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id=\u0022comment-84432\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/84432#comment-84432\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Neal\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Neal\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Neal\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Neal\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/84432#comment-84432\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ESo much for the \u0026quot;women need\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ENeal (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Sunday, 17 September 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/its-cruel-when-men-dont-stick-around-after-sex-argument\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003ESo much for the \u0022women need sex too\u0022 article(s) and related from years back.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2445\/84432\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-84455\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/84455#comment-84455\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/84455#comment-84455\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EGood Ol\u0026#039; Neal\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 18 September 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/its-cruel-when-men-dont-stick-around-after-sex-argument\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/84432#comment-84432\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cimg style=\u0022width: 100%; height: auto;\u0022 alt=\u0022trolling\u0022\nsrc=\u0022\/media\/2017\/09\/trolling.jpg\u0022\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESeriously though. Here are the articles you\u0027re talking about:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cul\u003E\n\u003Cli style=\u0022font-weight: bold;\u0022\u003E\u003Ca\nhref=\u0022\/content\/book-excerpts-women-love-sex\u0022\u003EBook Excerpts: Women Love\nSex\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca style=\u0022font-weight: bold;\u0022 href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/women-really-do-sex\u0022\u003EWomen\nReally Do Like Sex\u003C\/a\u003E\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThere is nary so much as a turn of the phrase in this article that\ncontradicts these.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWomen being choosy about sex partners or desiring good sex with sexy\nmen is not the equivalent of \u0022women don\u0027t want sex.\u0022\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAny more than an obese chick telling you all the stuff people told\nher claiming that men liked sex was bullshit because Neal turned her\ndown for a 69 session.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2445\/84455\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-84463\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/84463#comment-84463\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Neal\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Neal\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Neal\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Neal\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/84463#comment-84463\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EIf women like sex so much,\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ENeal (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 19 September 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/its-cruel-when-men-dont-stick-around-after-sex-argument\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/84455#comment-84455\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EIf women like sex so much, why won\u0027t they offer to pay for it?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E;d\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      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class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/84476#comment-84476\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EWhy Don\u0026#039;t Women Pay for Sex?\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Wednesday, 20 September 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/its-cruel-when-men-dont-stick-around-after-sex-argument\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/84463#comment-84463\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003ESame reasons I don\u0027t.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOne, it\u0027s an insult to one\u0027s vanity to think that as a highly desired human being, you would need to pay for sex.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETwo, when sex is easy to get, there\u0027s not much point to paying for it. Especially when the tail you get without paying is superior to any tail you could get by paying.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThree, the thrill of the hunt is just as crucial as the act itself. Without the hunt, what\u0027s the point?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2445\/84476\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-84478\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/84478#comment-84478\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Neal\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Neal\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Neal\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Neal\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/84478#comment-84478\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EChase, regarding #2, there\u0026#039;s\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ENeal (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Wednesday, 20 September 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/its-cruel-when-men-dont-stick-around-after-sex-argument\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/84476#comment-84476\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EChase, regarding #2, there\u0027s something lacking there.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThere\u0027s plenty of women out there whom men will not pay for sex, compared to some women out there that men will pay or sex. The kind of women men will pay for sex are most likely not the ones women will give in easily.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI think this argument could also be used on women. Yes, why should a woman pay for sex if she can get it easily. But not from men she finds attractive. What about men who she does find attractive and aren\u0027t willing to do it so easily. So I think it is a mentality that women are lacking.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2445\/84478\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-84504\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/84504#comment-84504\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/84504#comment-84504\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EWomen Paying for Sex\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 26 September 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/its-cruel-when-men-dont-stick-around-after-sex-argument\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/84478#comment-84478\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cblockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe kind of women men will pay for sex are most likely not the\nones women will give in easily.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENot sure how many hookers you\u0027ve been around, Neal... but a goodly\nchunk of them are\nwomen who were already nymphomaniacs and simply decided to get paid to\ndo what they love! They are by definition \u0022women who will give in\neasily.\u0022\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESome are gold diggers (especially in the high class \/ call girl \/\nescort world) and use prostitution to build their connections and meet\ntheir future husbands. Though again, they\u0027re having sex with men they\u0027d\nsleep with anyway, only now they get to do it in a way that makes them\nlook \u0022higher value\u0022 (since the guy has to pay to get it), and allows\nthem access to men they wouldn\u0027t have a good way to access otherwise\n(since these usually are girls coming from poor or middle class\nbackgrounds).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut among hookers in general, most are either gold diggers,\nnymphomaniacs, or junkies (the third category... they hook to make\nenough money to get their next fix). And for every attractive-enough\nhooker, there are dozens of old, ugly, and\/or fat ones who still make\nmoney because men still pay for them (for reasons that are beyond me).\n99% of hookers are far from womankind\u0027s best though, I will tell you\nthat (there are a few diamonds in the rough... but they\u0027re few and far\nbetween. And even those chicks are screwy in the head).\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYes, why should a woman pay for sex if she can get it\neasily. But not from men she finds attractive. What about men who she\ndoes find attractive and aren\u0027t willing to do it so easily.\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThere are lots of men with near-zero standards out there. Plenty of\ngood-looking and\/or wealthy and\/or whatever other qualities you want to\nrate a man\u0027s attractiveness along men who are happy to hook up with\nsome chubby, ugly chick, then laugh about it with their buddies the\nnext day. Free of charge.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cspan style=\u0022font-style: italic;\u0022\u003EThat said\u003C\/span\u003E, your scenario\ndoes in fact exist. When women reach a certain age and physical size,\nit becomes almost impossible for them to find studly young men willing\nto grace them with sex for free. Thus, you get a bunch of fat women in\ntheir 60s and up who travel to Africa and the Caribbean for an \u0027exotic\nvacation\u0027, where they meet young African and Caribbean men who sex them\nup in exchange for meals, money, and gifts.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EUntil they reach that age though, women are able to find men who can\nserve as \u003Cspan style=\u0022font-style: italic;\u0022\u003Egood enough\u003C\/span\u003E\nsubstitutes for the sex partners they want. If you\u0027ve ever rejected a\nfat girl for sex, the odds are much better she went and found some\nother guy similar to you who did \u003Cspan style=\u0022font-style: italic;\u0022\u003Enot\u003C\/span\u003E\nreject her\n(and instead gave her all the big girl lovin\u0027 she needed) than they are\nshe decided to go pay for some guy who looks like you instead.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/p\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2445\/84504\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-84464\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/84464#comment-84464\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/mischief\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-5239-1518969343.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Motiv\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Motiv\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-5239-1518969343.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Motiv\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Motiv\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/84464#comment-84464\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EIn defense of the would-be troll\u2026\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/mischief\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/mischief\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EMotiv\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Wednesday, 20 September 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/its-cruel-when-men-dont-stick-around-after-sex-argument\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/84455#comment-84455\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EThis female writer goes to great lengths to elicit feelings of guilt among men for desiring sex without a relationship. \u0022How dishonorable\u2026 where is your valor, you heartless men!?\u0022 Overtly speaking, her words clearly imply that sex is some despairing experience women must endure only for the chance of getting to something worthwhile down the line.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPersonally, I find it sickening whenever a woman attempts to appeal to the concept of honor, an exclusively male concept, in context of intergender relations. Honor holds about as much intrinsic meaning to a woman as abstract thinking does to a fish. I know that sounds extreme, but the dots do connect. Also, don\u0027t take this to mean I find women inferior to men. In fact, I genuinely envy women for their inate ability to be so detached with so little effort.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EEssentially, I see this woman\u0027s post as just a shit test: appeal to male instincts of protecting women via inciting guilt over male sexuality. The men who buy into her schema are the \u003Cem\u003Ebetas\u003C\/em\u003E. Those who call her bluff are the \u003Cem\u003Ealphas\u003C\/em\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E-M\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EP.S. I should also mention that I do not believe this woman or \u003Cem\u003Eany\u003C\/em\u003E woman who writes or speaks openly on this topic is consciously manipulating men. I for one believe she really \u003Cem\u003Edoes\u003C\/em\u003E see her point of view as the epitome of humane behavior, which leads to why I still harbor deep fears of what women are truly capable of beneathe the surface\u2026\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EP.P.S. Consider the term \u003Cem\u003Ealpha\u003C\/em\u003E as sexy attractive man and \u003Cem\u003Ebeta\u003C\/em\u003E as regular guy.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2445\/84464\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-84466\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/84466#comment-84466\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022A-jay\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022A-jay\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022A-jay\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022A-jay\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/84466#comment-84466\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003E\u0026quot;which leads to why I still\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EA-jay (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 19 September 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/its-cruel-when-men-dont-stick-around-after-sex-argument\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/84464#comment-84464\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003E\u0022which leads to why I still harbor deep fears of what women are truly capable of beneathe the surface\u2026\u0022\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ECare to elaborate? Just what do you \u0022fear\u0022 women are capable of?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2445\/84466\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-84498\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/84498#comment-84498\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/mischief\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-5239-1518969343.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Motiv\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Motiv\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-5239-1518969343.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Motiv\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Motiv\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/84498#comment-84498\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EGood question!\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/mischief\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/mischief\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EMotiv\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 25 September 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/its-cruel-when-men-dont-stick-around-after-sex-argument\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/84466#comment-84466\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EFor one, she basically states that a woman seduced into sex by a man is \u0022exploited.\u0022 That thought right there is scary, especially in context of a feminized legal system.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EEven when things do not go as far as court, white knights abound every corner who eat up the \u0022call to honor\u0022 women, for no other reason than that they are female. Also known as \u003Cem\u003Ebetas\u003C\/em\u003E, these men are champing at the bit to vilify the men who \u003Cem\u003Eget it\u003C\/em\u003E, and women such as this commentator all too happily employ their services at such time as they may suit her. This is a particular issue for beginning to intermediate level guys (like myself) who are not yet suave enough to practice their seduction craft under the radar.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E-M\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2445\/84498\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-84505\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/84505#comment-84505\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/84505#comment-84505\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EWomen Talking About Honor and Valor\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 26 September 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/its-cruel-when-men-dont-stick-around-after-sex-argument\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/84464#comment-84464\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EMischief-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYes, \u0027honor\u0027 and \u0027valor\u0027 are not womanly values. I\u0027ve never heard a woman use them except as an attempt to cajole a man into doing what she wants. They thus serve as a sort of danger sign that a woman you hear uttering them does not have benevolent intentions toward you - her intentions are sneakier than that.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThough to be fair, a lot of men use \u0027honor\u0027 and \u0027valor\u0027 in dishonorable ways. Any time a man asks \u0022Where is your honor?\u0022 you need to be careful about whether he is legitimately trying to defend some righteous cause, or whether he is simply trying to shame you, silence you, or otherwise bring you into line with whatever he believes you should do. Not to mention the fact that in our fractured, unmoored societies we hardly have a cohesive idea about what is honorable and what isn\u0027t anymore... which makes it all the easier for anyone who wants to position himself as an arbiter of value to try to decide what is and isn\u0027t honorable for everyone else.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHonor is a powerful concept. As with any powerful concept, there are always plenty who are happy to exploit its power to serve their own ends.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2445\/84505\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-84456\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/84456#comment-84456\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/mischief\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-5239-1518969343.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Motiv\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Motiv\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-5239-1518969343.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Motiv\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Motiv\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/84456#comment-84456\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EOf course, women need sex, too\u2026!\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/mischief\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/mischief\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EMotiv\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 18 September 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/its-cruel-when-men-dont-stick-around-after-sex-argument\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/84432#comment-84432\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EWomen simply use a counterintuitive method (certainly, obfuscating by way of male understanding) with which to get sex. Their priorities are different: secure as many providers\/orbiters as possible and then, when horny, fuck the hottest \u003Cem\u003Ealpha\u003C\/em\u003E her attractiveness can command, keeping in the meantime the attention of as many orbiters as possible.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EFor men, our priority is the opposite: fuck as many cute\/hot chicks as our \u003Cem\u003Ealphaness\u003C\/em\u003E  can command and then pick the hottest one we can manage for a committed relationship. Of course, I am leaving religious men out of the picture here, as I believe they only attempt to distort their own hind brain desires with moralistic reasoning.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ECheers,\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n-M\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2445\/84456\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-84436\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/84436#comment-84436\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022stefxxxyyy\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022stefxxxyyy\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022stefxxxyyy\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022stefxxxyyy\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/84436#comment-84436\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003Emorality such a complex topic\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003Estefxxxyyy (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Sunday, 17 September 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/its-cruel-when-men-dont-stick-around-after-sex-argument\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003Emorality such a complex topic, how many perspectives and unstated assumptioms or axioms people start from, and even hidden\/unconcious motivations for stated beliefs about what is right or wrong...!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2445\/84436\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-84506\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/84506#comment-84506\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/84506#comment-84506\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EMorality\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 26 September 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/its-cruel-when-men-dont-stick-around-after-sex-argument\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/84436#comment-84436\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EStefxxxyyy-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYes indeed!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe deeper you get into it, the easier it is to see how so many great philosophers have whittled away entire lifetimes unpacking and trying to understand morality.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EConfucius, Plato, Hobbes, Descartes, and a thousand others.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBefore you let anyone pass moral judgment on you, the first thing to ask them is where those moral judgments they make come from and what foundation they\u0027re based upon. If they cannot answer that, they are probably not very well morally educated...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2445\/84506\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-84439\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/84439#comment-84439\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Jimbo\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Jimbo\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Jimbo\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Jimbo\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/84439#comment-84439\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EFreeloaders\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EJimbo (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Sunday, 17 September 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/its-cruel-when-men-dont-stick-around-after-sex-argument\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EGreat stuff, Chase! You hit it on the head with the market forces explanation. I was led to this article after reading the \u0027Friday\u0027 and your back-and-forth, so I wrote a comment response to her last comment. But not that I read your own article response, I see you basically covered the same points, much better, and with much less vitriol, and props for that.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnyway, since I\u0027d written my response to the girl\u0027s comment anyway, here it is:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u0022Valor and honor are the bullshit arguments used to sucker men into doing stuff that aren\u0027t in their interest. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf you don\u0027t want to be part of the hookup culture, don\u0027t hook up, don\u0027t have casual sex, simple as that. If a girl tells me she\u0027s not having sex until marriage, I\u0027ll respect that. I won\u0027t be dragging her by the hair to do it. If I\u0027m really into the girl and want her for long term, I can wait a little, that\u0027s cool. Other than that, I\u0027ll move on and she\u0027ll get a guy who\u0027s into her enough to wait -- win-win.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo I don\u0027t see what\u0027s your problem. Just don\u0027t have casual sex, period.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAlso, you said men should be your defenders. What did you do to deserve free-of-charge defenders? Just because you exist and you\u0027re female, a guy has to selflessly come over your rescue and look after you? What does he get in return? Empty, intangible titles of \u0022valor\u0022 and \u0022honor\u0022 and \u0022man\u0022. That\u0027s what you say when you don\u0027t have anything to pay the guy with. And stop having casual sex if it causes such emotional damage.\u0022\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2445\/84439\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-84507\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/84507#comment-84507\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/84507#comment-84507\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EConservative Female Rationale\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 26 September 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/its-cruel-when-men-dont-stick-around-after-sex-argument\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/84439#comment-84439\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EJimbo-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAye. And I\u0027d say market forces are the answer to your comment as well!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOur commenter\u0027s problem is namely that the other women have broken the social contract and reduced the value of sex. When other women are willing to offer sex to men casually and early on, it erodes \u003Cem\u003Eall\u003C\/em\u003E of women\u0027s bargaining power in the dating game.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMen have different things we can offer women. If a bunch of men want to throw commitment at women, white knight for them, offer them marriage in exchange for sex, and whatnot, that\u0027s fine for you and me. We can be the attractive, sexy, strong, aloof men those men \u003Cem\u003Ecan\u0027t\u003C\/em\u003E be (when they pursue that strategy anyway) and offer a different kind of value to women. And there are a variety of different strategies men can pursue, even beyond the needy provider and the sexy lover (a guy could be the strong provider, or the authority figure, or any of a number of other options).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhen a woman goes the \u0022pure and reserved\u0022 route in a market flooded with much more sexually receptive competitors, there are still men who will value her and pursue her. But she\u0027s forced to draw from a much reduced dating pool, since now there are a variety of men who will look at her and, unless she is exceptionally beautiful, be unwilling to wait around for her or put the work in she demands to get to sex.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOur commenter\u0027s most critical error is in appealing to me, a teacher of dating and seduction, and to our broader readership in general, of men who want to date women and have sex and relationships, to be the sex police. At no point in history have women\u0027s suitors \u003Cem\u003Eever\u003C\/em\u003E been the ones who \u003Cem\u003Eencouraged\u003C\/em\u003E her to abstinence. It is the \u003Cem\u003Eother\u003C\/em\u003E men in women\u0027s lives who perform this role. Fathers, brothers, cousins, uncles, priests. Or in the case of married women, husbands. It is men who have ownership of or responsibility for (depending on the social setup) these women who enforce no-sex on them. And the ones they are trying to protect them from are us! (and of course we, once husbands and fathers, then become responsible for protecting our wives and daughters from their would-be paramours)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI will say I have been with a number of women who have confessed to me that many \u0027good\u0027 men around them had encouraged them not to hook up or have fast sex. Of course, they did not choose to sleep with these men. They may have gone on a date or two with them. But nothing happened. And instead they ended up in bed with me.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf you are her brother or her father or her uncle or her priest, then yes. Encourage her to wait. But if you\u0027re the guy who wants to be with her?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EDo as all men at all times in history who wanted to be with women always have done. Encourage her to run away with you, give into her passion, and love.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2445\/84507\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-84441\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/84441#comment-84441\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Eugene\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Eugene\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Eugene\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Eugene\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/84441#comment-84441\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EWeird\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EEugene (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Sunday, 17 September 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/its-cruel-when-men-dont-stick-around-after-sex-argument\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EI think the fundamental issue with her comment, that I don\u0027t think you addressed(maybe wasn\u0027t as relevant to the article) was her basically putting herself, her friends , and all women into the \u0022victim\u0022 role. Basically a complete lack of personal responsibility as an adult. It has nothing to do with them (her friends), it\u0027s the men. They are responsible for the weak and helpless women who \u0022have no choice\u0022 but to put out, lest these big bad controlling men decide to say no and move on and not date her. Because we all know that two consenting adults deciding to have sex never happens .. it\u0027s always the guy forcing her to put out because she has no other choice. There\u0027s so much wrong and disappointing with that statement that it makes it hard for me to take her entire comment seriously. Because we all know women never decide to have casual sex with guys and not stick around after. Oh wait ...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2445\/84441\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-84454\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/84454#comment-84454\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/mischief\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-5239-1518969343.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Motiv\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Motiv\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-5239-1518969343.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Motiv\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Motiv\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/84454#comment-84454\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EBravo\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/mischief\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/mischief\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EMotiv\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 18 September 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/its-cruel-when-men-dont-stick-around-after-sex-argument\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/84441#comment-84441\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EAmen!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2445\/84454\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-84459\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/84459#comment-84459\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Jimbo\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Jimbo\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Jimbo\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Jimbo\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/84459#comment-84459\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ERape Cries\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EJimbo (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 18 September 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/its-cruel-when-men-dont-stick-around-after-sex-argument\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/84441#comment-84441\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003ERight. Some women will cry coercion no matter what. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIn former times, when fathers had more authority over their adult daughters, women (or the feminist sections of them) used to cry that women had to put out to men they didn\u0027t choose themselves just to please their fathers or parents. And now that they can choose, they\u0027re crying that they have to put out to exploitative men because of the market forces. You can\u0027t win.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI mean I understand part of female sexuality is to feel like you don\u0027t have a choice, like you\u0027re being made to have sex, but fuck me this is sometimes taken to creepy extremes!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2445\/84459\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-84508\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/84508#comment-84508\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/84508#comment-84508\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EThe \u0026quot;Victim of Sex\u0026quot; Frame\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 26 September 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/its-cruel-when-men-dont-stick-around-after-sex-argument\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/84441#comment-84441\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EEugene-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYeah, it was kind of weird framing.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI suspect partly in reaction to my indelicately worded comment to another reader. Which to someone who is not sex-positive probably came across as some kind of cynical \u0022just use other people for sex, haha!\u0022 remark.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI think that\u0027s what she was actually reacting to. The idea of soulless men who pick up trusting, warm-hearted women for sex. Then discard them after the act is over like old deli meat. I don\u0027t like guys who do that either.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut then after I explained that wasn\u0027t my meaning, she was sort of locked into defending her stance, and it just ballooned into this whole \u0022men need to be women\u0027s protectors\u0022 thing. Of course, if women need protecting, it is from other men. So really it\u0027s \u0022I need you to be this type of man to save me from that other type of man\u0022, which is really just more female projecting of sexual fantasies. And then so often the woman thanks the man who is \u0027protecting\u0027 her, doesn\u0027t have sex with him, and goes and shags the naughty bad boy anyway.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAlso, coming here and saying what she said is sort of like wandering onto a pirate ship, then telling the pirate he needs to be a good pirate to protect you from all the bad pirates out there.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWell. \u003Ca\u003EGirls, what can you say?\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2445\/84508\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-84442\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/84442#comment-84442\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/mischief\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-5239-1518969343.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Motiv\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Motiv\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-5239-1518969343.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Motiv\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Motiv\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/84442#comment-84442\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EBrilliant article\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/mischief\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/mischief\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EMotiv\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Sunday, 17 September 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/its-cruel-when-men-dont-stick-around-after-sex-argument\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EI had simply written off the female\u0027s comment as typical fem-imperative screeching to meta-masculine push-back. I.e., \u0022you evil men will not give us whatever we want and more\u2026\u0022\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThen you come along with this brilliant piece, backed up by mountains of data\u2026 \u003Cem\u003Ehooray!\u003C\/em\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI found her comment to be extremely well-written as well, with the exception of glaring oversights like, \u003Cem\u003E\u0022he is exploiting her, even if it is with her permission\u2026\u0022 \u003Cstrong\u003E. . . WHAT???\u003C\/strong\u003E\u003C\/em\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPersonally, I have resolved that women are incapable of making sense by any male-defined metric, and that\u0027s OK -- actually, a \u003Cem\u003Ebig\u003C\/em\u003E part of what I like about them so much! Women in-love will go to bat for me over some pretty crazy ideas and\/or activities I have entertained, and then I think, \u0022hmmph, that\u0027s nuts, but I\u0027ll take it (and the pussy)!\u0022\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAs you pointed out at the end of your article, the female commentator expresses zero concern for rejected men. I doubt she is even marginally aware of this. Gentlemen, that is female solipsism for you, right there. A woman only pines for the \u003Cem\u003Ealphas\u003C\/em\u003E that got away, and as for the rest\u2026 they do not even exist to her.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIn the end, \u003Cem\u003Ealphas\u003C\/em\u003E who sleep with her and leave (as well as those she does not sleep with at all), well\u2026 none of them care anymore for her than she does for all the \u003Cem\u003Ebetas\u003C\/em\u003E she has rejected. Funny how that works, huh?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cstrong\u003E*NOTE: I use the terms alpha and beta contextually speaking -- relative to \u003Cem\u003Ethat\u003C\/em\u003E woman\u0027s perception.\u003C\/strong\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI continuously admire how much scientific backing you put into your articles, Chase. You fleshed out some \u003Cem\u003Egood\u003C\/em\u003E scientific evidence reinforcing the dichotomy of male\/female reproductive strategies. The success of one gender\u0027s imperative necessitates the thwarting of the other\u0027s. There is no happily-ever-after, but that is why the mating game will forever be exciting.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ECheers,\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n-M\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2445\/84442\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-84443\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/84443#comment-84443\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/user\/19303\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Alexander Abraham\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Alexander Abraham\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Alexander Abraham\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Alexander Abraham\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/84443#comment-84443\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EWas literally about to talk about the same stuff\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/user\/19303\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/user\/19303\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAlexander Abraham\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Sunday, 17 September 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/its-cruel-when-men-dont-stick-around-after-sex-argument\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/84442#comment-84442\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EEspecially the amount of DATA you put into your articles; it\u0027s just staggering. And like Mischief pointed out, when women talk about this kinda stuff she doesn\u0027t even SEE the men that have it tough. Though I\u0027m pretty sure that you talked about this as well (which the same holds true for men as well). \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWe, as humans, just see what it\u0027s like for people at the top and get pissy when we notice the lack of what we have. Though it\u0027s also a cautionary tale to not get too sucked into it, at least, that\u0027s the lesson I choose to take from it. That somebody is in a position that\u0027s below me and they\u0027re mad at me! Hard to fathom but that is exactly how it works. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut ya, to repeat what I commented in that other article: your patience is honestly remarkable. And I certainly thank you for it (as I\u0027m sure others do as well). \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYou change lives for the better, even when assaulted by well-meaning lies (seriously, I find it very difficult to even bother with them). And that is a true testament to your character as a human being. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBravo [\/end ass-kissing lol]\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2445\/84443\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-84444\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/84444#comment-84444\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/mischief\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-5239-1518969343.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Motiv\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Motiv\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-5239-1518969343.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Motiv\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Motiv\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/84444#comment-84444\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EThe Rational Male\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/mischief\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/mischief\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EMotiv\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Sunday, 17 September 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/its-cruel-when-men-dont-stick-around-after-sex-argument\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cem\u003E\u0022Women\u2019s sexual strategy is very schizophrenic \u2013 ideally women want a Man that other women want to fuck, but in order to assess his sexual market value to other women he\u2019s got to have exercisable options for her to compete against, or at least display indirect social proof to that effect. So, she needs to limit his options while simultaneously determining he has those options.\u0022\u003C\/em\u003E   -Rollo Tomassi\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2445\/84444\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-84445\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/84445#comment-84445\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Old Mate Steve\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Old Mate Steve\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Old Mate Steve\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Old Mate Steve\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/84445#comment-84445\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EI like what I\u0026#039;m seeing...\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EOld Mate Steve (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 18 September 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/its-cruel-when-men-dont-stick-around-after-sex-argument\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EFound this site from google advice on girls. I\u0027ve just had to break up with my first ever girlfriend, who\u0027d I\u0027d been with for 5 years (high school sweet hearts) after finding her cheating on me. This is the first article on your list, so I started here, and at first, reading through the comments linked, I must say that I thought this site was going to be just a silly verbal jousting arena, where people congregate to let off steam\/validate themselves by spouting shit about internet strangers. Then I read the article...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI must say, I\u0027m glad to have found someone in you Chase who, from first impressions at least, seems to be able to deliver sound advice on women with out the bias\/ego-boosting\/na\u00efvity of some of he other websites I browsed before this one. Obviously, I yet to read the content of your actual advice-giving post, but I doubt they will have the generic (and pretty BS) advice of \u0027just be yourself\u0027, or the focus on impressing other men such as the sites claiming \u0022you just need to be ALLLPPPHHHAAA!!!\u0022. Of course, I\u0027m relatively new - no actually, to be honest, I have no experience in picking up women as I have just left a relationship that took pretty much all my high school then some - so I\u0027ll have to take the advice with a grain of salt first, because for all I know, maybe one of the other websites\u0027 approaches where the best way, (though I highly doubt it). However, I hope the you continue to impress, and if so, then you probably found yourself a loyal customer.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ECheers mate\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2445\/84445\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-84509\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/84509#comment-84509\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/84509#comment-84509\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EWelcome Aboard\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 26 September 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/its-cruel-when-men-dont-stick-around-after-sex-argument\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/84445#comment-84445\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003ECheers, Steve. Sorry to hear about the girlfriend. Lots of guys get serious about learning game after incidents like that... you have plenty of company among our readers and \u003Ca href=\u0022http:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/boards\u0022\u003Eforum members\u003C\/a\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe alpha chest-beating is something I\u0027ve railed against for \u003Ca href=\u0022\/content\/how-be-alpha-male-without-becoming-stereotype\u0022\u003Eover six years now\u003C\/a\u003E (and to be honest, it\u0027s not as bad these days as it used to be). So if that bugs you too, then you\u0027ll probably get on with the material on this site just fine ;) Welcome!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2445\/84509\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-84452\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/84452#comment-84452\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Sadeqh\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Sadeqh\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Sadeqh\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Sadeqh\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/84452#comment-84452\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EMemory\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ESadeqh (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 18 September 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/its-cruel-when-men-dont-stick-around-after-sex-argument\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EChase!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI hope you are pretty well doing things you do.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI couldn\u0027t make the time to read this article though I know it is something I must return on.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nMy questions something about the way the mind works, I mean there are things in life happpening..like some physical abuses that passed, things that happen that makes me say I am not a man of valor( destroys my self esteem), like not answering back a fight (because it is not one or two..there are many people like that around me in camp) , threatening situantions, although i could\u0027ve easily hit them back, which hurts my mind so hard in the times that thoughts of myself doing nothing about it hurts me mentally too hard.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI am trying constantly to get out of Iran with high skills meanwhile doing military period I must pass to enable my passport.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nLiving here has become a Matrix, uneducated people around, too many bullies to stay away from, religious people around, specially in miltary camp.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI think of myself so high because It\u0027s a Big Nightmare for me not to achieve my dreams and have a professional job in America.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI am living because I hope I can forget the past once I am out though I dont still know how to forget.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nis there anything you could tell me to continue my way with less damage to my mind?\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nWhat should I do to regain my self esteem, honor, real manliess?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003Eyours truly, Sadeqh\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2445\/84452\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-84511\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/84511#comment-84511\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/84511#comment-84511\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EValor, and Not Fighting When Surrounded by Enemies\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 26 September 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/its-cruel-when-men-dont-stick-around-after-sex-argument\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/84452#comment-84452\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003ESadeqh-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESounds like you didn\u0027t fight back when surrounded by enemies? I don\u0027t know if I\u0027d call that lacking in valor... more that you were not lacking in prudence. Valor is not charging into unwinnable battles and being beaten, unless that defeat serves some greater purpose.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe best tacticians know how to use secrecy and guile every bit as well as they do strength and valor. See Sun-Tzu\u0027s \u003Cem\u003EThe Art of War\u003C\/em\u003E and Machiavelli\u0027s \u003Cem\u003EThe Prince\u003C\/em\u003E. Saul Alinsky puts it this way in \u003Cem\u003ERules for Radicals\u003C\/em\u003E: that when direct confrontation is a legitimate channel open to you to effect change, you can use it. But when this is a channel that will lead to you getting crushed, you do something else instead.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPlenty of figures throughout history who avoided direct confrontation yet became revered. You might read about \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Quintus_Fabius_Maximus_Verrucosus\u0022\u003EFabius Maximus\u003C\/a\u003E, who waged war against the powerful Hannibal Barca by avoiding direct confrontation. At first the Romans though Fabius was a coward, but after Hannibal crushed other Roman generals, they realized Fabius\u0027s \u0022discretion is the better part of valor\u0022 approach was in fact the more prudent one.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo I would advise you to busy yourself with your pursuits, and pay no mind to the critics about you. When you have left them in your dust, you will be glad you did not stop to let them drag you down into brawling in the dirt with them instead of carving out your own path elsewhere.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2445\/84511\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-84559\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/84559#comment-84559\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Sadeqh\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Sadeqh\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Sadeqh\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Sadeqh\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/84559#comment-84559\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EYeah that\u0026#039;s exactly what I\u0026#039;m\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ESadeqh (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Saturday, 30 September 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/its-cruel-when-men-dont-stick-around-after-sex-argument\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/84511#comment-84511\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EYeah that\u0027s exactly what I\u0027m thinking about to do.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI\u0027ll have a read on those historic subjects as soon as I find time and thank you alot, and I think as you said the one who sees a great value gain in his future will not risk losing it to little gains.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI was so much hunted, my situantions like Amir Hekmati right now they kinda treat me like that.. the same people.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nAgain thanks.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESadeqh\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2445\/84559\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-84536\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/84536#comment-84536\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Jimbo\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Jimbo\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Jimbo\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Jimbo\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/84536#comment-84536\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ESuccess is the best revenge\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EJimbo (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Wednesday, 27 September 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/its-cruel-when-men-dont-stick-around-after-sex-argument\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/84452#comment-84452\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EMy two additional cents to what Chase said: Win. Get your way. And let your enemies and haters see you getting your way. That will be your best revenge. If that means making money, then make it your primary goal. If that\u0027s coming to the US as you said, then jump through whatever hoops to do it and do it. Believe me that\u0027s the best way to regain your self-esteem and honor and all those things you\u0027re worrying about vis-\u00e0-vis those assholes tormenting you. Chin up, power through, and have the last laugh.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ELet me tell you, four years ago, a couple of dudes told me I shouldn\u0027t procreate because of some of my pro-business political positions. And ever since that day I made the vow that I\u0027ll end up having at least ten kids, probably ten more than he\u0027ll ever have. And I\u0027m stacking money for that very purpose right now. The next generation will have more of my stuff and your stuff will just die off, what do you make of that!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2445\/84536\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-84624\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/84624#comment-84624\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Sadeqh\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Sadeqh\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Sadeqh\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Sadeqh\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/84624#comment-84624\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EMoney and kids\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ESadeqh (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Saturday, 7 October 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/its-cruel-when-men-dont-stick-around-after-sex-argument\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/84536#comment-84536\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EI\u0027m definitely starting right now to get some serious degrees in acounting,  think its the best to start with..\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI am getting out of this country\u0027s stupid military though I still do not have permission to get out of Iran..I\u0027m working hard on that too, doing it legally.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI really adore to have alot of kids around and I guess you\u0027re a high energetic and athletic father for your kids and that\u0027s awesome!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2445\/84624\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-84465\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/84465#comment-84465\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Brett\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Brett\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Brett\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Brett\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/84465#comment-84465\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EThe Art of Loving\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EBrett (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 19 September 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/its-cruel-when-men-dont-stick-around-after-sex-argument\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHi Chase,\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003Elet me first appreciate your work and thank you for sharing your experience and ideas.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI have been taking inspiration from your work for quite some time and I especially appreciate your pragmatic approach and practical focus.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI can follow a lot of your ideas and also have a very similar taste for women (shy-excited, inquisitive and influence-resistant that can sometimes challenge you intellectually, etc.). I am however a bit suspicious regarding some of the very premises some of your thoughts and arguments are based on \u2013 namely: To what a degree economic principles really play role in human (romantic\/partner) relationships? Can it be that you take the implementation of economic principles into human (romantic) relationships to an extreme? *\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI know that (some) women can be rather cruel and I like how you can generally dismantle (their) honesty and (other\u2019s) virtue and moral based arguments as arguments with self-serving purpose. In the response of the reader mentioned at the beginning of the article, I have however found a few thoughts that resonate with me deeply:\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n\u201e[\u2026] real love for another is almost absent in most dating. What you describe in your post is not love at all. It is using [\u2026], but it is not love. You are incredibly insightful with how to manipulate [\u2026] to get to your ultimate goal.\u201c\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u201eYou are representing the prevalent western view today which is as good as the breeze in the air, here today, gone tomorrow. It\u0027s not objective reality of people\u0027s core needs nor how they are wired to thrive.\u201c\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI personally do not see that you would claim somewhere that you are talking about \u201clove\u201d (\u201clove\u201d in [initial] dating to me is questionable concept in general anyway). Rather than love and relationship building, you and your business seem to be focused on the very first step before relationship even occurs - \u201cseduction\u201d -  to make relationship happen at all. So your work is then logically more about attraction (as some sort of pre-requisite of romantic relationship), attraction building and how to turn it into sex rather than about \u201clove\u201d (that\u2019s also how I understand the point of the reader\u2019s comment: authentic feelings of interest and care vs. rational manipulation just to get what you want). Agree? \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase, have you read The Art of Loving (50s; in the USA) by Erich Fromm (Freud\u2019s disciple; partially classified as Frankfurt School of Thought)? \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Art-Loving-Erich-Fromm\/dp\/0061129739\u0022\u003Ehttps:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Art-Loving-Erich-Fromm\/dp\/0061129739\u003C\/a\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=R0lsn0-H5kY\u0022\u003Ehttps:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=R0lsn0-H5kY\u003C\/a\u003E (excerpt only)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIn here Fromm essentially (a.o.) claims that love that has become a subject of value exchange is not \u201creal love\u201d (and also does feel differently). Basically your reader\u2019s words I selected and quoted above would be consistent with Fromm\u2019s ideas. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI am trying to find out if there might be some link and how the two \u201cphilosophies\u201d relate to each other but I have to admit I haven\u2019t come to a conclusion yet. My assumption tends to be that you describe what works (at least short-term for the initial phase before relationship) especially in the current capitalist West while Fromm talks about what is valuable, rewarding (long term) and universally valid (even though extremely rare \u2013 as in his view it\u2019s an Art) for all times. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWould you be willing to give it a thought and explain what the relation of your ideas and his might be? I (and possibly other readers) would be very much interested in how you would argumentatively cope with Fromm\u2019s ideas.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOne more question here:\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI am aware and acknowledge that the bigger picture (e.g. demographics-market) does influence dating and relationships so it\u2019s a question to what an extent you can act independently from it with success. You will probably agree with me that the first few steps in the relationship influence the set-up and further development of the relationship. Don\u2019t you then think that the manipulative nature of game has the ability to poison the ground from which love is expected to grow later? (e.g. how can you trust a manipulator? At times I (have) enjoyed gaming but no matter what the outcome, in the end (especially woman\u0027s) gaming \/apart from showing me she\u0027s not naive and knows the game\/ has always been a turn off for me while sincerity on the contrary has boosted attraction.). \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E* to me (as a European; Europe tends to be rather socialist) it really seems this is an extreme business based (raw American capitalist) view of relationships and a result of what society you\u2019ve been living in. To quote Fromm: \u201cIn a culture in which the marketing orientation prevails, and in which material success is the outstanding value, there is little reason to be surprised that human love relations follow the same pattern of exchange which governs the commodity and the labor market.\u201c\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThanks for your time and effort.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nBrett\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EP.S.: Just came back from a vacation in Ireland. A beautiful country with very friendly and warm people. I guess you must be more Irish than American. ;-)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2445\/84465\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-84512\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/84512#comment-84512\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/84512#comment-84512\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ELove, Market Forces\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 26 September 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/its-cruel-when-men-dont-stick-around-after-sex-argument\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/84465#comment-84465\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EBrett-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EInteresting questions.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI don\u0027t concern myself too much with love. I leave that to readers\nto decide if they want it or not. All I teach men is how to get\ntogether with women, and how to stay together with them. This website\nhas arguably the most advanced information available online on\nbuilding, maintaining, and sustaining long-term relationships:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/pages\/relationship-101\u0022\u003Ehttp:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/pages\/relationship-101\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThere was a time before I got too involved with running Girls Chase\nwhen I was much more known for my relationship advice than for any\nother type of advice. Relationships have always been my biggest human\nspecialty; seduction I had to learn.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI encourage readers to select in particular for women they\nexperience strong initial emotions toward; \u0027love at first sight\u0027, if\nyou will. Some articles on this:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cul\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/love-first-sight\u0022\u003ELove at First Sight\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca\nhref=\u0022\/content\/edit-story-falling-love-part-ii-finding-love-first-sight\u0022\u003EFalling\nin Love, Part II: Finding Love at First Sight\u003C\/a\u003E\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI have never personally had a girlfriend I did not experience this\nemotion toward. And I am skeptical how satisfactory a relationship can\nbe that does not start off with feelings of love, excitement, and\nadmiration from the very outset. But in any event, it is not my place\nto lecture men and tell them relationships without this are \u0027bad\u0027...\nonly that I suggest they pursue love as a principle ingredient in any\nlong-term relationships they pursue.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYou\u0027re correct I don\u0027t recommend \u0027love\u0027 for hookups. At least not in\nthe traditional sense of romantic, in-love love. Rather, I encourage\nmen to \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/brain-hacks-how-learn-empathy\u0022\u003Efeel empathy\nfor women\u003C\/a\u003E, \u003Ca\nhref=\u0022\/content\/understanding-women-its-not-hard-you-think\u0022\u003Eto\nunderstand them\u003C\/a\u003E, \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/girls-silly-and-cute\u0022\u003Eto\nappreciate their girlishness\u003C\/a\u003E, and to love them as fellow human\nbeings.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u0027ve not read Fromm. Love is of course a value exchange (all social\nexchanges are value exchanges). But if it \u003Cspan\nstyle=\u0022font-style: italic;\u0022\u003Efeels like\u003C\/span\u003E a value exchange, or\nbecomes a \u003Cspan style=\u0022font-style: italic;\u0022\u003Econscious\u003C\/span\u003E value\nexchange, then I would agree - it has stopped being \u0027real\u0027 love. It has\nbecome a trade.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe way I differentiate the type of relationships Fromm is\ndifferentiating is between relationships based on \u003Cspan\nstyle=\u0022font-style: italic;\u0022\u003Egiving\u003C\/span\u003E versus relationships based\non \u003Cspan style=\u0022font-style: italic;\u0022\u003Etrading\u003C\/span\u003E. Both\nrelationships are value exchanges. However, both are based on very\ndifferent approaches to a relationship. A giving relationship is based\non giving freely of the self, with the confidence that this value one\ngives is an investment in building something mutual (the relationship,\nwhich provides value back to both partners - often a greater amount of\nvalue in return than either partner individually enters in). A trading\nrelationship is based on tit-for-tat; I give you X thing, you give me Y\nthing of equivalent value. No relationship is built; you lose the\namplification a giving relationship provides. A giving relationship can\nbecome a trading relationship if trust is broken; trading relationships\nrarely become giving relationships, though. Some low-trust people \u003Cspan\nstyle=\u0022font-style: italic;\u0022\u003Eexclusively\u003C\/span\u003E have trading\nrelationships, and are incapable of having giving (loving)\nrelationships. Which is very sad.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI talk about giving vs. trading \u003Ca\nhref=\u0022\/content\/are-you-giving-her-sex-or-trading-it\u0022\u003Ea bit more here\u003C\/a\u003E,\nalbeit in a somewhat different context.\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EDon\u2019t you then think that the manipulative nature of game has the\nability to poison the ground from which love is expected to grow later?\n(e.g. how can you trust a manipulator? At times I (have) enjoyed gaming\nbut no matter what the outcome, in the end (especially woman\u0027s) gaming\n\/apart from showing me she\u0027s not naive and knows the game\/ has always\nbeen a turn off for me while sincerity on the contrary has boosted\nattraction.).\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EDepends on the nature of the game. When it is based on lies,\ndeception, and obfuscation, absolutely, yes. When it is based on\nflirtation, teasing, and fun, and otherwise is honest... then no, of\ncourse not. When you run your game that way, as I do, and as I do my\nbest to teach men to, you build healthier relationships based on a\ngreater degree of honesty than most other men and women out there do.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWomen\u0027s gaming can be a turnoff if it is clearly guarded. When a\nwoman cannot drop the act and be real, if you are sensitive to this\nsort of thing (as I am, and as you apparently are), then yes - it\u0027s a\nhuge turnoff. Likewise, if you are dealing with a woman who wants to\ncut the crap, and you cannot be sincere, you\u0027ll turn her off.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhen you learn game, you will go through a period of insincerity.\nThis is unpleasant and not fun, but more or less necessary because you\nwill be doing a bunch of things you wouldn\u0027t normally do. I talk about\nthis in terms of \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/sprezzatura-effort-and-investing\u0022\u003Ethe\nJester\/King dichotomy\u003C\/a\u003E. You start out totally sincere, but largely\nunable to achieve the results you want. You then become insincere, and\nlook and feel silly and fake. Eventually you reach a point, if you keep\nat it, where you can be completely sincere again, and yet get\noutstanding results. All things are like this. Pick a new martial art\nand start going to class around the advanced students, and you will\nfeel like a faker, trying to keep up with them and making your clumsy\nmoves and trying to understand what they so easily do.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThis is the primary reason why most people who become very good at\none thing never become very good at something else. They get too used\nto the feeling of being calm, natural, and sincere, while also getting\nexcellent results, in the thing they are good at, to bother with the\npain of being a beginner doing something they suck at and feel like a\nfaker doing and still not get any results with that thing anyway.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E* to me (as a European; Europe tends to be rather socialist) it\nreally seems this is an extreme business based (raw American\ncapitalist) view of relationships and a result of what society you\u2019ve\nbeen living in. To quote Fromm: \u201cIn a culture in which the marketing\norientation prevails, and in which material success is the outstanding\nvalue, there is little reason to be surprised that human love relations\nfollow the same pattern of exchange which governs the commodity and the\nlabor market.\u201c\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EEurope follows market forces too. Just because one hails from a\ncountry that leans more socialist than another does not free one from\nthese forces. Market forces are not some invention of economists.\nEconomists are not even very good at what they do (trying to\nunderstand, model, and predict the markets). Supply, demand, trade, and\nexchange are economic terms for forces of nature.\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf you believe otherwise, see how much money you can get on a\nclassified site in your country offering your sperm to women looking to\nhave children. Then post an identical ad offering the eggs of one of\nyour country\u0027s supermodels. Why are people willing to pay so much more\nfor one of her eggs than they are for a cup of your sperm? Now ask\nyourself what would happen if every man in your country went sterile,\nexcept for you. What would the price of your fertile sperm be versus\nthe price of that egg?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWe call these \u0027market forces\u0027, but you can call them whatever you\nwant. They are universal forces that go beyond the marketplace. We only\nuse marketplace terms for them because that\u0027s where the original\nthinking that went into these concepts took place at. Similar to how we\nuse terms from sports games about sports concepts in non-sports contexts\n(did you really \u0027score\u0027 when you got laid? Was there anyone with a\nscoreboard in the room with you?), and concepts from biology in\nnon-biological contexts (pretty much everything is subject to \u0027survival\nof the fittest\u0027 these days... even markets! This despite the fact that\nlisted corporations are not exactly analogous to biological organisms\nin all ways).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EP.S.: Just came back from a vacation in Ireland. A beautiful\ncountry with very friendly and warm people. I guess you must be more\nIrish than American. ;-)\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI haven\u0027t visited yet (have heard different things... one Irish-descent friend called it \u0027depressing\u0027, which has kind of kept me away lest I have the same experience)... but genetically, and behaviorally... yes,\nprobably.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhat gave me away - was it the drinking, the arguing, the\nstorytelling, or the philandering? ;)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2445\/84512\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-84537\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/84537#comment-84537\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Jimbo\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Jimbo\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Jimbo\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Jimbo\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/84537#comment-84537\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EBasic economics\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EJimbo (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Wednesday, 27 September 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/its-cruel-when-men-dont-stick-around-after-sex-argument\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/84512#comment-84512\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EGreat stuff. That explanation about market forces is one of those things we all instinctively get, but have a hard time expliciting in words, but you laid out a great basic explanation that I think should be taught in every Economics 101 class. Btw I think Basic Economics should be taught from junior high on, because we\u0027re basically have a country of economic illiterates.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOn the \u0022what could give you away as Irish\u0022 part, I\u0027ll vote \u0027the redhairing\u0027! :)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2445\/84537\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-84627\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/84627#comment-84627\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Brett\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Brett\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Brett\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Brett\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/84627#comment-84627\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EWhy not Love?\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EBrett (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Saturday, 7 October 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/its-cruel-when-men-dont-stick-around-after-sex-argument\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/84512#comment-84512\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EChase,\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EInteresting answers. Thanks.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u2019ve been traveling on business so it took me a while to sort out my thoughts and get back to you.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThanks also for navigating me through your website with some article hints and pointing out the positives. A lot of practical stuff really.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENow, your answers let some questions arise. If you feel like answering them, I\u2019d be happy to know your perspective:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E1.\tYou said you teach men how to get together with women, and how to stay together with them.  You might agree that man and women relationships are (even though not always) about love. Then, what is the reason you don\u2019t you concern yourself so much with love?  Also from a business point of view \u2013 e.g. Fromm, probably without that intention, sold 6 millon copies of his book..\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E2.\tYou titled your response as \u201cLove, Market Forces\u201d. How are these two related in your view? Do you suggest (e.g. by the examples you gave here with eggs and sperm) that the path leading to love is by following the market forces? I understand demand more as the information about \u2018what other people want\u2019 rather than as information that object\/subject x has is of y nature\/quality\/value (for me).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E3.\tThis one\u2019s extra: How do you see the relation of love and fear? In some of your articles you keep suggesting that a man and woman relationship actually is basically some sort of a fight for power and if you do not want to lose attraction, you must behave in such a way (keep more power) that your partner must actually fear the possibility of losing you. So you think then that healthy and fulfilling man and woman relationships are partially based on fear? How does that go together with trust?  Or how is this to be understood?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E4.\tTrading vs. giving. In that you and Fromm are one. There\u2019s however another aspect. Him diving deep into the underlying concepts, it seems he would have some concerns regarding the concept of \u2018humans as products\u2019 to be sold by themselves on the dating market. I have finally found the respective paragraph. Seems to be in stark contrast to your philosophy. Maybe you can say why his view is so different. As if he would be coming from a totally different world:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E \u201eClosely related to this factor is another feature charac-teristic of contemporary culture. Our whole culture is based on the appetite for buying, on the idea of a mutually favor-able exchange. Modern man\u0027s happiness consists in the thrill of looking at the shop windows, and in buying all that he can afford to buy, either for cash or on installments. He (or she) looks at people in a similar way. For the man an attrac-tive girl\u2014and for the woman an attractive man\u2014are the prizes they are after. \u0022Attractive\u0022 usually means a nice pack-age of qualities which are popular and sought after on the personality market. What specifically makes a person attrac-tive depends on the fashion of the time, physically as well as mentally. During the twenties, a drinking and smoking girl, tough and sexy, was attractive; today the fashion demands more domesticity and coyness. At the end of the nineteenth and the beginning of this century, a man had to be aggres-sive and ambitious\u2014today he has to be social and tolerant\u2014in order to be an attractive \u0022package.\u0022 At any rate, the sense of falling in love develops usually only with regard to such human commodities as are within reach of one\u0027s own possi-bilities for exchange. I am out for a bargain; the object should be desirable from the standpoint of its social value, and at the same time should want me, considering my overt and hidden assets and potentialities. Two persons thus fall in love when they feel they have found the best object available on the market, considering the limitations of their own exchange values. Often, as in buying real estate, the hidden potentiali-ties which can be developed play a considerable role in this bargain.\u201c \/E. Fromm \u2013 The Art of Loving\/\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIreland. I experienced Ireland as a beautiful country. We rented a car in Dublin and went south-west to Count Kerry. The inland might be a bit boring (flat; grass and cows everywhere) but closer to the coastal parts and mountains it\u2019s incredible and exciting. People seem to live a rather simple (agriculture \u2013 sheep) and modest though a content life there. Moisture climate, fresh green plants and a lot of stones and raw stone buildings. I also met also some old Americans who came to investigate their family history. When did your ancestors left for US? Anyway, I can only recommend it to you, especially in spring and summer time. Irish pubs with (traditional) live music \u2013 anytime. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOh, and what gave you away? Well, except for looks, let me simply say it was the spirit ;)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThanks\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nBrett\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2445\/84627\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-85145\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/85145#comment-85145\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/85145#comment-85145\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EWhy Doesn\u0026#039;t Chase Talk Much About Love?\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Saturday, 25 November 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/its-cruel-when-men-dont-stick-around-after-sex-argument\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/84627#comment-84627\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EBrett-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EQuick answers:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYou might agree that man and women relationships are (even though\nnot always) about love.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIn developed, urbanized nations, relationships are often about love.\nThroughout most periods of history, in most human societies, and still\ntoday outside highly developed, urbanized societies, relationships are\nabout more practical considerations - such as good political matches,\ngood economic matches, and so on. Love will often (though not\nalways) be a component of these relationships, but it is not what they\nare about. Most relationships have been about love in the United States\nsince perhaps 1880 or so. However, among American upper and lower\nclasses, practical considerations continue to frequently hold greater\nsway than\nlove. Among the upper classes, relationships are about good financial\nand eugenic matches. Among the lower classes, financial concerns\ntypically hold sway.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThen, what is the reason you don\u2019t you concern yourself so much\nwith love?\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EFor the same reason I do not concern myself with how to or whether\nmen should practice eugenics, or marry for money, or seek out women who\nwill make good political alliances.\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe tools I give men can be used to find love, just as they can be\nused to find a genetically superior woman to mate\nwith, or a financially well off woman to live a life of\nmaterial comfort with. How the reader uses those tools I leave up to\nhim; I only ask that he uses them in a moral and responsible way, and\nmakes himself an influence of good with the women whose lives he\ntouches.\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAlso from a business point of view \u2013 e.g. Fromm, probably without\nthat intention, sold 6 millon copies of his book.\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd how excellent for him! I, however, am on a different path. And\nwouldn\u0027t the world be poorer if everyone who wrote on a subject was\nmade to write on the same thing?\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYou titled your response as \u201cLove, Market Forces\u201d. How\nare these two related in your view? Do you suggest (e.g. by the\nexamples you gave here with eggs and sperm) that the path leading to\nlove is by following the market forces? I understand demand more as the\ninformation about \u2018what other people want\u2019 rather than as information\nthat object\/subject x has is of y nature\/quality\/value (for me).\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ELike so: move to the Philippines, surround yourself with passionate,\nsexually willing women who throw themselves into bed with you the\nmoment you ask, then see what it takes for you to fall in love. After\nthree months and 50 lovers - many beautiful; many wonderful partners -\nand an endless stream of more, splendid, doting lovers stretching as\nfar into the future as you would care to indulge, ask yourself how easy\nit is now for you to fall in love with even an\nincredibly beautiful, superior woman.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThen move to a desert and live there alone for three years.\nMeditate; talk to rocks; grow simple crops in a simple plot irrigated\nby a thin stream by the side of your yurt. You will have no Internet,\nno cell phone, no mail; no contact with the outside world save your\ndaydreams and any books you take with you. At the\nend of those three years of wilderness isolation, we will send a woman\n- just an ordinary\nwoman; plain, of average intellect, and no outstanding personal\nqualities - to live with you, cook food for you, make love to you, and\nbe your companion.\nAnd we shall see how soon you fall in love with her, and how deep that\nlove shall be.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThat is love, influenced by market forces.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThis one\u2019s extra: How do you see the relation of love\nand fear? In some of your articles you keep suggesting that a man and\nwoman relationship actually is basically some sort of a fight for power\nand if you do not want to lose attraction, you must behave in such a\nway (keep more power) that your partner must actually fear the\npossibility of losing you. So you think then that healthy and\nfulfilling man and woman relationships are partially based on fear? How\ndoes that go together with trust? Or how is this to be understood?\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ELove rests on the pillar of fear of loss. Listen to the language of\nlovers:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cul\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u0022I could not imagine life without you!\u0022\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u0022To part me from your side would be to kill me!\u0022\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u0022Never leave my side again, my love!\u0022\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EFear and love are two sides of the same coin. No love is truly a\ngreat love if the lover does not fear the loss of the beloved. If the\nlover would shrug at the loss of his beloved, his love is of a far more\nplacid variety - more akin to admiration and respect than deep romantic\nlove.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThis is different from making a woman live in constant fear of\nlosing you. If she thinks you are perpetually one foot out the door, it\ncreates an unstable, unhealthy relationship.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETo propose the removal of all fear from romance, however, is to\npropose an end to passion. Whether that is for better or for worse, I\nleave to the reader to decide. I myself have moved to deliberately\ncreate increasingly less emotional relationships as I have aged, where\nthe woman has less fear of what the loss of me might cost her, and\nconsequently less passion\/love for me. Which I find I prefer, as I am\nbusy, and do not have the time for drama I used to.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETwo persons thus fall in love when they feel they have\nfound the best object available on the market, considering the\nlimitations of their own exchange values.\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThis is my position as well. I\u0027m unsure what differences you see\nbetween Fromm and me, if this paragraph is an exemplar.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe inland might be a bit boring (flat; grass and cows everywhere)\nbut closer to the coastal parts and mountains it\u2019s incredible and\nexciting. People seem to live a rather simple (agriculture \u2013 sheep) and\nmodest though a content life there. Moisture climate, fresh green\nplants and a lot of stones and raw stone buildings. I also met also\nsome old Americans who came to investigate their family history. When\ndid your ancestors left for US? Anyway, I can only recommend it to you,\nespecially in spring and summer time. Irish pubs with (traditional)\nlive music \u2013 anytime.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOh, and what gave you away? Well, except for looks, let me simply\nsay it was the spirit ;)\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt does sound pleasant!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe Irish side of my family left Ireland for North America at least\nfive generations before me. I traced that side of the family back as\nfar as I could for a school project 2.5 decades ago, and we could only\nfind one ancestor who possibly had emigrated from Ireland. The rest\nwere born to parents already in the U.S. or in Canada. Interesting\nstuff, family lineages!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2445\/85145\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-84472\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/84472#comment-84472\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Lawliet\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Lawliet\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Lawliet\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Lawliet\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/84472#comment-84472\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EExcuse me... what? \/ Approach grabs\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ELawliet (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Wednesday, 20 September 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/its-cruel-when-men-dont-stick-around-after-sex-argument\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EJust from reading the title, I can\u0027t help finding myself chuckling at that complaint from women...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWomen usually think ahead waaaay more than men... a comment like this comes off rather silly and cute\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETry to consider this perspective, ladies...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf we ask them this instead, they will probably give a much clearer answer:\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n\u0022Would you prefer a man who lied to you about being together and starting a family with you, whom you then imagine and fantasize a future with, only for him to vanish? \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOr would you prefer a man who you shared a lovely moment but was honest with his intentions from the very BEGINNING, and you had the choice to choose what to do before wasting your time?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u0027m almost certain all would say preferring the second. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ERe: Approach grabs\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHey Chase I reviewed some of your articles lately and I found that approach grabs are pretty useful for me in the past year. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThanks for the article, but can you make a longer list of approach grabs?\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI\u0027m still not getting as much approach invitations (for whatever reason most of the time I get them is when I\u0027m rushing to class or hands are tied).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ECan we get more grabs to nab more ladycrabs? ;D\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ECase Example:\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI\u0027m specifically thinking of situations like transit where she\u0027s seated far away...\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nAnd came up with \u0022what if we just stared?\u0022\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI know it breaks protocol and can come off creepy, but what we did the chin tuck to use \u0022shyness\u0022 to numb the predatory frame?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIdeally, it would match the same way when girls look at us and just keep staring until we notice, and then they look down and smile shyly...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOnce a woman has noticed you, if she likes you, she will keep her eye on you and wait for a chance to give you an approach invitation. from Attention Grab by Chase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u0027m guessing you meant the same thing here. What if we used the same tactic and \u0022keep our eye on her\u0022 to get her attention ?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBest,\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nLawliet\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2445\/84472\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-84500\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/84500#comment-84500\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/mischief\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-5239-1518969343.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Motiv\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Motiv\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-5239-1518969343.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Motiv\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Motiv\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/84500#comment-84500\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EThinking ahead\u2026\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/mischief\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/mischief\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EMotiv\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Sunday, 24 September 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/its-cruel-when-men-dont-stick-around-after-sex-argument\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/84472#comment-84472\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EShe \u003Cem\u003Eis\u003C\/em\u003E thinking ahead. I am almost certain at this point that this a post-wall woman looking for male provisioning. Her strategy goes something like this: appeal to the male concept of valor and romantic love, attract a flock of orbiting chumps, and choose one for the long-term.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E-M\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2445\/84500\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-84513\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/84513#comment-84513\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/84513#comment-84513\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EMore Attention Grabs\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 26 September 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/its-cruel-when-men-dont-stick-around-after-sex-argument\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/84472#comment-84472\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003ELawliet-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI think the female commenter in this case would insist she would\nprefer a man who claimed he wanted to be with her and start a family\nwith her - and meant it!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd then of course left it up to her to decide whether she wanted\nthat with him or not. So like Mischief\u0027s idea of her as a girl who just\nwants a lot of options, and the ability to choose freely from among\nthose options, at her leisure.\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAttention grabs... well, other than the ones in \u003Ca\nhref=\u0022\/content\/tactics-tuesdays-attention-grabs-elicit-approach-invitations\u0022\u003Ethe\narticle on attention grabs\u003C\/a\u003E, here are a few more:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cul\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EHumming \/ singing\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003ENodding your head slightly (can be side-to-side or up-and-down)\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EFlashing your eyebrows up as you stare off into the distance a\nbit past her\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EDrumming your fingers to tap out a beat\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EStroking your beard area as you stare off into the distance\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EStaring at the ceiling with your chin up, exposing your neck\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EGlancing slowly about, eyes above everyone else\u0027s heads\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI know some guys who do the \u0022stare at her until she\u0027s looking\u0022 thing\nand claim it works for them. I don\u0027t like it, personally. I prefer to\nlook \u003Cspan style=\u0022font-style: italic;\u0022\u003Eby\u003C\/span\u003E a woman and wait\nuntil she\u0027s noticed me and had a chance to check me out and is looking\nin my direction. Then make eye contact. But try out different things\nand see what works better for you - maybe my way works better, or maybe\nthe laser-eyes-till-she-looks way does (seems to work just fine for\nsome guys).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/p\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2445\/84513\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-84473\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/84473#comment-84473\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022SZ\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022SZ\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022SZ\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022SZ\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/84473#comment-84473\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003E3\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ESZ (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Wednesday, 20 September 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/its-cruel-when-men-dont-stick-around-after-sex-argument\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHey Chase, I had a few questions:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E1. So I realized why I haven\u0027t done much in those past years, I burnt out, I was tired of failure and tired of women\u0027s shitty attitudes, i would be so happy to see these girls with attitudes and think to myself how great it is to be stress free and not have to deal with it, then time just flew. I guess I gave up without realizing it, but my problem is now that I regret it immensely, and I still don\u0027t understand how time went so fast? How did those years go by so fast? I also remember some chicks i hung out with all of the time, I remember girls i hung out with from 3-6 years ago and it felt like only a year or two. I dint want to think about these chicks, and I want to stop everything from feeling like it wasn\u0027t long ago when it was, 6 years is a very long time and I remember this girl and our whole hang out very vividly. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHow did you ever get over wasting so much time and years if that ever happened to you before, and how can I do it? It will always eat at me that I wasted those years because I was just fed up with failure.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E2. Kind of random question, but maybe ypu might know, How can make time feel normal again? I can remember stuff so clear and recent, it scares me when I realize something was 5 years ago instead of 2.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E2. I\u0027ll admit, I prefer to relax than work. And after years of shitty jobs, I guess I gave up on caring about that too, and now it is extremely hard for me to work, I hate going to my computer ever, I have no focus and can\u0027t sit longer than 30 mins until I get bored and want to lay down again. I\u0027m trying to learn skills and make businesses, but I just zone out and don\u0027t want to do anything. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E3. I keep hearing to start a business, it\u0027s good to work on it for 100 hours a week. I don\u0027t even want to do 10. It\u0027s sad. It\u0027s like I hate anything work related and it mentally exhausts me.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI know you work many hours a day, and sleep little.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYou have any idea at all how I can change from my lays ways to do that? Even half of that? I want to love working.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E3. What should I do about the constant thoughts I have of women I\u0027ve had in my life? From rejections to lays? I want to get them out of my mind because I know their sleeping with whoever they are with and here I am thinking about them. It\u0027s good to think about lays and rejections here and there, but not 24\/7.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAll of these scenarios repeat in my head over and over again, so maybe that\u0027s why I feel everything was not so long ago, when it really was. I still think about this girl I slept with from 3 years ago, her sex wasn\u0027t phenomenal, but I think about it.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnyway to combat this?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2445\/84473\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-84474\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/84474#comment-84474\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022SZ\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022SZ\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022SZ\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022SZ\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/84474#comment-84474\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EQuestions about the article:\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ESZ (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Wednesday, 20 September 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/its-cruel-when-men-dont-stick-around-after-sex-argument\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EQuestions about the article:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E1. Why do women care less than men? I\u0027m referring to your beginning paragraph about women being less in love and stuff, why are women so cold and how do we become the cold ones?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E2. What can we do about women getting more suicidal? I would think that means that they will only get crazier, is it to worry about, how will we be good if many women become more crazy by the day?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E3. I\u0027ve literally read all of your articles, but wanted to know what so you exactly say or how do you act to let girls know you\u0027re not gonna stick around? I tell girls I\u0027m not a one woman man and stuff, but I feel it also makes it harder to sleep with them because I\u0027m throwing it out there. I\u0027m just looking for quick tips on how to convey you won\u0027t be around after sex without hurting her.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThanks!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2445\/84474\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-84515\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/84515#comment-84515\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/84515#comment-84515\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EQuestions\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 26 September 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/its-cruel-when-men-dont-stick-around-after-sex-argument\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/84474#comment-84474\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003ESZ-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThose \u0027wasted years\u0027 become irrelevant once you\u0027re living life.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAt this point, I mean, I guess it would\u0027ve been cool had I done\nsomething with my high school and university years. That\u0027s eight years\n\u0027gone\u0027, more or less. But then again, had I done something with those\nyears, I would\u0027ve led a very different life. There would probably not\nbe a Girls Chase. I would not be in the caf\u00e9 I am in right now, living\nthe life I am living. I would be somewhere else, doing something else.\nMaybe that would be better or maybe it would be worse. But in any\nevent, I am quite confident that I am right where I need to be.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf long-ago stuff feels recent, it means you haven\u0027t done enough new\nstuff, met enough new people, or had enough life change in the\nintervening time. Start living your life, man. People tell me about\nstuff now and I\u0027m like, \u0022Damn, when was that, like three years ago?\u0022\nand they\u0027re like no, that was last year. But there\u0027s so much going on\nit all feels like ancient history. A month ago feels like 3 or 4 months\nago. But that\u0027s just because I\u0027m busy. Get busy, and you\u0027ll compress a\nlot into the time you\u0027ve got.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf you don\u0027t want to work 10 hours on a business, haha, then\nbusiness is not for you. But then again, before I had a business, I\ndidn\u0027t want to work on one either. Girls Chase started out as something\nI intended to spend a minimal amount of time on and generate a living\nwage off of. It turned out to be a lot more work to get it where I\nwanted to get it to, but by that point I was committed (and also didn\u0027t\nhave a lot of other options after my other business ideas had crashed\nand left me with massive debt).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI would suggest you work on building skill sets first. You will have\na much shorter path to business success if you already have good skills\nto start a business with. If you don\u0027t have anything you\u0027re good at\nyet, you are going to have a very hard struggle in business (and\nprobably fail a lot more than you need to).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAs for thoughts about women - think about other women. If you don\u0027t\nhave any fresh women, I guess you\u0027d better go meet some. Get out there.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003Ewhy are women so cold and how do we become the cold ones?\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBecause women get pregnant. When you have to carry a child for 9\nmonths, are physically weaker, and need to nurture and raise children,\nyou need to be ruthless in cutting out unfit men and screening for\nstrength, sanity, and provision.\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENot sure how men can become \u0022woman cold\u0022 - estrogen maybe? They just\nhad an announcement that they ought to be able to implant uteruses into\nmen within the next 10 years - that may be the ticket :) But I guess\nany way to make yourself weak enough that you become reliant upon\nprovision by the mates you date might make you woman-cold. When I knew\na guy who had borderline personality disorder, he basically had\nwoman-levels of stone-coldness (masked beneath the same level of\nsuperficial sensitivity, feelings, and emotions). I don\u0027t know if you\ncan become borderline past childhood though - usually you need to\nundergo extreme amounts of abuse and neglect, and it\u0027s probably hard to\nstructure an environment where you go through that as an adult. Maybe\nincarcertaion where you are kept in isolation or raped or something?\nDunno. I don\u0027t think there are any pleasant ways to get there though.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhat can we do about women getting more suicidal? I would think\nthat means that they will only get crazier, is it to worry about, how\nwill we be good if many women become more crazy by the day?\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENothing. \u003Ca\nhref=\u0022\/content\/8-red-flags-she-s-crazy-girl-you-should-stay-away\u0022\u003EScreen\nout the crazies\u003C\/a\u003E; takes steps to \u003Ca\nhref=\u0022\/content\/21-signs-shes-psycho-you-should-ghost-bar\u0022\u003Ekeep away\nfrom broken women\u003C\/a\u003E. It\u0027s unfortunate, but social problems have\nsocial fixes. All you can do at an individual level is keep away from\nthe nuttier chicks.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u0027ve literally read all of your articles, but wanted to know what\nso you exactly say or how do you act to let girls know you\u0027re not gonna\nstick around? I tell girls I\u0027m not a one woman man and stuff, but I\nfeel it also makes it harder to sleep with them because I\u0027m throwing it\nout there. I\u0027m just looking for quick tips on how to convey you won\u0027t\nbe around after sex without hurting her.\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/telling-women-youre-not-boyfriend-material\u0022\u003ETelling\nWomen You\u0027re NOT Boyfriend Material\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E^ anything from there will usually do the trick.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYou can also mention how girls always get hurt with you. And\/or that\nyou don\u0027t do relationships because you\u0027re tired of hurting women and it\njust sucks watching women cry. But I would stick with the stuff in that\narticle. That + nonverbals... the sexier you are, the less women expect\nyou will stick around post-sex.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2445\/84515\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-84477\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/84477#comment-84477\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022ANONYMOUS\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022ANONYMOUS\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022ANONYMOUS\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022ANONYMOUS\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/84477#comment-84477\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EFundamentals over favoritism\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EANONYMOUS (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Wednesday, 20 September 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/its-cruel-when-men-dont-stick-around-after-sex-argument\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003ECan fundamentals beat racism, color struck people, and favoritism?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u0027m black btw\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPerfect example: For some reason light skin men get treated way better than dark from where I\u0027m from, and I\u0027ve actually noticed all over now. I\u0027ve even heard a guy say, \u0022not everyone is blessed to be light skin\u0022. Really, dude?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI have a light skin friend, I\u0027ve known him all of my life, he\u0027s not a natural or anything, so he doesn\u0027t have many fundamentals at all, no muscles, game, I\u0027ve been in the game way longer and actually read this stuff as well.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhen we go out he never has to say anything, the girl leads, these girls aren\u0027t the best looking, but they\u0027re decent, me? I have to work for mines a majority of the time. I observe him very well and he doesn\u0027t do anything special at all, so I know it\u0027s because of his completion and race because some of these girls are his race as well.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe problem is they treat me like crap because I\u0027m black, his race of girls include him in and help him get a girl, while I get no type of attention, no hello or anything, its just rude as hell to me. I\u0027m always looking stupid because I have to work hard for mine, and im tired of it. Ive even heard girls ask his race before to make sure they are the same race, i even had black women do the same.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo, this is definitely a race or color struck thing. Should I be angry at him? I always had to work hard for mines and it\u0027s hard not to be angry and bitter.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI wanted to know how I can beat this? I\u0027ve tried to ignore it and be calm, but it hasn\u0027t changed.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhat do I have to work on to make me defeat this? Do I need bigger muscles? Something else?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2445\/84477\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-84516\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/84516#comment-84516\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/84516#comment-84516\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EBlack and Cool vs. Black and Normal\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 26 September 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/its-cruel-when-men-dont-stick-around-after-sex-argument\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/84477#comment-84477\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EAnon-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ECan fundamentals beat racism, color struck people, and favoritism?\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003Cbr\u003E\nI\u0027m black btw\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYes. \u003Ca\nhref=\u0022\/content\/how-many-attraction-factors-are-there-infinite\u0022\u003EArticle\non this\u003C\/a\u003E. \u003Ca\nhref=\u0022\/content\/what-percent-impact-does-race-have-attractiveness\u0022\u003EAlso\nthis one\u003C\/a\u003E. \u003Ca\nhref=\u0022\/content\/i-cant-get-girls-because-girls-only-want-blank\u0022\u003EAnd\nthis one\u003C\/a\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe problem is they treat me like crap because I\u0027m black, his race\nof girls include him in and help him get a girl, while I get no type of\nattention, no hello or anything, its just rude as hell to me. I\u0027m\nalways looking stupid because I have to work hard for mine, and im\ntired of it. Ive even heard girls ask his race before to make sure they\nare the same race, i even had black women do the same.\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAre you going for women of his race? Or women of yours? Most guys of\nmost races have homefield advantage going for girls of their own races.\nYou can beat that once your fundamentals are sharp enough, but\ndepending on the venue and the type of girl they may need to be fairly\noutstanding.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAlso keep in mind that especially if going outside your race, your\nlevel of conformity with that race\u0027s stereotypes versus your own can\nhave a big impact. If you\u0027re an American black guy who acts like an\nAmerican black guy but goes for Latinas from South America you will\nhave a tough time. But if you\u0027re an American black guy who acts like a\ncool American (white?) guy and goes for Latinas from South America you\nwill have an easier time. There is a dominant \u0027cool guy\u0027 culture in\nAmerica... we usually think of it as \u0027cool white guy\u0027 but I have had\nblack, Asian, etc., friends who do this guy as well as anyone. So it\nreally is just \u0027cool guy\u0027 rather than \u0027cool white guy\u0027. But this guy is\ndifferent from \u0027regular white guy\u0027 or \u0027regular black guy\u0027 or any kind\nof regular guy. You have to really be the cool guy to escape from race\nwith a lot of girls. Some girls will fetishize particular races, but if\nyou want to get away from the fetishists you need to broaden your\nappeal.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/p\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2445\/84516\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-84486\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/84486#comment-84486\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/franco\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-3879-1483064671.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Franco Lombardi\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Franco Lombardi\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-3879-1483064671.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Franco Lombardi\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Franco Lombardi\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/84486#comment-84486\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EGreat Article\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/franco\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/franco\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EFranco Lombardi\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Friday, 22 September 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/its-cruel-when-men-dont-stick-around-after-sex-argument\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EGreat article, Chase. It was well-explained and thoroughly thought out.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd yes, the female argument here is very low empathy. I also don\u0027t believe this happens because women are cruel either -- they\u0027re just genuinely, completely unaware of the struggle when it comes to romance for most men. They are completely focused on themselves and their own goals (which they should be), but that also means they shouldn\u0027t blame men for things they think they understand well but don\u0027t really have a solid grasp on at all. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBasically, everything is a two-way street, and you need to have driven on both sides of the road before you can come to solid conclusions!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAs always gentlemen: \u003Cstrong\u003Edon\u0027t take dating advice from women.\u003C\/strong\u003E ;)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ECheers,\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EFranco\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2445\/84486\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-84487\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/84487#comment-84487\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/user\/17639\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-17639-1473603434.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Varoon Rajah\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Varoon Rajah\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-17639-1473603434.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Varoon Rajah\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Varoon Rajah\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/84487#comment-84487\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ELoved the Article\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/user\/17639\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/user\/17639\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EVaroon Rajah\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Friday, 22 September 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/its-cruel-when-men-dont-stick-around-after-sex-argument\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/84486#comment-84486\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EChase,\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ELoved the article too, a real pleasure to read and a great breakdown of concepts.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI find that people who victimize themselves (much like the female commenter) rarely take time to think about or understand the other side - specifically the struggles of men in romance as Franco mentioned.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E+1\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EVR\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2445\/84487\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-84493\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/84493#comment-84493\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/84493#comment-84493\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EHunter I Am\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAnonymous (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Saturday, 23 September 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/its-cruel-when-men-dont-stick-around-after-sex-argument\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003E\u0022Three, the thrill of the hunt is just as crucial as the act itself. Without the hunt, what\u0027s the point?\u0022\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHow do I make myself the Hunter and enjoy this? I hate hunting, I want them to come to me, so I know it\u0027s guaranteed pussy.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut I can get more if I become the Hunter.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt\u0027s gotten to the point where I haven\u0027t had chance to get with a girl all year because none have came to me to give me some, plus I don\u0027t meet many women at all. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ELet\u0027s change this!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo how can I enjoy the hunt and want to ravish even more women than I wanted to before?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI don\u0027t want to look thirsty, but I want to have the motivation and drive to want to hunt and fuck women so bad that they will love my energy and want me to ravish them too.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBecome a Hunter, I will.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2445\/84493\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-84517\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/84517#comment-84517\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/84517#comment-84517\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EBecoming the Hunter\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 26 September 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/its-cruel-when-men-dont-stick-around-after-sex-argument\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/84493#comment-84493\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EAnon-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHmm, well. I can\u0027t say I consciously learned this. Just years of going out, looking for and meeting and sleeping with women, and over time it goes from \u0022scary\u0022 to \u0022stressful\u0022 to \u0022routine\u0022 to \u0022enjoyable.\u0022 I suppose after a certain part there was a part of me that romanticized it as this great adventure, and that probably helped teach me to love it more.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAside from \u0022do it enough and let it sink in\u0022, I might suggest this article to help with part of the mindset:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/content\/natural-mindset-taking-more-pleasure-hook-ups\u0022\u003EThe Natural Mindset: Taking More Pleasure from Hook Ups\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWith enough time and elbow grease, you can get there.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2445\/84517\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-84499\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/84499#comment-84499\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/mischief\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-5239-1518969343.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Motiv\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Motiv\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-5239-1518969343.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Motiv\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Motiv\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/84499#comment-84499\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EBut\u2026 why???\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/mischief\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/mischief\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EMotiv\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Sunday, 24 September 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/its-cruel-when-men-dont-stick-around-after-sex-argument\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EMost of us who frequent GirlsChase.com know well enough not to take dating advice from women. We know that female advice poses the opposite of what actually works.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHowever, I think the more interesting question no one seems to have addressed is, \u003Cem\u003Ewhy?\u003C\/em\u003E Why do women give this advice, such as it is? The \u0022girls are silly and cute\u0022 meme just doesn\u0027t cut it for me--\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n not that I don\u0027t think they are, but there is more to it than that.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EUnraveling the \u003Cem\u003Ewhy\u003C\/em\u003E leads to some painful truths of female psychology most men have a legitimately hard time accepting. Most women are not consciously cruel, yet that is what makes this woman\u0027s comment all the more frightening to a guy like me: she really \u003Cem\u003Edoes\u003C\/em\u003E believe that men who desire only sex have no valor or love. \u003Cem\u003EWhy\u003C\/em\u003E is she trying to tell us this?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EFor one, I will hazard a guess this women is at least in her very late twenties or older and facing the rapid declination of abundant male attention she used to enjoy during her peak SMV years. I\u0027m guessing she fears not being able to lock down long-term male provisioning with a man she also finds attractive (\u003Cem\u003Ethose\u003C\/em\u003E men are too busy enjoying their well-earned fun with hotter, younger girls).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe average \u0022plugged in\u0022 guy who reads this cannot wait to rush to her \u003Cem\u003Esupport\u003C\/em\u003E and enter the circular hell of being her orbiter, thus proving his valor and \u003Cem\u003Etrue love\u003C\/em\u003E. This is the dark side of female psychology right here (or at least the start of it). Those men who call her shit test for what it is, well\u2026 we are just mindless neanderthals. Either way, every man ends up in some form of loser box. Obviously, most of us here at GC know better than this, but few probably know why.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase, I think it would be great if you wrote an article on the \u003Cem\u003Ewhy\u003C\/em\u003E with more break down of female psychology.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E-M\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2445\/84499\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-84518\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/84518#comment-84518\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/84518#comment-84518\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EWhy Do Women Give Such Poor Dating Advice?\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 26 September 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/its-cruel-when-men-dont-stick-around-after-sex-argument\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/84499#comment-84499\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EMischief-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EDifferent motivations. When the advice is genuinely aimed at helping\nthe guy, it\u0027s often due to the reasons I outlined in my article on \u003Ca\nhref=\u0022\/content\/why-mainstream-dating-advice-so-ineffective\u0022\u003Emainstream\ndating advice\u003C\/a\u003E: it\u0027s assumed if you need help, you aren\u0027t the kind\nof guy women are exactly lining up to date, and furthermore that there\nisn\u0027t much hope of you BECOMING this guy. In that sense, it\u0027s eminently\npractical: let me just give this guy something that might help a bit in\nthe context of his limited capacity to succeed with women.\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIn the case of this reader\u0027s advice, where the request\/advice is\nclearly self-serving, then it\u0027s of a different nature, more designed to\nshape and enforce social norms to help push the culture toward a\nparadigm more favorable to what the woman herself wants. Most people\nengage in this sort of pushing and advising. Men in the manosphere do\nit every time they scold women for not doing X thing they want them to\ndo or for doing Y thing they don\u0027t want them to do. And feminist\nwebsites do the same thing to men. All this advice is self-serving.\nNone of these people are sitting around cackling and rubbing their\nhands over how well they are manipulating the opposite sex. Instead,\nthey are just frustrated and annoyed the other sex doesn\u0027t do or be\nwhat they want them to do or be.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThere are also other reasons, such as virtue signaling. When you\ntalk about how bad it is for the opposite sex to do X thing, you\nreinforce that you yourself of course would never like or approve of X\nthing. Even in an anonymous place like an Internet comment, this has\nvalue to the commenter, because it allows her to prove to \u003Cspan\nstyle=\u0022font-style: italic;\u0022\u003Eherself\u003C\/span\u003E that she really does hold\nthese values - else she would not spend the time to fight with random\npeople on the Internet over them! And reassuring yourself of your value\nsystem is the most important battle; the better you believe it\nyourself, the better you can make \u003Cspan style=\u0022font-style: italic;\u0022\u003Eother\u003C\/span\u003E\npeople believe it, too.\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnyway, I\u0027ll note it down for an article. Would be an interesting\npsychological foray...!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/p\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/2445\/84518\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-84577\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/84577#comment-84577\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022BMontana\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022BMontana\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022BMontana\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022BMontana\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/84577#comment-84577\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EWoman advice\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EBMontana (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 2 October 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/its-cruel-when-men-dont-stick-around-after-sex-argument\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/84499#comment-84499\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EThe simpliest answer I can come up with is this:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWomen tell SOME men to slow down when it comes to sex, to be a gentleman and nice. They do it in order to indirectly reject the guys they don\u0027t want to sleep with, kind of like a shit test. A nice guy will wait and won\u0027t rush things with her, yet he will never sleep with her. A player won\u0027t care about being a gentleman, he will either rush things and sleep with her or leave. Women obviously sleep with the latter type of guy and then complain when he leaves. 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class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EJimbo (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 2 October 2017  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/its-cruel-when-men-dont-stick-around-after-sex-argument\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/84577#comment-84577\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003ENice breakdown!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      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