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id=\u0022comment-88493\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/88493#comment-88493\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Zorz\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Zorz\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Zorz\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Zorz\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/88493#comment-88493\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EWow. That\u0026#039;s a really great\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EZorz (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Sunday, 16 June 2019  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/girls-who-want-sleep-you-usually-know-it-right-away\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EWow. That\u0027s a really great article! Although I don\u0027t have much experience as a seducer,\u00a0 I have studied and applied to myself Freudian psychoanalysis. And as I started exploring and understanding myself and the sexual limitations that was subconsciously present in me, I begun to recognize the same limitations in women. And then the amazing truth that you describe in your post hit me. It wasn\u0027t that most women didn\u0027t want me, it was that they just needed help overcoming their inner obstacles just like I did. Once I started thinking and acting this way I found success with them. Seduction is like a small psychoanalysis.\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI am very glad to find that someone discovered the same truth through a different path.\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3007\/88493\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-88505\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/88505#comment-88505\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/88505#comment-88505\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ELowering Resistance \/ Getting Past Inner Obstacles\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 18 June 2019  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/girls-who-want-sleep-you-usually-know-it-right-away\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/88493#comment-88493\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EZorz-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYes, exactly.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYou could almost say \u0022Anyone could do anything... except for his own mental resistance.\u0022\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe better you get at removing resistance from others, the better able you are to free them to do things they want, that you also want them to do.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt\u0027s also possible to do this in ways that are harmful... cult leaders removing the resistance for self-destructive behavior, for instance.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo there is a large degree of responsibility you have as you get better and better at removing resistance from people.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut really, anyone is capable of anything, if the internal resistance that person has to the thing goes down. That\u0027s why alcohol is so popular as a hookup aid: because it lowers resistance.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3007\/88505\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-88513\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/88513#comment-88513\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Zorz\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Zorz\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Zorz\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Zorz\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/88513#comment-88513\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EResistance and indifference\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EZorz (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Wednesday, 19 June 2019  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/girls-who-want-sleep-you-usually-know-it-right-away\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/88505#comment-88505\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EFunny thing is that the mental models that society provides us are useless. I grew up believing that resisting something means that you do not want that, that you are indifferent to it. How foolish of me, psychoanalysis taught me. There\u0027s got to be a will in the first place in order to resist it. You\u0027ve got to want that in order to resist to it. Otherwise you would be totally indifferent. And that\u0027s the point where I understandood the quote \u0022The opposite of love is not hate. They are the same. The opposite is indefference\u0022.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EApplying this to women, not even one out of a hundred was truly indifferent to me. Sure I faced a lot of resistance and tests and even insults, but I began to understand that they wanted something and they resisted to it. It was not even me that they were trying to resist but themselves, their inner wishes.\u00a0 The more lust I saw in their eyes, the more resistance I was expecting. That\u0027s funny.\u00a0 And that\u0027s why women are silly and cute. But then again it\u0027s the same reason I wouldn\u0027t trust a woman who gets angry, upset, frustrated, evasive etc when I ask her if she would cheat. She is resisting, and to resist requires a will in the first place. Calm indifference in her reactions is what I would trust. And that\u0027s rare in women.\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOne day I read one of your quotes \u0022A test is but an invitation: Make me submit if you have the ability to\u0022 and everything that happens in a seduction made at last perfect sense to me. You don\u0027t walk up to a woman persuade her to like you. Most of the times she already does (it\u0027s very funny how stupid you can be when you are a beginner). You walk up to persuade her to just let her guards down (submit). Most men, like me in the past, can\u0027t tell the difference between resistance and indifference, and that\u0027s sad, because they think that women don\u0027t like them. And they miss one of the greatest things life has to offer, love.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3007\/88513\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-88494\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/88494#comment-88494\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u00221984\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u00221984\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u00221984\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u00221984\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/88494#comment-88494\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003E\u0026quot;When a man walks up to a\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E1984 (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Sunday, 16 June 2019  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/girls-who-want-sleep-you-usually-know-it-right-away\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003E\u0022When a man walks up to a woman, assuming he\u0027s taller than she is, she has to look up to look at him; this is a bit like looking up at a lover in bed.\u0022\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EDo you know what goes through the mind of the women if the guy is shorter than her though? I always wonder about that.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u0022 that lack of the \u0027guy above her when he walks up\u0027 effect may even be part of the reason guys often struggle with women taller than themselves - though of course you can still do very well with women even as a short guy [\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/dating-short-guy-what-know-and-do\u0022\u003E\u003Cstrong\u003Elink 1\u003C\/strong\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E] \u0022\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYes, that article had a really good tip which I used that gave me pretty good results with a girl much taller than me.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3007\/88494\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-88506\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/88506#comment-88506\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/88506#comment-88506\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EWhen She\u0026#039;s Taller Than You\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 18 June 2019  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/girls-who-want-sleep-you-usually-know-it-right-away\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/88494#comment-88494\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003E1984-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\u003Cp\u003EDo you know what goes through the mind of the women if the guy is shorter than her though? I always wonder about that.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EGood question... I don\u0027t know.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI guess that would make it more important to get her in a lower position than you at some point early on. She leans against the bar while you stand erect; she\u0027s seated while you\u0027re standing. Etc.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAs far as \u0022what flashes through the mind of a taller woman when you approach\u0022 though, I\u0027d need to talk to a self-aware woman or two about the \u0022looking up at him in bed\u0022 concept and ask her if she relates to that and what the difference is when the guy is shorter. And what short guys who\u0027ve bedded her have done different (if there\u0027s a difference in how they make this impression).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3007\/88506\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-88495\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/88495#comment-88495\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Lover\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Lover\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Lover\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Lover\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/88495#comment-88495\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EConflicted\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ELover (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 17 June 2019  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/girls-who-want-sleep-you-usually-know-it-right-away\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003E\u0022Most women don\u0027t start to immediately think about sex when they see a man they like. Instead, a woman feels an opening up of possibilities with that man. If he wanted sex with her, she wouldn\u0027t immediately be opposed to the idea, like she would with some other men.\u0022\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThis is \u003Cem\u003Ethe\u003C\/em\u003E most controversial thing ever stated.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt\u0027s\u00a0the first time in the 5 years I\u0027ve known\u00a0GC that I actually feel some dissonance reading an article. But I have to say it makes sense.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMy first thought until the quote: \u0022But do women realize this consciously?\u0022\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThen I read the quote, and I\u0027m like \u0022This is definitely not the\u00a0male perspective\u0022.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENo matter what way I try to twist my memories of former lovers and FWB, right now I can\u0027t help but think \u0022so they wanted to explore what was on the table, and I led them to intimacy\u0022. With some of them, I can think of one particular\u00a0event\u00a0that was \u003Cem\u003Ethe\u003C\/em\u003E turning point\u00a0where intimacy was almost inevitable after that. And when they mentioned how bold\/confident\/passionable\/etc. that particular thing (like holding them in my arm or speaking about my ambitions etc) was, and they liked it... all I could wonder was \u0022what happened all of a sudden?! The vibe was so platonic between us for so long!\u0022 (social circle)\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAs I\u0027m writing this, this article\u00a0almost feels like a part 2 of your old article \u0022she doesn\u0027t have to know your name\u0022.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThanks for challenging my views.\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3007\/88495\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-88507\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/88507#comment-88507\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/88507#comment-88507\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EIs She Aware of Your \u0026#039;Sex Potential\u0026#039;?\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 18 June 2019  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/girls-who-want-sleep-you-usually-know-it-right-away\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/88495#comment-88495\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003ELover-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHappy to have challenged them!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYes, this is definitely not how men think. It\u0027s why women will talk about men as having a one-track mind. The woman\u0027s mind has a whole bunch of tracks, cris-crossing each other, going in different directions. She COULD sleep with him... or be friends with him. Or have a nice conversation with him, and never talk to him again. Or enter into a prolonged courtship with him. She isn\u0027t sure, she just knows she likes him, and would like to know more about him, and see what she feels as she gets to know him more. But the possibility is there at the outset (and is his to lose).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWomen have varying levels of consciousness of how they \u0022work\u0022 in this regard, in my experience. I have slept with girls who when I talked about it basically said they thought about it a little when I first approached, then really decided yes at some moment later. I have also slept with girls who told me they never even thought of sleeping with me until I kissed them in the apartment. Obviously, the potential was there all along with both types of girls... but some realized it; others did not.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe \u0022vibe was platonic for so long\u0022 thing is a thing that will happen often with the less-conscious girls. They may not even realize they\u0027re considering you for sex until something you do flashes a big neon \u0022SEX!\u0022 sign in front of their faces. And which point they say to themselves \u0022Oh! Sex! Okay!\u0022 and they think it just popped up out of nowhere. It didn\u0027t pop out of nowhere, but because they don\u0027t have conscious access to that it feels to them like it did.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe mind\u0027s a funny thing, eh? :)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3007\/88507\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-88496\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/88496#comment-88496\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022simon iowa\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022simon iowa\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022simon iowa\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022simon iowa\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/88496#comment-88496\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EThanks for this article,\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003Esimon iowa (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 17 June 2019  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/girls-who-want-sleep-you-usually-know-it-right-away\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EThanks for this article, Chase. I\u0027ve always wondered about this exact thing. Is she a \u0027yes\u0027 or \u0027no\u0027 girl from the moment she meets you, and is this set in stone? It seems like the answer is, for all practical purposes, yes. I\u0027ve often got a sense that I was rejected before I even had a chance to express myself with some women and this explains why. While other dating sites are telling guys to tell stories, bond, amuse,\u00a0build intrigue etc. to get girls attracted, you\u0027re telling it how it is and reminding us that those techniques are for girls who are already \u0027yes\u0027 girls the moment you meet them. And asking girls to move, as you always recommend, is a sure fire way to identify the \u0027yes\u0027 girls.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThis explains why guys really should respond to approach invitations, and why guys who don\u0027t get them might be justified in not bothering. It\u0027s not good news for guys like myself, who have terrible fundamentals, but want to do well, but that\u0027s life!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3007\/88496\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-88508\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/88508#comment-88508\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/88508#comment-88508\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ERaw Biological Attraction\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 18 June 2019  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/girls-who-want-sleep-you-usually-know-it-right-away\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/88496#comment-88496\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003ESimon-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYes, for sure!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd, there\u0027s a certain amount of success you can have even with awful fundamentals\/game if you just respond to the signals you get and make moves.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESome attraction is just raw biological attraction, based on things like facial similarity and immune gene compatibility. Women who are facially\/immunologically\/other biologically compatible with you will be attracted to you even if you look a bit sloppy and are off your game. Of course, you still need to be able to lead them to getting together with you. So you still need to make moves, be confident enough, and know what you\u0027re doing.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBeyond that though, yes, you must use fundamentals and game to improve the range of women you can succeed with, and how well you do with them \/ how easy it is for you.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3007\/88508\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-88498\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/88498#comment-88498\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022SZ\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022SZ\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022SZ\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022SZ\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/88498#comment-88498\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EWhat is going on ?\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ESZ (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 18 June 2019  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/girls-who-want-sleep-you-usually-know-it-right-away\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHey Chase,\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E1. I don\u0027t know what\u0027s going on, but it\u0027s like girls are being a lot more difficult now than they were before.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EGirls are into me, I try to move fast and get dates, etc.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut these chick\u0027s are now flaking, not responding, going ghost etc.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThey legit just ghost after a couple of messages.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWomen have become a lot ruder and more entitled as of late.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EFunny thing is, aren\u0027t more men becoming incel and going their own way? So wouldn\u0027t women be less entitled?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt seems now that they\u0027re more bitchy than before. I never had women treat me like this and it has caused me to become bitter. They are literally going ghost and cutting contact with no rhyme or reason.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EA girl could be telling you all about her life, excited to see you, initiating contact with you, sending you messages, then she just stops and goes ghost.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd these women aren\u0027t attractive either at all.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI will mention that this is off dating apps, but I still deal with this from nightlife and social girls as well.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWtf is going on and how do I stop this?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E2. What is the best method of getting a girl to a hotel after a first date? Don\u0027t have my place right now and I\u0027ve tried getting a hotel before a date after getting some advice from people, but guess what? She flaked and I wasted money :) so I will not do that again, fuck that!!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo what would be the best way to do it? I was thinking of saying I can\u0027t bring her to mines for whatever reason, so I would ask if she is cool with me coming over to hers, and if she\u0027s not I\u0027ll ask how she feels about a hotel.\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI would love to have a hotel already, but I wasted money on a flake and I damn sure ain\u0027t doing that again.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHow would that scenario work to get a girl to get \u00a0a hotel with you the first night?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI feel telling her about how she can\u0027t come over, then asking about hers, then if that doesn\u0027t work, get a hotel works because it shows its the only option left if she doesn\u0027t feel comfortable with u coming over.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut how do you pull it off smoothly? A chick might still not put out. Should we ask for the girl to go half on the hotel? How do we know she\u0027ll really come there with us and if she\u0027ll come to the room after its paid for?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPlus even if I did have my own place, I can\u0027t be bringing a lot of different bitches there and I don\u0027t want to go to every girls house either.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI plan on using hotels for all my dates.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E3. And another thing, how do you know a girl won\u0027t just leave you if she\u0027s following you back to a place in her car? Where I live you have to drive and I don\u0027t really wanna pick women up like that, so I had a thought, what if I try to get a chick to come back with me, but she drives off while following me?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo what\u0027s the best way to have a girl follow you back to your place or hotel? Do we have to pick them up?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThanks\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3007\/88498\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-88509\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/88509#comment-88509\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/88509#comment-88509\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EGetting Girls to Hotels, Girls Following You in Their Cars\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 18 June 2019  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/girls-who-want-sleep-you-usually-know-it-right-away\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/88498#comment-88498\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003ESZ-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThere does seem to be some of that, with women and men alike getting bitchier. It is weird to see BOTH sexes doing it at once, I agree. That said, while there is more cynicism than there was in the past, it\u0027s not like night and day. Women have been flaking and ghosting on guys with abandon so long as cell phones have been around (and before that, with land lines).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\u003Cp\u003EA girl could be telling you all about her life, excited to see you,  initiating contact with you, sending you messages, then she just stops  and goes ghost.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd these women aren\u0027t attractive either at all.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI will mention that this is off dating apps, but I still deal with this from nightlife and social girls as well.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWtf is going on and how do I stop this?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EGet off the dating apps and meet girls in the real world, for one thing.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWomen ranked from most crazy\/flakey\/bitchy\/ghosty to least:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Col\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EGirls you meet online \/ through dating apps\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EGirls you meet through nightclubs and raves\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EGirls you meet at wild house parties\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EGirls you meet at lounges\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EGirls you meet at Meet-Up groups\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EGirls you meet at the local bar\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EGirls you meet everywhere else\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ol\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt sounds like you\u0027re focused on the two flakiest, nuttiest, most problem-woman-filled dating environments there are. If you don\u0027t like dealing with those problems, cut those environments out, or at least mix in more of some less-flakey\/crazy ways to meet girls.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\u003Cp\u003EI would love to have a hotel already, but I wasted money on a flake and I damn sure ain\u0027t doing that again.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHow would that scenario work to get a girl to get \u00a0a hotel with you the first night?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EGet her to agree she\u0027s having a great time with you and would love to keep spending time with you, then mention your place is pretty far outside of town but you\u0027ve got a great place you can go. Then take her to a hotel room, book a room, and get a bottle of wine or champagne up to the room for the two of you to enjoy.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\u003Cp\u003EAnd another thing, how do you know a girl won\u0027t just leave you if she\u0027s  following you back to a place in her car? Where I live you have to drive  and I don\u0027t really wanna pick women up like that, so I had a thought,  what if I try to get a chick to come back with me, but she drives off  while following me?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt can happen. The longer the drive, the more likely she is to bolt. The less sold she is before you leave with her, the more likely. Tips:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cul\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EKeep your phone at the ready on speaker and OFF \u0022don\u0027t bother me while I\u0027m driving\u0022 mode so if she calls to ask you how much farther, you can answer\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf possible, get her to agree to go in your car and you\u0027ll pick up her car later\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETry to not be too far from wherever you\u0027re going out... 15 minutes max ideally. Make sure you give her a REALISTIC idea about the time involved, and actually overshoot it by about 5 minutes. e.g., if it takes 15 minutes to get to your place: \u0022It\u0027s a 20-minute drive from here, but the place is really nice\u0022\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3007\/88509\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-88503\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/88503#comment-88503\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Ben\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Ben\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Ben\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Ben\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/88503#comment-88503\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EDo most women not like you?\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EBen (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 18 June 2019  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/girls-who-want-sleep-you-usually-know-it-right-away\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHey chase this article has got me thinking about something. Since cold approaching will result in more negative reactions and rejections than positive results does that mean that the majority of women don\u0027t like you or want anything to do with you? You\u0027ve said that even if your fundamentals are great,your game is outstanding and you are a very attractive man you will still get rejected a lot more by women than you will get accepted by them as a lover. Why is that? I feel like a decent amount\u00a0of girls at work find me cute at least,but even if I asked them out\u00a0or made a move on them I would probably still get declined or get some resistance. Does this go back to what you said about women needing to feel\u00a0allowed to sleep with you?\u00a0Is this all resistance that as a man you have to push through? Maybe a girl doesnt act receptive because she doesnt want to be too easy.How do you distinguish resistance from rejection because I always\u00a0feel like it\u0027s one and the same.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3007\/88503\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-88510\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/88510#comment-88510\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/88510#comment-88510\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EPossibilities Opening Up with Women Who Know You Socially\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 18 June 2019  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/girls-who-want-sleep-you-usually-know-it-right-away\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/88503#comment-88503\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EBen-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESure, on average, most women you meet through cold approach won\u0027t want much from you. They\u0027re in their own worlds, trying to do whatever they\u0027re trying to do, and you don\u0027t have that instant appeal for them when you approach. That gets better as you get better at targeting \/ sniping, of course. Then you start to approach more and more the women you can sense will want to meet you.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIn social circle (or work), as women are exposed more to you, assuming you are a guy with enough attractive qualities, they will tend to like you more and more. The possibilities with you begin to open up. However, if they\u0027ve known you for a while and you haven\u0027t flirted much with them or made moves on them or invitations, you become a fixture in their lives. They get used to you in that role of \u0022guy I know socially, that maybe something could happen with, but actually nothing ever will.\u0022 When you try to break out of that role, it\u0027s incongruous... why are you suddenly acting different? So their resistance goes back up. \u0022Whoa, that\u0027s not Ben... Ben\u0027s never been serious about asking me out before. What\u0027s going ON with him?\u0022 I talked about that effect in \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/secret-hooking-friends\u0022\u003Ethis article\u003C\/a\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThere are ways to do the social circle thing well... basically by being the cad who is always making passes at women and flirting with them, so they never settle into seeing you as the \u0022cute but harmless guy.\u0022 It\u0027s a bit of a tightrope though, because you also have to not be annoying, and stay away from the women who will (in today\u0027s environment) use your overtures to throw you under the bus and advance their careers. Normally I\u0027d recommend not dating at work, unless you\u0027ve already handed in your two weeks and there\u0027s nothing to lose by taking your shots.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut yeah, as women spend time around you, possibilities that might\u0027ve been closed before will open up. However, at that point you have to deal with the expectations you\u0027ve set by NOT pursuing them aggressively early on... so there\u0027s another type of obstacle, another resistance. One way to think about it is social circle men are \u0022cheap thrills\u0022 for women, because they feel lowered resistance around them, so can flirt with\/fantasize about these men more, while at the same time knowing the guy can\u0027t actually do anything without being incongruous and causing their resistance to shoot back up. Usually it ends up being a sort of harmless flirtation (though there are plenty of exceptions... I think something like 60% of people end up dating\/sleeping with someone from work. So it certainly doesn\u0027t always stay harmless).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3007\/88510\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-88520\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/88520#comment-88520\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Taylor\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Taylor\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Taylor\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Taylor\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/88520#comment-88520\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EGirl I have been seeing..\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ETaylor (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Friday, 21 June 2019  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/girls-who-want-sleep-you-usually-know-it-right-away\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EI\u0027ve been seeing a girl who is 29 yrs old an has 2 kids but she still has her looks and a banging body. For some reason shes told me shes attracted too me, we\u0027ve kissed, but every time I\u0027ve tried to escalate\u00a0to fuck her she gives me LMR every single time. The only time I actually get alone with her is at her house when her kids are asleep but she has a 8 year old and when hes around she told me she doesnt wanna give off the wrong idea (which I understand because he\u0027s at the age where he knows whats going on). I also have been seeing this girl for a few months. I have other girls I see\/fuck but I am pondering why the fuck she keeps stopping me even though I follow the LMR tips on this site and the convo goes good.. \u00a0As your title says \u0022she knows right away if she wants to fuck you\u0022.. Well if this girl who when we are out\/at her house makeout\/hold hands an shit but never fuck.. Should I just give up on this chick or should I approach it another way?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3007\/88520\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-88533\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/88533#comment-88533\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/88533#comment-88533\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EGirls with Kids\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 24 June 2019  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/girls-who-want-sleep-you-usually-know-it-right-away\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/88520#comment-88520\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003ETaylor-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI don\u0027t have a huge amount of experience with single moms (I\u0027ve bedded a few of them here and here over the years... but not my usual type), but from what experience I do have, plus what I hear from friends and others, it seems like you will run into three sorts:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Col\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cstrong\u003EHorny and lonely.\u003C\/strong\u003E She\u0027ll jump your bones the first chance she gets. Doesn\u0027t sound like this is your girl.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cstrong\u003EConservative, searching for a boyfriend.\u003C\/strong\u003E She\u0027ll slow things down if she can, but once she knows she likes you, she\u0027ll be yours. Probably won\u0027t meet her kids until long after the two of you start to date.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cstrong\u003EIn search of a replacement father for her children.\u003C\/strong\u003E She\u0027ll let you meet the kids and try to get you bonded to them before she ever moves things to sex. The most important metric for her is \u0022Will this man be a good father to my children?\u0022\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ol\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf she\u0027s #2, maybe that\u0027s okay. I\u0027m not sure how long it normally takes you to bed a girl, and how far outside your usual league this girl is. If you have to pursue her for more than a month without bedding her though, even if you\u0027re not very active at meeting new women, I\u0027d \u003Cem\u003Ehope\u003C\/em\u003E she\u0027s world class (or even, preferably, wife material).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf she\u0027s #3, I\u0027d probably cut bait, unless you have an overly strong urge to be a father and don\u0027t much care whether it\u0027s your kids or another guy\u0027s. There legitimately are men like that out there, and if she\u0027s a #3, odds are she wants one of them.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhether she\u0027s a #2 or a #3, sounds like you\u0027re deep into boyfriend territory. So you should probably only proceed if you\u0027re confident you want this girl as your girlfriend.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOtherwise, meet some new girls who won\u0027t stretch things out for months.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3007\/88533\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-88539\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/88539#comment-88539\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022John Preston\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022John Preston\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022John Preston\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022John Preston\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/88539#comment-88539\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EHi Chase, first I want to\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EJohn Preston (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 25 June 2019  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/girls-who-want-sleep-you-usually-know-it-right-away\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHi Chase, first I want to thank you for sharing your knowledge about dating and women. I find it very strange how much confident it gives me just by reading a couple of your posts before I\u0027m going out. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI met this really cute girl two weeks ago and she was pretty drunk so all I wanted was to get her phone number. But she initiate everything because she wanted to have sex. She pretty much left me no choice and she wanted to come home with me. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cstrong\u003ESo is it ok to sleep with a woman when she is pretty drunk or is it wrong to do that?\u003C\/strong\u003E \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EShe stayed with me for nine hours and we were awake for 5 hours. I know now that I made couple of mistakes, I was trying to be a nice guy and I told her couple of times how beautiful and how hot she is and that I liked her. At the end, I asked her for her phone number and if she wants to get a coffee sometimes. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cstrong\u003EShe agreed with both, but when I wrote her a text massage the next day she didn\u0027t answer. Why do woman do that, why can\u0027t they just say or write it was a nice one-night stand and move on?\u003C\/strong\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI think it\u2019s kinda mean. That\u0027s the reason how I found your webpage. I wanted to find out why. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAlso sometimes, when a woman is a little drunk, they are really into me. But as soon as they sober up they lose interest and won\u2019t reply my massages. What can I do to avoid this situation?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYou said you should always move a girl, but what do I do when I meet a girl at a quiet place?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd last weekend I was talking with two girls simultaneously, that was a lot of fun, but when I kept digging deeper they were actually pretty boring. They had like no hobbies at all. Both girls kept touching me, but then a friend of them mentioned one of the woman had a date tomorrow so I lost all interest in her. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHow can you tell if a woman is interesting when you only make deep diving?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd I was thinking why is she hunting after men, when she has an important date the next day? \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo I was talking with the other woman and I could tell she was really interested in me but then came an other man to us and started talking with us and she asked me if I was ok \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003Ewith that. Because I had only a little interest in her I said yes. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHow can I get rid of a competitor? \u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EShe went then away a couple of minutes and I was talking to that man. When she came back I said to the man he should make place for her but she didn\u2019t want to sit next me again for some reason. And I just stood up said good bye and left. She was really disappointed because of that. I left because we hadn\u2019t much in common and because she didn\u2019t invested in me. That was probably not very nice of me.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u2019m pretty sure I could have gotten her phone number and possibly even more. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI know it\u2019s a lot of text but I hope you can answer me some of the question or maybe some one other. Thank you\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3007\/88539\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-88547\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/88547#comment-88547\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/88547#comment-88547\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EDrunk Girls Ghosting On You, Competitor Males\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 25 June 2019  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/girls-who-want-sleep-you-usually-know-it-right-away\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/88539#comment-88539\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EJohn-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe morality of sex with drunk girls varies by society. In Scandinavia it is common practice for men and women alike to get wildly drunk, have sex, and everyone considers it good fun.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt was this way in North America for a time as well, but there is now a moral panic about drunk sex at play that muddies the waters... for some people (men and women) it\u0027s good fun; for others it is wrong or traumatizing; and there are also bad actors: men who target extremely drunk women who are barely conscious for sex, and women who engage in consensual drunk sex but knowingly falsely accuse men after of rape. There aren\u0027t a \u003Cem\u003Elot\u003C\/em\u003E of bad actors, but there are enough to make drunk sex less of a good time and more of a risky one. My general recommendation for folks in North America or places with similar moral panics and bad actors in play is \u0022don\u0027t shag drunk chicks.\u0022 Shagging a drunk chick is like doing hard drugs or sticking your hand in a bear cage. Odds are you\u0027ll be fine, but there are also some pretty huge downside risks if the dice roll wrong.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMore on this here:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/sex-and-alcohol\u0022\u003ESex and Alcohol\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAs for girls who will sleep with you once, then ghost you... sure, this happens to everybody. You can be the most attractive, desirable man in the world, and there are women who are still going to use you for sex, then ghost on you after. The reasons are various:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cul\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EShe may have enjoyed the sex, been satisfied by it, and want nothing else. Maybe she likes to have sex with many different men and wants to keep moving. Maybe she just needed a sexual release but doesn\u0027t want to get tied down in any sort of ongoing thing. Maybe she has a boyfriend, or a husband, or a guy she is going out with she hasn\u0027t officially started dating yet, but likes a lot and is pretty sure she will\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EShe may feel embarrassed about the sex. Maybe she thinks you look down on her now because it was too fast, or she acted too slutty, or she was too drunk. She doesn\u0027t want to be around someone who looks down on her, so she avoids you\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EShe may regret the sex. Maybe she has been trying not to hook up with guys, then she had a moment of weakness and hooked up with you. Maybe she had beer goggles on and liked you a lot more when she was drunk than she did the next morning. Maybe she thinks of you as \u0022some random drunk guy\u0022, which was fine for her when she was a random drunk girl, but now that she\u0027s sober she\u0027s grossed out at the thought of doing anything else with you\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EUsually you are not going to know which reason is hers, because she ghosts on you and won\u0027t communicate with you further.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe best way to avoid girls ghosting on you after sex like this is to build more of a connection to them before intimacy, and to \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/how-convert-one-time-sex-regular-sex\u0022\u003Efollow best practices the night of and the morning after\u003C\/a\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\u003Cp\u003EAlso sometimes, when a woman is a little drunk, they are really into  me. But as soon as they sober up they lose interest and won\u2019t reply my  massages. What can I do to avoid this situation?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EDon\u0027t assume that because a girl likes you in one (less inhibited) state, she will like you in another.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAlso, don\u0027t rely on bars\/nightclubs\/parties for dates. If you want women to message\/date, meet them places where they aren\u0027t drunk. Women are many times less likely to meet you later on when they\u0027re sober if they first met you while drunk. For many of the same reasons they may ghost on you after drunk sex (i.e., you\u0027re \u0022just some drunk club guy\u0022 they don\u0027t want to meet when sober; they feel embarrassed about how they acted while drunk; the beer goggles come off and you are \u0022totally not their type\u0022 now; \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/paradox-flirty-girl\u0022\u003Eall they wanted was to flirt\u003C\/a\u003E, and they got that, and now that it\u0027s past they don\u0027t want anything else with you; etc.).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHow can you tell if a woman is interesting when you only make deep diving?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYou might not be \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/what-does-she-want-8-things-you-must-ask-her\u0022\u003Easking about the right things\u003C\/a\u003E. Try to steer the deep dive onto topics the woman will like to talk about, that you personally find interesting. Hobbies usually won\u0027t be part of a deep dive, for instance, because her talking about crocheting or maintaining an Instagram profile or rescuing starving raccoons can only really take you so deep. A good deep dive is about her deep drives, motivations, history, and flaws, and everyone has those.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\u003Cp\u003EBoth girls kept touching me, but then a friend of them mentioned one of  the woman had a date tomorrow so I lost all interest in her.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd I was thinking why is she hunting after men, when she has an important date the next day?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMaybe she\u0027s just horny and wants to get laid?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMaybe she has a date the next day, but isn\u0027t certain this guy is The One?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMaybe you could shag her right now, and when she wakes up in your bed the next morning she\u0027ll text the other guy she can\u0027t make it... or you\u0027ll take her contact info, it won\u0027t go anywhere with the other guy, and she\u0027ll become your girl?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EShe has a date, not a husband. The two are very different.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\u003Cp\u003ESo I was talking with the other woman and I could tell she was really  interested in me but then came an other man to us and started talking  with us and she asked me if I was ok \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003Ewith that. Because I had only a little interest in her I said yes. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHow can I get rid of a competitor?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESee these articles:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cul\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/breaking-circle\u0022\u003EBreaking Circle\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/dealing-disruptive-men\u0022\u003EDealing with Disruptive Men\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/3-ways-human-males-compete-women\u0022\u003E3 Ways Human Males Compete for Women\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\u003Cp\u003Ebut she didn\u2019t want to sit next me again for some reason\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETry this:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/persist-your-insistence\u0022\u003EPersist In Your Insistence\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003Ee.g.,\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\u003Cp\u003EYou: Have a seat.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHer: [shakes head]\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYou: [pat seat] Sit \u003Cem\u003Edooown!\u003C\/em\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHer: I\u0027m just going to stand.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYou: Oh, don\u0027t be a spoil sport. Have a seat, I want to talk to you. Sit.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHer: [sits]\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EA little insistence, with a playful-but-firm delivery, can go a long way.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3007\/88547\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-88550\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/88550#comment-88550\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022John Preston\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022John Preston\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022John Preston\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022John Preston\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/88550#comment-88550\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EHi Chase, thank you very much\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EJohn Preston (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Wednesday, 26 June 2019  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/girls-who-want-sleep-you-usually-know-it-right-away\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/88547#comment-88547\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHi Chase, thank you very much for replying. I\u0027m actually from Norway :-). She wasn\u0027t wasted, she still talked normally and I met her around 2:30 AM and we talked until 7 AM before we heading to my place. So she had like 4 hours to sober up and she was staying in my bed until 5 PM. I think too that hitting on totally wasted girl is completely wrong. She thanked me that I didn\u0027t left her alone and for the intimacy. She probably just wanted to blow off some steam and I wasn\u0027t the right guy for more for her. Unfortunately for me, she was pretty much my dream girl.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI always struggled with the Norwegian culture. Because there are the sober Norwegians: distance, reserved, skeptical about strangers and the drunk Norwegians: open, liking to meet new people, more personal. And many bars in Norway are designed for big groups, so they are sitting at a table from 4 til 8 people and just walking to this groups and speaking with one of them is for me at least really hard. And the social rule in Norway is, never talk to stranger in public transport. Because of all that about 400000 people in Norway don\u0027t have any friends.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo it\u0027s way easier for me to talk to strangers when a had two drinks :-).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETo speak to a woman during the day is really difficult for me. I need a lot off confidence to just walk to a girl on the street and talking with her.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cstrong\u003EDo you have any tips about that?\u003C\/strong\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cstrong\u003EWhere can I meet sober girls during the day? At caf\u00e9s?\u003C\/strong\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cstrong\u003EAnd the last question, how can I move a girl when I met her at quite place in bar, nightclub?\u003C\/strong\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EShould her just ask to move to next table, a couple of meters away when I fist talked to her or should I asking her if she wanna dance for couple minutes and heading back to quit place?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThank you, I\u0027m really glad I found your page.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ERegards John\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3007\/88550\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-88575\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/88575#comment-88575\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/88575#comment-88575\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EGirls Who Just Want You for Sex; Getting Started with Day Game\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Thursday, 4 July 2019  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/girls-who-want-sleep-you-usually-know-it-right-away\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/88550#comment-88550\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EJohn-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThat\u0027ll happen. When a girl pursues you quite hard for sex, especially if she hardly knows you, usually it\u0027s an indication she\u0027s \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/telling-women-youre-not-boyfriend-material\u0022\u003Eruled you out as a boyfriend\u003C\/a\u003E and just wants a hookup.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThere are some things you can do to raise the odds you \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/how-convert-one-time-sex-regular-sex\u0022\u003Econvert her to a regular sex partner\u003C\/a\u003E. But in the \u0022she\u0027s firmly in control of the seduction\u0022 situation, your odds aren\u0027t great. She\u0027s calling the shots, she knows what she wants, and she\u0027s already made her mind up about you... take it or leave it. Can always ping her every so often, and she might come back to you again when she\u0027s in the mood again. Do that a few times and maybe you slip into something more regular with her.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EDon\u0027t know if you\u0027re familiar with our longtime contributor Alek Rolstad, but he\u0027s an Oslo native (primarily a night gamer). \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/articles\/alek-rolstad\u0022\u003E We have tons of content here from him\u003C\/a\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EDay game confidence... well, the anxiety around approaching is standard approach anxiety, whether you experience it by day or by night. Every guy (just about) must deal with this. It\u0027s harder to overcome in day game, which is why you see so few day gamers. On approach anxiety, we have a bunch of tips and guides by various authors:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cul\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/overcoming-approach-anxiety\u0022\u003EOvercoming Approach Anxiety\u003C\/a\u003E (my guide)\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/how-demolish-approach-anxiety-forever\u0022\u003EHow to Demolish Approach Anxiety Forever\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/how-develop-approach-addiction-and-destroy-approach-anxiety-forever\u0022\u003EHow to Develop Approach Addiction (and Destroy Approach Anxiety Forever)\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/conquer-approach-anxiety-approach-game\u0022\u003EConquer Approach Anxiety with The Approach Game\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/how-deal-approach-anxiety-practical-guide\u0022\u003EHow to Deal with Approach Anxiety \u2013 A Practical Guide\u003C\/a\u003E (Alek\u0027s guide)\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/death-approach-anxiety-10-year-reflection-video\u0022\u003EThe Death of Approach Anxiety: A 10-Year Reflection (Video)\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/curb-your-approach-anxiety-flipping-script\u0022\u003ECurb Your Approach Anxiety by Flipping the Script\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAlso probably useful:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cul\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/going-out-meet-women-even-when-you-don-t-want\u0022\u003EGoing Out to Meet Women Even When You Don\u0027t Want To\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EA few pieces on getting started with day game:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cul\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/article\/meeting-women-buses-trains-and-airplanes\u0022\u003EMeeting Women on Buses, Trains, and Airplanes\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/article\/using-day-game-get-girls-14-myths-debunked\u0022\u003EUsing Day Game to Get Girls: 14 Myths Debunked\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/day-pick-take-girls-street-bed-snap\u0022\u003EDay Pick Up: Take Girls from Street to Bed in a Snap\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/how-pick-girls-shopping-gifts-or-groceries\u0022\u003EHow to Pick Up Girls Shopping for Gifts or Groceries\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/pickup-footage-breakdown-what-day-game-really-looks\u0022\u003EPickup Footage Breakdown: What Day Game Really Looks Like\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EDay Game 101 (Jeff Stanton): \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/article\/day-game-101-basics-and-fundamentals\u0022\u003EPart 1\u003C\/a\u003E | \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/day-game-101-new-way-open\u0022\u003EPart 2\u003C\/a\u003E | \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/day-game-101-what-comes-after-approach\u0022\u003EPart 3\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EDay Game Tour (Tony Depp): \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/article\/day-game-tour-tony-depp-pt1-your-mindset\u0022\u003EPart 1\u003C\/a\u003E | \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/article\/day-game-tour-tony-depp-pt2-openers-and-body-language\u0022\u003EPart 2\u003C\/a\u003E | \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/article\/day-game-tour-tony-depp-pt3-i-don-t-know-what-say-girls\u0022\u003EPart 3\u003C\/a\u003E | \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/article\/day-game-tour-tony-depp-pt4-three-rules\u0022\u003EPart 4\u003C\/a\u003E | \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/article\/day-game-tour-tony-depp-pt5-advanced-approach-techniques\u0022\u003EPart 5\u003C\/a\u003E | \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/article\/day-game-tour-tony-depp-pt6-high-five-game\u0022\u003EPart 6\u003C\/a\u003E | \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/day-game-tour-tony-depp-pt7-instant-dates\u0022\u003EPart 7\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E(you can find more on day game if you use the search function... but I\u0027m sure that\u0027s enough to get you started!)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EFor meeting women during daytime, sure, caf\u00e9s can be okay spots for this. You\u0027ll find the most traffic \/ highest volume on some streets, at certain subway stops, and in some shops and shopping malls. University campuses can be okay if you\u0027re not weird about it (i.e., not a guy who\u0027ll freak women out and get reported and run out of there!). Some more spots here:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cul\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/where-find-amazing-woman-20-surprising-places\u0022\u003EWhere to Find an Amazing Woman: 20 Surprising Places\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHope these all help!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/3007\/88575\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-95150\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/95150#comment-95150\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Wanted\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Wanted\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Wanted\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Wanted\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/95150#comment-95150\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EUnderstanding women\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EWanted (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 11 June 2024  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/girls-who-want-sleep-you-usually-know-it-right-away\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EWhat I have understood is that Generally a woman is never yours. Even if you have married her, she is not yours. She makes certain compromises to either follow society rules or for the purpose of family.  Women are not what society or your perception tells you about them.. the thing which surprises me is that I was completely wrong about women. Neither society nor mainstream social media has any clue about what women are . I am actually confused as to how come men are not close to the concept of what women are.  Either men did not pay attention or they never understood it.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nDespite being unpredictable,they are more obedient than men when it comes to following rules of society.. but restraining or forbidding them, they become more curious and eager to break it.. what are they? Obedient or rule breaker? Maybe both. A man does not put many restrictions on himself as his intellect and rationality is in itself is a restriction on what to do and what not to do.. but women to become good has to put restrictions either consciously or unconsciously.. women are born without any restrictions on themselves. Women without any restrictions can do anything. I mean  anything. Men would atleast ask why? Women won\u0027t.. that\u0027s why meme such as \u0022women\u2615\u0022 are related and laughed about by SM. Which shows that sometimes women actions are devoid of any logic and common sense.. they are fascinating and unpredictable but very good at obedience.. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThese views of mine I have developed after reading tons of articles of chase amante.. thank you brother, i relate to every bit of your article.. i developed interest in knowing women after i couldn\u0027t get, a girl who was already sold into me. I thought she played with my emotions. Saw her as evil untill I read about the escalation window and expiry of attraction articles which cleared my every doubt and rationalised her behaviour which was always a mystery to me. Though she left me but I now see her in positive light. I rather developed compassion for her as she had put in lot of efforts. I ruined 1st chance despite she gave me 2nd chance which is very rare which you also have mentioned in your article... 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