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id=\u0022comment-87020\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/87020#comment-87020\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/87020#comment-87020\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EBody size and rebeldom\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAnonymous (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 24 July 2018  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/tactics-tuesdays-5-mid-pull-tips-multiple-girls-wing\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EChase,  I\u0027ve got two doubts:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E1 - I\u0027m only 5\u00276\u0027\u0027. Should I focus my body on tending more towards being fat and muscular (to make up for the perceived lack of physical dominance) or thin and lean (to keep my attractiveness on point)? Finding a fair balance may be an answer, but you and I both know - from experience - that without steroids we tend to go more for one side than the other. In this case, which one would you suggest?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E2 - In your article concerning male identities, one of them is the rebel, which I already identify as. However, you defined it in a sort of a vague way, as in, for example, the intellectual or the businessman both have jobs that one can promptly associate with each identity, but then, what does the rebel do for a living? Yes, a rebel is someone who lives on the shores of society, but still, that doesn\u0027t do much so as to explain it through words alone.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThanks in advance, your page has been very helpful to all of us!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E(if the other comment got through, delete this one)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2703\/87020\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-87366\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/87366#comment-87366\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/87366#comment-87366\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EStout or Thin, and What Do Rebels Do for a Living?\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Sunday, 23 September 2018  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/tactics-tuesdays-5-mid-pull-tips-multiple-girls-wing\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/87020#comment-87020\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EAnon-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI will say among shorter guys I\u0027ve known, the ones who do better with women typically are the guys who have some muscle and maybe a bit of a gut as opposed to the guys who are stick thin. I\u0027d go for \u0027stout and sturdy\u0027 over \u0027nimble and lithe\u0027 at a smaller size.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ERebel isn\u0027t so much a job description, so much as it is someone who goes up against larger powers, conventional thought, established forces and wisdom, etc. It\u0027s also quite subjective. What\u0027s rebellious to a 50-year-old social liberal with a government job may seem extraordinarily conventional\/non-rebellious to a 20-year-old right-leaning social dissident who makes money bartending and moving houses. A rebel can have any type of job... but typically speaking, the less stable one\u0027s work and the smaller one\u0027s bank account, the more credible of a \u0027rebel\u0027 one seems to be. It\u0027s hard to frame yourself as a rebel when you have a successful career or make much money -- both of which are products of working well within an existing system.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo if you want to boil it down to jobs, the ultimate rebel job is \u0027drifter\u0027, \u0027odd-job worker\u0027, \u0027vagabond\u0027. If you don\u0027t actually want to be a drifter, you should probably not talk so much about work or let on that you are particularly professionally successful if you want that image. You can get away with a certain amount of rebel-dom if you run your own business. Particularly if it is something non-mainstream, like you own an art gallery or a hostel or write travel books. Working for \u0027The Man\u0027 or, alternately, living at home with parents who work for \u0027The Man\u0027 is the hardest job to pull off being a rebel at... although even then, if you\u0027re the \u0027guy who wants to change things from the inside\u0027, you can still work that angle.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2703\/87366\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-87402\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/87402#comment-87402\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Max\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Max\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Max\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Max\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/87402#comment-87402\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EBeing taken seriously as a rebel\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EMax (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Thursday, 27 September 2018  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/tactics-tuesdays-5-mid-pull-tips-multiple-girls-wing\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/87366#comment-87366\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EChase, thanks for your reply, but allow me to inquire further regarding the rebel.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHow can the rebel be taken seriously by more \u0022professional\u0022 women or girl types like the Blonde Bombshell (or the Basic Bitch, if you will)? I know assortative mating is a very important aspect of seduction, so does that mean these girls are mostly off-limits to rebels? Moreover, how can a rebel not get framed as an immature manchild who should get a real job and be an adult instead? This may\u00a0apply to the artist identity, also.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThanks for the time,\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMax\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2703\/87402\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-87024\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/87024#comment-87024\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Alessandro\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Alessandro\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Alessandro\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Alessandro\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/87024#comment-87024\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EHow to make a difference\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAlessandro (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Wednesday, 25 July 2018  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/tactics-tuesdays-5-mid-pull-tips-multiple-girls-wing\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EDear Chase, I am Alessandro, 34-year-old doctor from Italy.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPick up theories basically say that the most powerful \u0022weapon\u0022 in the dating dimension is being attractive and alpha (teasing, being confident and not desperate, flirting, etc.), but I have noticed that, in Italy, many many guys have such a \u0022weapon\u0022 and still don\u0027t get laid:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003Efor example, in nightclubs, you can see a very beautiful woman interacting with 5-10 cool guys; she seems attracted by everyone of them, but, at the end, she doesn\u0027t sleep with anyone; she seems so used to have these guys around that the magic attraction skills are ineffective (especially if she is a bartender or a girl who works in the club)!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI know many guy friends who are handsome, socially intelligent, interesting, confident, etc.. Everyone of them can easily conquest \u0022medium\u0022 girls, but the beauties of the club still seem unavailable! There\u0027s a girl I like, for example... she works in a club we attend and is part of our big social circle; she is very beautiful and, every night, many cool guys of the circle hit on her with confidence; she seems attracted by everyone of them, but I doubt she sleeps with anyone. So, what\u0027s the way to make a difference? If being alpha and confident is not enough, what\u0027s the ral \u0022weapon\u0022?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EDeep connection seems the only other \u0022weapon\u0022. What\u0027s your opinion?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EP.S.: one of these beauties was conquered by a guy I know because of his perseverance (it seems you need to be, at the same time, cool and an old fashioned \u0022needy\u0022 suitor to \u0022win\u0022).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2703\/87024\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-87367\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/87367#comment-87367\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/87367#comment-87367\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EThe #1 Most Important Seduction Tool\/Asset\/Ability\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Sunday, 23 September 2018  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/tactics-tuesdays-5-mid-pull-tips-multiple-girls-wing\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/87024#comment-87024\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EAlessandro-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe single greatest weapon in any guy\u0027s seduction armament in my opinion is the ability to ask, invite, propose, and lead. Persistence is a part of that too.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf a guy looks good or seems alpha but he doesn\u0027t try to lead a girl anywhere, or he gives up when she rebuffs his first attempt, he won\u0027t get anything with her.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ELikewise if a guy can make great connections with girls, but doesn\u0027t lead them anywhere. He\u0027s great to talk to and maybe a nice friend, but that\u0027s it.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cstrong\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/secrets-getting-girls-move-faster\u0022\u003EMoving fast\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/strong\u003E, \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/why-leadership-key-seducing-women\u0022\u003E\u003Cstrong\u003Eleading women\u003C\/strong\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E, \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/secrets-getting-girls-make-invites\u0022\u003E\u003Cstrong\u003Emaking invites\u003C\/strong\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E, \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/why-chasing-women-doesnt-work-and-why-persistence-does\u0022\u003E\u003Cstrong\u003Epersisting\u003C\/strong\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E -- those are the tools that make the difference between \u0027attractive guy just doesn\u0027t do it for her for some reason\u0027 and \u0027guy who wasn\u0027t super attractive but got the girl\u0027. Women \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/what-backward-rationalization-and-how-it-affects-you-girls\u0022\u003E\u003Cstrong\u003Ebackward rationalize\u003C\/strong\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E; the sexiest guy is not the best-looking guy or the most alpha guy or the guy who builds the best connection. The sexiest guy is the guy she has sex with; she will find reasons to decide why he is the sexiest and why he was the best choice after they\u0027ve hooked up.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2703\/87367\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-87401\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/87401#comment-87401\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Alessandro\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Alessandro\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Alessandro\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Alessandro\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/87401#comment-87401\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EThanks\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAlessandro (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Thursday, 27 September 2018  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/tactics-tuesdays-5-mid-pull-tips-multiple-girls-wing\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/87367#comment-87367\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EThank you very much, Chase.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhen I wrote that question, I didn\u0027t know the power of being direct. After posting my message to you, I tried a new way to interact with women; I discovered that the so called \u0022attraction techniques\u0022 are very weak when compared with bold action.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBold action is the difference, and your answer is another proof.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOne day, a beautiful girl had a guitar lesson with me. I was professional, but, since I liked her, my kino was intense. At the end of the lesson, she invited me to have a walk. I kissed her and communicated my strong desire and she wanted to have sex with me. We had wild sex on the examination table. Next lesson: she introduced me her boyfriend. Now she seems very cold. I am cold and professional too. P.S.: What should I do to seduce her again?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHowever, I\u0027ll always be direct with women: it\u0027s also a way to respect my time and my feelings.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2703\/87401\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-87027\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/87027#comment-87027\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Lawliet\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Lawliet\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Lawliet\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Lawliet\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/87027#comment-87027\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EWhen she questions your masculinity \/ rewarding her properly\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ELawliet (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Thursday, 26 July 2018  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/tactics-tuesdays-5-mid-pull-tips-multiple-girls-wing\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHey Chase,\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EGreat article here and in your \u0022When men question your masculinity\u0022 one.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI have a question for the latter, what if she questions or challenges your masculinity?\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nMaybe in a mocking way \u0022Oh that\u0027s manly\u0022 or in an indirect way under frame control. How do you usually handle these?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EA bored look in response would be good, but what about verbally? Wit is good to beat tests.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nAny verbal examples would be nice.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ERe: Rewarding her when she\u0027s chasing\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI am still trying to correct myself to make myself more attainable.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nWith this in mind, the girls who are chasing us (frame), giving us compliments (I like that hat) or even direct statement of interest (You\u0027re such a tease...I like it), how do we reward them properly so to maintain their good behaviour? Otherwise, if we remain stoic toward their efforts, they eventually grow tired, think we are playing them and then give up and go auto rejection.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIs there a way to reward them without losing the good frame?\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nTouching? But touching might not be more of a tension release unless made rare and calibrated (No touch article).\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nWhat about verbally?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf we were to compliment them back tho, it would reverse the frame.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHmm... I\u0027m out of ideas and out of candy from the rewarding jar. Could you give me some scenarios to demonstrate how you would do it?\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nRule of thumb to use in situations would be nice too :)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESincerely thank you, Chase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ELawliet\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2703\/87027\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-87368\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/87368#comment-87368\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/87368#comment-87368\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EDeflecting Masculinity Challenges \u0026amp; Rewarding Girls Who Chase\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Sunday, 23 September 2018  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/tactics-tuesdays-5-mid-pull-tips-multiple-girls-wing\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/87027#comment-87027\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003ELawliet-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cstrong class=\u0022pink-dialogue\u0022\u003EHer:\u003C\/strong\u003E Oh that\u0027s manly.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cstrong class=\u0022blue-dialogue\u0022\u003EYou:\u003C\/strong\u003E You\u0027re goddamn right it is.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/bored-look-use-it-get-women-engaged\u0022\u003EBored look\u003C\/a\u003E is a little feminine... so this is one instance where it\u0027s not the best response. Instead, something assertive, dominant, and confident wins the game.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EUse \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/7-ways-touch-girl-3-ways-have-her-touch-you\u0022\u003Etouch\u003C\/a\u003E, \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/article\/awareness-radius-get-noticed-rewardpunish-and-more\u0022\u003Eawareness radius\u003C\/a\u003E, and forward progress in the courtship to reward women for good behavior. Let her see her efforts are paying off, and that the courtship is going somewhere. See my article on \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/tactics-tuesdays-kisses-good-behavior\u0022\u003Ekisses for good behavior\u003C\/a\u003E on the basic philosophy of rewarding with touch in a non-reactive, non-tension-dispelling way.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2703\/87368\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-87238\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/87238#comment-87238\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022SZ\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022SZ\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022SZ\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022SZ\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/87238#comment-87238\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003E6 months to a year\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ESZ (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Sunday, 26 August 2018  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/tactics-tuesdays-5-mid-pull-tips-multiple-girls-wing\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHey Chase,\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E1. I might go back to my hometown soon and just feel awful that I haven\u0027t really improved with anything at all.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EReminds me of you comment about drifting through life, that\u0027s what I feel like I was doing and so much time has passed and I have nothing to show.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhile I\u0027m now working on things that are important instead of applying to shitty jobs, I\u0027m trying to figure out what I could do to look impressive to people from my old town.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EEven if I don\u0027t see them in my mind I want to know I did something and have some success.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOn my mind right now I think body would be number one so I\u0027m working on that.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EFinances is 2, but I would never tell people what I do anyway, I just want to know myself that I have a way to make money that way I can feel I did something with myself the last few years.\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo I\u0027m thinking coding or copy would be something I could feel proud about and feel like I have a career with it.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI just want people to see me and think I\u0027ve accomplished a lot, I want the air of accomplishment and success.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHow does it sound? If you have more please add more on what I can do in 6 months to a year that would be accomplishments.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E2. With coding chase, after we learn it would you think it would be better to freelance with or to try to find a job? I know you said to work on learning code quick to get out of my financial situation, but what would be the next step on getting paid for it? The easiest way at least from what you know or think?\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThanks\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2703\/87238\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-87369\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/87369#comment-87369\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/87369#comment-87369\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EBeing Impressive \u0026amp; Freelance vs. Stable Job\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Sunday, 23 September 2018  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/tactics-tuesdays-5-mid-pull-tips-multiple-girls-wing\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/87238#comment-87238\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003ESZ-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EEverything I know\/teach about being impressive revolves around improving yourself to be impressive. \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/how-many-attraction-factors-are-there-infinite\u0022\u003EBetter fundamentals\u003C\/a\u003E, a sense of humor, ability to \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/how-tell-story-rivets-and-captivates\u0022\u003Etell stories\u003C\/a\u003E, improved \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/12-things-every-man-should-have-handled-age-35\u0022\u003Elife prospects\u003C\/a\u003E and \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/top-7-easiest-ways-get-laid-raise-your-notch-count\u0022\u003Elifestyle\u003C\/a\u003E. I don\u0027t have any way I can give you to present yourself as improved if you haven\u0027t actually improved. If you can improve your body that\u0027s great -- only consideration there is showing off the gains in addition to making them (you may need to go around in a sleeveless shirt so folks will notice your arms).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EFreelance vs. stable job... well, it depends how good you are and what you want. If you want a lifestyle where you can live wherever you want and make your own schedule, you\u0027ll definitely want freelance. If you want stability\/security right up front, a job is probably better. And particularly when you\u0027re someone who isn\u0027t that good yet, you have an advantage being black and a coder - a lot of these companies are looking for \u0027diversity hires\u0027 so they can show they aren\u0027t just all white guys and Asian guys working there, but there are not very many black coders. That\u0027s less of an advantage in the freelance world, but in corporate it\u0027s a big advantage. Probably doesn\u0027t matter either way if you\u0027re skilled, but when you\u0027re still at the lower levels of skill it\u0027s a big potential advantage you can leverage at the companies (especially those in very liberal cities like San Francisco, where they\u0027re under a lot of pressure to have an ethnically diverse workforce).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2703\/87369\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-87250\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/87250#comment-87250\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022SZ\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022SZ\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022SZ\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022SZ\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/87250#comment-87250\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EHey\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ESZ (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 27 August 2018  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/tactics-tuesdays-5-mid-pull-tips-multiple-girls-wing\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHey Chase,\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo I was going through the forums and was reading about what u think men should do in their 20s. I had a couple of questions to your responses.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E1. \u0022 \u00a0Hook up with a fair number of girls, but also take some great girlfriends. If you don\u2019t hook up with enough girls, you\u2019ll feel like you missed out. Or you\u2019ll always wonder if you could\u2019ve done better on girlfriends. On the other hand, if you don\u2019t take a few great girlfriends, you\u2019ll burn out of hooking up after a while and choose the wrong girl out of desperation once you\u2019ve had enough. Look after both needs.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EDo the stuff you have to do to prove to yourself you\u2019ve made it, but use it to liberate yourself from those constraints, not be bound to them. e.g., if you feel like you\u2019ve got to hit X number of lays or sleep with Y kind of girl before you\u2019ll feel like you\u2019ve really made it, go do it, but have the goal of, \u201cAnd then I can forget about it,\u201d after, which leads to a feeling of accomplishment and freedom, and not, \u201cAnd then I\u2019ll just do more and more and more of it,\u201d which leads to dissatisfaction and feelings of being trapped and stuck in repetition.\u0022\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EFor those two responses I was wondering what would be the numbers? What would be the number of women you would think is good to sleep with? How many relationships? \u00a0How long?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI honestly don\u0027t like relationships because the girls don\u0027t like how I live, I always liked being relationship free.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u0027ve had long relationships adding up to like 5 years with a few girls. So I think I\u0027m good with relationships.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENow the only relationships I would get in are where I can sleep with women but she has to be loyal, if not then no.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u0027ve only had a handfull of long term relationships. So idk if you would recommend me to get more or not.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u200b\u200b\u200b\u200b\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe second part has to do with how many girls do you think would be enough to be satisfied? \u00a0I personally want to have over 100 lays, but I don\u0027t know if it\u0027s healthy, idk why but triple digit notch counts are what I\u0027m aiming for.\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u0027m worried about not achieving this goal, but I do want to know if I\u0027m being way too unrealistic with it. \u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI won\u0027t feel I made it until I hit 100, but I don\u0027t want to feel like a failure if I don\u0027t.\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo what would be your recommend number of lays you think would be OK if you don\u0027t want to wonder what if? Or worry about missing out?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMy plan is to get to a base number of women to feel OK and well experienced enough that I don\u0027t have to compete with men and women over notch count or experience. What do you think that number would be?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWith 100 women, do you think it\u0027s still possible to achieve that goal without wasting too much time when you\u0027re older ? I know I have to put in a lot of work, but I still want to get finances in order.\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI want 100 because to me it seems you\u0027re up there with enough experience with anyone.\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E2. With learning a martial art, I really love boxing and want to do it with a marital art. Do you think it would be too much to do both at the same time? Or should I just focus on one for a while then the other?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E3. With your standards with women you take as girlfriends. I see you pick women very educated with good careers, but I don\u0027t want ambitious women I would have to compete \u00a0with, at least not until I\u0027m rich. \u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt does seem like those types of women would be the best for relationships.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThing is I don\u0027t want that right now at all, I don\u0027t want a too ambitious woman. But I\u0027m wondering if I can find faithful women with low body counts that aren\u0027t career driven.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI know you said food workers and other places to find these chicks, but from what I see they are either very young or look like they wouldn\u0027t be faithful.\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u0027m thinking where else could I meet women who aren\u0027t as ambitious to get into a relationship with that will still be faithful, low body count and cooperative enough to date and maybe settle down with.\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI don\u0027t want to be desperate trying to settle down with a chick I don\u0027t want.\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAfter reading the lists the other things seem doable enough I can do all throughout life that I don\u0027t worry about age too much.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut for these I wanna get this settled as soon as I can so I can relax and worry about other things later because now I\u0027m very young :)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThanks Chase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2703\/87250\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-87370\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/87370#comment-87370\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/87370#comment-87370\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ENotch Count Targets: Worrying About Them and Hitting Them\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Sunday, 23 September 2018  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/tactics-tuesdays-5-mid-pull-tips-multiple-girls-wing\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/87250#comment-87250\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003ESZ-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EDifferent for every guy. You\u0027ll know when you hit it.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESounds like you\u0027re fine with relationships. The main point of the advice was to take care of your own needs -- you seem to have done that already when it comes to LTRs.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EFor your 100-notch goal... yes, as discussed, can hit that at just about any age, so long as you can still move around. If you\u0027re hobbling about in a walker you might need to settle for hookers, but otherwise it\u0027s a matter of remaining attractive as you age and doing what you must to succeed with women.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf you\u0027re worried about not hitting the goal, use that as motivation to hit it. You may find you hit 40 lays, or 50, or 70, and say \u0022You know what? That\u0027s good. I\u0027m satisfied with where I\u0027m at. I don\u0027t need to treat this like a project anymore\u0022 and can set some different goals. 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