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id=\u0022comment-94434\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/94434#comment-94434\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous \u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous \u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous \u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous \u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/94434#comment-94434\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EQuestions\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAnonymous  (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Thursday, 7 September 2023  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/article\/criticizing-friend-zone-or-neo-direct-harmful-men\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EChase,\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPlease correct me if I\u2019m wrong, but I remember reading earlier articles and I believe I read something about telling a girl you approached her because she is incredibly cute, had a nice walk, or something like that. I know the article is from years back, but what makes that approach different from the neo one? \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E1. I wanted to reply to your other comment about toughness. I can confidently tell you, I want to do whatever it takes to learn this. To me it\u2019s worth all of the time in the world and I don\u2019t care how long it takes.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYou see, like I said previously even though I was really friendly and smiled a lot, I still tried to stand up for myself almost every time no matter what. The only thing is I always worried if the person knows something I don\u2019t know and that\u2019s why they are talking crap, I need to get rid of that worry and doubt, but other than that I make sure to stick up for myself.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhen you said that you became tough and had to go through a phase, you probably realized you had to do that, I never did. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIn my mind I always thought me acting tough would be fake to who I was, I felt I had no reason to walk around with a mean mug or anything, but not only did I realize many many years later, I needed to be tough and show it, even if it wasn\u2019t real in order to be taken serious and have my people.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYou said in one of your articles that you must make people respect you enough in order to give you you your peace. It was like, wow\u2026.., how did I not even realize this was the problem.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u2019ll tell you why getting this down is important to me and worth the time, it\u2019s not about looking like some tough guy for fun, but what I\u2019ve dealt with is in my mind everyday, I regret being a good nice guy so much, I feel that\u2019s probably the major thing in why I\u2019m unsuccessful in what I want to achieve. It trickles down in everything because dealing with a lot of negative feedback messes you up mentally.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI feel it\u2019s worth learning because you need to have that tough air to you to have peace. You need to have it.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe crazy thing is I\u2019ve done tough guy things, not trying to be tough, but because I wanted to do them.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ELike I said, I\u2019ve done combat sports before and fought very good fighters and held my own, I lifted heavy weights and you can see it from my big build, I talk crap to everyone who talks crap, I\u2019ve trained injured before and kept pushing, etc.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPeople even know of my combat sports and some don\u2019t even acknowledge how hard it is to do that. Some of them still think I\u2019m too much of a good guy though in a bad way.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo there\u2019s something I must change mentally and I have to really change this because it\u2019s important to be respected.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPeople don\u2019t take you seriously and that\u2019s terrible.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EEven with some women I slept with, I always stood up for myself, but they must have thought I was such a good friendly guy that they would try to talk crap to me. I know that had to be the reason. Funny thing is, those women who talked crap were really cry babies and I could tell were envious I wasn\u2019t a negative person. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThat was just like how you said in the article, they\u2019re very angry that I\u2019m happy.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut I\u2019m not happy after dealing with what I\u2019ve dealt with.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo yes, realistically toughening up is very important to me because it trickles down to everything.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo please tell me all the advice you know about fully toughening up, it\u2019s worth all the time for me.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI want it to make people to respect me and give me peace.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EA. I\u2019d appreciate all your advice in toughening up.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EB. How did you change your mindset from so young without the fear? You mentioned in that article about respect that you should always escalate, but how do you do it when you haven\u2019t before? Basically how do you change your personality to something so different and have it fully stick?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThank You for everything\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/4056\/94434\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-94435\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/94435#comment-94435\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Bill\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Bill\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Bill\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Bill\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/94435#comment-94435\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EThis approach seems popular\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EBill (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Thursday, 7 September 2023  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/article\/criticizing-friend-zone-or-neo-direct-harmful-men\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EThis approach seems popular because it\u2019s a easy way for instructors to get beginners playing a numbers game when usually they just nervously talk about random things going nowhere until the girl gets annoyed and leaves.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/4056\/94435\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-94436\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/94436#comment-94436\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Kamil Gufar \u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Kamil Gufar \u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Kamil Gufar \u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Kamil Gufar \u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/94436#comment-94436\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EDominance and police \u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EKamil Gufar  (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Friday, 8 September 2023  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/article\/criticizing-friend-zone-or-neo-direct-harmful-men\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EUnrelated question\u2014\u2014\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ECan you go police for an assault? Or does that make you not dominant?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/4056\/94436\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-94440\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/94440#comment-94440\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Jimmy H\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Jimmy H\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Jimmy H\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Jimmy H\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/94440#comment-94440\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ENeo-direct vs (technically sound) direct\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EJimmy H (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Sunday, 10 September 2023  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/article\/criticizing-friend-zone-or-neo-direct-harmful-men\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EThanks for this article, Chase. I have a few questions.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E1. Your recent article here\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/article\/study-women-are-more-swayed-compliments-when-non-fertile\u0022\u003Ehttps:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/article\/study-women-are-more-swayed-complimen...\u003C\/a\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003E\ntalks about how fertile, single women aren\u0027t affected much by compliments or the type of the opener. In these cases, can we agree that neo-direct is just as good or bad as any other opener? My interpretation was this. Attraction is there or it isn\u0027t and it\u0027s based on the man\u0027s fundamentals. During a particular approach session he has no control over whether it is there or not with a particular woman (over the longer term he may have control over it by changing his dress style etc.). So the opener is just a way of the man of asking the woman to check out his fundamentals and see if attraction is there or not. I think that my interpretation is consistent with the above article.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E2. What is the real difference between a neo-direct and a good direct opener? One of the GC courses recommends, as one opener style, stopping a woman from the front and delivering a compliment opener. This seems like a totally good opener to me but doesn\u0027t this satisfy your definition of neo-direct?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E3. Suppose a guy is using neo-direct and not doing well. He still wants a reasonably low effort style and is willing to put in the numbers, but he doesn\u0027t want to be running inefficient game. What would you recommend for him? I\u0027m saying that the neo-direct is a low effort approach but it\u0027s too low effort and unrefined to work. What\u0027s a minimum effort method that would actually be effective game?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/4056\/94440\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-94441\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/94441#comment-94441\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Neo\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Neo\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Neo\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Neo\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/94441#comment-94441\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EOpening\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ENeo (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Sunday, 10 September 2023  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/article\/criticizing-friend-zone-or-neo-direct-harmful-men\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/94440#comment-94440\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EThis is one thing that makes no sense about neo direct is when do you decide to label it so. Is it only if you say a girl is cute? What about if you say she\u0027s sexy or has nice style?Nearly any sort of compliment is lumped into this neo direct category and it doesnt make sense especially since chase said he likes using direct openers. If this was such a crucial thing to understand chase could\u0027ve advised against guys doing this 10 plus years ago,but he decided to only mention it as of late maybe just to have content to write and it just adds more confusion.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EObviously that\u0027s hector\u0027s daygame course and his opening is neo direct it\u0027s always been if you\u0027re familiar with him and his style of game(not his sexual direct). However then you have Chase and other writers criticizing this way of opening saying it\u0027s not effective and here you have hector basically encouraging people to open neodirect. This is the problem when you have multiple writers trying to teach dating on the same site. They criss cross and conflict and contradict one another and you don\u0027t know who or what to believe.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/4056\/94441\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-94450\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/94450#comment-94450\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Dan Bilzerian\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Dan Bilzerian\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Dan Bilzerian\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Dan Bilzerian\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/94450#comment-94450\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003Econfusion\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EDan Bilzerian (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Wednesday, 13 September 2023  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/article\/criticizing-friend-zone-or-neo-direct-harmful-men\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/94441#comment-94441\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EChase discouages neo-direct for a couple of reasons.  One, neo-direct has relatively low success.  And, two, this site attracts lots of beginners.  If rejected a lot, they would very likely to give up.   So they should use something less brutal.  But feel free to employ blunt game, if you can stomach lots of \u0022no\u0027s\u0022 before you hear a \u0022yes.\u0022\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/4056\/94450\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-94469\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/94469#comment-94469\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Long time reader\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Long time reader\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Long time reader\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Long time reader\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/94469#comment-94469\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ELabeling and claims\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ELong time reader (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Sunday, 24 September 2023  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/article\/criticizing-friend-zone-or-neo-direct-harmful-men\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003ESuprised you made an article on what I had wrote I didn\u0027t think there was a way for you to spin that comment into an article lol. If you end up making another based on this could I get a piece of the pie ;)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETo clarify some things I have been a long term reader that\u0027s why I know about your neo direct concept. You\u0027re a intelligent guy guy so you already know this,but writing reports and articles on dating and women isn\u0027t showing how to pick up and seduce them. You are illustrating the process of what it would look like which is very difficult for someone reading to grasp. It\u0027s like a person trainer writing a blog on fitness,but you have no idea what his physique or form looks like and he\u0027s just describing how to do squats and deadlifts. Saying be a empiricist and go test it out doesn\u0027t do justice especially when guys will go out and try stuff out and reality contradicts your claims ,but you\u0027ll just say they did it wrong or didn\u0027t do it correctly. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYou guys don\u0027t have infield or video content on actual real life interactions with women to show what strong fundamentals or game looks like. Now if you don\u0027t wish to have infield nobody can make you you\u0027re not obligated to and i\u0027m not saying you have to because i\u0027m pointing it out, but credibility will always be a question mark especially since nothing can be verified visually. Those courses that you listed out which u said was u showing how to successfully pick up women are not that great and some other guys from the forum agree. I was just apprehensive of criticizing you guys just cuz i\u0027m grateful to have been pulled out of the matrix and helping understand how women behave and think so as a matter of support I would never question anything you guys said or claimed.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EReality is anybody can omit or include details that never happened in real life to appear more persuasive or compelling just like for years you guys believed \u0022oh pry\u0022 was a prolific seducer just to find out he was a troll. You wonder what the motivation would be and it\u0027s simple it\u0027s to get people to invest in your courses and content which I have and the courses are not all great.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI know coaches with video infield and testimonials as well and those can also omit certain details at times to look more appealing, but it\u0027s harder to fake when there\u0027s live evidence of it happening.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHector\u0027s daygame course is overpriced and doesnt offer nearly the same amount of value as other courses on the market. There\u0027s no genuine interactions of him actually talking and speaking with women he approached he talks to a paid actress and claims this is what you can expect in real life which is absurd because anybody with even a minimal amount of experience approaching  knows that approaching and touching a woman\u0027s elbow from behind is a horrible way to open.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWith the dating artisan and charisma course there\u0027s nothing in the course that you can implement that will boost your game in the real world. Just informational content that\u0027s kind of mental masturbation. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI only made the claim about you making up neo direct because you and a few other writers write a few misleading things that in essence are to market yourselves and get people to invest and consume your content which a longtime writer from on here confirmed to me himself. Or there are a lot of caveats and principles that you don\u0027t include in some of your articles.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESuch as overemphasizing 1 in 5 lay ratio (which you finally clarified in a article that it\u0027s only on high momentum and not a regular consistent occurence) or that if you use neurolinguistic opening and maintain \u0022social frame\u0022(which is another overemphasized phrase)  you will have a short ratio and get with higher value women.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u0027m sure you genuinely have wanted to help men with this site and you have,but there have been times where certain things you\u0027ve said which i\u0027ve found out later was flat out wrong if not a blatant lie. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIn a comment response to another guy you had said if spent a few years learning and mastering game you keep these skills for the rest of your life and don\u0027t need to go as hard. Ricardus was a blatant contradiction when he had totally reverted to that of a neophyte with strong approach anxiety(not sure where he\u0027s at now). Skill in game is like the gym when you stop practicing your ability atrophies. Alex as well when the world was on lockdown and he had to work to get back to what he was originally. What\u0027s maddening is that you will always say that people are misinterpreting what you say or that they lean autistic. Which is just lol being skeptical of the claims of anonymous dating coaches doesn\u0027t make you that. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnyways I just want to preface by saying I don\u0027t think you\u0027re a liar and I do believe you\u0027re proficient in game most of what you have written in regards to dating and female psychology i\u0027ve noticed sometimes in reality. I just don\u0027t blindly and naively trust what you write on techiniques or certain other claims when reality contradicts it unless there\u0027s actual proof.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nJust because I know you are a marketer now which other people confirmed to me which I didn\u0027t years back. Also my own instincts and experience tells me some things are off with a few of your suggestions such as your texting guidelines or trying to date on your terms and not pay for a date which backfires for most guys since they\u0027re unable to present themselves as a lover and not strictly a provider (another ommision\/caveat on your part)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EEvery single dating coach is a marketer no matter if they have real infield with women or video testimonials from clients and i\u0027ve spoken to a fair share in real life and notice inconsistencies. Hence why I question the neo direct intellectualization. If you were to show what non neo direct openings with successful interactions look like or what strong fundamentals look like or what being a lover looks like I wouldn\u0027t question it and would be bought in like I used to be.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/4056\/94469\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-94471\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/94471#comment-94471\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/94471#comment-94471\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EWTH lmao\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 26 September 2023  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/article\/criticizing-friend-zone-or-neo-direct-harmful-men\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/94469#comment-94469\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EDude, are you kidding me\u2026?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHow do people think like this?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOne Date \u0026amp; TDA is the best thing I\u2019ve ever put out. I spent hundreds of hours putting that thing together, making sure everything in it was airtight. I have multiple dozens of testimonials from guys on it totally transforming their game, with SAC in particular being the highlight. I have video testimonials in the new One Date sales videos from guys attributing the course with getting them high quality girlfriends, strings of 30+ lays, and all kinds of giant quality jumps.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf you think that is \u201cmental masturbation\u201d you should just disregard everything I have to say here, and I don\u2019t know why you\u2019d even frequent this website. Glutton for punishment I guess?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI never believed Oh Pry was a prolific seducer (lol) and tried to ban the guy for years. Come on. Our main mod at the time kept going to bat for the guy. I thought the dude was maybe turning a corner at one point until his LRs\u00a0(which were always paper thin) got ridiculous and just smelled way too fishy. A big part of the reason I wasn\u2019t on the forum for years was guys on there defending him and others from me and me just not even wanting to participate on a forum with that tripe.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ERicardus after his first 10 or 15 approaches laid a girl off cold approach. How many newbie seducers are doing that? The dude has approach anxiety after not approaching women for over a decade, and can rarely even approach due to headaches any time he\u2019s anywhere other than jungles in the middle of nowhere. Cut the guy some slack. Alek was on lockdown for 8 months straight and the instant they lifted the lockdowns he pulled. A little rusty after 8 months off? Sure. Did he pull almost right away, then pull again, then again? He certainly did.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u201cYou\u2019re a marketer\u201d \u2014 again, are you kidding me? What is the alternative, lol? \u201cDude, run a blog for me for free \u2014 make it charity.\u201d \u201cDude, have products \u2014 but don\u2019t market them, that\u2019s selling out.\u201d\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI don\u2019t know if you\u2019ve noticed, but this website violates the political mainstream, it violates polite society, and it\u2019s not even a business I can tell people in my life I run. Why would I be in this business if I was just an \u201camoral marketer\u201d? Do you really think I could not switch over to marketing crypto scams and make BOATLOADS more? If you think I am making \u201ctons of money\u201d off of blogging, you know what I know? YOU don\u2019t know anything about blogging.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E(honestly, if I wanted to max out my cash here, I would: a.) fire almost everybody, b.) quit writing for the blog, ENTIRELY, and let the whole thing just die,\u00a0then c.) do NOTHING AT ALL but run paid marketing campaigns and affiliate campaigns 24\/7. That\u2019s what the BIGGEST guys in the space do, money-wise \u2014 they don\u2019t have blogs, or only have long-dead ones; they don\u2019t talk to readers; and they make revenues that make Girls Chase look like a joke, finances-wise)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThen you\u2019re talking about \u201cguys can\u2019t not pay for dates or do your texting advice\u201d because they\u2019re not skilled enough while also in the same breath talking about how I\u2019m just a marketer? There\u2019s a guy in this space I know who really IS a pure marketer, through and through, and definitely not a PUA at all, really, and his book (which he didn\u2019t even writer; a ghostwriter wrote it) 100% tells guys to pay for dates and engage in all this flirty longwinded texting. So which is it\u2026 am I a sell-out marketer or am I giving guys stuff that\u2019s too hard for beginner-level guys?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\u003Cp\u003EI just don\u0027t blindly and naively trust what you write on techiniques or certain other claims\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EGood! I detest dogma. That is what I WANT you to do!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\u003Cp\u003Ewhen reality contradicts it unless there\u0027s actual proof.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhat does that mean, \u201cactual proof\u201d? In-fields?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYeah, I agree, we should have them. It\u2019s on my list to do\u2026 at some point. Maybe. We did a survey poll on the website for \u201cwhat would help blah blah credibility\u201d and that was the most popular one guys want. At the same time the website already doesn\u2019t do enough revenues-wise that I\u2019m really confident dumping even more time into doing stuff for girlschase.com is a good use of time, and in-fields are a.) a giant pain in the ass to do, b.) don\u2019t make money (YouTube is littered with in-fields from guys who exit the space in a couple of years because they MAKE NO MONEY and have to go do something else with their time. Remember Simple Pickup? They did a ton of in-fields\u2026 and then they entered a startup accelerator and closed their pickup business down because they could never make more than middle class incomes doing it), c.) then when you do them, everyone accuses them of being fake and you using models and then all these debates rage about whether they\u2019re real or fake, or why you cut the video off when you did, was she really into you or not, or if you really banged the girl, or if the girl was all that hot, etc.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo, pain in the ass, doesn\u2019t make money, a bunch of controversy \u2014 oh right, it\u2019s also MSM attack fuel (just ask RSD Julien and the other guys who got their asses reamed out over in-fields. Or ask Tom Torero\u2026 oh wait \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/article\/beloved-day-game-coach-tom-torero-has-died\u0022\u003Eyou can\u2019t\u003C\/a\u003E).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut yeah, in-fields aren\u2019t \u201cproof\u201d except to guys who are in-field junkies and don\u2019t trust anything other than in-fields. If that\u2019s you, then I guess that\u2019s \u201cproof\u201d and anything without in-fields is \u201clacking proof.\u201d\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EJust so I\u2019m clear on what you\u2019re saying though, you are saying:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u201cGoing up to girls and shooting your shot without flirtation, just laying it all out there on the table, and asking the girl to make a decision: yay or nay (neo-direct) \u2014 I see NO PROOF that this is an inferior approach to that of engaging in flirtation, banter, screening, qualification, rapport building, and other techniques skilled daters use\u201d \u2014 correct?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMy answer to that is the same as it always is:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cspan style=\u0022font-size:22px;\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/real-empiricists-test\u0022\u003E\u003Cstrong\u003EReal empiricists test.\u003C\/strong\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EGo test it out yourself. Go test \u201cshoot your shot spill your beans lay it all out\u201d style, then go test some actual game, and see which one works better. If shoot your shot neo-direct kills it for you, then awesome \u2014 you can just delete this site\u2019s bookmark from your browser and write that guy Chase Amante off as full of baloney!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThen you can start your own YouTube channel about how \u201cthe secret to getting girls is to go up and shoot your shot and if she\u2019s down, you pound\u201d etc.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\u003Cp\u003EI wouldn\u0027t question it and would be bought in like I used to be.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI don\u2019t want you \u201cbought in.\u201d\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI want you IN-FIELD approaching WOMEN doing this stuff YOURSELF!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOnce you are in action, applying the material, THAT is when you get \u201cbought in\u201d \u2014 not from me convincing you with more articles, or in-fields, or products, or whatever.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHere\u2019s the truth, man: everything is going to be mental masturbation FOR YOU unless you go out and do it in-field.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHow many of the homework assignments from One Date and TDA did you complete? Because there are 46 lessons and they ALL (I think?) have homework assignments. You can start right there \u2014 almost all those are IN-FIELD assignments, and definitely not \u201cmental masturbation.\u201d\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIn fact, you sound like the same dude I wrote the \u201cReal Empiricists Test\u201d article for a decade ago. Same exact argument:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u201cI don\u2019t know if I believe you, man.\u201d\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWho cares?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EGo test it. 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