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id=\u0022comment-92535\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/92535#comment-92535\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Robert J\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Robert J\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Robert J\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Robert J\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/92535#comment-92535\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EGreat article Chase, I\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ERobert J (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Friday, 8 July 2022  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/article\/get-girls-you-have-really-them\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EGreat article Chase, I thought it was interesting what you said about the enthusiasm that guys who are successful with women can show infield.  Whereas a bitter guy might think he\u0027s being \u0022normal\u0022, it\u0027s actually hurting his game. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPersonally, I don\u0027t think I\u0027m bitter but I do go through bouts of frustration with myself when I look back at how much time I\u0027ve spent on cold approach for so little progress (hell, my results have actually gotten worse even though I feel like my understanding of my mistakes and of game has improved tremendously)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI worry that my resentment towards myself over not getting many results these past 5 years despite putting in a lot of work and despite getting so much high-quality advice and guidance might sour my enjoyment of success when I do eventually get to the level I want. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ECan\u0027t rewrite the past, unfortunately.  What kind of mindsets could you employ to get over that?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3809\/92535\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-92542\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/92542#comment-92542\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/92542#comment-92542\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EPlateauing\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 11 July 2022  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/article\/get-girls-you-have-really-them\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/92535#comment-92535\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003ERobert-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EDifferent reasons you could\u2019ve plateaued. Have you ever tried \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.skilledseducer.com\/forums\/field-reports.5\/\u0022\u003Eposting field reports on our forum\u003C\/a\u003E?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf you\u2019ve had little progress in five years after spending lots of time on it, there\u2019s definitely a missing piece somewhere. There\u2019s a pretty predictable process people go through \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/how-master-anything\u0022\u003Ewith skill mastery\u003C\/a\u003E so long as they\u2019re practicing correctly, and you will see the same pattern in cold approach generally too.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI can tell you one thing that helped me a lot with plateaus during my first 4-5 years was taking a complete break from studying and talking about seduction completely, and just focusing on making everything instinctive and non-analytical. Just going out to chat up girls\u2026 going to social circle events and meeting people (men and women)\u2026 seeing girls I was already seeing.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAfter 3-4 weeks you\u2019re totally out of \u201canalytical\u201d head space and most of the seduction stuff you\u2019d studied has faded from conscious awareness. If analysis paralysis was the problem (it often is), you will then start to see your results tick up as you behave more naturally and instinctively.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe funny thing that happens is you start having breakthroughs, thinking you achieved them totally on your own, and came up with all this original stuff\u2026 then when you finally go back onto forums or studying material again to share your findings or see what\u2019s new, you stumble across stuff you previously read\/saw that you realize is actually where you actually got that \u201coriginal breakthrough\u201d idea from.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut yeah, the big mindset shift there needs to be \u201cSomething is gummed up in my learning process. What\u2019s the problem here specifically that is preventing me from either making progress or figuring out why I\u2019m not making progress?\u201d\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOnce you start thinking that way, you are on the road toward getting unstuck.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EA few articles worth checking out:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cul\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/what-do-get-past-sticking-point\u0022\u003EWhat to Do to Get Past a Sticking Point\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/what-do-when-your-approach-just-isnt-working\u0022\u003EWhat to Do When Your Approach Just Isn\u0027t Working\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3809\/92542\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-92550\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/92550#comment-92550\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Robert J\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Robert J\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Robert J\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Robert J\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/92550#comment-92550\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EThanks Chase!\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ERobert J (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Wednesday, 13 July 2022  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/article\/get-girls-you-have-really-them\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/92542#comment-92542\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EThanks Chase!\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nYeah I\u0027m religious about analyzing my outings and I regularly post field reports on the boards. really grateful for all the advice I\u0027ve received on them.  I think you might be on to something with the analysis paralysis though since I do spend a lot of time analyzing. So I\u0027ll do what you suggested, and cut out the studying and talking about seduction and focus on making it as instinctive as possible. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhile I had read those articles it\u0027s been a couple of years, especially that last one, which I had forgotten about until you mentioned it. Reviewing it again, I realize that yeah I\u0027m probably guilty of more than a couple of these.  So I\u0027m going to pore over it and see if there\u0027s any quick fixes I can make first before my \u0022study fast\u0022.  But I\u0027ll use it to guide the rest of my troubleshooting in the future.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3809\/92550\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-92536\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/92536#comment-92536\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022In The Negativity Camp\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022In The Negativity Camp\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022In The Negativity Camp\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022In The Negativity Camp\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/92536#comment-92536\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EVisual Examples On The Differences?\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EIn The Negativi... (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Friday, 8 July 2022  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/article\/get-girls-you-have-really-them\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHey Chase, pretty solid article that outlines something that (I hope anyways) has been the biggest thorn in my side for daygame failures. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut I\u0027m curious, do you have any visual examples of the differences? Or even how to spot it in others so that you can look for those same behaviors in yourself?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3809\/92536\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-92543\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/92543#comment-92543\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv 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href=\u0022\/comment\/92543#comment-92543\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EExamples of Good Approach Energy\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 11 July 2022  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/article\/get-girls-you-have-really-them\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/92536#comment-92536\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003ENeg-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWriting this article (and trying to explain something that basically amounts to \u201cvibe and energy\u201d) makes me realize this would probably much easier to demonstrate in a video\u2026 so I\u2019ll likely do one on the topic.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMeantime, the best I can recommend for now is take a look at the energy these charismatic stars are interacting with women with:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cul\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/article\/charisma-breakdown-russell-brand\u0022\u003ERussell Brand\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/article\/charisma-breakdown-errol-flynn\u0022\u003EErrol Flynn\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/article\/charisma-breakdown-sean-connery\u0022\u003ESean Connery\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe closer you can get to what they are doing when you approach women, the easier a time you will have it, both hooking and moving things forward.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3809\/92543\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-92537\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv 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property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/92537#comment-92537\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ECalm mind\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAnonymous  (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Friday, 8 July 2022  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/article\/get-girls-you-have-really-them\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHey Chase, \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EGreat article, there\u2019s many things I\u2019ve written that I look back on now and just say wow at how angry I sounded. Having a calm mind is important.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E1. I\u2019d say I currently have negative thoughts about success because of my race. I\u2019ve read the race article a few times, but with how the media puts down my race of men and I even read on the forums some women don\u2019t like being approached by men of my race. So it all just makes me feel, what can I offer them when I have all these stereotypes against me, plus the media, etc. it just puts me in a bad head space and I think why would they want someone of my race? Any tips on how to feel women want you despite this?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E2. What would you say the minimum is to being financially successful and how would you approach dating without women seeing your place? I also wanted to let you know that you\u2019ve helped me and still do in great ways, and I really appreciate it. I haven\u2019t just been goofing off, I finished up my degree and focused on getting my skillset better in writing, even asked professors and they say I write very well. Thing is I haven\u2019t made a career out of it yet and need to find out how to do it, will probably try more skill building too. I\u2019m looking at specific fields as well. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI tried the stem thing and it didn\u2019t work out, which caused me so long to finish. I also had a great network of guys who had connections with jobs, I got interviews, but no one wanted to hire me, so that\u2019s pretty much why making decent income is so difficult for me. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETo be honest I\u2019ve avoided dating because of finances. I don\u2019t have my own place because of that. I\u2019m doing better financially now than before, but my current job does not pay enough and I have a lot of debt I\u2019m paying off. I will say it is a job a hustled to get and really like, no type of retail work. So I avoided dating for some time because of this, but I\u2019m tired of it and starting to lose my mind not dating. I\u2019d rather get my own place instead of any roommates as well.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u2019m wondering is it possible to still date without women seeing my place at all? I\u2019d rather there place or a hotel, but I always worry that they\u2019ll ask to see my place sooner or later and I don\u2019t want this, I\u2019m not getting any younger and getting impatient. I\u2019d like to grind and get my own spot, but I have no idea how long that\u2019ll take and I really can\u2019t wait to date anymore. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIs it possible to make this work or should I just focus on getting my own place\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E3. Do you think you could run one sided monogamy with a woman you wanted to settle down with? I\u2019m just wondering how that would go? Do you have become monogamous when you want a family? \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E4. I\u2019m curious, do you feel men who are married should continue to flirt and practice with women even in real old age? Is it worth to always practice to keep your skills sharp? Some of my biggest fears of getting older and getting married are not being able to attract attractive women. I talk about these things so much because I want to be able to do that forever.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E5. One thing I thought about, with dating getting harder. Who are women ending up with? If most men aren\u2019t getting women, who is getting them? Is it the pick up guys, the rich guys, the social media guys, social circle guys, etc.? The more I hear about dating getting hard I think of what the online LMS guys are saying, but I know you said to not worry about them.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E6. Do you think doing day game will make my dating life that much better? That\u2019s the only thing I haven\u2019t really done. I\u2019d like to think not much because there\u2019s a lot more volume with nightlife and apps, and if I can\u2019t do that things won\u2019t be as easy. Day game is still very hard for me to do though, I don\u2019t know why, but I am fine with approaching nighttime. I was just thinking to myself will doing day game get me some luck I need to do better all around, or do I just need to find a better way to succeed with nightlife and apps? \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThanks for everything Chase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3809\/92537\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-92544\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/92544#comment-92544\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/92544#comment-92544\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ERe: Questions\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 11 July 2022  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/article\/get-girls-you-have-really-them\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/92537#comment-92537\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003ESZ-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ERe: #1, yes \u2014 \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/article\/mindsets\/are-you-free-or-do-glowing-screens-direct-you\u0022\u003Eturn off the media\u003C\/a\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThere is literally no solution other than this.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYour world consists of whatever information you take in. If the information you\u2019re taking in is \u201cPeople like you are unwanted,\u201d then you are going to feel angry and marginalized because \u201cPeople like you are unwanted\u201d, even if \u003Ci\u003Ein real life\u003C\/i\u003E most of the people you meet do not make you feel unwanted.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf you don\u2019t want to feel that way, turn off anything that is telling you to feel that way.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ERe: #2, congrats on the degree, writing improvement, and the job you really like!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u201cFinancial success\u201d is completely relative, to you, to the woman, and in particular to where you live. But the basic benchmark is \u201cdoing better on average than your neighbors are.\u201d Humans measure their success via social comparison with others\u2026 you\u2019re going to feel like a much bigger success making $50K\/year living in the poor part of town than you will if you move into the rich part of town, purely because your basis of comparison changes.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo \u2014 if you want to feel like a big balla, surround yourself with people who earn less than you. If you want to put the heat on yourself to strive harder, at the risk of feeling like a loser if you struggle to do better, surround yourself with people who earn more.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E** I\u2019m wondering is it possible to still date without women seeing my place at all?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EGo back to their places, pull to hotels, etc. Yes.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHere\u2019s the thing with any of this stuff: if you set yourself on figuring it out, and keep trying it and testing different angles, you will figure it out.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EStart going out with girls and try to \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/how-go-her-place-smoothly-even-if-you-just-met\u0022\u003Ego back to their places\u003C\/a\u003E. Even if you fail the first 5-10 times, if you are paying attention, and learning from your mistakes, you will get it down to the point where you are consistently going back to girls\u2019 places, screening for girls with good logistics whose places you can go to, etc.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMake sure to review Alek\u2019s piece \u201c\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/how-hook-when-you-have-no-logistics\u0022\u003EHow to Hook Up When You Have No Logistics\u003C\/a\u003E.\u201d\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ERe: #3, in theory, yes. In practice, there are a whole lot of considerations, which I won\u2019t go into.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ERe: #4, yeah, sure. My father\u2019s a flirt. Not a huge flirt, but you\u2019ll catch him flirting with women sometimes. He\u2019s almost 70. My mother will act quasi-annoyed about it but you can tell she likes having a man who is still attractive to women.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ERe: #5, anecdotally, there are more men now dating multiple women than there were in the past, especially when those women are younger and unmarried. There are also more women who are celibate now, though not quite as many as men. More women getting vacuumed up by fewer men + more women dropping out of the dating market is the answer. That said, the majority of women are still dating normally (one girl + one guy), so while the trends are putting pressure on the edges, get yourself in a halfway decent position attractiveness- and outgoingness-wise and you won\u2019t need to worry about that.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ERe: #6, yes, if you get good at it. If you don\u2019t, then perhaps not. Day game is the hardest form of pickup for most men to do because it feels so socially incorrect. If you can learn it though, you gain the power to truly meet women anywhere, which is a very useful skillset to have.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3809\/92544\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-92539\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/92539#comment-92539\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Seeder of Senegal\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Seeder of Senegal\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Seeder of Senegal\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Seeder of Senegal\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/92539#comment-92539\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EHey man, the article was\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ESeeder of Senegal (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Saturday, 9 July 2022  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/article\/get-girls-you-have-really-them\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHey man, the article was average at best. At some point women have to give you some bread crumbs to follow. Let you know you are on the right path. Enjoyed the analogy with hunting. You must know your quarry, and respect your quarry. Im a rabbit handler by trade. When I have positive enery, the rabbits sense it and react accordingly. If my vibe is negative or otherwise corrupt, the rabbits think they are better than me, dont cooperate, and don\u0027t give me the time of day.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3809\/92539\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-92545\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/92545#comment-92545\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/92545#comment-92545\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EHunting Rabbits\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 11 July 2022  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/article\/get-girls-you-have-really-them\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/92539#comment-92539\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003ESeeder-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESeems you missed the point of the article.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt wasn\u2019t about some mystical \u201cenergy flow.\u201d It is about your behavior that is determined by that inner aspect.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHere\u2019s a rabbit hunting analogy:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ELet\u2019s say you take a new guy out hunting rabbits. He tells you he\u2019s tried hunting rabbits before but can never get anywhere with it and he just thinks he isn\u2019t cut out for rabbit hunting. You explain that it\u2019s actually fairly straightforward.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo you start telling this guy how to recognize rabbit droppings and rabbit tracks, but he tells you the rabbit poo just looks like deer poo to him and the rabbit tracks look like they could be made by anything. You go into detail explaining the differences to him, but he\u2019s just shaking his head telling you no man, this is too complicated, I\u2019m not cut out for this.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EEventually you spot a rabbit, point it out to him, and tell him to shoot. He complains he can never hit anything, but he listens, aims, fires, and misses. You notice his aim is sloppy and tell him he\u2019ll never hit anything like that. Frustrated, he tells you he\u2019s doing the best he can, and he doesn\u2019t understand why it has to be this hard.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnother rabbit appears (or maybe it\u2019s the same one), and you tell him to fire again. \u201cIt\u2019s not going to work, man,\u201d he says, but he points the rifle and again he misses. You tell him he\u2019s still aiming sloppy but he pushes back and says look, this is just too hard. He\u2019s not even sure you can really shoot a rabbit with a gun. Isn\u2019t that what they use traps for?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EA third rabbit appears and you tell him to shoot. He declines, saying he\u2019s already had enough failure for today, and turns around to head back to the truck.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EImagine if instead of that attitude, the same guy showed up with an open mind, eager to learn hunting rabbits, rolled with his failures and kept trying, with a keen interest in spotting exactly what he was doing wrong so he could correct it \u2014 not complaining he can\u2019t do it, that it\u2019s too hard, that rabbits are just too hard to hit, but razor-focused on figuring out what he\u2019s doing wrong and fixing it because he wants to get this down.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThat\u2019s what we\u2019re talking about here. It\u2019s not woo-woo \u2014 it is the behavioral manifestation of optimism + interest vs. fatalism + defeatism.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3809\/92545\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-92540\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/92540#comment-92540\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Stanley\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Stanley\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Stanley\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Stanley\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/92540#comment-92540\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EAnti Male Propaganda\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EStanley (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Sunday, 10 July 2022  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/article\/get-girls-you-have-really-them\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EAs usual great article Chase! You have a knack for putting in great words what I\u0027m feeling but have a hard time describing.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EA question - how do you mentally box off all the anti masculine \/ shaming \/ feminist propaganda that\u0027s prevalent throughout the West? I already stopped reading the news but some of it you can\u0027t escape. It always makes me angry at women in general when I see it, although I know it\u0027s being pushed by a minority and the masses are just following along with it.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EDo you have any recommendations on how to \u0022mentally process\u0022 this better without getting angry? Do you just frame it as silly and cute?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3809\/92540\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-92546\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/92546#comment-92546\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/92546#comment-92546\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EBecoming a Cultural Anthropologist\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 11 July 2022  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/article\/get-girls-you-have-really-them\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/92540#comment-92540\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EStanley-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ECheers!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ERe: the anti-man stuff\u2026 step 1 is \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/mind-control-how-media-influence-your-thoughts-and-feelings\u0022\u003Etightly controlling your media diet\u003C\/a\u003E.\u00a0You\u2019ve done that with news, which is great \u2014 that\u2019s one of the big ones. Social media is another one.\u00a0Like news it thrives on outrage and sensationalism.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYou have to be really, really careful with any kind of \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/article\/mindsets\/are-you-free-or-do-glowing-screens-direct-you\u0022\u003Eglowing screen stuff\u003C\/a\u003E; the best thing to do is go through all the media you\u2019re consuming of any sort (movies, shows, songs, written word) and look at how it\u2019s affecting you. If it\u2019s negative, cut it out.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut all that does is reduce a culture\u2019s hold on you; you can\u2019t exist in a cultural void, however.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMy solution to that is to replace it with healthy cultural thinking from prior times. \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/article\/men-style\/recommended-reading-2018-lubbocks-list-and-more\u0022\u003ELubbock\u2019s List\u003C\/a\u003E is great for this. Just as examples, some of the stuff I\u2019ve read recently has included:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cul\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EXenophon\u2019s March (the Anabasis), which is just about one of the manliest things ever\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EBeowulf, again, super manly stuff\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EI reread some H.P. Lovecraft\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003ERight now I\u2019m 2\/3 of the way through Moby Dick\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI never really thought about it before, but most of the books I read (fiction and non-fiction) have few or no female characters in them. One exception was \u003Ci\u003EExemplary Women of Ancient China\u003C\/i\u003E, which I read about a year ago and is all about women. But again, quite a different culture.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOf those recent things I\u2019ve read, Lovecraft is the most recent in time, and he\u2019s still almost a century old. When you\u2019re reading all this stuff, you are absorbing the authors\u2019 thoughts into your mind, and effectively changing your cultural roots.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe way I\u2019ve personally come to view modern Western culture is as something of an alien culture, like when I\u2019m in an Asian country or a Latin American one or a European one. Like \u201cHere is a different culture, where I share some similarities with the denizens of this culture, but there are parts of the culture I don\u2019t understand, and am not a part of, but I should just respect that that is their culture.\u201d\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI can\u2019t claim too much originality here\u2026 many authors over the years have claimed alienation from their culture. H.P. Lovecraft, who I was recently rereading, has multiple stories about this. \u201c\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.hplovecraft.com\/writings\/texts\/fiction\/sk.aspx\u0022\u003EThe Silver Key\u003C\/a\u003E\u201d is probably the best. \u201c\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.hplovecraft.com\/writings\/texts\/fiction\/he.aspx\u0022\u003EHe\u003C\/a\u003E\u201d is another. \u201c\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.hplovecraft.com\/writings\/texts\/fiction\/qi.aspx\u0022\u003EThe Quest of Iranon\u003C\/a\u003E\u201d is the most poetic. All these to some form or another are about retreating from vulgar society into a mystical, past, or self-made society.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYou can only do this if you don\u2019t feel called to be a culture warrior. If you do, then I suppose you must stay and fight to defend your idea of what your society should be. If not though, there\u2019s no reason to remain plugged into it, worked up over what direction it is heading or what its adherents believe.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EUsually when Westerners who are really plugged into their culture start going on about the beauty of homosexual romance or the empowerment of women or racial this or that, I just kind of nod along these days, listening, the way I will if a Thai man starts talking about having a wife but visiting prostitutes, or an Eastern European woman starts talking to me about how important it is for a man to be manly and listing off a bunch of important masculine traits. It\u2019s not my place to judge whether they are \u201ccorrect\u201d or not; it is just their culture.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe only time there\u2019s any confusion is if one of these people tries to involve me in it. Which to be fair happens in non-Western society too. Sometimes the Thai guy will try to tell you he knows you love prostitutes too (not my cup of tea), the EE girl will start telling you you need to do all those manly things if you want women (not in my experience), or the Westerner will tell you you need to do this or that to be more accommodating to homosexuals or women or such-and-such race. What I will just do in that situation though is simply say \u201cthanks for the tips\u201d and usually the other person is happy. \u201cThanks for the tips, I\u2019ll think about that\u201d, \u201cThanks for the advice, you make some interesting points\u201d, etc. Just like if a tribesman in the Amazon told you you needed to start poisoning your spear with the skin of a certain tree frog. You don\u2019t need to argue with him and tell him you don\u2019t use spears; you just tell him you appreciate the advice.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAll the while, I simply view myself as a cultural anthropologist, navigating among a strange, alien, but nevertheless intriguing group of humans. Each culture is weird, wild, and unique, and you kind of have to admire how unusual human cultures can be!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3809\/92546\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-92541\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/92541#comment-92541\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Stephan\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Stephan\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Stephan\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Stephan\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/92541#comment-92541\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EHandling Public shaming based on preferences\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EStephan (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Sunday, 10 July 2022  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/article\/get-girls-you-have-really-them\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EI have run into situations where people have tried to shame me for my preferences on women, movies, etc (basically anything subjective and differs from their opinion). \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThey basically act as if whoever doesn\u0027t share their opinion\/preferences isn\u0027t good enough for it and is \u0022settling\u0022 and any attempt to call them out gets categorized as \u0022defensive\u0022, \u0022 rationalizing \u0022 and how deep down I know how I am not good enough to have their preferences.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n(I have seen this more from men who are into redpill or learning pickup\/social skills rather than average joes who are not into these stuff shockingly) \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EFor example I had a recent argument with a guy like this who used these tactics when talking about how I prefer Brunettes rather than blondes\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n(he started talking about how blondes are better than brunettes and I am settling). \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESame thing goes for guys who try to attack people who don\u0027t say they prefer eastern European women more than Asian women.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3809\/92541\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-92547\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/92547#comment-92547\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/92547#comment-92547\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EWinning Debates\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 11 July 2022  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/article\/get-girls-you-have-really-them\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/92541#comment-92541\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EStephan-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EGenerally speaking, let the \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/law-least-effort\u0022\u003ELaw of Least Effort\u003C\/a\u003E be your guide.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAny time a guy tries to tool you, the success of his attempt is reliant on your approach.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf you effortlessly wave his attempt off, he looks weaker and you look stronger.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHere\u2019s how I\u2019d handle the brunettes thing, for instance:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp class=\u0022rteindent1\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan style=\u0022color:#1abc9c;\u0022\u003E\u003Cb\u003EHim:\u003C\/b\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E You know the only reason you like brunettes and not blondes is you\u2019re settling.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp class=\u0022rteindent1\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan style=\u0022color:#2980b9;\u0022\u003E\u003Cb\u003EYou:\u003C\/b\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E Yeah, it\u2019s too bad for me. Hey, if you see any hot brunettes, kick \u2018em my way!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThat\u2019s assuming you don\u2019t feel some need to \u201cwin\u201d an argument like this. You can always debate back if you want\u2026 but honestly it is pretty pointless debating subjective opinions (though you might have to if he publicly calls you out).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf it\u2019s a public thing and you need to hit back to preserve your reputation, that\u2019s basically going to come down to your rhetorical ability. I could write down example responses (e.g. \u201cDude, you realize the blondes you\u2019re going for are bottle blondes, right? i.e., they are also actually brunettes. They just spend $300 on a bleach job every three weeks so their roots don\u2019t show. You\u2019re basically telling me we like the same women, you just like yours poorer\u201d), but at this point we\u2019re really talking about debate skills plus comebacks.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThis article might be a helpful start, though:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/tactics-tuesdays-how-make-zinger-comeback\u0022\u003ETactics Tuesdays: How to Make a Zinger of a Comeback\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3809\/92547\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-92548\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/92548#comment-92548\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Stephan\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Stephan\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Stephan\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Stephan\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/92548#comment-92548\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EThanks and a minor question\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EStephan (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 11 July 2022  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/article\/get-girls-you-have-really-them\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/92547#comment-92547\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EThanks for the strategies on how to handle the tricky scenario I mentioned.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI have seen guys use the whole\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n\u0022You are being disingenuous, you lack self awareness hence you are saying that\u0022\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nwhen they try to defend their positions. How would you deal with that. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAlso what do you think about writing article about winning arguments especially with people who are very argumentative and won\u0027t quit even after you say you are not interested in the conversation anymore.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n(They even start cursing you as \u0022backing off\u0022, \u0022 Cowardly \u0022 when you are not trying to argue anymore) \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI have seen they mostly seem to be from people who are redpill or are recently learning about frames in conversation and it is all a game of power to them.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3809\/92548\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-92549\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/92549#comment-92549\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Mickey\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Mickey\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Mickey\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Mickey\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/92549#comment-92549\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EI can\u0026#039;t agree\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EMickey (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 12 July 2022  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/article\/get-girls-you-have-really-them\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EAfter a lifetime of hearing nothing but women screaming from the rooftops about how despicable men are, I just can\u0027t share your optimism on this.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nFor decades, it\u0027s been nothing but: Men are dogs! Men are rapists! Men are oppressors! Men are sexual harassers! Throw in man-hating feminism and #metoo, now guys are automatically branded with a presumption of guilt. It\u0027s painfully obvious that men are pointedly unwelcome in the female universe.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nThink of it like this: if you\u0027re walking down the street and every house you see has signs reading STRANGERS NOT WELCOME, KEEP OUT, NO TRESPASSING, TRESPASSERS WILL BE SHOT, SURVIVORS WILL BE SHOT TWICCE, and the like, how welcome would you feel in that neighborhood? This is what trying to deal with the allegedly \u0022fair sex\u0022 has become. They are far from \u0022silly and cute.\u0022 They are openly vitriolic and mercenary at this point in time. 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