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id=\u0022comment-89041\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/89041#comment-89041\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/user\/26600\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Risenin2019\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Risenin2019\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Risenin2019\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Risenin2019\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/89041#comment-89041\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EResonated a lot with me, love it when we talk about this stuff.\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/user\/26600\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/user\/26600\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ERisenin2019\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 28 October 2019  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/whats-endgame-playboy\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EGrew up repressed up until about my early 20s, even had to go to a local school due to overbearing parenting. I have to say this is eye opening because I grew up in one of the most fake, morally self-righteous, two-faced, and goody two-shoe part of the US, the good ol deep south.\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EConfused me too, it seems like the way American society works is:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHigh school -\u0026gt; Have sex and explore the other sex more\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ECollege -\u0026gt; Go wild and have tons of sex\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ERight out of college -\u0026gt; Okay settle down, you\u0027re nearing your end now\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E25 or so -\u0026gt; Have kids and a marriage\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt made no sense to me either, you\u0027re finally rich when it comes to finances and have more freedom now if you did it right. They say men peak in their 30s or so, well why are Dan Bilzerians so rare? Why is hedonism and sleeping around with lots of women only acceptable in college and high school, why not in the \u0022real world\u0022? More men, especially those who are now finally hitting their prime and didn\u0027t have the golden spoon in their mouth like some rich frat guy did, should want to sow their wild oats but why is this idea so unheard of?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI then realized that the \u0022social pressure\u0022 you talk about is society having to pander to the losers and the norm. The ugly chick who has no man or is very limited in her options or the average guy who doesn\u0027t have what it takes to make it in the game, society has to at some degree pander to him. Marriage was invented to keep the losers who would otherwise not even be reproducing calm so disaster does not strike (large scale Eliot Rodgers).\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhat really gets me in the player path is the lack of camraderie with fellow men who also pursue that path that you do not get with age.\u00a0 A guy who peaks in college can get it with his bros but a guy who peaks in his 30s is heading into it as a lone ranger, only at the envy of most men who made nothing of their lives and want him to fail. I have missed out on too much to consider monogamy and that chip on my shoulder will always be there. Good shit though Chase!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3129\/89041\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-89450\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/89450#comment-89450\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/89450#comment-89450\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EWhy Must Party Friends All Drop Off? Is It Social Pressure?\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Wednesday, 26 February 2020  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/whats-endgame-playboy\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/89041#comment-89041\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003ERisen (or, should I say Oh Pry, I presume?)-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI think you missed big chunks of the post.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPeople don\u0027t pair-bond and enter into romantic unions due to social pressure. This is highly normal, near-ubiquitous human behavior.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EDan Blizerian is getting married now... and it is not because women on Instagram shamed him for his lifestyle. Nor is that the reason most people marry (celebrities and non-celebrities alike).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYour own background of rebelling against a strict upbringing likely clouds that from you. Most people aren\u0027t you -- they aren\u0027t dealing with a huge amount of social pressure. When they enter into a long-term pair-bond, it is because they desire it.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ELamenting the lack of camaraderie among players also misses this point. People grow. Things they do to go from one stage of life to another they don\u0027t continue with in the later stages. There is a lot of broken continuity in most people\u0027s lives.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYou can have camaraderie among a military unit. But once the unit is no longer serving together, the soldiers from that unit grow apart. They\u0027ll still be friends, brothers... but they see each other once a year and barely keep in touch.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHaving a group of party friends is like this. You and your boys all go out because you\u0027re single and want to (ultimately) get laid. Or at least \u003Cem\u003Ethey\u003C\/em\u003E do (for you, I know, it is something different).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOne by one your buddies are going to find girls they like more than the others, and decide they want to keep those girls. And once they have them, the motivation to go out isn\u0027t there anymore.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYou have a strong need for social acceptance, which drives you out to nightlife and partying. People who have already passed that stage (which is most people by 30) do not have that same driver. They also don\u0027t have the sex (men) or attention (women) drivers they once had. So partying loses its appeal.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThat said, there are exceptions. But any normal friend group, the friends are going to drop off one-by-one as they age. They pair up, and stop wanting to go out.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYou\u0027re still their friend. Maybe their brother. But going out to party is just too costly an activity. They might do it once in a blue moon for the sake of showing their brother some love, but sacrificing their nights, spending a bunch of money, getting trashed and feeling awful the next day, waking up late for work or whatever else they have going on, and putting strain on their relationship by going out with their bachelor party friend to somewhere that explicitly exists for people to meet singles and hook up is a very costly activity for them. No matter how much they love you, they just cannot do it all that much. They get nothing out of it, aside from seeing you, their friend, and sacrifice much.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHere\u0027s an idea: if the camaraderie is what\u0027s truly important to you, why not make a shift?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMen in relationships maintain friendships too. They just engage in activities less costly to their lives or relationships.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EFor instance, I\u0027ll bet if you put together a barbecue on a Sunday afternoon and invited all your old going-out buddies and their girlfriends\/wives, they\u0027d love it... it could even be a regular thing.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EUltimately, it is a little ironic to me that you want them to, in effect, sacrifice their own personal happiness, relationships, and productivity to come out with you, lamenting their lack of camaraderie with you... which ultimately, if they heard you say that, would amount to you socially pressuring them to do something they don\u0027t want.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI think the truth is you don\u0027t really care about camaraderie at all... if I understand it right.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYou\u0027d have no interest in, say, that weekly Sunday barbecue with your old pals and their women.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhat you want is an \u003Cem\u003Eimage\u003C\/em\u003E... this image of \u003Cem\u003Ethe cool guy\u003C\/em\u003E living the \u003Cem\u003EInstagram lifestyle\u003C\/em\u003E... something other people are going to look at and feel \u003Cem\u003Ejealous\u003C\/em\u003E... where they are going to look at you and say \u0022\u003Cem\u003EWhoa, what a \u003Cu\u003Ecool guy\u003C\/u\u003E that is\u003C\/em\u003E.\u0022\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd the thing to realize there is that that is a strong motivator for you to go to party places, but the people you are meeting mostly do not have that motivator.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIn fact, the people you most want to hang around will all think that motivation for partying is lame.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI know it\u0027s something you\u0027re trying to work through.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut I\u0027d perhaps meditate on that a bit.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3129\/89450\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-89044\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/89044#comment-89044\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Benjamin\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Benjamin\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Benjamin\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Benjamin\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/89044#comment-89044\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EOne sided monagamy and social dynamics \u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EBenjamin (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 28 October 2019  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/whats-endgame-playboy\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EI was intrigued to know that you did one sided monogamy relationships. I learned hector did them and I figured you probably did them too since you are\u00a0a man of great influence and made yourself desireable to women. How many lays and relationship experience would a man need to have to realisticly be able to pull off a one sided relationship with a moderately attractive woman? Also were you financially stable when you had those kinds of relationships? Or can you still pull off the broke lover? Social dynamics discussed on this site is very forbidden to talk about in society,but how do you resist the urge to do this when everybody around you talks gibberish\u00a0and to whom could\u00a0you discuss this with who aren\u0027t initiated? Any man who aspires to improve themselves with women through seduction\u00a0is completely alone and has no one to support him. It just sucks. Obviously you were able to pull it off,but it\u0027s still very easy to be discouraged. My friends are not people I could convert to believe in this type of stuff\u00a0and it sucks because they are good guys.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3129\/89044\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-89048\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/89048#comment-89048\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Curious as well\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Curious as well\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Curious as well\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Curious as well\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/89048#comment-89048\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EI wanted to ask this same\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ECurious as well (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 29 October 2019  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/whats-endgame-playboy\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/89044#comment-89044\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EI wanted to ask this same question and wanted the email notification lol\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3129\/89048\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-89051\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/89051#comment-89051\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Naye\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Naye\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Naye\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Naye\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/89051#comment-89051\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003E\u0026quot;How many lays and\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ENaye (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 29 October 2019  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/whats-endgame-playboy\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/89044#comment-89044\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003E\u0022How many lays and relationship experience?\u0022\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EDude I pulled this off with just 3 lays and 0 relationship experience. Asking that question just shows you imposing limitations on yourself ;)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u0022Were you financially stable?\u0022\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWas broke and living with my parents.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENumbers are not enough to tell you if you are ready or not. Personally I wasn\u0027t sure if I could pull it off or not but I went for it anyway.That relationship lasted just under 3 years. Push yourself\u00a0outside of your comfort zone and you\u0027ll be surprised at what you can pull off.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3129\/89051\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-89451\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/89451#comment-89451\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/89451#comment-89451\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ERe: One sided monagamy and social dynamics \u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Wednesday, 26 February 2020  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/whats-endgame-playboy\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/89044#comment-89044\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EBenjamin-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhat Nayes said.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMy first one-sided monogamous relationship was when I was a total newbie beginner, with a very beautiful girl I was in love with. At the time I was basically just repeating lines from a coach of mine and figured there was no way she would tolerate it, and no way it was going to work. Except it did.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI had a decent job then but negative net worth. With later one-sided relationships I was jobless and broke.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI will say you learn more about women from succeeding with things you think will never work than from just about anything else you could do.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhen \u0027impossible\u0027 stuff works, you end up in a situation where your mind is just continually blown... until you come out of it with a completely different perspective on the thing than what you had going in.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThat said, my first one I was still very young, and very irresponsible, and I did a lot of damage. She was okay in the end, but I really put her through a wringer, and felt quite bad for it. It was the biggest relief in the world for me to see her marry a very high quality guy after me... made me feel that okay, I didn\u0027t totally wreck her, she bounced back in a great way.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf you run this kind of relationship, you really have to be super careful about the frames you are setting, not just verbally, but also implicitly. Very easy to do a lot of damage if you\u0027re too cavalier about things.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3129\/89451\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-89045\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/89045#comment-89045\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022SZ\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022SZ\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022SZ\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022SZ\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/89045#comment-89045\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EReally good article, the\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ESZ (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 28 October 2019  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/whats-endgame-playboy\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EReally good article, the thing I believe, everything gets old, commitment and being single, both get boring after a while, but being committed is easier because you don\u0027t have to keep going out.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E1. what do you think of the case if you go longer than the 2 year drop? a girl I was seeing still contacts me to this day and I\u0027ve known her about 5 years and we fucked for 3. there was a drop during the second year, but that was because of me, I tried to distance myself from her while she still chased me and still does to this day. so I stopped talking to her after the 3rd year, but she still wanted to be with me even after I didn\u0027t talk to her for some time. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003Emaybe the situation was different? we weren\u0027t really too public, never met her fam, and we only saw each other for a few days a week.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003Eso why do you think that lasted so long? do you think if she\u0027s chasing commitment that it goes past the 2 year drop, instead of actually giving her the relationship and not stepping up the relationship with kids or marriage like a normal 2 year drop? does her wanting the basic commitment make it last longer?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E2. what do you feel about guys who are repressed and have to learn game way later? what if they did what society said and settled down kind of young, but later on are really sad they didn\u0027t sleep with more women, not they are older and maybe still married or divorced, but they never had the success and now are very bitter because of it. do they just end up being single and learn how to get women? wouldn\u0027t it be that much harder because of age? what if he wants to make up for lost time?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E3. you said that men who have slept around with a good amount of women never really settle down, so do these guys still cheat on their wives? do these guys really sleep around at 60+ years old? \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E4. to me in this day and age every girl is different, do you really think it\u0027s wise to really settle down? I\u0027m not saying this like a young boy says he doesn\u0027t want to settle down, but I\u0027m talking from the view of dealing with the drama that comes with it and if you decide to split? what if modern women have made you too bitter?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3129\/89045\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-89453\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/89453#comment-89453\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/89453#comment-89453\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ESZ-\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Wednesday, 26 February 2020  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/whats-endgame-playboy\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/89045#comment-89045\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003ESZ-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\u003Cp\u003E1. what do you think of the case if you go longer than the 2 year drop? a girl I was seeing still contacts me to this day and I\u0027ve known her about 5 years and we fucked for 3. there was a drop during the second year, but that was because of me, I tried to distance myself from her while she still chased me and still does to this day. so I stopped talking to her after the 3rd year, but she still wanted to be with me even after I didn\u0027t talk to her for some time.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYeah, so it\u0027s three years, and she\u0027s still checking in on you two years later.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThat is not uncommon. It\u0027s not the rule that every relationship automatically becomes \u0022marriage or babies, or else GTFO\u0022 at \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/2-year-drop\u0022\u003Ethe 2-year mark\u003C\/a\u003E. Just that with most women this is when you see the shift.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESome women stick it out longer. Some are more laid back, or tell themselves \u0022He\u0027s almost there\u0022 and hang on a little more. Or you may have done things that allayed a girl\u0027s concerns for a while and caused her to postpone checking out.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChecking back in on you post-breakup is pretty normal. A lot of women will do this -- typically when they don\u0027t have another very promising man in their lives. And you will also have exes pop back onto your radar again when a relationship they had flames out, sometimes. \u0022I can\u0027t believe Damon left me... I wonder what SZ is up to?\u0022\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThis is all pretty normal stuff.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\u003Cp\u003E2. what do you feel about guys who are repressed and have to learn game way later? what if they did what society said and settled down kind of young, but later on are really sad they didn\u0027t sleep with more women, not they are older and maybe still married or divorced, but they never had the success and now are very bitter because of it. do they just end up being single and learn how to get women? wouldn\u0027t it be that much harder because of age? what if he wants to make up for lost time?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWell, I don\u0027t know. How late is he starting?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/articles\/j.j.-jones\u0022\u003EJ.J. Jones\u003C\/a\u003E was a natural who knocked a girl up and married her too young, cutting his player career far short (much shorter than he wanted). He came out of it emotionally beaten down and broken, in his late 30s, shorter and balding, and feeling like he\u0027d forgotten everything he used to know with women. After about six months he started doing some reading, found this site, started going out, and \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.skilledseducer.com\/forums\/field-reports.5\/?starter_id=927\u0022\u003Eposted a slew of lays\u003C\/a\u003E. I think he had one year where he did 30 or 40 lay reports. Finally ended up nailing down a gal he really liked and settled back out of the game again, this time happily and when he was fully ready to.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI had coaching clients back when I was coaching who were newly divorced, early 40s to early 50s, wanting to live the playboy lifestyle they never had because they married young. And some of them do it.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe only differentiators between the men who do it and the men who don\u0027t are:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Col\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EIs the guy realistic about the learning process?\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EIs the guy REALLY motivated to do this?\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ol\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf he\u0027s not realistic about the learning process (e.g., he isn\u0027t all in, 100%, on just total self-improvement, on being the most attractive version of himself he can be) or he\u0027s not \u003Cem\u003Ereally\u003C\/em\u003E motivated (he\u0027s going to make up excuses to dodge doing the work he needs to succeed) -- and those two things tend to go hand-in-hand -- then he isn\u0027t going to get there.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut, one might argue, he never really wanted to get there in the first place.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\u003Cp\u003E3. you said that men who have slept around with a good amount of women never really settle down, so do these guys still cheat on their wives? do these guys really sleep around at 60+ years old?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOh yeah.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI knew a couple guys who at 57 and 59 respectively were both still total charismatic flirtatious playboys, each with a wife and a nice house and three kids, who were still taking new women occasionally.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHaven\u0027t talked to them in some years, but the last time I saw one of them he was in his middle 60s (probably 63 or 64) and I mentioned I\u0027d likely be in Eastern Europe the next year to film a video product... and immediately he got that twinkle in his eye and excitedly told me to tell him when I was going because he wanted to join. It was very obvious as soon as he said it he was thinking \u0022Euro babes!\u0022\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe drive definitely goes down.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd it is not like they are seeking it out all that actively.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut they have become these men women (including, maybe even especially, 20-something women) are just drawn to, and end up with these opportunistic now-and-then lays.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\u003Cp\u003E4. to me in this day and age every girl is different, do you really think it\u0027s wise to really settle down? I\u0027m not saying this like a young boy says he doesn\u0027t want to settle down, but I\u0027m talking from the view of dealing with the drama that comes with it and if you decide to split? what if modern women have made you too bitter?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWell... I suppose it\u0027s hard to say.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMy attitude is like, look: the laws at this point are pretty unfair. But not totally (yet).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf you\u0027re intelligent about mate selection, and you\u0027re intelligent about asset protection, you can still be relatively safe even in a conventional marriage. I spelled out my recommendations for that in my post on not getting divorce raped:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/10-steps-not-get-raped-your-divorce\u0022\u003E10 Steps to Not Get Raped in Your Divorce\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf you\u0027re like a normal guy, and you are not going to take these steps, then it is probably a 50\/50 shot whether you are walking into a dangerous situation or not.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut if you are a normal guy who is not going to take these steps, you are probably also oblivious to any risk and not really worrying about any of this stuff anyway.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAs for drama, well yeah. Any ongoing relationship with a woman includes drama. Once you move in you are in for occasional bouts of mega drama. That is unavoidable, even if you pick very well. No matter what you give her or don\u0027t give her you will be in for at least some of that.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI guess the issue is that if you don\u0027t get into an LTR, and you want that, eventually you are going to get depressed. A friend of mine who bounced from LTR to LTR and continued his playerdom into his late 30s and for a long time intended to be a playboy bachelor forever has recently had to deal with depression, as he is tired of casual sex and has realized he is only content when he is in an LTR (at which point he gets the itch for new women, then goes and shags a bunch of girls and feels guilty about it, eventually breaking up with his girl to not feel guilty and be totally single). Now he is missing an ex he broke up with, who is happily moved on, and regretting her as the best girlfriend he had, whom he knew at the time was the best, but he let her go. He says he has never felt like this or gone through this before, and it took two years for it to kick in for him.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThere is a bit of \u0022damned if you do, damned if you don\u0027t\u0022 when it comes to getting into a settled LTR with a woman at some point sooner or later.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMy recommendation has always been \u0022follow your biology\u0022, and that you ought to do what you are biologically programmed to do, because if you don\u0027t, then at some point you are going to have to reckon with that.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI will say it does seem like some guys are really not programmed for any kind of ongoing long-term commitment or anything to that extent.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf that\u0027s you, and you don\u0027t need an ongoing relationship to feel content or not get depressed or antsy, then maybe perpetual playerdom could work?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt will be slightly different for each guy. But the vast majority of men do seem to tire of being players and opt for relationships at some point or other. Including I think just about every player I have known.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3129\/89453\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-89047\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/89047#comment-89047\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Will KZ\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Will KZ\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Will KZ\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Will KZ\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/89047#comment-89047\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EGreat article. Originally I\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EWill KZ (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 29 October 2019  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/whats-endgame-playboy\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EGreat article. Originally I misread the title and thought it said \u0022whats the endgame for Playboy\u0022, which seems to have the endgame plan of becoming super progressive and lecturing men on assorted BS, much like GQ...perhaps all men\u0027s magazines will soon become Jezebel light.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut your actual\u00a0article was far more interesting. I remember the Tiger Woods thing putting me off mainstream media when I saw the only mainstream people saying anything close to the truth were a few comedians while everyone else, was shocked, shocked to find that a famous, athletic man nicknamed Tiger, worth billions (or close), might dare seek out extramarital flings.\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI wonder what my endgame will be. In my early 30s now, focused more on money than women. Wonder how I\u0027ll feel in my 40s whatever path I take.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3129\/89047\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-89454\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/89454#comment-89454\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/89454#comment-89454\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EMoney Over Women\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Wednesday, 26 February 2020  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/whats-endgame-playboy\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/89047#comment-89047\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EWill-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\u003Cp\u003Eand thought it said \u0022whats the endgame for Playboy\u0022\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIndeed.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u0022Put a bunch of trannies on the cover and cater to an audience no one is really certain actually exists\u0022 would be my guess.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\u003Cp\u003EIn my early 30s now, focused more on money than women. Wonder how I\u0027ll feel in my 40s whatever path I take.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETypically when you reach that point, where women start becoming an afterthought, but of course you are still horny and still sometimes want some female companionship, eventually you start to cast around looking for a girl who\u0027s worth keeping around longer.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYour 30s and early 40s are the best overall, most attractive periods of your life as a man... which nicely coincides with the declining amount of energy most guys are willing to put on women at these ages.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYou\u0027re not as active, but the girls all want you, and what you\u0027re looking for at this age tends to be more aligned with what many of them are too.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd at that point you just get to sit back and be the chooser: \u0022Hmm, nope, not that one. This one? ... nah. Could be this one -- but, no. Ah! This one perhaps. Hmm. Gotta think about it. Let me try this other one...\u0022\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBit of a role reversal from your earlier years.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3129\/89454\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-89049\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/89049#comment-89049\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Lao Che\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Lao Che\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Lao Che\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Lao Che\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/89049#comment-89049\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003Eplan for your future\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ELao Che (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 29 October 2019  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/whats-endgame-playboy\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003Ebeing single and childless as you head into your mid-forties is a bad place to be. the ride doesn\u0027t last forever and you\u0027d better figure out where to get off before you get thrown off. family is EVERYTHING, whether you think so right now or not\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003Ei\u0027ve had to start telling people i\u0027m divorced, just so they don\u0027t think i\u0027m gay or a weirdo. it\u0027s just easier.\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003Ehow old is Chase?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3129\/89049\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-89455\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/89455#comment-89455\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/89455#comment-89455\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EHow to Present Yourself When You\u0026#039;re Older and Never Married\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Wednesday, 26 February 2020  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/whats-endgame-playboy\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/89049#comment-89049\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHey Lao Che, good to see you!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYes, you have to plan ahead. Everything in our society is \u0022now now now! The future never comes!\u0022\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd then it\u0027s like getting hit with a freight train with the future shows up, for many people.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe good news is there\u0027s plenty of information out there.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo long as a guy\u0027s aware of his own \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/why-people-settle-down-3-step-settling-curve\u0022\u003Eend of history illusions\u003C\/a\u003E he will generally be okay.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E(but then again... a lot of guys are not...)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u0027m in my late 30s now.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut I was married in my early 20s, divorced a few years later. So that\u0027s never been an issue for me. I\u0027ve also basically never been single since I got into the game... always at least a girlfriend or two, and if need be I can talk about that with girls. They can typically sort of smell it on you also (and socially, for work functions, you just bring your girlfriend along, and everyone thinks she\u0027s great, and no one is worried about whether you\u0027re gay or a weirdo).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf you\u0027re worried about socially, just try to keep a few dateable FWBs in your rotation if you don\u0027t do girlfriends, and take one of them along when you have a happy hour or work party.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd if it\u0027s girls looking at you weird, just tell them you just broke up.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETechnically if you are sleeping around a lot, it\u0027s like a lot of little breakups, all the time ;)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u0022We just broke up.\u0022 --\u0026gt; \u0022Oh I\u0027m sorry, how long were you together?\u0022 --\u0026gt; \u0022About 12 hours. She was great, but there wasn\u0027t any future there.\u0022 --\u0026gt; \u0022Oh I see.\u0022\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThere\u0027s the more serious route you can go, too.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMost guys have had a girl they were serious with, with whom it did not work out.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYou can very easily use that girl as your story:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u0022I had a girl about 10 years back I was in a very serious relationship with. Then blah blah blah it didn\u0027t work out. I wasn\u0027t ready [or whatever the reason is. It should be you breaking up with her though]. And since then I\u0027ve just been very busy and I\u0027m only really getting back into more serious dating right now.\u0022\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETypical tragic \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/how-be-vulnerable-enchanting-and-alluring-women\u0022\u003EByronic hero\u003C\/a\u003E stuff.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThat\u0027s going to be enough for most any girl.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3129\/89455\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-89050\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/89050#comment-89050\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Mr.Rob\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Mr.Rob\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Mr.Rob\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Mr.Rob\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/89050#comment-89050\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EOne Of Those \u0026quot;Masterpiece\u0026quot; Articles\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EMr.Rob (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 29 October 2019  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/whats-endgame-playboy\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EEvery once in a blue moon they come around. Bravo!\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EReally good points on the \u0022current state of affairs of mistresses and one sided monogomy\u0022. I read JFK\u0027s biography and that guy had pussy delivered to him on a daily basis like rock star status. The meds he was on for his pretty severe addisons disease\u00a0compounded his sex drive through the roof (not a bad side effect lol) and was quoted \u0022if I go 3 days without a woman I get major anxiety and can\u0027t sleep\u0022. His staff and secret service were constantly supplying him women and keeping\u00a0steady tabs on all his mistresses to prevent a scandal from what I gather.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EInteresting stuff, but my gosh what a pain in the dick to be a celebrity or powerful man married in today\u0027s social media\/cellphone age where its even harder to keep things private and under wraps!! I\u0027m sure it makes some powerful men want say \u0022to hell with it\u0022 and go start a cult!\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf you end up weighing in on the comment section here I\u0027d be curious to get your toughts on \u0022mistress game\u0022 (if your willing to give away those secrets that is [which Im sure you have ascertained from 2nd hand sources only ;)\u00a0... Namely how do you run a mistress relationship? Is it basically a run the same way as a casual FWB or do you have a mini monogamous relationship with her. Thing is I know successful ppl w\/ mistresses having long term (1 year +) relationships which kinda defies the casual relationship 3-4 month typical thing.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo eh changing tack here...\u00a0what would you \u0022guess\u0022 ;),\u00a0is the best way to run mistress game? Is it run the same way as a FWB\/Casual relationship or \u0022would you imagine\u0022 there are certain intricacies to keeping her on board and cool with being a side chick. I guess there\u0027s probably an inherent value in being sexually involved with a powerful man even if he\u0027ll never commit to more than just fucking her (she gets his access to his seed).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI know many famous men had mistresses that lasted years long in duration which defies the typical 3-5 month long casual relationship expiration, so is this a different beast?\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnyway awesome article boss man.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ECheers,\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E-Rob\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3129\/89050\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-89056\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/89056#comment-89056\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Mr.Rob\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Mr.Rob\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Mr.Rob\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Mr.Rob\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/89056#comment-89056\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ERE: Edit\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EMr.Rob (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Thursday, 31 October 2019  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/whats-endgame-playboy\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/89050#comment-89050\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EEh I sent the original comment off\u00a0without fixing the Edit I made there. Sorry for the confusing paragraphs at the end there.\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3129\/89056\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-89456\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/89456#comment-89456\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/89456#comment-89456\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ELong-Term Mistress Game\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Wednesday, 26 February 2020  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/whats-endgame-playboy\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/89050#comment-89050\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003ERob-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYeah, JFK was a total horndog.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI wonder how much the medication was really responsible, and how much he just blamed it for loving women.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBecause certainly, when you want to shag a whole bunch, you are typically going to need some kind of \u0022not my fault\u0022 explanation for it, especially when trying to explain it to a wife (I didn\u0027t read the bio and don\u0027t know all the details, but I\u0027m sure Jackie knew) and people responsible for assisting your liaisons.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\u003Cp\u003EInteresting stuff, but my gosh what a pain in the dick to be a celebrity or powerful man married in today\u0027s social media\/cellphone age where its even harder to keep things private and under wraps!! I\u0027m sure it makes some powerful men want say \u0022to hell with it\u0022 and go start a cult!\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI do wonder though.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBecuase we have Donald Trump as president now, and we know about a handful of affairs he\u0027s had.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd he is basically an obvious and admitted total horndog. Are those really the only affairs he\u0027s had?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHas he totally kept it in his pants since he got into the White House? Probably not.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut we really have no idea about the vast majority of what he gets up to.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThat said, I would imagine without the Secret Service ferrying women to you, U.S. President probably actually is a fairly isolating job. Only women around you are going to be whoever\u0027s working for you in the White House.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThus, Bill Clinton\u0027s choice of mistress (chubby Monica). Probably the best of the slim pickings there.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\u003Cp\u003ENamely how do you run a mistress relationship? Is it basically a run the same way as a casual FWB or do you have a mini monogamous relationship with her. Thing is I know successful ppl w\/ mistresses having long term (1 year +) relationships which kinda defies the casual relationship 3-4 month typical thing.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYeah, typically they are monogamous-ish.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EObviously you are still with your main chick \/ wife.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMistresses themselves come in all shapes and colors. Though few of them are actually totally monogamous to the man. Usually they come in one of three flavors:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Col\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EMarried women conducting a mutual affair with you\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EWomen who are with you because they\u0027re in love and think this might lead to marriage\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EYoung women who are with you for money \/ assets because you\u0027re rich and they see a chance for gain\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ol\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETypically the #1 and #3 women are going to be sleeping with someone else. #1s with their husbands, and maybe other affair partners. #3s with their boyfriends they are actually in love with and pursuing a potentially serious relationship with. You see a lot of #3s in Asia, where the married man buys his mistress an apartment, and comes there to visit her and have sex with her. Then on the days he is not visiting, the girl has her boyfriend over.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E#1s and #2s can be young (20-something) or older (30s, 40s, etc.). #3s are almost always 20-somethings, because they\u0027re still young enough they\u0027re okay to trade time for money. Once they start nearing 30 this becomes less and less of a good deal for them, and they start to look hard for a guy to build a real life with.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe #2s are typically with a married man who is either genuinely in-love with them or who is leading them on. Typically he is promising them that before they know it, he is planning to leave his wife. He complains about her to them and makes her feel like his relationship is horrible and he wants to get away. So she keeps telling her self soon, soon he will leave her, and then he will be mine. Once her friends and family find out about it they start to work against him, and tell her he is leading you on, he is not going to leave his wife. But she will refuse to believe it for a while, until one day she wises up and realizes, \u0022This guy always says he will leave her, but never does. I think he really never is going to leave her.\u0022 And then she starts giving him ultimatums and acting like any typical \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/2-year-drop\u0022\u003E2-year drop\u003C\/a\u003E relationship girl.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAt which point, either the guy dumps his wife and makes it official with the mistress (less common), or he tells the mistress the truth is he cannot leave his wife (more common).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E(then sometimes the spurned mistress goes all scorned woman on the guy and alerts his wife and tries to wreck his life... which actually sometimes works. I have seen instances where the mistress alerted the wife, the wife divorced the husband, and the husband reconciled with the mistress and married her. So it is actually an effective strategy, some of the time)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd yeah, you get a huge boost in attractiveness being a married man and\/or a man who has successfully reproduced.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWomen are scandalous. They want that guy another woman already has. And they want a guy who\u0027s proven his genes by passing them on. There\u0027s nothing more attractive to a woman than an attractive guy, except an equally attractive guy who\u0027s married and\/or has kids.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3129\/89456\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-89054\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/89054#comment-89054\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022SZ\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022SZ\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022SZ\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022SZ\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/89054#comment-89054\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EAnother thing Chase,\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ESZ (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Wednesday, 30 October 2019  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/whats-endgame-playboy\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EAnother thing Chase,\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI wanted your opinion on this.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E1. When should a guy get married? or should he even get married? but if he should get married, what do you think Is the best situation?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003Eshould a guy marry young with no skillet with women because of society norms? I ask young because the older you get the harder it is to get married to younger women who have their stuff together with low baggage. the man would also have to get good skills with women to get younger women as well.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003Eor should he wait until he gets to a certain skill level with women before getting married? and how many partners should he be at?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E2. what does a guy do while married? does he just not care about other women anymore? does he just let his skillset fade? what is the endgame for a married man? it sounds so boring to not not have attractive girls all throughout your life.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E3. this kind of adds in to the 2nd question. what are real old guys supposed to do whether married or single? I\u0027m talking 60+ like should they just quit pick up all together if they\u0027re single? or should they just really not care about seduction or being in shape (let themselves go), be a sugar daddy, pick up 40 year old women? lol. and what should they do if they\u0027re married and that old? like what\u0027s your opinion on what real older men should do whether they\u0027re single or not when it comes to all types of self improvement?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3129\/89054\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-89141\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/89141#comment-89141\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022SZ\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022SZ\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022SZ\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022SZ\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/89141#comment-89141\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EChase, could you elaborate\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ESZ (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Friday, 15 November 2019  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/whats-endgame-playboy\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/89054#comment-89054\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EChase, could you elaborate more on how playboys never fully settle down?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003Eyou said they really can\u0027t fully be faithful.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003Eand I\u0027m guessing you mean this well into age.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003Eso how do these guys do this without getting caught and divorced or whatever? \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003Ehow does that while scenario play out with finding the girls, dating, sleeping, etc. while being really old and maybe married?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThanks\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3129\/89141\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-89457\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/89457#comment-89457\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/89457#comment-89457\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EMarriage, Age, and Infidelity\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Wednesday, 26 February 2020  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/whats-endgame-playboy\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/89054#comment-89054\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003ESZ-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\u003Cp\u003E1. When should a guy get married? or should he even get married? but\u00a0 if he should get married, what do you think Is the best situation?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOh, I don\u0027t know.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u0027ve seen guys do great marrying young and I\u0027ve seen them do great marrying older. I\u0027ve also seen disasters from marrying young, and disasters from marrying older.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI have seen hardline guys in the men\u0027s space recommending both: \u0022You need to wait until you are 40+, then marry a woman who is in her late teens or early 20s.\u0022 Versus \u0022You need to marry when you are young: get a girl who has not been ruined, marry her, and get her birthing and rearing your children, so you are not still running around trying to do all that when you are old.\u0022\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI don\u0027t really have an opinion, personally.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI think different guys have different life paths they\u0027re on, with different upbringings, and different genetic predispositions, and they are going to follow those, regardless what people tell them.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\u003Cp\u003E2. what does a guy do while married? does he just not care about\u00a0 other women anymore? does he just let his skillset fade? what is the\u00a0 endgame for a married man? it sounds so boring to not not have\u00a0 attractive girls all throughout your life.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EDepends on the guy.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut yeah, most guys once married aren\u0027t too concerned with having a ton of women around all the time.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThey\u0027re more focused on work, business connections, their kids, etc.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWomen become a minor distraction \/ occasional dalliance, at best (or else they go full monogamous and don\u0027t even worry about women at all).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESome guys get bored with that. Most don\u0027t though.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EProbably the best analogue is like how children look at stuff you read or watch as an adult: \u0022Why are you reading that? It\u0027s boring!\u0022\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYet to you it is very interesting.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\u003Cp\u003E3. this kind of adds in to the 2nd question. what are real old guys\u00a0 supposed to do whether married or single? I\u0027m talking 60+ like should\u00a0 they just quit pick up all together if they\u0027re single? or should they\u00a0 just really not care about seduction or being in shape (let themselves\u00a0 go), be a sugar daddy, pick up 40 year old women? lol. and what should\u00a0 they do if they\u0027re married and that old? like what\u0027s your opinion on\u00a0 what real older men should do whether they\u0027re single or not when it\u00a0 comes to all types of self improvement?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhy does this matter?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI do not know even a single 60-year-old who is asking these questions.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI 100% guarantee you by the time you are 60 years old you are not going to be asking them either.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBesides, that is 30 years from now for you. I have no idea what the dating landscape will look like for you then.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAlthough I have to imagine it won\u0027t be that different: if you\u0027re an exceptional older man, you can still take young women.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf not... well, you\u0027ll have to settle for whatever you can get...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\u003Cp\u003Eso how do these guys do this without getting caught and divorced or whatever?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESome do.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMost not unless they want to (i.e., they are tired of being married and want an out).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMost women once they are in a stable long-term relationship with kids with a guy they love will turn a bit of a blind eye to a guy\u0027s occasional indiscretions, so long as they are not too blatant. If the guy is doing everything they need him to (bringing the bacon, being a good father, being a loving husband who treats them well, etc.) unless they are women with extreme personalities\/personality disorders, you\u0027d be surprised what many wives will let slide.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAs far as how married guys meet women... typically opportunistically. They aren\u0027t going out hunting like bachelors anymore. Don\u0027t have the time.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EInstead, they are meeting women like \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/how-naturals-meet-girls-and-get-laid\u0022\u003Ethis\u003C\/a\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3129\/89457\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-89055\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/89055#comment-89055\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonym\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonym\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonym\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonym\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/89055#comment-89055\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ENotes on powerful men and monogamy\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAnonym (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Thursday, 31 October 2019  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/whats-endgame-playboy\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHi Chase,\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThanks for an interesting article. I have a few notes here:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Col\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EAd powerful men always having mistresses and being polygamous. Of course many powerful men live this way. But there are examples of powerful men living monogamous or non-sexual life because of different reasons: religion (f.e. the popes \u2013 at least some of them), focus on work (Nikola Tesla), repressed sexuality (Cecil Rhodes, Adolf Hitler), introversion\/awkwardness\/shyness\/possible autism (Bill Gates, Lionel Messi). For example, Victorian public schools trained young English men to repress their sexuality and many of otherwise hypermasculine builders of the British Empire were not sexually active. Probably some other deeply religious powerful men were disciplined enough not to live in polygamy. Etc.\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ol\u003E\n\u003Col start=\u00222\u0022\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EI am surprised that in your comparison difference of the West and the other parts of the world you do not mention Christianity (and Judaism) as a factor of cultural dominance of monogamy. If you are practicing Christian, you are allowed to have sex only in marriage and you can marry only one woman. If you follow the rules, you have to be monogamous. Traditional Christian (or secular) Western family is based on marriage between one man and one woman who have children together. Mutual monogamy seems like natural and logical implication (or precondition) of this model. Cultural influence of the West to a big extent overlap with spread of Christianity, though in some regions there is syncretism with local cultures and therefore more visible polygamy. Moreover, if ratio of men and women in polupation is balanced, then monogamy is better since more men can have woman and their own family. It is better also for stability of society, since there are less frustrated men.\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ol\u003E\n\u003Col start=\u00223\u0022\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EI wonder how you could have thought the way you thought if you were raised in conservative Catholic family. I have atheist background (Central-Eastern Europe) and I have always considered mutual monogamy as natural and the right model of family, while infidelity was as a bad thing (I am not Christian, so sex outside marriage is normal, as well as serial monogamy or casual sex or FWB). I have never had real desire to have multiple girlfriends at the same time or even multiple families, I found it absurd, unthinkable, not right and inconvenient. Idea of onesided monogamy is unfair to me. Since I am a rules based guy, not a wild bad boy, when I found for the first time my male friends were unfaithful to their girlfriends, I felt like \u201ehow could he possibly do that?\u201c and not \u201ewow, he is a cool guy for getting laid with another woman\u201c. Now I am more in peace with reality but still it would be uncomfortable for me to do it since it goes against my core values. \u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ol\u003E\n\u003Col start=\u00224\u0022\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EOne point to one previous article. You correctly wrote that nice guys are guardians of social norms and that social norms cannot exist without people defending them. That actually implies that bad boys need and are kind of dependent on existence of nice guys. While they sometimes mock them and are arrogant to them as to people not knowing how to have fun and not being manly enough, they are exciting to women in contrast to them and their rules breaking is exciting only when other people follow the rules. When all nice guys start to behave like bad boys, this contrast disappears and social norms change or cease to be valid, so breaking them has no more effect.\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ol\u003E\n\u003Col start=\u00225\u0022\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EIn the past I wrote you about my dilemma in relation to this Indonesian girl in long-term relationship (here: \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/how-screen-wife-and-mother\u0022\u003Ehttps:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/how-screen-wife-and-mother\u003C\/a\u003E). For your information, while she is still as lovable as she used to be, recently she got married with the same guy she was dating when I met her. So even your advice could not have worked in this case. Sometimes it is hopeless since beginning.\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ol\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThanks for your reply.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnonym\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3129\/89055\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-89458\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/89458#comment-89458\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/89458#comment-89458\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ENotes on Monogamy\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Wednesday, 26 February 2020  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/whats-endgame-playboy\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/89055#comment-89055\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EAnonym-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EGood notes here on powerful-yet-celibate men, and deeply religious or repressed men who led (likely) monogamous lives. (I say \u0022likely\u0022 since the vast majority of affairs never make it into the history books)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI didn\u0027t mention Christianity as a basis for monogamy because you have monogamy in other societies (such as East Asia) without Christianity. If you have 4 billion people practicing monogamy, and half of them are Christian, and the other half Buddhist or atheist, it\u0027s hard to find a commonality in religion. I know a lot of people like to tie monogamy to \u0022Christian cultural values\u0022 but I am skeptical of that explanation. It seems to more be an emergent property of specific civilization setups.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EEven in Medieval Christendom, you had polygamous popes, and Chaucer\u0027s wild, debauched England.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd of course, we always have the origins of Valentine\u0027s Day, our modern day holiday of monogamous love:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\u003Cp\u003EIn the Middle Ages a tradition (condemned by the Church) appeared in Europe of men drawing women\u0027s names from jars on Valentine\u0027s Day to select a random sex partner. A little later, the holiday morphed from being one of casual sex to one of romance, and letter-writing and poetry on Valentine\u0027s became popular... by the end of the 18th century, there were books with Valentine\u0027s Day lovers\u0027 poems for men who lacked the creativity to come up with their own.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E(\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/what-do-your-girlfriend-valentines-day\u0022\u003Efrom my article on Valentine\u0027s Day\u003C\/a\u003E)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe Europe of the Middle Ages of course being 100% Christian, more or less.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo, while the \u0022monogamy is because of Christianity\u0022 belief certainly seems prevalent among Western intellectuals, it doesn\u0027t hold a lot of water IMO.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\u003Cp\u003EI wonder how you could have thought the way you thought if you were\u00a0 raised in conservative Catholic family. I have atheist background\u00a0 (Central-Eastern Europe) and I have always considered mutual monogamy as\u00a0 natural and the right model of family, while infidelity was as a bad\u00a0 thing (I am not Christian, so sex outside marriage is normal, as well as\u00a0 serial monogamy or casual sex or FWB). I have never had real desire to\u00a0 have multiple girlfriends at the same time or even multiple families, I\u00a0 found it absurd, unthinkable, not right and inconvenient. Idea of\u00a0 onesided monogamy is unfair to me. Since I am a rules based guy, not a\u00a0 wild bad boy, when I found for the first time my male friends were\u00a0 unfaithful to their girlfriends, I felt like \u201ehow could he possibly do\u00a0 that?\u201c and not \u201ewow, he is a cool guy for getting laid with another\u00a0 woman\u201c. Now I am more in peace with reality but still it would be\u00a0 uncomfortable for me to do it since it goes against my core values.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u0027ve always had mixed feelings on it personally.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI genuinely do not feel like it is appropriate for me to be limited to one woman. I actually think it is unfair to women in general if only one woman at a time can have me.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ELittle bit of ego there I guess. But also, objectively I think being with me is a very good thing for women, and women usually seem to agree. So, to a certain extent, the more the merrier.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHowever, I also do not want to hurt a woman, especially one I care about.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo there is always a bit of moral conflict there. In particular I have tended to steer my relationships toward a place where the woman reaches the \u0022I don\u0027t want to know\u0022 point, where morally you are more or less in the clear... so long as you keep the relationship strong and healthy for her.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\u003Cp\u003EOne point to one previous article. You correctly wrote that nice guys are guardians of social norms and that social norms cannot exist without people defending them. That actually implies that bad boys need and are kind of dependent on existence of nice guys. While they sometimes mock them and are arrogant to them as to people not knowing how to have fun and not being manly enough, they are exciting to women in contrast to them and their rules breaking is exciting only when other people follow the rules. When all nice guys start to behave like bad boys, this contrast disappears and social norms change or cease to be valid, so breaking them has no more effect.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAbsolutely true!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIn I think it is Matt Ridley\u0027s book The Red Queen, the author talks about the cads vs. dads strategy specifically.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe essence is a population can only support a certain percentage of cads... somewhere around 10% cads, 90% dads is stable. As soon as the percentage of cads gets too high (say, 30%), being a dad starts to become significantly more attractive again.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI think we can fairly safely equate dads with nice guys and cads with bad boys in our thinking about this (of course, not all dads are nice guy pushovers... there are plenty of alpha providers... just using this as a rough approximation for what percentages of each a given population can support).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ERe: the Chinese-Indonesian gal, yeah... not really a big surprise, honestly. Sorry though. Indonesians and especially Chinese-Indonesians tend to date pretty seriously and not try a whole bunch of partners before settling down. Sometimes\/often only one.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOf course there are plenty more like that where she came from, as well as in Malaysia and mainland China (also somewhat more Westernized Chinese, who will date around more, in Singapore, Hong Kong, Taiwan, etc. Then if you get to the Western-born Chinese girls, they\u0027re basically the same as European girls, values- and behavior-wise).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ECan always go spend a year abroad at some point and come back home with a wife, if you\u0027ve decided she is your type.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3129\/89458\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-89097\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/89097#comment-89097\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Lawliet\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Lawliet\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Lawliet\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Lawliet\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/89097#comment-89097\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EChase are you fading away?\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ELawliet (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Thursday, 7 November 2019  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/whats-endgame-playboy\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EChase, you\u0027ve been with me for half a decade or more. Despite not meeting, we\u0027ve known each other for awhile.\u00a0If you do fade away and call in quits with being the bachelor, don\u0027t be a stranger and hit me up by my email and let\u0027s stay in touch. It\u0027s like having a close friend who travelled to another country and never comes back. That feeling sucks.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3129\/89097\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-89459\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/89459#comment-89459\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/89459#comment-89459\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ECrossing Paths\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Wednesday, 26 February 2020  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/whats-endgame-playboy\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/89097#comment-89097\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003ECheers Lawliet.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWell, I am still here. Just a little busier ;)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThat is life though, isn\u0027t it?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOne long series of people you get to know, traveling off on their various paths, some to cross paths with again later, some where you never really know what happened to them.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u0027ve always kind of been more intrigued by the mysteries, myself.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3129\/89459\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-89209\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/89209#comment-89209\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022TL01\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022TL01\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022TL01\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022TL01\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/89209#comment-89209\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EThank you\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ETL01 (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Wednesday, 11 December 2019  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/whats-endgame-playboy\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EThank you for this, Chase. Thank you.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3129\/89209\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-89229\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/89229#comment-89229\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous \u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous \u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous \u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous \u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/89229#comment-89229\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EHey Chase, I just read a\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAnonymous  (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Wednesday, 18 December 2019  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/whats-endgame-playboy\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHey Chase, I just read a comment about you having a friend with a 400+ lay count. What did he work on and how did he improve himself to that point to get there?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI read one of them was charm. How do you get more of that?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThanks\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3129\/89229\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-89460\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/89460#comment-89460\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/89460#comment-89460\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EHigh Lay Counts\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Wednesday, 26 February 2020  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/whats-endgame-playboy\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/89229#comment-89229\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EAnon-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHey Chase, I just read a comment about you having a friend with a\u00a0 400+ lay count. What did he work on and how did he improve himself to\u00a0 that point to get there?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnything and everything. He was a total obsessive about appearance, pickup, conversation, relationships, social dynamics. Even the tiniest nuance he would drill into at minute detail.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd he was an absolute approach machine, basically always looking to get laid, who would bed some of the most stunningly beautiful women you had ever seen, and some of the most appallingly ugly ones.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EFun guy. Very driven. Always great to talk to.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\u003Cp\u003EI read one of them was charm. How do you get more of that?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYeah... it\u0027s a very abstract concept.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI have a course coming out on it very soon. Almost ready for launch. The best way I can explain it is \u0022buy the course\u0022, because it is such a pain to explain\/teach charm\/charisma I never want to have to do it again :D\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWe also have a few articles on the site you may want to peruse:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cul\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/3-things-know-if-you-want-be-charismatic\u0022\u003EThe 3 Things to Know If You Want to Be Charismatic\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/how-pick-girls-success-factor-part-i\u0022\u003EHow to Pick Up Girls: The Success Factor Series\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/how-be-charming-women-you-meet-10-steps\u0022\u003EHow to Be Charming with Women You Meet (10 Steps)\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3129\/89460\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-90547\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/90547#comment-90547\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Sam B\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Sam B\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Sam B\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Sam B\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/90547#comment-90547\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EEpic article\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ESam B (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Sunday, 20 December 2020  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/whats-endgame-playboy\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EThis is such an epic article. I also loved your article on supplication. I think you really should revisit supplication in an updated article.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThank you for this Chase!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3129\/90547\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/dev\u003E\u003C\/dev\u003E\u003Cdev class=\u0022comment-form ajax-comment-form\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv id=\u0022comments\u0022 class=\u0022comment-wrapper\u0022\u003E\n  \n  \n      \u003Ch4 class=\u0022title comment-form\u0022\u003ELeave a Comment\u003C\/h4\u003E\n    \u003Cform class=\u0022comment-form user-info-from-cookie\u0022 action=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3129\u0022 method=\u0022post\u0022 id=\u0022comment-form\u0022 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