresting. I hadn\u2019t heard of either of these guys before. Looks like Chase Hughes was a former pickup artist who made the switch to discussing influence more generally. Andrew Bustamonte is doing a similar thing. How is it that one guy has my first name and the other guy has basically my last name with \u201cBust\u201d in front of it? \ud83d\ude2d\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EStuff I\u2019m looking up claims they both embellish heavily and make a lot of outrageous claims (Chase Hughes claims seem to range from \u201cspot a liar in minutes\u201d to, in his PUA days, \u201ctell if she\u2019s a lesbian from her fingers\u201d \u2014 he is probably talking about 2D:4D ratio, which can clue you in a bit but is not guaranteed).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EActually what it looks like is they are taking the same kind of research I talk about in articles and programs and sensationalizing it. I don\u2019t know what he says about telling liars but he is probably talks about some or all of what I have in \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/tactics-tuesdays-tell-someone-lying-someone-whos-not\u0022\u003Ethis article\u003C\/a\u003E, for example. I looked up another video of his and he\u2019s covering all the old PUA focuses, like the reticular activating system, etc.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EImpressive how large these guys\u2019 YouTube followings have grown by basically taking stuff from PUA, generalizing it, and marketing it to a large audience with a hook (\u201cformer CIA spy shares body language secrets\u201d), then positioning themselves as gurus with elite, secret knowledge.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\u003Cp\u003EWhat is your advice for learning influence techniques Chase?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EFind good references and follow them. Robert Cialdini\u2019s book Influence, for instance, is a great starting point. Learning about \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/operant-conditioning-your-romantic-relationships\u0022\u003Eoperant conditioning\u003C\/a\u003E (rewarding\/punishing) is very important too. The BBC documentary \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=eJ3RzGoQC4s\u0022\u003ECentury of the Self\u003C\/a\u003E is well worth a watch.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAbove all, learn frame control, and try to always control the frame, and understand why you failed when you\u2019re unable to.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\u003Cp\u003EAnd where do all of these seduction influence techniques come from?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ELots of places. 1850 until about 1990 or so was a golden age in influence research. Hypnosis, modern psychology, a whole raft of personality models, crowd psychology, public relations, operant conditioning, the concept of \u2018charisma\u2019, brainwashing, NLP, and ultimately modern pickup artistry all originates from this period. Starting around 1990, breakthrough innovation in these fields began to stall. Most of the stuff in pickup comes originally from mining these other fields and applying it to women. Now it looks like the influence guys on YouTube are doing the same thing but applying it to \u201cwill yourself to success\u201d type stuff.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\u003Cp\u003EBut where do these originate, and how can one dive into it to learn the principles and master it? There\u0027s obviously a lot of ethical conservations here, but would you shed some light on this topic in a time where there\u0027s a lot of BE out there?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI could maybe do a series on influence, I suppose.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ELet me give it some thought..!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/4576\/96664\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-96675\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/96675#comment-96675\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Nicholas Aguilar\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Nicholas Aguilar\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Nicholas Aguilar\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Nicholas Aguilar\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/96675#comment-96675\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003E\/\/\/Interesting. I hadn\u2019t\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ENicholas Aguilar (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 13 January 2026  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/article\/why-womens-advice-men-so-bad\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/96664#comment-96664\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003E\/\/\/Interesting. I hadn\u2019t heard of either of these guys before. Looks like Chase Hughes was a former pickup artist who made the switch to discussing influence more generally. Andrew Bustamonte is doing a similar thing. How is it that one guy has my first name and the other guy has basically my last name with \u201cBust\u201d in front of it? \ud83d\ude2d\/\/\/\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHaha wow, this is hilarious! What a funny coincidence. Obviously I knew chase Hughs shared your first name but I didn\u0027t make the connection to Andrew, and the \u0022bust\u0022 literally made me chuckle in the cafe where I read this. Chase Hughs pickup book is a joke tbh, I found an excerpt from it and it\u0027s garbage \ud83d\uddd1\ufe0f \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\/\/\/Stuff I\u2019m looking up claims they both embellish heavily and make a lot of outrageous claims (Chase Hughes claims seem to range from \u201cspot a liar in minutes\u201d to, in his PUA days, \u201ctell if she\u2019s a lesbian from her fingers\u201d \u2014 he is probably talking about 2D:4D ratio, which can clue you in a bit but is not guaranteed).\/\/\/\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYes I agree 100%. Andrews stuff is actually helpful although overpriced. He was in CIA but from what I learned he heavily exaggerates his importance and accomplishments in the organization. Chase Hughs background seems more completely fabricated.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\/\/\/Actually what it looks like is they are taking the same kind of research I talk about in articles and programs and sensationalizing it. I don\u2019t know what he says about telling liars but he is probably talks about some or all of what I have in this article, for example. I looked up another video of his and he\u2019s covering all the old PUA focuses, like the reticular activating system, etc.\/\/\/\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYes, he\u0027s pretty good at making it sound new and ground breaking...I\u0027ll give him the credit of being a good con-man lol. His other books are also extremely complicated and overpriced. Actually, little interesting side story...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E~ \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI have a friend whom 3 year\u0027s ago told me about a CIA guy who would program a new identity for him with an \u0022on\u0022 \u0022off\u0022 trigger for 100k USD total. He met up with this CIA guy in person in Tulum, Mexico. This friend is from the UK and always has money to blow. I never asked why, but I think it\u0027s a trust fund. He would always talk about spending 10 or 20k like it was nothing. I recommended against \u0022brainwashing\u0022 obviously. After that meeting with my friend, he left Mexico and I hadn\u0027t heard much from him even after message a few times. He would respond a month later with a vague uninterested response. The friendship atrophied naturally, although we kept in contact here and there. Recently, after learning about Chase Hughs, I had a hunch that he was the \u0022CIA\u0022 guy my friend met up with. I reached out to my friend not long ago and  basically asked him the same thing I asked you (about influence), as our friendship was based upon a mutual interest or philosophy, mysticism, exploring models of reality etc. He confirmed it was Chase Hughs and said he did indeed do the identity programming but couldn\u0027t tell if it worked or not and doesn\u0027t trust Chase Hughs. He does think Chase Hughs was former CIA though, but I don\u0027t. This friend of mine (or not anymore?) stopped responding after I expressed my opinion of Chase Hughs. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E~\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\/\/\/Impressive how large these guys\u2019 YouTube followings have grown by basically taking stuff from PUA, generalizing it, and marketing it to a large audience with a hook (\u201cformer CIA spy shares body language secrets\u201d), then positioning themselves as gurus with elite, secret knowledge.\/\/\/\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYeah pretty wild, I see it as a lesson that the truth is not always the shiniest or most expensive thing out there.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\/\/\/What is your advice for learning influence techniques Chase?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EFind good references and follow them. Robert Cialdini\u2019s book Influence, for instance, is a great starting point. Learning about operant conditioning (rewarding\/punishing) is very important too. The BBC documentary Century of the Self is well worth a watch.\/\/\/\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWill do! I consider this website just so. It\u0027s a gift to masculinity and a light for men in this world where we need to filter through so much BS. No doubt your work and the writers here have changed my life for the better.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\/\/\/Above all, learn frame control, and try to always control the frame, and understand why you failed when you\u2019re unable to.\/\/\/\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EUnderstood. Alek says the same thing. I\u0027ll take that to heart as best I can. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\/\/\/And where do all of these seduction influence techniques come from?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ELots of places. 1850 until about 1990 or so was a golden age in influence research. Hypnosis, modern psychology, a whole raft of personality models, crowd psychology, public relations, operant conditioning, the concept of \u2018charisma\u2019, brainwashing, NLP, and ultimately modern pickup artistry all originates from this period. Starting around 1990, breakthrough innovation in these fields began to stall. Most of the stuff in pickup comes originally from mining these other fields and applying it to women. Now it looks like the influence guys on YouTube are doing the same thing but applying it to \u201cwill yourself to success\u201d type stuff.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut where do these originate, and how can one dive into it to learn the principles and master it? There\u0027s obviously a lot of ethical conservations here, but would you shed some light on this topic in a time where there\u0027s a lot of BE out there?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI could maybe do a series on influence, I suppose.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ELet me give it some thought..!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\/\/\/\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThat\u0027s a great idea! Who knows, maybe an article series on influence could benefit all by leading to some new breakthroughs eventually? Possibly...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI suppose my interest is largely based upon a hunch that influence is one of the most important skills one can learn in life. A master of influence can benefit in many areas, including seduction. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf you do decide to write a series like this, would you include a section on the mortality of influence? Is there a dark side, light side, and in-between area? (Going star wars here because Alek would like that lol). \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHow do we stay on the light side of influence and what techniques fall into which categories? I guess using techniques that produce positive emotions to seduce would be light side, and negative emotions dark side... Just an idea. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThanks for your work Chase!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/4576\/96675\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-96590\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/96590#comment-96590\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Kahatrap\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Kahatrap\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Kahatrap\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Kahatrap\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/96590#comment-96590\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EHesitation and it\u0026#039;s link here\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EKahatrap (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Thursday, 18 December 2025  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/article\/why-womens-advice-men-so-bad\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EGreat article.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI am curious about how male hesitation and anxiety link with this. How does a woman see it if we include content of this article ?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd maybe women see hesitation as lying or hiding something which is opposite of honesty and so thinking that if he is hesitating so it means what he wants to offer is not good cuz if it was then why is he not confident. Could that be the reason?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/4576\/96590\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-96665\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/96665#comment-96665\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/96665#comment-96665\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EMale Hesitation\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 12 January 2026  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/article\/why-womens-advice-men-so-bad\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/96590#comment-96590\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EKahatrap-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EUnless a woman is very experienced with men, she usually interprets male hesitation as disinterest.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThere are studies on this. People (both sexes) consider their own hesitation as a sign of fear\/uncertainty, but others\u2019 hesitation as a sign those others are not interested.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/4576\/96665\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-96596\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/96596#comment-96596\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Aiming Higher\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Aiming Higher\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Aiming Higher\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Aiming Higher\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/96596#comment-96596\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EHow many dates before exclusivity\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAiming Higher (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 23 December 2025  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/article\/why-womens-advice-men-so-bad\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHey Chase, I\u0027ve heard some women say they only date one man at a time within a short period of meeting him - after how many dates or months roughly with one girl would you suggest for guys who\u0027re seeking a long-term monogomous relationship?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/4576\/96596\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-96666\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/96666#comment-96666\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/96666#comment-96666\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ERe: How many dates before exclusivity\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 12 January 2026  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/article\/why-womens-advice-men-so-bad\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/96596#comment-96596\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EAiming Higher-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAre you asking how long you can see her before a woman likely considers it to be an exclusive relationship?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt depends highly on the woman; both on her experience level and how she thinks about romance.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESome girls may be sleeping with a guy for months, still treating it as a casual relationship.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOn the other hand, I have had girls I slept with on the first date who immediately thought we were in a serious, committed relationship (that is not a fun misunderstanding to have to try to clear up!).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHighly, highly variable by the girl.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYou really just need to feel her out.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThough, in general: the higher her body count, the longer it is going to take her to expect you to make it exclusive, and also usually the longer she herself prefers to wait before making things exclusive.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/4576\/96666\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-96646\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/96646#comment-96646\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Mr. Anon\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Mr. Anon\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Mr. Anon\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Mr. Anon\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/96646#comment-96646\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EQuestions\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EMr. Anon (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 6 January 2026  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/article\/why-womens-advice-men-so-bad\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EChase,\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E1. How do you have conviction in yourself without valuing age and money? It\u2019s mostly that way because of society, and don\u2019t you need to worry about age and money to have a family? \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnyway, I\u2019d like advice on that because it is a worry. I feel having confidence in yourself is important while you work on it anyway, so I\u2019d like to know how to do that and succeed with women. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E2. I don\u2019t even know why I even asked about my place with the dating app question because that\u2019s not an option. Which would be better if you\u2019re cautious with women from dating apps, her place or a hotel?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E3. What to do if you\u2019re not getting any attention when out?\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI looked up the method on the forum about attracting more attention from women, but nothing seems to be working. With what you know, what else can I do?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E4. I looked up the jobs you recommended that would be good now, they seem math heavy though. Do you know anything not math heavy that I could get into somewhat soon? Also is copywriting or anything like that still good with AI going on, what would be other options that you think won\u2019t be affected by AI that we can learn on our own preferably online?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E5. What do you do if you been out of game for so long, I\u2019ve only talked to women who talk to me, but it\u2019s more you get what you get, and I want better and more. I\u2019m getting back into gaming again and just feel so lost, apps are worse, I\u2019m hearing nightlife is a lot worse, no approach invites when out approaching, social circle is not an option. So what can be done with all this going on?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThanks\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/4576\/96646\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-96667\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/96667#comment-96667\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/96667#comment-96667\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ERe: Questions\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 12 January 2026  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/article\/why-womens-advice-men-so-bad\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/96646#comment-96646\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003ESub-Zero-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYou need to figure out what you believe in and what you are doing.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/purpose-life-practical-point-view\u0022\u003EFind your purpose\u003C\/a\u003E, then \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/she-must-never-become-your-mission\u0022\u003Efind a mission\u003C\/a\u003E that coincides with that purpose.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThen you will stand for something greater than just \u2018money\u2019.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\u003Cp\u003EWhich would be better if you\u2019re cautious with women from dating apps, her place or a hotel?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI mean, if you\u2019re going full paranoiac (I know you are \ud83d\ude09), a hotel you choose that she does not know beforehand would be safest. Zero chance of it being some place she lured you to for nefarious purposes that way\u2026 but if you are good at game you should be able to tell if a woman is genuinely interested in you or if something is \u2018off\u2019 (i.e., she is faking interest \/ making it happen WAY too easily \/ overlooking mistakes a woman would not normally overlook), so going to her place really should not be that much of an issue\u2026\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\u003Cp\u003E3. What to do if you\u2019re not getting any attention when out?\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI looked up the method on the forum about attracting more attention from women, but nothing seems to be working. With what you know, what else can I do?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAre you sure you\u2019re \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/article\/how-stop-missing-girls-obvious-signs-interest\u0022\u003Ereading women\u2019s signals appropriately\u003C\/a\u003E?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf so, are your \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.skilledseducer.com\/threads\/the-4-categories-of-attractiveness-fundamentals.30852\/\u0022\u003Efundamentals\u003C\/a\u003E tight, and if so, are you \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/article\/why-dont-girls-signal-you-more-awareness-playfulness-decline\u0022\u003Ealert and clearly on the prowl \/ open to women\u003C\/a\u003E?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd if so there, are you using \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/tactics-tuesdays-attention-grabs-elicit-approach-invitations\u0022\u003Eattention grabs\u003C\/a\u003E?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\u003Cp\u003EDo you know anything not math heavy that I could get into somewhat soon? Also is copywriting or anything like that still good with AI going on, what would be other options that you think won\u2019t be affected by AI that we can learn on our own preferably online?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHonestly man, I am really not a jobs expert.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI see a lot of folks recommending the trades: plumbing, carpentry, electrician. Most of the folks in those are older and are saying young guys aren\u2019t coming into their line of work anymore, but there is a lot of demand and the pay is good.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThere\u2019s also often work on oil rigs \/ drilling for oil that can pay six figures for like half a year of work.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMight be worth looking into those professions.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\u003Cp\u003EWhat do you do if you been out of game for so long, I\u2019ve only talked to women who talk to me, but it\u2019s more you get what you get, and I want better and more. I\u2019m getting back into gaming again and just feel so lost, apps are worse, I\u2019m hearing nightlife is a lot worse, no approach invites when out approaching, social circle is not an option. 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