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\u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/88644#comment-88644\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EHere\u0026#039;s something from an e\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ENeal (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 15 July 2019  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/girls-who-want-you-vs-girls-who-are-bored-available\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHere\u0027s something from an e-mail newsletter (copy\/paste), I love stories like these, anyone have any others?\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI am lucky enough to have a female friend who is married (and hot as hell). She recently told me an amazing story:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhile at college in her 20s, she dated a dude for about a month. During one dinner he asked her to spend the night with him. She told him she wasn\u0027t looking for an intimate relationship.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E(She purposefully lied. Says she just couldn\u0027t say yes on the first time.)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe thing is...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cem\u003EDude never asked again!\u003C\/em\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThey remained friends. Lunch and study dates occasionally.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHer last night at college, they went out, and she got all dressed up, hoping to get laid. Being the \u0022gentleman\u0022 he was, he took her to dinner.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EShe tells me she was thinking,\u00a0\u003Cem\u003E\u0022Sex me! Don\u0027t feed me!\u0022\u003C\/em\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThey parted ways with a simple kiss.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENow obviously if dude had persisted, he would have succeeded.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut I personally have also ignored my share of girls after getting blown off the first time.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHere\u0027s the kicker...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI suggested to her that she must regret not getting a chance to bed this dude. She said if she had to do it again, she would do things exactly the same. To this day,\u00a0\u003Cem\u003Eshe thinks dude is a loser for not asking again!\u003C\/em\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EShe assures me that girls do this all the time \u2013 say no when what they really mean is, \u0022Yes, but I need to play hard-to-get before we can have sex.\u0022 She says she isn\u0027t really sure why they do this either.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAlso it seems hot girls will not initiate sex \u2013 even when they are craving it.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3033\/88644\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-88792\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/88792#comment-88792\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/88792#comment-88792\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EGuys Failing to Persist and Missing Out on Sex\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 3 September 2019  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/girls-who-want-you-vs-girls-who-are-bored-available\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/88644#comment-88644\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003ENeal-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThat\u0027s a great anecdote from that newsletter.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI will add though: not every woman interprets things the same way this one did.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI have had women tell me about similar situations, and say if they could go back, they would\u0027ve taken initiative themselves.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI have also had women tell me about these situations, and say they wouldn\u0027t have done things differently, but they are still sad and wonder where the guy is now and still think maybe it was meant to be but wasn\u0027t.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u0022He\u0027s a loser\u0022 is ego protection (\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/secrets-getting-girls-staying-out-auto-rejection\u0022\u003Eauto-rejection\u003C\/a\u003E) some women will engage in if they feel like the guy rejected them. It sounds like that\u0027s how this woman interpreted this guy\u0027s actions -- she wanted sex with that last dinner, but he rejected her and didn\u0027t give her it.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3033\/88792\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-88714\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/88714#comment-88714\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022SZ\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022SZ\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022SZ\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022SZ\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/88714#comment-88714\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EHey Chase,\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ESZ (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Thursday, 1 August 2019  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/girls-who-want-you-vs-girls-who-are-bored-available\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHey Chase,\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E1. I asked on the boards, why do members want all of their posts deleted and why can\u0027t they delete them?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAre the posts and members that easy to trace? can members be found out that easy from their account on the forum?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003Eor can they only be found out if they use a personally email?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u0027ve seen a couple guys seem to be very pressed on getting all their information deleted off the board. A person can\u0027t really be found on there through a job search of Google search or something ? I\u0027m assuming the board is anonymous right? wonder what the big deal is.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003Eand why don\u0027t you want the posts history deleted? just curious?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E2. could you tell me why a younger woman would want a older man that is a lifeguard, bartender, or any job that gets your notch count up?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI thought that a man had to be retired, well off, or have his own business to get younger women?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003Ewhy wouldn\u0027t they look down on him for having that instead of the other three?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003Eam I missing something?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E3. did the girl I planned a call with not work out because I planned the call instead of calling and what if you text a girl what she\u0027s doing and then if she says she\u0027s not doing anything, then call?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EDo you think with the one girl that went ghost did that because I asked her when she was free to talk on the phone? I mean I was planning on having a long conversation so I wanted to make sure she was free.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003Edo you think texting and asking a girl what she\u0027s doing, and if she says she\u0027s not doing anything, you give her a call then? how\u0027s that sound?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI just don\u0027t feel right calling out the blue, especially with these online girls since they never met me in person.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003Eshould I just call or should I text what is she up to, then call? maybe both?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003Ethanks\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3033\/88714\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-88803\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/88803#comment-88803\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/88803#comment-88803\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EGuys Wanting to Erase Their Histories\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Wednesday, 4 September 2019  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/girls-who-want-you-vs-girls-who-are-bored-available\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/88714#comment-88714\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003ESZ-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt\u0027s a normal behavior anytime anyone\u0027s engaged in anything remotely non-mainstream approved.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EFine while you\u0027re in it. But once you decide you\u0027re done with it, suddenly you want to remove all traces. Just in case.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe odds anyone figures out you\u0027re \u0027you\u0027 on a random Internet forum where you aren\u0027t sharing any real private details are infinitesimal. Email addresses are private on the forum and we tell guys not to use real names (theirs or women\u0027s). Even if they do use real names (which they shouldn\u0027t), I\u0027ve never heard of a guy being \u0027found out\u0027 over that. The only guys I\u0027ve heard of a girl finding them out (I recall hearing two of these) were guys who left the boards open and logged into on a girlfriend\u0027s machine, or on their own machine they let a girlfriend use. Moral of the story: don\u0027t leave the forum on with your account logged in on your girlfriend\u0027s machine (or on yours if she has access).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWe\u0027ll delete any personally identifying information a guy tells us he\u0027s posted, but not the posts themselves, because it\u0027s such a common trend... guy posts stuff, years later decides \u0022Hey I\u0027ve got a great girl, I don\u0027t want any risk of my history talking to girls being out there anymore\u0022 and asks us to delete everything he ever wrote. No cost to him to do that; we bear all the costs. We lose dozens or hundreds or thousands of forum posts, threads get broken, and the forum becomes a mess. So instead what we do is \u0022If you have anything anyone could possibly identify you by in your post history, let us know what it is, what post, and what part of that post, and we\u0027re happy to remove it.\u0022 People names, specific place names, photos (we often try to remove photos when we see them uploaded anyway if there\u0027s a face in them). Anything someone could identify you by. But again, I\u0027ve never heard of anyone getting identified that way. Either you\u0027d need to have someone who\u0027s very into picking up girls himself, and he\u0027s reading a bunch of old posts from years ago when you were still active, and he also knows you and knows of your old exploits somehow, and he says \u0022Hey wait a minute... this is SZ!\u0022 ... but the odds of that are almost nil. Or you\u0027d need to have some crazy chick who is like \u0022Could SZ be on this random pickup forum? Let me read all the 100,000 posts on there and see if I recognize any of the scenarios in any of them!\u0022 Which, we don\u0027t have nearly enough readers on the forum for that, and people just aren\u0027t going to read more than 10 or 20 posts and then stop reading because it\u0027s an impossible task even if they think somebody\u0027s on here.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYounger women going for older bartenders\/lifeguards... even if the guy is older, he still has in-venue \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/male-authority-and-female-lust\u0022\u003Eauthority\u003C\/a\u003E, which is extremely attractive to women. He\u0027ll also typically have significantly sharper game in that venue than any of the random guys there, who don\u0027t feel nearly as at-ease and haven\u0027t tailored their games to the venue nearly as well as a guy who\u0027s been in it for 5+ or 10+ years honing his approach. Beyond this, you also have a subset of women with daddy issues who just prefer older men in general, and these girls will be drawn to the older, authority males there like magnets as (usually) some of the few attractive older men present (typically these places are filled with attractive younger men, or unattractive older men).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3033\/88803\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-88715\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/88715#comment-88715\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Rain\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Rain\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Rain\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Rain\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/88715#comment-88715\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EHi Chase,\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ERain (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Friday, 2 August 2019  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/girls-who-want-you-vs-girls-who-are-bored-available\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHi Chase,\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf these bored but available women don\u0027t like you from the get go, but then can fall in love after a few rounds of sex, are they more likely to cheat?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI mean, if a guy went with a fat chick but prefers skinny chicks, and the far chick gave good sex, was available after the guy had a bad week, but he still prefers skinny chicks, even after being with her for a while wouldn\u0027t he move on to a skinny chick in future given the opportunity so he would eirher end up cheating or leaving as an possible male equivalent of this situation?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3033\/88715\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-88804\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/88804#comment-88804\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/88804#comment-88804\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EBored-but-Available: More Likely to Cheat?\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Wednesday, 4 September 2019  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/girls-who-want-you-vs-girls-who-are-bored-available\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/88715#comment-88715\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003ERain-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThat\u0027s a good question, and I am... not entirely sure.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI think, no, not purely because of this? But it\u0027s kind of a hazy area with a lot of \u0027it depends\u0027.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EFor instance, you can have women who experience love at first sight for you. Which might feel like the two of you are soul mates. But some of the time you have this with a woman, it\u0027s because she feels love at first sight for a \u003Cem\u003Elot\u003C\/em\u003E of men. And even once she is dating you, and happy in her relationship with you, one day while she is outside she meets another man, and with him, just as with you, it is \u0027love at first sight\u0027. She may do something with him very quickly because \u0022it\u0027s fate\u0022 before breaking it off with him because \u0022I already have a boyfriend I love very much.\u0022 On the other hand, with girls who just do not really get excited about men (and there are women like this), once you get one of those girls she can be downright cheat-resistant. Other men meet her, she\u0027s as \u0027meh\u0027 about them as she is about you, and because she already has a guy she doesn\u0027t even have the logical impetus of \u0022Well I might as well see where it goes.\u0022\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThose are a few extremes. Of course, you could have a girl who gets excited for some guys, but you just aren\u0027t her type. So she goes with you, falls into dating you, but the two of you are at each other\u0027s throats a lot because you\u0027re not that compatible, and one day outside she meets a guy who\u0027s perfect for her. In that case, sure, you may be in trouble.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt really depends on the girl. Is she this way with everyone or are there guys she is\/isn\u0027t like this with? Was she unexcited with you because she couldn\u0027t be into you, or she was just in a funk or very distracted, and once you\u0027re pulling her along with you she realizes more and more that wow, I am actually quite into this guy? What\u0027s her reaction after sex -- does something change in her (\u0022Huh. Actually I really like this guy\u0022) or doesn\u0027t it (\u0022Yeah, I guess he\u0027s okay and will suffice for now\u0022). All that stuff mixes in to make it difficult to have a clear \u0022If she is bored-but-available, that means she is X% more\/less likely to stray in an long-term relationship.\u0022\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIn general I\u0027d say if one of these is true:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Col\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EYou see a big change in her emotions toward you after a certain point (like once alone together, or post-sex)\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EYou don\u0027t see a change, but she is also \u0027meh\u0027 about pretty much every guy you see her meet\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ol\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E... she is probably fairly safe.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBear in mind with the #2 girls, usually they will have \u003Cem\u003Esome\u003C\/em\u003E guys they get excited about. Assuming they aren\u0027t wildly impulsive or deeply unhappy with the relationship though, just because they meet a guy who excites them doesn\u0027t mean they\u0027ll chuck their current relationship and go run off for a tryst with the new guy. Some may, but many more won\u0027t -- depends on the girl and the relationship. The best you can do is try to estimate your odds based on any red flags she has (or doesn\u0027t have) plus everything else you know about her past and her personality. The more red flags, the more checkered her past, and the more impulsive\/dismissive\/cavalier her personality, the bigger the risk. They less there are of each of those things, the lesser the risk.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3033\/88804\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-88729\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/88729#comment-88729\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022SZ\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022SZ\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022SZ\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022SZ\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/88729#comment-88729\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EBeing safe with day game, online, nightlife, etc.\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ESZ (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Wednesday, 7 August 2019  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/girls-who-want-you-vs-girls-who-are-bored-available\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHey Chase,\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E1. I know you said meeting women offline is better quality, but you run into the same issue with nightlife girls; how do you know you\u0027re not picking up a girl who does online dating or is a girl who goes out to clubs? and apps are more normal than they were before, so how do you know if your quality day game girl hasn\u0027t been using apps a lot in the past or is using them currently and might not tell you? the same for night game girls.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E2. Recording girls on video and audio during sexual acts to protect ourselves against false accusations. isn\u0027t that against the law to do that if the girl doesn\u0027t know? do you think it\u0027s important to do this with every single girl we sleep with? think we could get a paper for them to sign to? could you go through the process of how to make this work every time? like how do we set up cameras and recorders? how do we even feel normal having to actually go through all of this for sex? it seems like to much to deal with and it would be better to just opt out of dating. do you recommend men do this with all women now because of all this drama? if so could you explain the whole process of setting everything up? should we ask her if she consents every time we put our dicks somewhere on or in her during the recording?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E3. a. so with dealing with chicks from online apps and clubs, is it best to not sleep with them at your place? would a hotel actually be the best option? I remember you saying that it\u0027s best if girls don\u0027t know much about you at all. so I\u0027m guessing a hotel would be good?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003Eout of your place, her place, hotel, what order from best to worse is best for sleeping with online chicks and chicks from clubs?\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003Ethe thing with her house, you don\u0027t know who\u0027s around or in the house, with your house you don\u0027t know if she\u0027ll tell someone where you live, or try to come over there random times, and she knows where you live.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u0027m guessing hotel, but how do you pull it off and make it consistent?\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003Eb. also how do you know if a chick is cool to know where you live and come over your place \u00a0after a first date?\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003Ec. how do you know it\u0027s cool to go over her place and not be set up after a first date?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003Elet me know all your thoughts on that please.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E4. is there a way now that\u0027s possible to sleep with 100 chicks naturally without using apps? is there a way to do it the old fashion way with going out all the time? it seems it\u0027ll take twice as long. is it even possible to sleep with 100+ women off day game alone within a few years? it\u0027s harder to meet women off day game alone, so I\u0027m wondering if it\u0027s possible to even rack up lays that way.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E5. should I regret not sleeping around as much as I should have in high school? with all the crazy hit going on now with dating, it was so much easier back then. you didn\u0027t have to worry about career, dates, money, going out every weekend to the club or bars, they just come over and it\u0027s easy. I regret not going harder because in my mind those were the best times to get laid, now it\u0027s nothing but struggle and paranoia. I think about how easy things were back then and wish I fucked a lot more girls back then.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E6. can you give me some advice on how to still sleep with many women and not constantly worry about all the bad shit? especially from dating women online? it seems this is one of the fastest ways to hook up with women and I\u0027ve heard many use it to get more of them, but after hearing you say how crazy they are it makes me paranoid, but this is something I can focus on as well as real life, so I don\u0027t want to close it off, but I am beyond paranoid and worried about these crazy chicks. any advice?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E7. should black men mostly sleep with black women more than latina and white chicks off apps and in real life in general? should black men just stay a way from them and focus on black women because it seems white mostly accuse white men of false accusations, I\u0027m assuming latinas as well. so do you think it\u0027s a better chance black women don\u0027t do this or wouldn\u0027t do this? which makes it easier to sleep with many of them without being so paranoid?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E8. if online chicks think you want to hookup even if you say you want a relationship, does that mean it\u0027s best to sleep with them on the first night? because basically she\u0027s very open to hooking up with you? so you should treat all your interactions as if she wants sex with you more than anything else? so basically these girls are mostly down to have sex a lot sooner than other girls, thus making the process easier?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThanks!!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3033\/88729\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-88805\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/88805#comment-88805\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/88805#comment-88805\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EBeing Safe Dating\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Wednesday, 4 September 2019  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/girls-who-want-you-vs-girls-who-are-bored-available\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/88729#comment-88729\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003ESZ-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\n\u003Cp\u003ESure, you\u0026#39;ll meet girls everywhere who\u0026#39;ve used online plenty.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\n\u003Cp\u003EIn general, the more attractive she is, and the saner she is, the less she will have used online. She won\u0026#39;t need it, and she won\u0026#39;t have the patience for it. But you can also ask women about this in general: \u0026quot;How do you usually meet new guys?\u0026quot; \u0026quot;What do you think of dating apps?\u0026quot; The stronger her opinion is on dating apps, the more she\u0026#39;s telling you she\u0026#39;s used them.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u0026#39;ve never secret-recorded a sex session, so I\u0026#39;m not the one to ask. I know it\u0026#39;s a thing guys do, and it seems like it can often be a wise thing. I will say it seems like many guys now are especially careful with very drunk girls or girls in dicey situations (like gang bangs \/ orgies). If you pick up a girl who\u0026#39;s behaving weirdly aggressive, I\u0026#39;d get that on video too (high incidence of weirdly aggressive girls later filing false rape claims. It\u0026#39;s a very odd phenomenon, but common). I don\u0026#39;t know about the laws. But if you just film her together with you, with her talking into the camera, you\u0026#39;re obviously not breaking laws. If you want to film every sex session (like 50 Cent claims to do), not sure, probably illegal. But if you\u0026#39;re worried about it, it\u0026#39;s probably better to break a law on filming without permission than to go to jail for a rape you didn\u0026#39;t commit.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\n\u003Cp\u003EYes, if you can avoid sleeping with maybe-crazy girls at your place, that\u0026#39;s better. But not always so practical. Outside, their places, etc., these are typically best if you can swing them. Hotels aren\u0026#39;t going to be as practical unless you\u0026#39;re moneyed or travel a lot.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\n\u003Cp\u003ERe: #4 -- \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/top-7-easiest-ways-get-laid-raise-your-notch-count\u0022\u003Esee here\u003C\/a\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\n\u003Cp\u003ERe: regrets -- I\u0026#39;m not sure I see the point of regrets. If there\u0026#39;s something you wish you did before, either do it now, or do something else better instead. I regretted not finishing an album when I still made music. So instead I made myself much more disciplined about finishing other things I started in the future, like books, products, etc. I don\u0026#39;t regret not finishing an album anymore, because I\u0026#39;ve finished so many other things at this point. Work on stuff now, in the present, that will build into things later, in the future, and regrest about the past become irrelevant.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\n\u003Cp\u003ERe: #6 -- there\u0026#39;s an old Damon Wayans movie called \u003Cem\u003EMo\u0026#39; Money\u003C\/em\u003E. In it, there\u0026#39;s a clip where two store clerks are talking about STDs. One\u0026#39;s really worried. The other says something to the effect of \u0026quot;You need to get laid a lot more. You really only worry about this kind of thing when you\u0026#39;re not having sex.\u0026quot; Which is... pretty much the gist of it. Most of these worries of yours are going to move to the background if you start shagging a lot more. Which makes them sort of pointless to obsess over... because either you aren\u0026#39;t having sex and are worried about all this stuff, but you aren\u0026#39;t having sex so it isn\u0026#39;t affecting you,or you are having sex and you\u0026#39;re going to care a lot less (still, take precautions, but you aren\u0026#39;t going to jump out of your skin every time a woman is slightly off-kilter about something).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\n\u003Cp\u003EAlso, I couldn\u0026#39;t find the clip for that particular scene, but here\u0026#39;s another hilarious one from \u003Cem\u003EMo\u0026#39; Money\u003C\/em\u003E:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022youtube-container\u0022\u003E\u003Ciframe allowfullscreen=\u0022false\u0022 class=\u0022youtube-video\u0022 frameborder=\u00220\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/f1zwxeoWvW8?rel=0\u0022\u003E\u003C\/iframe\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cstrong\u003EUPDATE:\u003C\/strong\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\n\u003Cp\u003EHere\u0027s the scene:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022youtube-container\u0022\u003E\u003Ciframe allowfullscreen=\u0022false\u0022 class=\u0022youtube-video\u0022 frameborder=\u00220\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/ZDBfs32YpKE?rel=0\u0022\u003E\u003C\/iframe\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cp\u003ERe: #7 -- I mean, I see plenty of black guys having no trouble with this. The odds of a false accusation are higher with other-race women, but still not crazy high. But yes, if you\u0026#39;re super paranoid about it and just trying to get your odds down as low as possible, avoiding white women and Latinas should help.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\n\u003Cp\u003ERe: #8 -- in my experience, yes. If you won\u0026#39;t sleep with her the first night off online, I\u0026#39;m not really sure what you hope to get from her. Most of the women I\u0026#39;ve met off online where we didn\u0026#39;t shag the first date, we never did. As far as I\u0026#39;m concerned, online \/ dating apps is \u0026quot;first date sex or bust.\u0026quot;\u003C\/p\u003E\n\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3033\/88805\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-88745\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/88745#comment-88745\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022SZ\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022SZ\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022SZ\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022SZ\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/88745#comment-88745\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EReply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ESZ (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 12 August 2019  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/girls-who-want-you-vs-girls-who-are-bored-available\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHey Chase,\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EDon\u0027t know if you saw my last comment or if it was too long to read, but here is a shorter version of it and I also wanted to reply to your last comment.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E1. why did I never become a natural? I slept with women since my early teens, girls even flaked on me then, the only thing I didn\u0027t do was sleep with girls I wasn\u0027t attracted to. even back then I had girls playing games with me and flaking, I also had a lot of girls like me as well. I started very young and always had a girl around that gave me some type of pleasure as a young teen, so the only reason why I didn\u0027t become a natural was because I didn\u0027t want to sleep with girls I didn\u0027t want?\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E2. When you said I\u0027ve been at this for 6\/7 years with no improvement. That\u0027s true to an extent, I haven\u0027t improved with sleeping with tons of women, but I did improve with my game, deep dive, conversation, etc.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003Ebefore I had no idea what to say to girls before this site, I had no idea on how to ask for a number.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI feel I got a lot of it down, but I\u0027m missing something with game.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003Enow about the 6\/7 year thing. I found this site around that time, but I didn\u0027t start commenting until around after I went out for two years of going out to clubs every weekend. when I started commenting is when I was beginning to slow down and gave up pick up.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003Eso at that time when I was writing more questions than ever, like 3 years ago, I was in a relationship that I had well maintained, but I still wanted to sleep with more women, but didn\u0027t want to deal with all the annoying rejections and games again.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003Eso after 3-4 years here we are and I\u0027m ready back to improve.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI say that to say this, I\u0027m not a dude who is beyond terrible with women, I know how to keep them around, but I can\u0027t get past flakes atm, once I sleep with them it\u0027s all good.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u0027m in a dry spell right now only because I don\u0027t want to to sleep with old girls that want me right now because I don\u0027t want to get lazy again like I did for those 3 years.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003Eso I\u0027d say yes the flake thing has been going on for 6-7 years, but I still had different women to sleep with during those times for years and I didn\u0027t have any dry spells.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003Eeverything has improved for me with women during that time, especially my mental game.\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003Eonly thing is getting girls to come out to go on dates with me, that\u0027s all I struggle with.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003Eso the majority of my non improment with getting more notches and partners was because I just gave up taking action, but still wanted what I wanted mentally.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI even went out solo and I never do that before, I feel very confident now doing that, that was a big improvement for me.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E3. So I still want to get to 100, I\u0027d like a refresher to get there the old fashion way. I still plan to use the notch cheat sheet, but I still want to learn game and get past my flakes.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u200b\u200b\u200b\u200bso assuming I have a 9-5, go to the gym, and use a little spare time to work on a business or skill.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003Ehow much work should I put in a week to reach my goal of 100 women in the not too distant future?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003Eif I remember correctly, you said at one time to talk to 20 women a night for 3-4 days at the club or bar? correct me if I\u0027m wrong.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003Eand what would be the number of girls to approach during day game? and how many days?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003Emy goal is to have these number of approaches I should be making and days I should go out to get closer to my 100 woman goal.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003Eso what would the basic template be if I want to reach that goal within a few years?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI plan to jot this down so I can remember the numbers of what I\u0027m supposed to do.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI think this might be what I need to help my sticking point; talking to a whole bunch more women than before.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u200b\u200b\u200b\u200b\u200b4.\u00a0I read in one of your comments to a reader about cool people look cool about not giving a fuck, I wanted to learn how can I really do that in my life and actually make it true?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI worry about a lot if you couldn\u0027t tell, I\u0027m paranoid about everything and worry about everything.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI just do what I want to do and not give a fuck. I\u0027ve tried it in the past, but it doesn\u0027t last and I go back to worrying.\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u200b\u200b\u200b\u200b\u200b\u200bany tips on this trait I would greatly appreciate.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E5. how can I change my current mindset with women? I feel that I\u0027m being extra thirsty and feel like such a rookie that gets no girls.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003Ewhen I read my messages it\u0027s like reading a lame dude, all these guys do is brag about their success and I\u0027m here still talking about the same problems\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u200b\u200b\u200b\u200bI have been sleeping with women for a long time, I shouldn\u0027t be acting like this, I want to be more chill.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003Eso how can I still go hard with my partner count goals, but not\u00a0give off a thirsty I need 100 women energy ?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003Elike I want if bad, but I don\u0027t want to have that energy make me too thirsty that it makes me look thirsty.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI want to be chill, I want to be like the guy I am that has been sleeping with women and having them fall in love with me as a young teen.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI want to just not care about women and not give a fuck, but I still want to go hard with getting women while being chill and I cooler version of myself because I feel my thirsty mindset isn\u0027t helping me.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003Ein my mind I want to fake it like I slept with 100 women already even though I haven\u0027t, I want to be able to have that calmness about me, as if I already did sleep with many women.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003Ehope this make sense.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u200b\u200b\u200b\u200b\u200bThanks\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3033\/88745\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-88806\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/88806#comment-88806\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/88806#comment-88806\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EQuestions\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Wednesday, 4 September 2019  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/girls-who-want-you-vs-girls-who-are-bored-available\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/88745#comment-88745\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003ESZ-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E#1 -- yes, probably. Every natural I know has a voracious sexual appetite. He sleeps with any woman who crosses his path and makes it easy enough for him. Priority #1 for him is getting his penis into vagina...and \u003Cem\u003Enew\u003C\/em\u003E vaginas, most importantly. To that end he becomes a constant optimizer, looking for ways to get better and better all the time with game. Typically he has a certain inclination, like sucking women into his world, that he always strives to do better at. If you don\u0027t have those same or similar drives, you aren\u0027t going to climb to natural-dom.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E#2 -- okay, that\u0027s great then. I wasn\u0027t aware of all the improvements. That\u0027s excellent. The content of your comments always seems to be \u0022I\u0027ve been doing this so long, why aren\u0027t I getting any better, I haven\u0027t really started, why does it take so long, I go out sometimes, but these girls always flake\u0022, and stays that way for years. So the impression one gets is you are stuck in place and going nowhere fast. Text isn\u0027t always a good indicator of how a guy is in real life... you may be doing a lot better than you seem in your comments and just aren\u0027t communicating it, because you only communicate your sticking points here and aren\u0027t talking about your successes\/improvements.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe \u0027missing something\u0027 thing is almost impossible to diagnose past a certain point unless you have a guy to work with in person. I\u0027ve seen a variety of \u0027missing something\u0027 guys over the years and once a guy is a year or two into game, if he\u0027s still missing something, no matter how many talented guys he talks to online it won\u0027t get fixed. Whether any of these guys actually figure out the problem or not, the guy himself will say \u0022That\u0027s not it\u0022, or he\u0027ll try their advice and either can\u0027t implement it or doesn\u0027t know how. One friend of mine who\u0027s like this met up with Hector recently, and remarked that he saw Hector do things that worked very well for Hector, then when he went and tried those same things himself they didn\u0027t work, and he realized there were nuances he wasn\u0027t grasping but he wasn\u0027t sure how to figure out what they were. Often this seems to be the primary problem with \u0027missing something\u0027 guys: there are nuances the guy is missing, but he isn\u0027t able to figure out what they are on his own, and because so much of this stuff is \u0022working on your own \/ figuring stuff out on your own\u0022, he ends up stuck.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E#3 -- it is much, much more than the volume of approaches you do. If you make 10,000 golf swings but aren\u0027t working on your swing the right way, you may not improve your swing much. If you make 10,000 free throws but aren\u0027t trying to get better the right way, you may see little change between #1 and #9,999. I\u0027ve seen guys do thousands of approaches and see little improvement. It is not just volume (though volume is a part of it... but not the only thing by far). Again, if you want to get numbers in a hurry, I strongly, strongly suggest you do one of the things in \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/top-7-easiest-ways-get-laid-raise-your-notch-count\u0022\u003Ethis post\u003C\/a\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E#4 -- see \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/how-be-cool-ultimate-4-part-coolness-formula\u0022\u003Ethis post\u003C\/a\u003E, \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/devil-may-care-attitude-what-it-how-get-it\u0022\u003Ethis post\u003C\/a\u003E, and \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/how-be-smooth-women-and-take-more-lovers\u0022\u003Ethis post\u003C\/a\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E#5 -- see these four posts:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cul\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/events-vs-process-what-spectators-dont-see\u0022\u003EEvents vs. Process: What Spectators Don\u0027t See\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/how-not-be-needy-small-scarcity-big-scarcity\u0022\u003EHow to Not be Needy: Small Scarcity \u0026amp; Big Scarcity\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/what-neediness-and-why-do-guys-get-needy-over-girls\u0022\u003EWhat is Neediness, and Why Do Guys Get Needy Over Girls?\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/neediness-repulses-women-abundance-mentality-makes-them-chase\u0022\u003ENeediness Repulses Women, Abundance Mentality Makes Them Chase\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYou may also want to pick up a copy of the book \u003Cem\u003EThe Practicing Mind\u003C\/em\u003E, which is about learning to enjoy the process instead of getting stressed out about not being at the destination yet.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      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