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\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/62519#comment-62519\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EThis one too, is another\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003Emoolar (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Saturday, 21 February 2015  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/social-values-role-good-seduction\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EThis one too, is another solid masterpiece from your well, Rolstad!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAs you have luculently espoused, it is absolutely necessary, for ease and convenience, that one strikes a balance between the two seduction styles. Being seen primarily as a provider has serious limitations, as just about every gal you try to fuck would usually want to weigh your worth to that of other men who are actively chasing after her. If you are in anyway not as worthy as the other men, you get thrown under the bus.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESimilarly, the caveman style also has its own skirmishes. For one thing, and as you have rightly noted, it\u0027s always a hell of a task convincing these girls about your sexual prowess ,proficiency and value. But then, you get to have a joyride with them once they are simply DTF.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo as it is, giving off enough social value to get women interested in you, and silently conveying that aura of badassness, would have you rocking both worlds fine. It\u0027s an area that requires continuous tweaking until the perfect blend is obtained.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYou nailed this one yet. Well done!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1648\/62519\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-62638\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/62638#comment-62638\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/alek-rolstad\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-4861-1753855091.jpg\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Alek Rolstad\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Alek Rolstad\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-4861-1753855091.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022Alek Rolstad\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Alek Rolstad\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/62638#comment-62638\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EMoolar\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/alek-rolstad\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/alek-rolstad\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAlek Rolstad\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Friday, 27 February 2015  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/social-values-role-good-seduction\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/62519#comment-62519\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHi. Glad you liked the article. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut I am even more glad you have understood one of the core principals of seduction. Seduction is never black or white its grey. Balance is key because balance is calibration and calibration is smoothes and smoothnes is indeed sexy. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWell the sexual game is well fitted for many seducers. It is very similar to was \u0022miss\u0022-labelled as \u0022natural game\u0022 although sexual game has more focus on conveying sexual intent which I believe is key if you plan to have casual sex. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E-Alek\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1648\/62638\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-62521\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/62521#comment-62521\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/62521#comment-62521\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EAnger Management \u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAnonymous (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Saturday, 21 February 2015  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/social-values-role-good-seduction\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHi Alek,\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYour article is amazing, especially I like the difference between Provider and Lover approach which are both related to social value,I would have never-ever thought about the Impact that social value have on meeting and treating(last minute resistence) with women.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAlek,I have a question for you today,and this question is particularly related to \u0022Anger Management\u0022.We all know that person who can control his Anger in an unfavourable conditions can be viewed as very experienced person and women may find him socially dominating.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHe can be percieved as strong personality who can\u0027t lose his temper even if the things does not his way.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo I basically want to ask you that \u0022How to control or manage your anger\u0022?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThanks.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1648\/62521\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-62527\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/62527#comment-62527\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/62527#comment-62527\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EAnger\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAnonymous (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Sunday, 22 February 2015  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/social-values-role-good-seduction\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/62521#comment-62521\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EAlek could say something better but my first suggestion would be to look through the article:\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n\u003Ca href=\u0022http:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/most-important-thing-becoming-lover-women-dont-be-bitter\u0022\u003Ehttp:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/most-important-thing-becoming-lover-wo...\u003C\/a\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nnext thing is knowing that there\u0027s always another girl so if it didn\u0027t play out with somebody you can get another one; and not paying attention to it as a big deal, cause actually if you have a problem the straightest path to getting calm is solving it and if you are nervous you\u0027re unable to solve it so at first you can name for yourself the emotions you\u0027re feeling and reasons of them, find out that in long term it\u0027s better to just breathe deeply and think about ways to resolve it, than to get into emotional crap.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nIt\u0027s way better to learn from situation \u0022what the hell did I do wrong and can do better not to end up like that\u0022 instead of getting into emotional whirlpool and failing again and again.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nTaking a time to recompose yourself no matter what in emotional situations is the best thing man can do for himself as in most life situations it doesn\u0027t matter whether you decide now or 5 minutes later, but from the point of whether you make amazing or terrible decision going out of the building to close your eyes and get some fresh air can make all the difference.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1648\/62527\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-62642\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/62642#comment-62642\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca 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class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EThanks your contribution!\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/alek-rolstad\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/alek-rolstad\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAlek Rolstad\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Friday, 27 February 2015  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/social-values-role-good-seduction\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/62527#comment-62527\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EThanks your contribution! Great stuff. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E-Alek\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1648\/62642\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-62639\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/62639#comment-62639\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/alek-rolstad\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-4861-1753855091.jpg\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Alek Rolstad\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Alek Rolstad\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-4861-1753855091.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022Alek Rolstad\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Alek Rolstad\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/62639#comment-62639\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EThank you. I am glad you guys\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/alek-rolstad\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/alek-rolstad\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAlek Rolstad\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Friday, 27 February 2015  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/social-values-role-good-seduction\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/62521#comment-62521\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EThank you. I am glad you guys like my articles. It makes me love my job as a writer even more. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWell about anger management, I can\u0027t really help because I am a tempered man myself. So any direct advice on this, I can\u0027t give you. However what I can do is to tell our editor ethan to pass your question to the writers and maybe you even get an own post on it!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E-Alek\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1648\/62639\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-62535\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/62535#comment-62535\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Ron1\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Ron1\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Ron1\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Ron1\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/62535#comment-62535\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EHigh Social Value vs the Sexy Man\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ERon1 (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Sunday, 22 February 2015  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/social-values-role-good-seduction\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EAlex,\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EGreat article. I\u0027ve actually been looking forward to an article expanding on this issue.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI agree with many points you make, but I would argue that while social value is on one axis, the other axis is how sexy the man is. So, I would put sexy attitude and good body language on the sexy axis.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo let\u0027s look at some examples:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E 1- Let\u0027s say a guy has very high social value and is also high on the sexy axis. This guy dresses well and has an expensive car (high social value), but also has Byronic sexual traits and moves quickly with women (high sexiness). He won\u0027t have much resistance in his openings thanks to the high social value and his sexy qualities have him moving quickly with little resistance in the final stages. His ability to close quickly has him being considered a lover instead of a provider.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E2- If a guy has very high social value but low sexuality, he\u0027ll be considered a provider type if he\u0027s even lucky enough to get that far. There\u0027s a good chance he\u0027ll be friend-zoned or become a sugar daddy.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E3- If he has low social value and high sexuality... well, this is where it gets interest. Let\u0027s look at the good looking pool guy.\u0022 He\u0027s not going anywhere in life and makes very little money (low social value), but he\u0027s a good looking sexual guy in his prime (high sexiness) and so he ends up sleeping with plenty of cougars and lonely housewives. He\u0027s great for the moment without long-term potential. But he is indeed getting laid.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E4- If a guy has low social value and low sexuality, then he\u0027s not going anywhere. Here we\u0027re talking about a guy who dresses like crap, has a dead-end job (low social value) and he\u0027s awkward and not smooth (low sexiness).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ELooking at #3, you can see that social value, is greatly linked to the man\u0027s potential for a long-term relationship with the woman. Men with high social value are seen as being able to provide better for the woman and her offspring, while low social value men are not seen that way. Therefore, low social value men are considered great for that one-night stand and to take as lovers as opposed to potential husbands. This is why a man who\u0027s staying for two nights in a city has a good chance of having a one night stand with a woman he meets in that city, since she\u0027ll put him in lover category without the potential to stick around to become a provider.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThoughts?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ERon\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1648\/62535\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-62641\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/62641#comment-62641\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/alek-rolstad\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-4861-1753855091.jpg\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Alek Rolstad\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Alek Rolstad\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-4861-1753855091.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022Alek Rolstad\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Alek Rolstad\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/62641#comment-62641\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ERon\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/alek-rolstad\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/alek-rolstad\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAlek Rolstad\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Friday, 27 February 2015  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/social-values-role-good-seduction\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/62535#comment-62535\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHi Ron thanks for your great comment. It seems like you have nailed it!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E Aside from small details, we are in agreement. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYou use the word sexiness where I use the word sexual intent. They are somewhat synonymous. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPersonally I like to have a minimum of social value in order to get in touch with women and get them somewhat interested in me (first impression) however my main tool is delivering sexual intent (what you refer to as sexiness) - i do so by escalating physically or talking about sex. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHow you do you do things? \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPS: it seems like we think alike. check out my earlier posts. You might like them - I have discussed many of the topics you adress in your comment on earlier occasions. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E-Alek\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1648\/62641\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-62652\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/62652#comment-62652\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Ron1\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Ron1\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Ron1\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Ron1\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/62652#comment-62652\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ERE: Ron\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ERon1 (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Saturday, 28 February 2015  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/social-values-role-good-seduction\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/62641#comment-62641\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHey Alek,\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ERight, I believe we are in agreement as sexual intent equates to sexiness.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI completely agree that showing minimum sexual value is key. Just enough to get her interested and let down her defenses without the consideration of being a provider. If you\u0027ve come off with too much social value, displaying high sexual intent can help.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThis approach works very well for me. I\u0027ve noticed that it\u0027s a must to be very sexual if your social value is high because women naturally want to put a guy with high social value in the provider category. After all, how often do women really meet attractive men with high social value? For me the silver bullet is coupling high social value and high sexual intent with a bad boy side. I reveal more of that side throughout my interactions, adding mystery and a contradiction to my high social value image. This works wonders.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EGreat work as always, Alek.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ECheers,\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nRon\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1648\/62652\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-62555\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/62555#comment-62555\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Steven Mills\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Steven Mills\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Steven Mills\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Steven Mills\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/62555#comment-62555\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EArticle to keep going - by yourself\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ESteven Mills (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 23 February 2015  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/social-values-role-good-seduction\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHey Alek, i really like your stuff and your bold and sexual way in seducing girls.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI assume you are always going out by yourself, without any \u0022wingmen\u0022. Is that correct? I prefer doing the same due to being all by myself, not distracted and can leave whenever I want to.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESome nights I had Sex, make outs or just a great time with some random girls which was great and had motivated me to go out again. But after a while I find it hard to push myself for Sex with new girls. To be honest, spending your evening with working out, cooking some nice food and playing some Xbox feels great and does satisfy me. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhat keeps you going for getting new girls? What are your thoughts when you getting dressed and what I think is most important: What are your thoughts when you\u0027re out there to not chill and instead keep going?\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nWould be great if you can make an article on that.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThanks for your work and have a nice day!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1648\/62555\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-62640\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/62640#comment-62640\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/alek-rolstad\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-4861-1753855091.jpg\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Alek Rolstad\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Alek Rolstad\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-4861-1753855091.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022Alek Rolstad\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Alek Rolstad\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/62640#comment-62640\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ESteven\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/alek-rolstad\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/alek-rolstad\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAlek Rolstad\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Friday, 27 February 2015  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/social-values-role-good-seduction\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/62555#comment-62555\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EThanks man. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYes you are right. I do enjoy going out by myself because going out by myself opens up for opportunities that I wouldn\u0027t usually have. It\u0027s for some reason easier to get into after parties and stuff when you are alone. also you have the total freedom and you feel no pressure \u0022no need to show off\u0022 making the approaching phase and the escalation process way easier. You will also be more motivated to approach women because if you don\u0027t you will be bored to death. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYes going out aloen is scary the first few times and you will fail. You will be scared to death but after a month or two of doing so you will start feeling comfortable and results will come. Just hold on and do it, and you will love it!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOnto your question: I feel the same sometimes. Your mood will always go up and down. Some periods you will prefer staying home and other time go out is just awesome. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut usually before I go out, I am not so motivate to go out. But I do it anyway because I never know what will happen. Maybe something crazy? maybe the night of my life? I never know and it excites me. Obviously this drive is stronger when you are good because you know you are most likely to end up doing something crazy. But don\u0027t worry you will get there if you are not already. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EUsually, the idea of going out sucks until you are actually out there. So manning up and going out is key because usually once you are out there, you are enjoying yourself and you will feel like you\u0027ve done the right decision to head out. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut what I think is that your lack of motivations is due to the fact that its most likely winter. winters kills my mood and I don\u0027t really feel like going out. The good news is: summer is coming.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHope this answered your questions. If you have any additional questions, let me know.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAlek\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1648\/62640\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-62574\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/62574#comment-62574\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/62574#comment-62574\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EDNA, Alpha helix, Beta Strand\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAnonymous (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 24 February 2015  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/social-values-role-good-seduction\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EAll of this seems simply dehumanizing.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI understand some points you and other writers mention about \u0022brain does that, brain does that\u0022 and they work, but... do we really are living only bunches of flesh who think they can think, but actually are only somehow biologically wired monkeys...?\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nIt\u0027s sort of interesting...\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nIt might be true, that Law of Least effort works because all universe is doing is trying to get into structure of lowest energy. Why? You know, all parts of universe are constantly trying to become structures of lowest energy, like DNA, alpha helix and beta strand are self adjusting to become structures of lowest energy.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nWhat does it mean to be structure of lowest energy? It means to become some structure of molecules (large or small structure it doesn\u0027t really matter) which can respond to any kind of situation in the best way possible. Since it\u0027s impossible to become best prepared for all situations at once, but it\u0027s possible to become as good prepared as possible, so it seems that all we are doing in life is actually playing this game of becoming lowest energy structures.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nSo if a man expresses properly that he does a little and gets a lot, then he communicates high social value and communicates that his genes are the best for creating new structures of molecules (children) who will be the best prepared for life.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nIt seems to be true in practice and makes a lot of sense in many situations as why the hell world is constantly improving and why she wants the best male possible and we the prettiest and most interesting girl possible...\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nIt seems that all our actions are preplanned like this so we are nothing else than actors at such game.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nDehumanizing from the first glance (like much of your articles, no offense here), but it makes sense at least.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1648\/62574\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-62644\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/62644#comment-62644\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/alek-rolstad\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-4861-1753855091.jpg\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Alek Rolstad\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Alek Rolstad\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-4861-1753855091.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022Alek Rolstad\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Alek Rolstad\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/62644#comment-62644\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EHi there. I agree that when\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/alek-rolstad\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/alek-rolstad\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAlek Rolstad\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Friday, 27 February 2015  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/social-values-role-good-seduction\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/62574#comment-62574\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHi there. I agree that when discussing seduction things can seem a bit mechanical, hence dehumanizing. The truth is, most theories about humans (being phychology, sociology or worse - evolutionary biology)  can seems de-humanizing because theories are based on the generalization of multiple observations. Do the theories apply to most situation? not really. Unfortunatly this is our best way to make sense of things. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ELeave aside that - in most science (including social sciences) are based on causal explanation: x causes y types of explanation. This seems very mechanical, but again this is what helps us makes sense of the world. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHonestly, I cannot see any other ways to discuss the topic of seduction. If you have any suggestions on how you\u0027d like to see us writers write about seduction that might seem less dehumanizing, please let us know. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut the good news for you is that seduction in practice is more passionate and exciting. So in field seductions will not seem de-humanizing, even when using techniques and theories you\u0027ve learned here. But when discussing it theoretically over the internet, I am affraid you have a point - It can seem dehumanizing.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E-Alek\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1648\/62644\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-62650\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/62650#comment-62650\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/62650#comment-62650\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EDehumanizing...?\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAnonymous (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Saturday, 28 February 2015  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/social-values-role-good-seduction\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/62644#comment-62644\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EI don\u0027t think words are able to describe things in a way that doesn\u0027t seem dehumanizing. The only way I can think of is \u0022always look at someone\u0027s soul instead of appearance or skills\u0022, but the very nature of our organisms is not such.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nWe are constantly dehumanizing and treating each other as commodity no matter how affectionate we are. We still get attracted to cute girls and dismiss ugly ones never seeing \u0022the soul\u0022 because the only way we can see it is in the way it expresses itself: through physical appearance and behavior.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nThe problem is not that you and your articles are dehumanizing. The problem is that if you want to give practical advises you can\u0027t avoid generalizations and therefore so called dehumanizing.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nFrom evolutionary standpoint we can say that human is nothing more than evolutionary advanced biological organism. Just a bunch molecules sorted in a way that always tries to meet his or her needs or the needs of the city, state, or whole humanity in a best way it can think of.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nPractice proves us this with the very fact that we choose mates not by content of their soul (which we can\u0027t see anyway) but by the qualities that are the most attractive (read: the most promising to be useful for us and our genes).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhat we have there is that people are so conditioned to believe that everyone is extremely special and unique, that they think that they\u0027re entitled to get the best things from the universe just by waiting for them.Their desires are not congruent with their actions in anyway. They wish to get a cool girlfriend, but they never approach girls.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt seems tempting to blame people for being dumb, but I think it\u0027s just calculations. They calculate that waiting is better as it involves getting less rejections, and we say \u0022rejection? who cares...?!!!\u0022.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EEvolutionary it\u0027s meaningful to have people with different strategies because only the ones who live by the best strategies actually become the winners and overall consciousness of universe increases.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo even if it seems dehumanizing to some people who are addicted to feeling special, the fact is that just like bacterias doesn\u0027t know about our goals, we don\u0027t know about goals of galaxies and we can go back to living our lives with what we know and have forgetting entitlement and specialness.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nIn this case we can see generalizations less dehumanizing and more empowering, and I guess this fear of dehumanizing ideas is what really slows down development of academic psychology many times and this is why your ideas are so addictive to many readers. ;)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1648\/62650\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-62675\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/62675#comment-62675\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/62675#comment-62675\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EFear of meaningless life\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAnonymous (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Sunday, 1 March 2015  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/social-values-role-good-seduction\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/62644#comment-62644\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EThis is not you to blame, but the reality of life that for someone you\u0027re good friend, for someone you\u0027re source of good insights, for someone you fulfill some other role, but nobody cares about your soul.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nAnd it\u0027s always like this.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nOthers can see what you do, how you look like, but no one is able to see what\u0027s truly happening inside you no matter how well you try to convey it, but everyone will understand it through their eyes.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nIt\u0027s scary and most people in West run from it. Don\u0027t they?\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nIt\u0027s difficult to accept that for everyone around you\u0027re just an actor of some role who is about meet his or her needs or not.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nThis is the life most people are afraid to see. It\u0027s way better to feed ourselves with stories about how someone cares about you deep down, when everyone is alone this way I described: a person with his or her soul working for better survival in the best way it can.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n\u0022Just be yourself\u0022ers are fast to say that they care who people are deep down, but actually they don\u0027t really care. If they meet someone sick, ugly and smelling bad they don\u0027t really like the company of that person.  Unless he fulfills other needs really well like giving some mind shaking insights. 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