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id=\u0022comment-84940\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/84940#comment-84940\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/mischief\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-5239-1518969343.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Motiv\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Motiv\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-5239-1518969343.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Motiv\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Motiv\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/84940#comment-84940\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003Ecomfort =\/= arousal\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/mischief\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/mischief\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EMotiv\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Sunday, 5 November 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/should-you-regularly-ping-text-girls-whove-eluded-your-dates\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cblockquote\u003E\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cem\u003E\u2026just established rapport and comfort. Of course my end game was to get intimate with her, but it didn\u2019t happen.  I was sort of bummed.\u003C\/em\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI realize this article is about text pinging, but I think I spotted our commentator\u0027s real problem right here.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E-M\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2489\/84940\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-85182\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/85182#comment-85182\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/85182#comment-85182\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ERe: comfort =\/= arousal\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 27 November 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/should-you-regularly-ping-text-girls-whove-eluded-your-dates\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/84940#comment-84940\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EGood eyes, Mischief!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E-C\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2489\/85182\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-85369\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/85369#comment-85369\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/mischief\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-5239-1518969343.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Motiv\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Motiv\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-5239-1518969343.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Motiv\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Motiv\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/85369#comment-85369\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ESmiling :)\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/mischief\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/mischief\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EMotiv\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Sunday, 10 December 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/should-you-regularly-ping-text-girls-whove-eluded-your-dates\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/85182#comment-85182\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EConfirmation that I spotted something like this brings a \u003Cem\u003Ehuge\u003C\/em\u003E smile to my face.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E-M\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EP.S. \u201cFun really isn\u0027t something one considers when balancing the universe, but this does put a smile on my face.\u201d \u2014Thanos\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2489\/85369\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-84942\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/84942#comment-84942\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022HereNthere\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022HereNthere\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022HereNthere\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022HereNthere\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/84942#comment-84942\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EReverse situation\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EHereNthere (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Sunday, 5 November 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/should-you-regularly-ping-text-girls-whove-eluded-your-dates\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EI had been meaning to make a forum post out of this for a long time. I have a situation that\u0027s sort of the reverse where it\u0027s the girl who keeps pinging me, yet she keeps evading dates.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMe go on a first date. It goes great. She agrees to a 2nd date, but at the last minute cancels but immediately counter offers for two days later. Okay, the counter offer means she\u0027s sincere and interested so I agree. 3 hours before the date, she texts to cancel because she says her TA (she\u0027s in grad school) just texted the whole class to assign them a paper that was due the next day. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u0022Okay, there is no way that that is a real thing,\u0022 I say. Every single other person I\u0027ve told the story, including people in grad school, say the same thing. A TA assigning surprise papers via text the night before they\u0027re due 16 hours later? I get another text from her, \u0022Sorry, you must think I\u0027m so full of shit.\u0022 Well....yeah.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENormally I\u0027d end it there, but if I really, really like a girl (which I did in this case; we got along great and really clicked when actually out together) then I will give her one mulligan for obvious female bullshit. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EShe says maybe next week, we make the date. We actually got out that time and have a great time and make out. 3rd date is made, another great time and even heavier parked car making out. She\u0027s busy with school for another week and a half, but finally a 4th date with heavy making out on the dance floor followed by sex back at her place (her place was a mess of open text books and papers everywhere, so she was honest about school (I still didn\u0027t believe the last minute paper texting though)). 5th date a couple days later with movie at her place and more sex. It\u0027s a week before Christmas and she even surprises me with wrapped present on the 5th date. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI casually mention that if she\u0027s not doing anything for New Years to give me a call. She hesitates, and then gives some non-answer. Okay, she thinks it\u0027s too soon for New Years Eve date. I can live with that.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EA week and a half passes, Christmas and New Years have gone, I text her for a date. Hours later I get a reply that she\u0027s really busy with school and just doesn\u0027t \u0022have time for dating right now\u0022. Ah ha. I know better than to whine or argue, so I just say school is important I\u0027m glad I got to meet you good luck. Get the reply, \u0022I mean I like spending time with you it\u0027s just things are so crazy right now I don\u0027t have time for dating. Maybe if things calm down we can do something again.\u0022 Uh huh...but I just reply, \u0022Sounds good let me know\u0022 and delete her number.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EFor the next FIVE MONTHS, she would text me every 1-5 weeks. Just the most inane crap: what she had for dinner, something about the football game she had on in the background while writing a paper, what some website had put up for April Fool\u0027s Day. Just a ton of \u0022why are you telling me this?\u0022 crap. Never an offer to actually see each other. I tried arranging something the first couple of times, but got the \u0022so busy with school\u0022 brushoff. Eventually I would reply with \u0022sounds good\u0022, \u0022great!\u0022, or \u0022crazy\u0022. Eventually after that I sort of snapped and said, \u0022Look this whole thing is weird. You\u0027re great to be around but if we\u0027re just going to be platonic text buddies I don\u0027t see what the point is.\u0022 Not one word back.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E5 months later. Get a \u0022How are you doing?\u0022 text from her. Oh god not this again. I say I\u0027m busy planning for a party I\u0027m throwing in a few weeks (true). \u0022Sounds fun! Is it open invite?\u0022 Now she wants to meet up? Rather than get into details I just throw her the Facebook invite page. No accepting the invite or any word from her. 3 days before the party I ask if she was planning on coming. No response. Just now, a day after the party, I get a big long text. \u0022Sorry for not replying or coming to the party. I\u0027ve been so sick I can\u0027t even keep water down I even had to miss my friend\u0027s 30th birthday party. How did the party go?\u0022\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI had long ago written off salvaging anything out of this, but just what the hell?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2489\/84942\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-85183\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/85183#comment-85183\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/85183#comment-85183\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ERe: Reverse situation\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 27 November 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/should-you-regularly-ping-text-girls-whove-eluded-your-dates\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/84942#comment-84942\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHereNthere-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYou can never be 100% with this sort of thing. But the read to me looks like she digs you but is unsure you feel the same way. Plus is also genuinely busy. But the \u0022I am too busy to meet so let\u0027s keep talking over text\u0022 thing with a girl who\u0027s already been sexual with you and doesn\u0027t sound like she\u0027s seeing anyone else (or I mean, she could be, but sounds unlikely) sounds like she\u0027s just uncomfortable coming out and saying \u0022I like you\u0022 but is also afraid to move too fast because she fears she\u0027ll get hurt.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u0027d just call her up, talk to her on the phone, bond with her again, be flirty, and basically get into a \u0022Hey, I like you. It\u0027s fun to talk to you. I miss hanging out with you. Wish you weren\u0027t so busy all the time,\u0022 kind of vein and see what she does. She seems like the kind of girl to say she\u0027ll be busy for a while, then pop up a week later and tell you she\u0027s ready to meet up. e.g., initial high defenses, then lets it sink in and changes her mind.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ECould also probably just have her come to the party and see if you can sleep with her again then. You\u0027ve already bedded her on a few separate occasions; another two occasions within a week or so of each other should be enough to cement it into a regular thing.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2489\/85183\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-85188\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/85188#comment-85188\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022JasonH\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022JasonH\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022JasonH\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022JasonH\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/85188#comment-85188\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EDifferent view to chase\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EJasonH (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 27 November 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/should-you-regularly-ping-text-girls-whove-eluded-your-dates\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/84942#comment-84942\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHey,\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nUsually I agree with Chase but have a different view this time. Mines a more pessimistic(perhaps realistic view?). Just from reading this I got the sense she initially wanted you in a boyfriend role, hence why she made you wait till the 4th date. Maybe there were logistical reasons why you couldn\u0027t have sex on the 2nd or 3rd date? The post sex behaviour is a bit weird though, usually girls would be blowing up your phone more(regardless of how busy they are).\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nThe 5 months of odd txts following that sounds like she was keeping you in the background and she wasn\u0027t as excited as you\u0027d want her to be. Especially when you\u0027re giving her opportunities to meet up but she\u0027s not taking them, it sounds like she just wants your attention or you submitted to a boyfriend frame too easy and she sort of lost that excitement. In my experience girls who like a guy\/are excited about someone just don\u0027t display this behaviour. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAs for the TA assigning surprise paper, yeah that doesn\u0027t happen. She probably had an assignment due that day but couldn\u0027t finish it before your guys date. Anyways it sounds like she\u0027s keeping you around in the background for attention, in case she runs out of other guys. It mostly sounds like excuses from her but it\u0027s good to know that you haven\u0027t been sucked into texting pointlessly. I feel like jealousy plotlines, talking about other girls you\u0027re dating (implying but not directly stating i.e be subtle about it) is the best way to re-ignite this fire if you want to. Best done over phone, with a mix banter and flirting, then set up a meet at your place and have sex. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EJust my thoughts, best of luck.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nCheers,\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nJason\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2489\/85188\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-84985\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/84985#comment-84985\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Lawliet\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Lawliet\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Lawliet\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Lawliet\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/84985#comment-84985\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EFlirting and improv\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ELawliet (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Wednesday, 8 November 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/should-you-regularly-ping-text-girls-whove-eluded-your-dates\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHey Chase,\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EGreat article! I didn\u0027t know there were other ways.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ERe: Flirting\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nSo I met a girl online, it\u0027s not a dating site, but i thought to take a chance to practice flirting.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo it got me curious. in terms of online, are there \u0022windows\u0022 as do in person -  \u0022escalation windows\u0022 ?\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nwhere we do something in accordance to a time frame or etc. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ELike your outline for approach article.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nLike your outline for date or second date or compressed date article.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nWhat about online?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ERe: Improv and coming up with flirting material\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI read your thread in the fourm on \u0022How to make boring stuff fun by flirting\u0022\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nStill working on that.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut times when I find to run out of flirting witty banter stuff.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nWhat to do, especially when nonverbal isn\u0027t involved.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAny tips?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAlso how in improv, we are to never say no, and always be playful.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nHowever, when she says no, to a silly accusation \u0022you\u0027re hiding\u0022, it\u0027s almost like we are thrown into the ocean with nothing to grab on. Question rings \u0022Now what?\u0022 \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETips on dealing with \u0022out of ammunitiion\u0022 moments in improv or other tricky encounters\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nwould be great!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ERe: I saw hector\u0027s \u0022Do not tease over text if she likes you\u0022\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nDoes this mean when she texts you on her own? takes initiative and ask you what your name is (if online dating or something). \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd more importantly, I thought cooperative teasing is fine. And isn\u0027t teasing a big part of flirting?\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nIf this is stopped, then it sorta dies out doesn\u0027t it? That sexual romantic fun vibe...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBest,\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nLawliet\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2489\/84985\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-85184\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/85184#comment-85184\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/85184#comment-85184\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EOnline Escalation Windows, Running Out of Banter, and Txt Teases\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 27 November 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/should-you-regularly-ping-text-girls-whove-eluded-your-dates\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/84985#comment-84985\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003ELawliet-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESure, there are windows with online too. General rule of thumb:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cul\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf she talks to you long enough to figure you out and find you\npredictable, you missed the window\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOr if you don\u0027t get her contact info and get her to agree to a\ndate before she burns out of the platform and stops logging in, you\nmissed the window\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo generally you will want to move fast. A few message, then go for\ncontact info. On a non-dating site it could be more, since the\ncompetition is lower and she\u0027s less likely to hop off in a day or two.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOn running out of stuff: try learning \u003Ca\nhref=\u0022\/content\/secrets-getting-girls-chase-framing\u0022\u003Echase framing\u003C\/a\u003E.\nThen you can just take whatever she\u0027s doing or talking about,\nmis\/reinterpret it in a sexual light, and there you go.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ERe: don\u0027t tease - if she likes you, don\u0027t tease. Just get her out.\nWhether she texts you first, you text her first, etc. The more she\nlikes you, the simpler should be your texts. You\u0027re much more likely to\nlose points over text than you are to gain them with a girl who likes\nyou. Just use text to get her out. Tease her in person.\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2489\/85184\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-85112\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/85112#comment-85112\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Joseph P.\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Joseph P.\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Joseph P.\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Joseph P.\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/85112#comment-85112\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EOnline chicks\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EJoseph P. (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 20 November 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/should-you-regularly-ping-text-girls-whove-eluded-your-dates\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003ESince I\u0027ve been hard at work, I make money. I\u0027ve heard about all this pinging girls or dead leads. Good in theory, not so much in practice. I learned that pinging a girl that lost interest is a form of supplicating or proving that you\u0027re an electronic orbiter. Women love attention, they masturbate to instagram likes. They love compliments too, hence why I never do it unless we\u0027re close. Been 12 years since my last S.O., but complimenting a woman seems too beta and kiss-ass. Fast track to the friendzone by polishing her pedestal.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOnline dating, there\u0027s a 1 strike rule. I work a lot, and don\u0027t have a lot of time to really go out and meet chicks. It helps my money if anything. If she\u0027s not with you, she\u0027s with another guy. Why else would she not return your messages?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIn the case of me, I do send messages online. Yeah, I\u0027m not Lebron James. What happens is either:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E1. Me and a girl talk, till it\u0027s time to get the number, she goes ghost. A day later, no number still. She\u0027s deleted and blocked in lieu of being an attention whore.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E2. Girl talks with me, we set up a date, no more returned texts or calls. Had one recently cancel a date. Deleted and blocked of course, she\u0027s likely seeing someone else. I told a recent girl that I was got with a new woman while she was being scared to see me. Yes, she\u0027s blocked and I deleted all her info.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E3. Girl is taken, just looking for friends, hung up on her ex, emotionally unavailable. Deleted and blocked. I\u0027m not playing therapist.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EErase and replace. I don\u0027t hang around. Men and women can\u0027t be just friends. Most men can\u0027t replace very easily, but they sure as hell can erase.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ELuck and timing are everything. Uninterested chicks won\u0027t date you at all. Don\u0027t waste your time on them. Deleting a chick isn\u0027t giving up or beta, you moved on and won\u0027t waste time on attention seekers.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWith dating girls, second place is first loser. Focus on coming in first from the beginning. When girls who rejected you come back, they want you for a beta role i.e. ego boost, social media likes, access to exclusive clubs, network connections, etc. Notice sex wasn\u0027t mentioned here.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf there\u0027s a disconnect with an online girl, you can say that you see her as incompatible\/ it wouldn\u0027t work\/ you\u0027re not compelled to see her over other prospects. Anything that both rejects her and shows you have options. Also, you\u0027re not desperate.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMy weaknesses: I could sure use some online dating help, and help maintaining interest. Particularly after the first phone call and the first meeting. As you know, 2 unreturned calls\/messages equals her being deleted.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2489\/85112\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-85185\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/85185#comment-85185\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/85185#comment-85185\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EOnline, Phone Calls, and Girls Who Vanish After Date 1\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 27 November 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/should-you-regularly-ping-text-girls-whove-eluded-your-dates\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/85112#comment-85112\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EJoseph-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EGood thoughts here.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI have a guide to online you might get some value out of here. It\u0027s\na little dated, but the general principles are the same:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cul\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/how-meet-tons-girls-plenty-fish\u0022\u003EHow to Meet\nTons of Girls on Plenty of Fish\u003C\/a\u003E\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf you\u0027re having girls slide after the first phone call, take a look\nat these and see if there\u0027s anything you can add to your repertoire:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cul\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/tactics-tuesdays-making-first-phone-call-girl\u0022\u003ETactics\nTuesdays: Making the First Phone Call to a Girl\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/call-girls-success-phone-secrets-part-ii\u0022\u003ECall\nGirls to Success: Phone Secrets Part II\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca\nhref=\u0022\/content\/tactics-tuesdays-calling-her-when-texts-don-t-pan-out\u0022\u003ETactics\nTuesdays: Calling Her When Texts Don\u2019t Pan Out\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/tactics-tuesdays-bonding-phone-call\u0022\u003ETactics\nTuesdays: The Bonding Phone Call\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf too many girls vanish after the first meet, you may want to\ntighten up your Day 1 game:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cul\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca\nhref=\u0022\/content\/date-templates-minimize-confusion-maximize-returns\u0022\u003EDate\nTemplates: Minimize Confusion Maximize Returns\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/why-fun-seduction-killer\u0022\u003EWhy \u0022Fun\u0022 is a\nSeduction Killer\u003C\/a\u003E\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/simplify-your-dates\u0022\u003ESimplify Your Dates\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/perfect-date-romantically-fun\u0022\u003EThe Perfect Date\nis Romantically Fun\u003C\/a\u003E\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd if she doesn\u0027t respond, a few things you can do:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cul\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/what-do-when-girl-doesnt-text-back\u0022\u003EWhat to Do\nWhen a Girl Doesn\u0027t Text Back\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/when-throw-ball-her-court-and-when-not\u0022\u003EWhen to\nThrow the Ball into Her Court (and When Not To)\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/parting-shot\u0022\u003EThe Parting Shot\u003C\/a\u003E\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/p\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2489\/85185\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-85453\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/85453#comment-85453\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022randomasian\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022randomasian\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022randomasian\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022randomasian\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/85453#comment-85453\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EGirls Who You\u0026#039;ve Had Sex with Twice\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003Erandomasian (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Wednesday, 20 December 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/should-you-regularly-ping-text-girls-whove-eluded-your-dates\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003Edoes this work the same way with girls you\u0027ve already had sex with? I fear the girl is dodging my last 3 invitations because she found someone else better... so in this case I\u0027ll work on other girls and wait a few months\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2489\/85453\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-85456\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/85456#comment-85456\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/85456#comment-85456\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EGirls You\u0026#039;ve Slept With\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Thursday, 21 December 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/should-you-regularly-ping-text-girls-whove-eluded-your-dates\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/85453#comment-85453\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003ERandom Asian-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYes, works the same.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETry phone calls if you haven\u0027t yet before you put her on the shelf. Sometimes it\u0027s attainability (e.g., she isn\u0027t sure you\u0027re really serious about seeing her), not that she found someone else.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2489\/85456\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-89475\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/89475#comment-89475\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Gus\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Gus\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Gus\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Gus\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/89475#comment-89475\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EI would really appreciate\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EGus (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Sunday, 1 March 2020  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/should-you-regularly-ping-text-girls-whove-eluded-your-dates\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EI would really appreciate your feedback to my story:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ECo-workers with her (I was her team leader), she changed job.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI initiate texting with her with a good tease which made hee answering and finally asking how my team and the other ex teammates were doing..\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI teased and flirted her, saying that all were pretty good except me who had my health deteriorating due to her absence\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EShe texted \u0022Hahaha\u0022 and commented that I was really amazing, I rock.... Didn\u0027t text back anything as I preferred to end it without danger to boring discussions.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAfter 4 days I send her a ping message with a photo of a sunny beach surrounded by beautiful trees.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nHer:\u0022 Wowwww\u0022\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI teased her saying \u0022Come on, can\u0027t imagine you are at the office working\u0022.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nAnd fired \u0022Take a break... Let\u0027s rendezvous sometime next week to have fun\u0022\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nWhile I was texting my last daring phrase (via Viber the texting),\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nShe answered \u0022Yes!!!\u0022, \u0022I\u0027m in\u0022, \u0022I\u0027d like it very much\u0022\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nAlmost at the same moment I was ending my aforementioned invitation with the\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n\u0022Come on, meet me or I won\u0027t get to try and kiss you\u0022\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nUnderstand? She had probably answered positively before seeing my \u0022kiss\u0022 ending.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETo this she responded \u0022Hahaha\u0022\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYour thoughts on this?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E(We didn\u0027t texted eachother for the next 14 days to fix the rendezvous we had talked because I was out of the city for work. Yet, neither she texted to see about the rendezvous)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnyway, after 14 days, at my birthday day she called me early in the morning to wish me. I was surprised as we hadn\u0027t talked to phone before and I thought she would just texted her wishes.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBecause I was driving and was accompanied by co-workers, I had a short and rather typical conversation with her. Thanked her and that\u0027s it \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E(I don\u0027t know if that was her chance to re-initiate touch, so my birthday was her chance)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAfter 2 hours I texted her a hook\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n\u0022I keep wondering...\u0022\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nShe: \u0022About what?\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nMe:\u0022 What\u0027s gonna feel like when I kiss you\u0022\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nHer:\u0022 What are these you\u0027re saying leaderara\u0022 (superlative of \u0022leader\u0022, like \u0022great leader\u0022 meaning)\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nMe:\u0022 I thought you were thinking about it!\u0022\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n       \u0022Let\u0027s find out on Friday at 19 30\u0022\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n       \u0022U r not opposed to an exciting rendezvous\u0022\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThat\u0027s it. No response. No rendezvous. I have been thinking possible reasons...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBad sexual escalation?... No good transition from her phone call to my sexual text?... What the \u0022hahahas\u0022 really meant?... I\u0027m sure I had the chance and had sparked kind of interest.....\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ELast element: On Thursday, one day before the suggested date I was at my company\u0027s party and posted at Facebook some photos with my teammates and some with beautiful ladies only.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETo my surprise (I thought she would entirely stopped \u0022like\u0022 my Facebook posts), she liked 2 photos with my teammates and not the ones which were me and other women.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI don\u0027t know if it means anything. I just mentioned it.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThat\u0027s the story. I\u0027m a little confused because I really liked her and was pretty sure I would get the date.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhat\u0027s your thoughts?\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nCan any of the backup plans work?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOr is there any other insight I can\u0027t think of?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EP.S. 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