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\u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/92666#comment-92666\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EYou will take a course on\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EWoo (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Saturday, 6 August 2022  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/article\/9-reasons-not-take-back-your-ex-girlfriend\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EYou will take a course on relationships on how to have the various types of relationships how to manage them what to know how to do etc?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3826\/92666\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-92670\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/92670#comment-92670\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022yseult\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022yseult\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022yseult\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022yseult\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/92670#comment-92670\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ECheers for the article Chase!\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003Eyseult (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Saturday, 6 August 2022  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/article\/9-reasons-not-take-back-your-ex-girlfriend\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003ECheers for the article Chase!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EFrom the time I commented on that last article and now, so much has improved in my life.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAt the time of the first comment, it was a serious dilemma. I had already \u0022moved on\u0022 but no one really compared to my ex. I was still in love with her.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EStaying away from someone for whom I had feelings, who was throwing herself back at me and reminding me of all the magical times we had was extremely hard.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut I did it.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI re-read the other articles you wrote on breaking up and tried to apply the abudance mentality even if I didn\u0027t have much abundance. I forced myself to think like a man with options.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAs of now, I\u0027ve been with a few other women and one pretty incredible one. I chose not to take her as a girlfriend because I\u0027m too hyped about meeting new women.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u0027d say that not getting back with an ex is one of the hardest things to ever go through.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut once you conquer that peak, the view is so much better than what you leave behind. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ECheers for helping me ascend to newer planes Chase.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3826\/92670\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-92677\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/92677#comment-92677\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/user\/22651\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022ayvee\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022ayvee\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022ayvee\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022ayvee\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/92677#comment-92677\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EBad Precedent\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/user\/22651\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/user\/22651\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003Eayvee\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Saturday, 6 August 2022  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/article\/9-reasons-not-take-back-your-ex-girlfriend\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EIn this situation right now.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nTogether on and off since 2015. Most breakup were fixed within a week if not days and had me frolicking with my other prospects in that short space of time until 2018, when I felt guilty about \u0027not taking the relationship seriously\u0027\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nand treating her badly by sleeping with our female friends.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nWe had dated other people, but I felt an obligation to myself to \u0027take the relationship seriously\u0027 because of other life instability and I felt she hadn\u0027t deserved how badly I was treating her so when she tried\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nto makeup I made us take std tests and cut everyone else off.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nWell now 4 years later I did things you mentioned in other\u003Cbr \/\u003E\narticles and was under crazy stress.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nbefore she moved out during the breakup she asked \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u0027is this a break or for good\u0027 \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003Eand I guess I failed that test.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nCurrently she\u0027s trying to get me to cave by dangling sex infront of me, every time she comes to collect whatever stuff\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nshe forget the outfits are more and more suggestive and she tries to \u0027talk\u0027 about the relation and make physical contact.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI have failed the relationship and made her lose faith in my leadership AND I also didnt make her feel secure enough by\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nconstantly neglecting her but as you\u0027ve said.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBAD PRECEDENT IS BAD PRECEDENT.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhen women fall off and come back to you the sex is always different if ever so slightly. when I was younger that bothered me to no end.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u0027ve used the ol threesome strategy before and will most likely try it again.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOne challenge I\u0027d say is the upgrading part.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nIf a woman is a 9\/10 in your book isn\u0027t it just a lateral shift? or upgrading in any quality that you like counts?\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nIt could be the recent breakup emotions talking but I don\u0027t often think any woman is an upgrade to my now ex.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMost very attractive women are just attractive in different ways but I can\u0027t think of anyone I\u0027ve ever met that\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nblew her out of the water or my male hypergamy would\u0027ve made that branch (That\u0027s how I ended up with her in the first place)\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nShe was an available upgrade to my previous ex.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3826\/92677\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-92695\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/92695#comment-92695\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022A monkey with humanpox\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022A monkey with humanpox\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022A monkey with humanpox\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022A monkey with humanpox\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/92695#comment-92695\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EGrading\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EA monkey with h... (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 8 August 2022  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/article\/9-reasons-not-take-back-your-ex-girlfriend\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/92677#comment-92677\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EI get that precise grading has been a way of life for most of us unfortunate enough to suffer through\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nformal education.  But I would avoid using such as system to judge girls, since it can cause one to get sucked into wanting to hold onto what we perceive as special.  It\u0027s better to view girls broadly as pass or fail.  That way, when a \u0022pass\u0022 starts manipulating, she can just be dropped for another \u0022pass.\u0022  If you see a girl as a \u00229,\u0022  she\u0027ll pick up on that and punk you (\u0022 you need to take us seriously...\u0022 \u0022you need to commit to me\u0022).  Also, keep in mind that your \u00229\u0022 isn\u0027t going to stay a \u00229.\u0022 She knows that. So she\u0027ll suck you into her web, before she gets old, fat, and saggy. By then, you\u0027ll have a mortgage to pay and two kids to support.  She\u0027ll be just a shell of the beauty you remember from a decade earlier.  But, since you got played, you\u0027ll probably be too embarrassed to admit error and reverse course.   TLDR: Don\u0027 put a bitch on a pedestal, unless you want to end up on your stomach.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3826\/92695\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-92743\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/92743#comment-92743\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/user\/22651\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 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property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EThank you for that informative response,\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nMy ex was very competitive and directly compared herself to other women who would be around \/ interested in me\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nso I can see where using your logic that was me falling into her frame and feeling some sort of pressure to\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n\u0027measure up\u0027 to her beauty and her using that as a weapon to limit my options.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI had always liked to \u0027upgrade my women\u0027 or get the best I can get and not lose out on the best I can get by dating someone beneath her but that may\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nbe a smoke screen depending on the situation.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf I keep it strictly to pass\/fail on my end and my own preference then it\u0027s a very simple matter.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul 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typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022jarrod12\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022jarrod12\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/92742#comment-92742\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EHow to handle ex dating someone else\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003Ejarrod12 (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Friday, 12 August 2022  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/article\/9-reasons-not-take-back-your-ex-girlfriend\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHey Chase,\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI broke up with my girlfriend and will have to see her next semester in September.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAssuming she will be dating someone else, what is the proper mindset to deal with it?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EJust thinking about it upsets me.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3826\/92742\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-96635\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/96635#comment-96635\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Apex\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Apex\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Apex\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Apex\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/96635#comment-96635\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EThank You\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EApex (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Sunday, 4 January 2026  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 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Best advice in regards to dynamics with women I have seen, I also appreciate you linking studies and taking a rigorous approach in many of your articles.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3826\/96635\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/dev\u003E\u003C\/dev\u003E\u003Cdev class=\u0022comment-form ajax-comment-form\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv id=\u0022comments\u0022 class=\u0022comment-wrapper\u0022\u003E\n  \n  \n      \u003Ch4 class=\u0022title comment-form\u0022\u003ELeave a Comment\u003C\/h4\u003E\n    \u003Cform class=\u0022comment-form user-info-from-cookie\u0022 action=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3826\u0022 method=\u0022post\u0022 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