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\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/23483#comment-23483\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ESafety\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EMartinKerr (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 11 February 2014  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/your-sexual-market-value-whos-afraid-desperate-men\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHey Chase.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E Interesting article. I recently moved overseas a few weeks ago- I\u0027ve picked a bad country pick-up wise but it\u0027s somewhere I always wanted to live so I can tolerate it for a few months :)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnyway, I was mugged just before I moved here and it\u0027s really affected me. I\u0027m almost 19 and admitedly, I\u0027m pretty scared at night when I\u0027m walking home from the bars. Obviously, I need to go out at night to work on my game so this presents a real problem. I\u0027ve read and applied the best I could your advice on the article about street smarts- absolutely full of gems by the way and my walk has come a long way.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnyway, my question is in relation to the angry face. What size of a group should you change that to a neutral face- 2 guys, 3 guys, 5 guys, 7 guys. Or is it less about the size of the group and more if they are walking somewhere or sitting around. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI really appreciate any help and everything you do for us here on girlschase. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ECheers\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1325\/23483\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-23688\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/23688#comment-23688\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/23688#comment-23688\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ERe: Safety\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Sunday, 16 February 2014  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/your-sexual-market-value-whos-afraid-desperate-men\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/23483#comment-23483\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EMartin-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESorry to hear about the mugging. I can imagine that\u0027s got to shake your confidence. I had a couple of guys feel me out for a mugging when I was about your age, but I was able to dissuade them from trying, fortunately... I can imagine that\u0027s got to color your perception of safety in the streets.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EA good rule of thumb if you need one on throwing a scary look on or off your face might be if it\u0027s 4+ guys in a group, take the look off your face. It depends on their disposition and how close they are, too - a group of 6 guys who are sitting down laughing and joking around aren\u0027t going to mess with you if you walk by with an angry look on your face because they aren\u0027t cohesive and focused enough to. A group of 4 predatory-looking men who are standing and waiting for you to walk by may well feel bold enough to challenge you, and even feel required to, if you walk by looking scary, though. 3 guys usually will leave you alone, in my experience.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1325\/23688\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-23487\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/23487#comment-23487\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Xeno\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Xeno\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Xeno\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Xeno\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/23487#comment-23487\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EHey Chase,\nI\u0026#039;ve been rolling\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EXeno (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 11 February 2014  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/your-sexual-market-value-whos-afraid-desperate-men\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHey Chase,\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u0027ve been rolling with a guy who has great natural game.  When we run into random women, they tend to be attracted to him and sometimes he gets hook up.   While he is intelligent, he\u0027s unwilling to approach women or risk himself because woman seem to be naturally attracted to him and he gets enough results. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIn terms of my development, should I continue to go out with him?  I\u0027m a pretty good deep diver and more usually more willing to take risk than he is but I become frustrated because he almost instantly has a girls attention when I must find some way to get them interested without chasing.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1325\/23487\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-23691\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/23691#comment-23691\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/23691#comment-23691\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ELearning from Friends\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Sunday, 16 February 2014  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/your-sexual-market-value-whos-afraid-desperate-men\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/23487#comment-23487\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EXeno-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EFrom the sound of it, going out with him is probably going to be pretty educational for you - if I were you, I\u0027d keep going out with him.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhen I had my first wingman, I did most of the opening only to find him inevitably take over whatever groups of girls I introduced him to, and I\u0027d be left on the outside. Figuring out how to change that dynamic was a great point in my development - it taught me how to outshine a guy who was previously outshining me.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf you spend enough time around him, you\u0027ll almost certainly find you\u0027ll pick up on mannerisms of his that women are finding very attractive as well, and begin to adopt and use them yourself. As you dovetail your style with his in all the areas that it counts (i.e., the areas of how he presents himself that women so respond to), you\u0027ll notice less and less of a disparity between the two of you - and eventually, since you\u0027re taking action and actively developing yourself and your game, while he\u0027s resting on his laurels and letting what he\u0027s already got do all the work for him - you will surpass him.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOf course, still keep your eyes out for a better wingman - as you improve, at some point, you\u0027ll run across a guy with better attraction and close game with this friend, and who also doesn\u0027t mind opening a single bit. When you do, you\u0027ll fairly naturally transition to spending more time with that wing, and less time with your other.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1325\/23691\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-23492\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/23492#comment-23492\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/23492#comment-23492\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EValue increasing.\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAnonymous (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 11 February 2014  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/your-sexual-market-value-whos-afraid-desperate-men\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHey Chase, i want to ask you if i am doing things properly on increasing my own value.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAs of late i have been increasing my value in the most subtile way i know, without showing off, bragging etc.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI have been a very active listener, i made girls talk 90% and me just 10%, since i started reading this site.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nIt gets me better results, no doubt. I deep dive when neccessary, i listen to them, i aprove, i agree, i am supportive.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI don`t pay for dates, and when i try to increase my value i do it with the following things:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E-When a girl hesitates about giving me her number i tell her that \u0022i will not call her 20 times a day if she gives me her number\u0022\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n( that way i put her into position to be calm, to give me the number and to test me to see if i really will or will not call her 20 times a day - test that i pass )\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E-I am calling girls exclusively to set up the date or to handle logistics - i build my own busy schedule, to look and be busy - until i find some proper obligations.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n( i almost always state that i am busy and that i might be available for a date. )\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E-When i talk to girls i sometimes say that i am not one of those \u0022one night stand type of guys\u0022, and that i now look for something considerably deeper in a girl.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI also like to say that \u0022i don`t want to date party girls, girls that drink and that hit the bar and clubs\u0022..\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI say that i avoid going to clubs and bars to chase women..\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E-Occasionaly i say that i cook - followed by a witty remark that \u0022if i am alive tomorrow, the food that i cooked wasn`t poisonous...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E-I almost always state something that has happened as Luck or some weird circumstance or a coincidence ( and i don`t believe in coincidenes ) ( it is not luck or weird circumstance, i just follow your steps on being as humble as possible )\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E-When i don`t pay for a date, i sometimes say that i hate doing that, because the girl might think that i am buying her or that i think she is easy if i buy her a drink...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E-I also say that i love to meet intelligent and smart women that know how to communicate and that it is a rare thing in my place ( i point out to her that she is smart and intelligent ) and on top of that i often get compliments of my way of thinking to be advanced for my age.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThere are also a lot of other things i do, i can`t think of all of them at this point..\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI often move very directly in certain situations - like stating something so obvious that the girls would not say directly...I might sometimes even tell a pick up technique i have adopted in more of a funny way of saying it.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI say things directly, that maybe i should let them figure out...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIs all of this a good progress or a bad one ?\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nAm i doing thins properly if i state what is above or not ?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ERegards.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1325\/23492\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-23693\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/23693#comment-23693\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/23693#comment-23693\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EApologies for Not Being a Nice Guy\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Sunday, 16 February 2014  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/your-sexual-market-value-whos-afraid-desperate-men\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/23492#comment-23492\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EAnon-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESeveral of these make you more attainable, while the others make you\nappear lower value than or less connected to the girl; here\u0027s how:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cul\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cspan style=\u0022font-style: italic;\u0022\u003EWhen a girl hesitates about\ngiving me her number i tell her that \u0022i will not call her 20 times a\nday if she gives me her number\u0022\u003C\/span\u003E - this places her firmly on top\nof the power dynamic; you\u0027re reassuring her \/ giving her a concession\nin exchange for her number. If anything, she should be the one\nreassuring you she won\u0027t chase for you to take her number or give her\nyours\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cspan style=\u0022font-style: italic;\u0022\u003Ei almost always state that i\nam busy and that i might be available for a date\u003C\/span\u003E - if you come\nacross sufficiently high value, this one damages your attainability and\nlooks status-seeking; even if you\u0027re the busiest man on Earth, there\u0027s\nno need to directly state that you are busy - just say you\u0027ll figure\nout when your schedules line up and do something then\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cspan style=\u0022font-style: italic;\u0022\u003Ei am not one of those \u0022one\nnight stand type of guys\u0022, and that i now look for something\nconsiderably deeper in a girl.\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan style=\u0022font-style: italic;\u0022\u003E\nI also like to say that \u0022i don`t want to date party girls, girls that\ndrink and that hit the bar and clubs\u0022..\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan\nstyle=\u0022font-style: italic;\u0022\u003E I say that i avoid going to clubs and\nbars to chase women..\u003C\/span\u003E - this is explicitly qualifying yourself\nas a boyfriend; I recommend doing its opposite of this on Girls Chase,\nbut a few good articles to start with on this are \u003Ca\nhref=\u0022\/content\/telling-women-youre-not-boyfriend-material\u0022\u003Ehere\u003C\/a\u003E\nand \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/how-get-girls-last-post-youll-ever-need\u0022\u003Ehere\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cspan style=\u0022font-style: italic;\u0022\u003EOccasionaly i say that i cook\n- followed by a witty remark that \u0022if i am alive tomorrow, the food\nthat i cooked wasn`t poisonous...\u003C\/span\u003E - that\u0027s just fine, yeah; a\nlittle self-deprecation is good. Poking fun at your own cooking is an\neasy one to do it with\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cspan style=\u0022font-style: italic;\u0022\u003EI almost always state\nsomething that has happened as Luck or some weird circumstance or a\ncoincidence\u003C\/span\u003E - yes, writing stuff off that may potentially be\nattainability-lowering with something like, \u0022Bah, I was just lucky.\nNothing amazing about it,\u0022 is generally going to preserve your\nattainability and allow women to more easily see your value\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cspan style=\u0022font-style: italic;\u0022\u003EWhen i don`t pay for a date, i\nsometimes say that i hate doing that, because the girl might think that\ni am buying her or that i think she is easy if i buy her a drink\u003C\/span\u003E\n- this is making an excuse \/ trying to defuse tension, which\ncommunicates to the girl that you\u0027re not comfortable not paying, and\nfeel as though you \u003Cspan style=\u0022font-style: italic;\u0022\u003Eshould be\u003C\/span\u003E\npaying... which tells her you probably \u003Ca\nhref=\u0022\/content\/women-pedestals\u0022\u003Eview her as higher value than you\u003C\/a\u003E.\nAnd women don\u0027t usually sleep with men they\u0027re higher in value than.\nBetter just to be cool and natural and not start explaining yourself,\nand let her assume this is simply what you\u0027re used to\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cspan style=\u0022font-style: italic;\u0022\u003EI also say that i love to meet\nintelligent and smart women that know how to communicate and that it is\na rare thing in my place ( i point out to her that she is smart and\nintelligent )\u003C\/span\u003E - this is only necessary if she\u0027s very nervous\nand\/or she\u0027s auto-rejecting because there are too many young or hot\ngirls around and you want to communicate that there\u0027s something about\nher that you find more attractive than the youth\/hotness of the other\nwomen you could be talking to but aren\u0027t to talk to her instead.\nOtherwise, it sounds like a too-general qualification, and makes her\nmore aware of how little you really know her (otherwise, you\u0027d qualify\nher on something far more specific). See these articles to fix this:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cul\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/how-compliment-girl-youve-known-her-years\u0022\u003EHow\nto Compliment a Girl Like You\u0027ve Know Her for Years \u003C\/a\u003E\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/employing-cold-read-unlock-womens-secrets\u0022\u003EEmploying\nthe Cold Read to Unlock Women\u0027s Secrets\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/qualifying-women-really-important\u0022\u003EIs\nQualifying Women Really That Important?\u003C\/a\u003E\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt sounds like your biggest sin right now is trying too hard to\ndefuse tension that you\u0027d be better off acting like isn\u0027t there. You\u0027ll\nnaturally grow more comfortable with social tension and pressure as you\nmeet more and more women - sometimes it takes a little while - and\nbecoming increasingly at ease siting there calmly while a girl\nstruggles through a situation she\u0027s not used to being in.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe big thing to keep in mind is that you don\u0027t need to explain why\nyou\u0027re not being a pushover nice guy. You should just be an attractive\nmale, and let her figure out that that\u0027s what you are, rather than\nbeing a guy who apologizes for not being a nice guy.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/p\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1325\/23693\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-23493\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/23493#comment-23493\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/23493#comment-23493\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ECall times\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAnonymous (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 11 February 2014  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/your-sexual-market-value-whos-afraid-desperate-men\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EChase i really need a bloody help on this topic..\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI`ve tried numerous routines and call times and everything and i still haven`t found a normal routine for girls to answer my phones..\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI usually call them like you stated, on Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday between 19h and 21h and on Saturdays and Sundays between 11h and 14h.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI get the most answers on those time but, the thing i want to ask is this.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHow many times should i call her ?\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI mean i ring once, she does not answer... I ring again in 15mins, again she does not answer...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI tried the following routines of which none have gotten me the most success:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI call once - she does not answer... After 15 mins i call again, she does not answer...\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI call once - she does not answer... After 30mins i call again, she does not answer...\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI call once - she does not asnwer... After 60mins i call again, she does not asnwer...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI mean, what kind of technique do you have in calling ?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EShould i try calling her once in every 5 hours or 2-3 times in space of 5mins until she picks up or should i just call once and never again in the same day ??\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI need help on this one, it bugs me quite a while...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1325\/23493\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-23519\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/23519#comment-23519\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/franco\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-3879-1483064671.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Franco Lombardi\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Franco Lombardi\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-3879-1483064671.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Franco Lombardi\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Franco Lombardi\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/23519#comment-23519\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ETexting\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/franco\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/franco\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EFranco Lombardi\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Wednesday, 12 February 2014  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/your-sexual-market-value-whos-afraid-desperate-men\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/23493#comment-23493\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EAnon,\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYou need to calm down with the phone calls. As a matter of fact, I never call a girl unless there\u0027s a really good reason to (like her text messaging isn\u0027t working or it\u0027s an emergency).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI would focus on using text messages first, and you should only be contacting a girl at most once every 24-48 hours if she isn\u0027t answering. Doing more than that just seems out of control and needy.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E- Franco\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1325\/23519\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-23528\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/23528#comment-23528\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/23528#comment-23528\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EHey\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAnonymous (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Wednesday, 12 February 2014  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/your-sexual-market-value-whos-afraid-desperate-men\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/23519#comment-23519\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EThanks for a reply.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut i am not calling girls every single day... I do it with a day or two in between the calls..\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI cannot use texting, as i won`t get my texts answered.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhere we live the economical and financial situation is best suited for phone calls.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nAs we have free minutes up to 1000 with our operators and the texts aren`t free, most people here ( i would say 90% ) stick to just calling.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ERegards.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1325\/23528\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-23694\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/23694#comment-23694\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/23694#comment-23694\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ERe: Call times\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 17 February 2014  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/your-sexual-market-value-whos-afraid-desperate-men\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/23493#comment-23493\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EAnon-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf you can\u0027t text (as you mentioned in your reply to Franco), and calling is the only way, I\u0027d advise leaving voicemails after a call goes unanswered and waiting for the girl to call you back. If she doesn\u0027t, wait a week and call again. If she doesn\u0027t again, wait two weeks and call again. If she still doesn\u0027t return your call, wait a month and call again. After that, delete her number and forget her.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf it\u0027s the case that you live in a country that doesn\u0027t use voicemail, then call twice \u003Cem\u003Ein a row\u003C\/em\u003E (very important - if you wait 15 minutes, then call again, then 30 minutes, then call again, etc., the way it looks to her is as though you\u0027ve just been sitting by your phone counting down the minutes to call, which is exactly what it sounds like you\u0027re actually doing, too; just comes across unsettling usually; if you call again immediately after your first call didn\u0027t go through though, it looks normal). If she doesn\u0027t answer two immediately subsequent calls, then shoot her a single upbeat text saying hey, it\u0027s me, [name], something fun or interesting, and then commanding her to give you a call when she sees the text. If she doesn\u0027t call back, you have your answer.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1325\/23694\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-23494\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/23494#comment-23494\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Sam2\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Sam2\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Sam2\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Sam2\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/23494#comment-23494\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ELover = Bentley For Women?\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ESam2 (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 11 February 2014  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/your-sexual-market-value-whos-afraid-desperate-men\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003ETo make the devil\u0027s advocate, a woman could reply as follows:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u0022Thank you, lovers, for your minimalistic approach to a woman\u0027s needs. but what you actually offer I can find in abundance everywhere else. I can get as many penises I want; the hard part for us, women, is how to get the extras that come before and after sex. The hard part is finding a guy who would actually stick around after getting what he wanted from us. Do you, lovers, know how many times we used sex just for the emotional bonding and connectedness we hoped it would lead to, but in vain? Yes, I do enjoy a good orgasm, but I also want to be loved and cared for and although I am not that much into the Valentine\u0027s Day crap, I admit I envy my friends who spent that day with their special other half. So, no, lovers, you are not at all Bentleys; you are, in fact Kias, thinking they are Bentleys.\u0022\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase, what could we say to that to defend our \u0022Bentley product\u0022? Would such a potential reaction on the part of a woman fall into the \u0022attractive boyfriend threat\u0022 you mentioned in this article?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1325\/23494\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-23521\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/23521#comment-23521\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Michal\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Michal\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Michal\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Michal\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/23521#comment-23521\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EHi, I know I am not Chase\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EMichal (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Wednesday, 12 February 2014  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/your-sexual-market-value-whos-afraid-desperate-men\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/23494#comment-23494\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHi, I know I am not Chase obviously, but opinion might help too,\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI would respond with: \u0022This is an inheritance of woman gender, you are an object of desire so we, men, biologically speaking, want sex from you. We as men have our problems too. We invest in you, we want to have sex with you and many of us trully want to be with you. Yet, you wave us out because we are not desirable to you. I am not saying, it is your fault, many of us really come from a bad place with this. Your penis problem... To me, it is all about communication. Yet there goes the rule, damned if you, damned if you dont. If a guy tells you, he just wants to sleep with you, he might ruin his chances of ever doing so especially if you dont find him attractive enough. If you tell him, you find him as a perfect boyfriend candidate, you might seem desperate and ruin your chances too. Yet I heard many of my friends tell me, how this girl did not seem ready, or that she just wanted sexual relationship now to rebound from long term one that she lost. Nothing serious. It all comes down to expectations. If you knew he wants one night stand, than it would be up to you, if you want to have sex for a night or not. But if you slept with him, you would not feel bad the other day. \u0022\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E... And then I would continue based on who am I talking to. If this would be a girl I want to sleep with, have as a girlfriend, am already in friend zone, I would use it and try to frame it based on what I want. I am not sure if I am able to do it, but I would start with words like \u0022Imagine you and me in this situation right now... \u0022 then, I might add something like \u0022... You seem like a really cool gal to me and I find you attractive ...\u0022 but I am not really sure about that because to me it seems like you show your interest a lot.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt took me a while to structure that well, but we are on internet, I have time here. In a real conversation I would just think - man have problems too, communication and expectation and hope that I would explain it well.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAlso, maybe a warning if you want to continue with \u0022imagine us\u0022 type of wording... \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI once said that in a conversation with a girl that I thought friendzoned me, I was like 60% sure but I was clueless at that time and wanted to know exactly where I stand with her. \u0022Imagine us together\u0022, she asked, \u0022like you and me?\u0022 and then she laughed like only women can. That kind where your confidence, ego and self-worth get destroyed (well only if you hope for a shot with her of course). Where you just stand there, you understand evereything now. I am not sure, how it started, what sentence exactly, we were talking about this lover, friend - emotional support type, potentional BF, and long term parthner. I forgot to mention FWB type and he mentioned it. And with this self-amazement voice she told me \u0022I have this kind of friend.\u0022 And it quite damaged me inside, because I realized how much my personal life sucks.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1325\/23521\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-23549\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/23549#comment-23549\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/ross-leon\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-3531-1473593019.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Ross Leon\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Ross Leon\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-3531-1473593019.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Ross Leon\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Ross Leon\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/23549#comment-23549\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EA Lover isn\u0026#039;t that Common\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/ross-leon\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/ross-leon\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ERoss Leon\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Wednesday, 12 February 2014  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/your-sexual-market-value-whos-afraid-desperate-men\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/23494#comment-23494\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EA woman could sit around with a dildo if sex was really just about sticking something in her holes. Just like guys could use a sex toy if all they needed was something to stick his penis inside of.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBeing a lover isn\u0027t just about getting\/giving sex. You do connect during sex; lovers connect especially well, because they are focused on making it an experience, rather than getting something. The love-making begins when you first meet a woman. You glance at her with a knowing grin, and the emotional rollercoaster begins. Attraction rises, she feels a bit nervous, and eventually you\u0027re in bed fulfilling your primal desires. After a few rounds of mind-blowing orgasms, you lay there and recover.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThat is the essence of a lover. She will protest like you have above. It\u0027s exciting for her to be around me because she has very little control; those are the most exciting moments in life, but she still wants to try and gain control. Being a boyfriend option does not give me this ability, because it means that she is sure that I\u0027ll stick around and provide for her. Not very conducive to having an exciting time, but definitely useful in the cuddle\/make-out role that most attractive men fall into with women, because she feels extremely secure. However, the time that I can spend as an exciting lover is limit.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI can only fall into the role for a while because, eventually, she becomes secure. Then it\u0027s all cool and relaxed because she feels secure about things. Then, she begins to want to feel completely secure, but still wants the excitement that was provided before. Unfortunately, that\u0027s something that after a certain point becomes very difficult to provide, and issues arise. Chase elaborates on this brilliantly in the 4 stages of a FWB relationship.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1325\/23549\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-23695\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/23695#comment-23695\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/23695#comment-23695\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EBentleys\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 17 February 2014  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/your-sexual-market-value-whos-afraid-desperate-men\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/23494#comment-23494\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003ESam-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIn addition to what Michal and Ross have said, I\u0027d add: saying that all a lover provides is a penis, and that can be gotten anywhere, is like saying that all a Bentley provides is a steering column and a set of four wheels, and that can be gotten anywhere. Viewed that way, Kia = Bentley. But what differentiates a Bentley from a Kia, and a lover from an ordinary man, is not the basic parts that all cars and all men have; it is, rather, the experience each of these provides, and that is what makes them the truly exceptional options for so many that they are.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1325\/23695\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-23495\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/23495#comment-23495\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/23495#comment-23495\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EHi Chase, the biggest problem\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAnonymous (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 11 February 2014  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/your-sexual-market-value-whos-afraid-desperate-men\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHi Chase, the biggest problem of the self help industry is that they tell you to just be something or think something. It may work sometimes but not at others. They tell you to think confidently or tell yourself that you are confident, but it only works when there is true emotion behind it. Whether or not you can draw out those emotions is a gray area.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nFor example, if you tell me to focus on positive results only, on some days I might think, \u0022Damn that hot girl was checking me out!,\u0022 but the next time think \u0022Yeah I guess that hot girl was checking me out.\u0022 (or even think the same words but feel less excited about it). This tells us that the words don\u0027t mean that much. I can also think or imagine without telling myself anything, and that is even harder to grasp what I\u0027m thinking and feeling. So, do you have any tips for actually thinking or believing what you\u0027re thinking versus useless mantras?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003Ebtw, when I\u0027m feeling super confident I almost feel like a narcissist. would you say that people with super high self esteem (or not sure if there is a better term) are all in love with themselves or is that completely healthy? it might be attractive to some women but it definitely rubs a lot of people of the wrong way.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1325\/23495\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-23696\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/23696#comment-23696\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/23696#comment-23696\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EFeeling Things \u0026amp; Narcissism\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 17 February 2014  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/your-sexual-market-value-whos-afraid-desperate-men\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/23495#comment-23495\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EAnon-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOne of the big reasons I dislike most self-help advice is its focus\non changing internals above all else. It\u0027s not everywhere, but it\u0027s\npretty ubiquitous. My personal opinion has long been that someone\ntelling you to focus on changing the inside first, and the rest will\nfollow, is either someone who doesn\u0027t know what he\u0027s talking about, or\nsomeone who\u0027s actively trying to sell snake oil. There is benefit to\nworking on your internals, but only when coupled with a larger focus on\ntaking right action. Doing the right things will retrain your mind\nalmost by default; conversely, you could spend years meditating on\nconfidence, but find yourself every bit as unconfident as you were\nbefore (or perhaps more so) when you finally set foot outside to try\nand go walk up to girls and say \u0022hi\u0022 (or whatever it is you\u0027re trying\nto become confident about).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMore on this:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cul\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/does-confidence-success-actually-no\u0022\u003EDoes\nConfidence = Success? Actually... No.\u003C\/a\u003E\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/just-be-yourself-worst-dating-advice-known-man\u0022\u003EJust\nBe Yourself: The Worst Dating Advice Known to Man\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThat said, there\u0027s still plenty of value in focusing on getting your\nthoughts in order, just as a smaller part of a grander plan that\nfocuses the majority of its time on going out and doing the thing you\nwant to be better at and targeting learning the skill set and doing\nthings right.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EFor actually reshaping your thought patterns, I\u0027d recommend the\nstrategies in these two articles:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cul\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/how-overcome-depression\u0022\u003EHow to Overcome\nDepression\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/how-visualize-5-steps-massive-success\u0022\u003EHow to\nVisualize: 5 Steps to Massive Success\u003C\/a\u003E\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAs for narcissism, there\u0027s debate in the psychological community\nabout what exactly narcissism is, and what causes it. Some\npsychologists describe it as resulting from a sense of self injured at\na young age, while others describe it as something people grow into as\nthey become used to being in positions of power and authority.\nRegardless, it\u0027s a very attractive trait to women (arrogance is the\nsingle most attractive quality about a man in most studies that examine\nit), though you\u0027re best learning how to \u003Ca\nhref=\u0022\/content\/take-edge-using-humbleness-elite-man\u0022\u003Ebe humble\u003C\/a\u003E and\n\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/tactics-tuesdays-how-be-warm-person\u0022\u003Ebe warm\u003C\/a\u003E if\nyou want to temper this (especially around men, who don\u0027t find\narrogance nearly as attractive as women do... especially if they\u0027re\narrogant men themselves).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/p\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1325\/23696\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-23500\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/23500#comment-23500\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Wes\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Wes\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Wes\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Wes\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/23500#comment-23500\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EI love how there\u0026#039;s always an\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EWes (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 11 February 2014  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/your-sexual-market-value-whos-afraid-desperate-men\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EI love how there\u0027s always an article up on something I\u0027m starting to notice in my daily interactions infield.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nMe and a female friend were just having a discussion yesterday about something similar to this. I just found out that she identifies herself as feminist and she had some pretty strong views against \u0022pickup artists\u0022,  rapists,  and dating in general.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nShe was annoyed at the fact that just because she is female, she gets honked at when she walks down the road, she gets followed and stalked, harassed, and scared for her life...all because she\u0027s a woman.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI brought up the point that that\u0027s the only way for men to meet women aside from social circle and work and school. I told her that I didn\u0027t agree with the agenda that \u0022extreme\u0022 feminists were pushing because it was an agenda that would make men have to \u0022walk on eggshells\u0022 with anything having to do with meeting women. I sympathize with the daily struggles women have to go through and I disagree with rape and harassment but I just don\u0027t think the way to solve it is what feminists are trying to push.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI told her that the real problem is that guys simply don\u0027t know how to talk, interact with, and treat women the way that women want (and fantasize) about being treated.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nMost guys throw something at a wall and hope that something sticks.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nWhenever I talk to guys who are naturals with girls and ask them how they\u0027re doing it, they really have no clue. They\u0027re just like: \u0022oh, you know...you just say so \u0026amp; so and do so \u0026amp;so...they all just come to you...it\u0027s as easy as that\u0022\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI believe that they\u0027ve become a natural after years of just trying out things until they eventually saw what works everytime. (throwing things at a wall until it sticks)\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nMy friend still disagreed with me, and told me that NO girl wants to be bothered by some random stranger.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI was like: even if he\u0027s attractive? Even if it\u0027s some hot guy that you want to come and talk to you?\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nShe still said no because apparently girls believe that all the right people just drop into their lives from the sky and those people didn\u0027t have to put in a single bit of effort into meeting them.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nTo the average women, everything is \u0022destiny\u0022 and \u0022predetermined by the universe\u0022 and blah blah. (even if they\u0027re atheist..I\u0027ve literally had girls tell me that if it\u0027s \u0022meant to be\u0022 we\u0027ll run into each other again. Wtf?)\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI stopped trying to argue with her and I changed the subject.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nMaybe that\u0027s not related to the article at all, but while reading it, I thought of that little discussion from yesterday. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOn subject though, this article helped me realize that my town (more women to men) is chuck FULL of attractive provider guys. That\u0027s who I\u0027m in competition with. There\u0027s soooo many natural guys here but they all jump into relationships or text or \u0022talk to\u0022 these girls for long periods of time.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nIt explains why many of these girls don\u0027t text back and flake on me. It\u0027s because they already have a bunch of natural guys texting them and are willing to PROVIDE for them.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI\u0027ve also noticed that when I go to a drastically new place in town, I get treated like a sexy foreigner because it\u0027s so unusual and refreshing the way I approach and talk to girls.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nIts one of my dreams to travel around the world and meet beautiful women wherever I go but I have to ask you, Chase, based off of your knowledge, what would be the top places I (a black guy) would be seen as a sexy rare gem.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nSome of the top places I want to go to is:\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nBrazil\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nAustralia\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nThe UK\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nJapan, China, and  South Korea\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nIsrael (put this on the list because I\u0027m seeing too many beautiful Israeli women in this town..might as well just go to the nest lol) \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMost other places, I feel like I would get the racist treatment or girls who are just not interested. Are there any places that get mistaken for being a racist country but actually aren\u0027t? \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI told a friend once that I would never go to Germany because I\u0027d be afraid for my life (just an assumption I had because Hitler was from Germany lol) he told me that he went to Germany and there were plenty of black people there and I was surprised. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnyways, Great article.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWes\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1325\/23500\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-23697\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/23697#comment-23697\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/23697#comment-23697\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EBest Places Overseas for Black Men\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 17 February 2014  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/your-sexual-market-value-whos-afraid-desperate-men\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/23500#comment-23500\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EWes-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ERight, exactly - many women will tell you that no girl ever wants to be approached by a random stranger, but if he\u0027s a sexy stranger she\u0027s excited to meet, that doesn\u0027t count - because that was \u0022meant to happen.\u0022 That\u0027s just how girls think about things (more rational women will tell you they admire men who have the balls to approach, even if they aren\u0027t interested in a given man who approaches them). Just one more reason why to \u003Ca href=\u0022\/content\/dating-advice-men-why-not-get-it-women\u0022\u003Enever get dating advice from women\u003C\/a\u003E (or to waste much time debating about it with them).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAs for where to travel overseas as a black man - Asia (China, Japan, Korea) tends to be very racist even against white men, and it especially doesn\u0027t like dark-skinned men... BUT, there are still plenty of women in Asian countries who find the idea of black men to be very exciting - it\u0027s very naughty \/ rebellious \/ going against the grain for an Asian girl to date or sleep with a black man. Black guys I\u0027ve known who\u0027ve visited to China, Japan, and Korea have had little trouble having sex with women very quickly. Sweden is another one I hear is very good for black men - there was a black guy craze a few years back that I used to hear Swedish men complaining about, how it was much better to be a black guy than a white guy there because all the white girls wanted to date dark-skinned men. I\u0027m not sure if it\u0027s still that way. I had a black ex-military friend tell me there\u0027s a similar \u0022very naughty\u0022 mystique about black men to what there is in Asia out in the Middle East, and a lot of girls that really want to sample a black man, but that it\u0027s also a lot more dangerous out there and there are a lot of Middle Eastern men who get very upset about the idea of a black man sleeping with their women. Brazil I hear good things about too, though the rest of Latin America (aside from the Caribbean) may not be as good a bet; the South American (not Brazilian) women I\u0027ve had in my life have been some of the most racist against black men I\u0027ve met anywhere on the planet. Brazil, Asia, and Northern Europe seem to all be good bets, though.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1325\/23697\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-23504\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/23504#comment-23504\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Drexel\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Drexel\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Drexel\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Drexel\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/23504#comment-23504\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EI love desperate men, they\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EDrexel (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 11 February 2014  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/your-sexual-market-value-whos-afraid-desperate-men\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EI love desperate men, they make my job that much easier. It takes next to nothing to stand out from \u0022The Thirsty Hordes\u0022 and all women in the vicinity take notice of when such a man is around.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1325\/23504\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-23512\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/23512#comment-23512\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Will Legend\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Will Legend\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Will Legend\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Will Legend\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/23512#comment-23512\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EGreat article as always.\nLove\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EWill Legend (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 11 February 2014  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/your-sexual-market-value-whos-afraid-desperate-men\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EGreat article as always.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ELove the analogies here.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1325\/23512\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-23526\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/23526#comment-23526\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Balla\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Balla\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Balla\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Balla\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/23526#comment-23526\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EWhat\u0026#039;s a good car for a G?\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EBalla (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Wednesday, 12 February 2014  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/your-sexual-market-value-whos-afraid-desperate-men\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EThis article is funny to me. What made me smile was when you were talking about how the roles switch and how the girls sweat you. Shit had me dying, all I kept thinking was \u0022this cocky bastard haha\u0022 I think the same way too which makes it even funnier, I feel like im the shit while these girls are getting chased by these suckas.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe other part that had me laughing was when you were shitting on kia. I just seen a recent video on a sport kia car and everyone talked shit about it, even the people who posted the video. It was titled would you drive this even though it\u0027s a kia and everybody and their mom clowned that car.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMy question is, I have a grand and I want a car. Problem is they all look like shit to me and idk what to get. Im getting the car for what I like, but having a car chicks would like is better.  What car brand, year, and color, for $1000 would you suggest for a smooth black male to get the ladies?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAlso, What can you tell me about tampa fl? All I know is there\u0027s a lot of less love for black guys out here. I can\u0027t move right now but im curious to know if you know where I should go to in Tampa or in fl in general to help me get more success in general? \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThanks\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1325\/23526\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-23527\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/23527#comment-23527\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Balla\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Balla\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Balla\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Balla\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/23527#comment-23527\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EFocus more on process \u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EBalla (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Wednesday, 12 February 2014  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/your-sexual-market-value-whos-afraid-desperate-men\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EI read the empathy article and the process article, I think that going through with something regardless of the girls reactions or whatever would of netted me 4 easssssy lays I fucked up on. I really had girls tell me they were tired, on their period, they don\u0027t want to have sex with me, then we hang out I don\u0027t do anything because of said reasons then they fucking ask,  why didn\u0027t you push harder? Wtf! Why do they do this?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI just want to know how can I get a piece of mind while doing this? How do I feel like im not going to hard on the girl and it making me feel like im forcing her to do it?\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI don\u0027t want her going crazy on me and I don\u0027t want to feel like im forcing her.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBasically what thoughts can I think to help me focus on process than reactions?\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n(Goes for approaching,  escalation,  etc.)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd chase, im surprised you didn\u0027t tell us how you got your game up In cali after upgrading your game when it still wasn\u0027t enough to get the girls out there.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhat did you do to get the girls in cali after you transformed yourself?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhat was the missing piece?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThanks\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1325\/23527\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-23698\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/23698#comment-23698\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/23698#comment-23698\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ECars, Locale, Resistance, and Escalation\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 17 February 2014  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/your-sexual-market-value-whos-afraid-desperate-men\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/23527#comment-23527\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EBalla-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u0027m not sure what kind of car you can get for $1000; I\u0027d expect it\u0027d be pretty hard to get anything decent for that price, but you might try going to a used car auction. You can sometimes get vehicles very cheap there. Or, maybe Carmax? They really lowball you if you\u0027re trying to sell your car there, but I imagine their prices for buyers can\u0027t be too much higher than the list price - terrible experience for sellers, but maybe good for buyers.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u0027ve spent very little time in Florida, and I don\u0027t think any in Tampa that I can recall, so I\u0027m not the one to ask about that. Check around, though; there are websites where people compare notes on various locales.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EGirls will resist you because very often they aren\u0027t sure themselves until the moment they actually do something whether they want it or not. The most important thing is making sure that a girl always has a clear \u0022out\u0022 she can take that she never feels pressured not to take. Leave her room to leave; make it easy for her to get up and walk out, never physically hold her down, etc. The more on the fence she seems to be, the more important this becomes, so that she always knows if anything happens that it\u0027s fully her decision, and nothing she was forced or pressured to do. For your part, just be persistent, keep inviting her, keep trying, but always leave her that out. Eventually, she\u0027ll either say, \u0022Screw it, let\u0027s do it,\u0022 or she\u0027ll get tired of you persisting and will get up and leave. Either is fine, and far superior to just hanging around and not doing anything.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf you need a thought to focus on to get you escalating, just think, \u0022This girl is NOT going to just sit here and hang out on my bed [or whatever]; she can say \u0027no\u0027 to me and leave, or she can get into it and we\u0027ll get together, and those are the only two options.\u0022\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAs for me upgrading my game, well, that\u0027s all over this site! I was still only intermediate-level with girls when I moved to California. What I teach on Girls Chase is how to be more than that, and make things run faster, better, and easier for you than they are when you\u0027re just running beginner or intermediate-level game.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1325\/23698\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-23532\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/23532#comment-23532\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/23532#comment-23532\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003Etwo questions\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAnonymous (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Wednesday, 12 February 2014  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/your-sexual-market-value-whos-afraid-desperate-men\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EChase, there\u0027s something about your approach to dating I may not fully agree with or maybe I\u0027m missing out on something. It\u0027s about state shift. If you approached a girl and you actually talked to her and she had a chance to meet you and SEE you and talk to you, or even you had a date with her and you talked for more than an hour and then she doesn\u0027t text you back or call you back I\u0027d say she\u0027s not interested. I don\u0027t believe in this state shift thing. Any texting you do following her radio silence looks already needy to me. If we\u0027re attracted to someone we are always happy to have them contact us and I don\u0027t believe something like a bad day, rainy weather or work stuff can shift us to the point we no longer care (apart from real tragedies of course but such cases are rather rare). If a girl gets your message and she thinks \u0022oh, not now I\u0027m busy\u0022 and doesn\u0027t get back to you for a couple of days or more it means you didn\u0027t make the cut. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhen I\u0027m attracted to someone and I have a busy bad day and she texts me I get excited. If I feel tired and beaten and girl I\u0027m interested in wants to see me I get this kick of energy. I think most people react this way. When I feel like it\u0027s too much effort to go out with her and I don\u0027t have the willpower to set up a meet and go out it\u0027s a sign for me I don\u0027t actually care about this girl. It\u0027s hard to turn things round in this case for her even if she shoots me another text weeks later and she\u0027s cool about it. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMy second question concerns acting fast. I always seemed to be slowing down my game on the way to bed, interestingly not because I was afraid of acting and risking losing her but actually once I got them interested in me you could really see the girls going crazy for you in the course of time. Such sex then is always more passionate and even more \u0022agressive\u0022 than bedding a horny girl on your first day.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI understand moving fast is important in situations like on holidays or business trips when your interaction with her is limited in time. Am I right?\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nWhat if you have a regular contact with a girl, for exemple as a teacher or trainer and get to meet her once a week no matter what. Do you think you can slow down you game and drag her all the way to make her want you even more?\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nFor those girls who are experienced and used to getting a lot of attention and sex from men, isn\u0027t the game prior to bedding that makes her actually interested in you? And also how come bedding girls asap doen\u0027t validate the rule of being a challenge and actually she may feel like you\u0027re too easy and not a real challenge as a lover?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u0027m interested in your opinion as your approach totally contradicts mine.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1325\/23532\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-23701\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/23701#comment-23701\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/23701#comment-23701\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EGirls on the Fence, Slow Game\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 17 February 2014  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/your-sexual-market-value-whos-afraid-desperate-men\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/23532#comment-23532\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EAnon-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI understand. State-shift is not about girls who\u0027ve made up their minds on you; it\u0027s about the ones who are on the fence about you. You\u0027re quite correct that if a girl is very into you, she\u0027s going to respond to you, and the very act of receiving correspondence from you is going to trigger a positive change in emotions for her then and there.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe problem comes when you\u0027re dealing with ambiguous attraction, which can be hard for men to wrap their minds around because they don\u0027t usually experience it. If you\u0027re a man, a woman is either a \u0022yes\u0022 or a \u0022no\u0022 for you. If you\u0027re a woman, a man is sometimes a \u0022probably yes\u0022 or a \u0022probably no\u0022, but most of the time is a \u0022I don\u0027t know, let me think about it later.\u0022\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMost of the women you\u0027ll meet, especially if you\u0027re meeting them in places like bars and nightclubs, are meeting lots of different men, often while slightly (or \u003Cem\u003Every\u003C\/em\u003E) inebriated. Even if you make a semi-decent impression then and there, there\u0027s a good chance that come Monday morning, you\u0027re not much more than a hazy memory from Saturday night. One she thinks, \u0022Yeah, I \u003Cem\u003Ethink\u003C\/em\u003E I liked that guy,\u0022 about, but then shrugs and forgets all about it because she\u0027s busy right now and doesn\u0027t feel like responding. Catch her at the right time, and you get a response. Don\u0027t, and you won\u0027t. Most of the first 3 or 4 years of my time picking up women was spent picking up women in nightclubs, and this was something I saw time and again with the ones you didn\u0027t pick up but merely got phone numbers from; you\u0027ll text her, not get a response, then call her a few days later, get her on the phone, and she\u0027s happy to talk to you and then you meet up and have sex. Or you text her, no response; leave her a voicemail, no response; then later on she gets in touch with you on her own, and you end up in bed a few days after this.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThis is also why it\u0027s better to switch mode of contact between no-responses; she doesn\u0027t respond to a text, so next you call and leave a voicemail. No response to that, you text her again. No response to the text, you call. If you switch it a couple of times and still don\u0027t get through, it\u0027s safe to write her off, but if you don\u0027t, you\u0027ll be missing out on a certain percentage of girls who \u003Cem\u003Ewould have\u003C\/em\u003E gotten together with you had you gotten the timing or mode correct, but that you didn\u0027t get because you never found a way to move them off the fence.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EProbably worth noting, in light of the rest of your comment, that slow game works best with women who are already very interested in or intrigued by you, OR who are always around you in some sort of social circle environment and cannot escape being exposed to you; women who are on the fence about you generally need to be slept with quickly, because they aren\u0027t really interested in spending much time on you or doing much else with you usually than a one-and-done.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ERe: slow game - you can absolutely use slow game if you 1.) have the time and 2.) know what you\u0027re doing. I don\u0027t recommend it usually because the guys who know how to do it are going to do it regardless of what I say, while the guys who need to move fast are more likely to hear me say they can move slow and say, \u0022Oh, okay - there, he said slow works too. So I\u0027ll just take it slow! No problem, right?\u0022 and then 6 months later they find out the girl has a boyfriend and they never get her. I don\u0027t use slow game much personally, because I\u0027m impatient and don\u0027t care to spend a lot of time on social circle development \/ maintenance or on any one girl I haven\u0027t slept with, but I\u0027ve used it on occasion with women I\u0027ve worked with back in my employee days, and I\u0027ve seen other men use it effectively.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EExperienced women are good at slowing things down, because they have more control that way; they also tend to recognize right away if you\u0027re a guy they want fast sex with (usually because you flip all their triggers for this, and sex is the only thing they can imagine themselves wanting from you), or you\u0027re someone they\u0027d like to pace themselves with while flirting with and teasing to keep you interested. For that reason, and for the reason of precedent in a relationship if you end up in one (i.e., being the fastest man to bed her vs. not being that man), I generally recommend guys move faster with a woman the more experienced she is (though this also gets harder the more experienced she is, and the more expert she is at slowing men down and resisting men\u0027s seduction efforts for all men who are not Fabios to her). However, if you also enjoy a slow process, I don\u0027t see much risk in it aside from losing some on-the-fence girls (and possibly dealing with the negative respect bonus from not being the fastest to bed a girl later on in a relationship, if you ever lose control of things); it essentially comes down to the heart-pounding, breathtaking whirlwind romance that unfolds in minutes or hours, OR the anticipation-building, slow burn romance than unfolds over days and weeks.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESleeping with women quickly, when you\u0027re running fast game, uses sex as the reward, rather than a letting up of challenge, if you run the interaction properly; that is, you get her to invest a lot, and heavily earn sex with you, and finally provide it to her as her reward for her investment and for passing your screens. Done right, she gets sex right when she feels she \u003Cem\u003Edeserves\u003C\/em\u003E sex for all the investment she\u0027s made in you, and not giving her sex sends her into auto-rejection, bitter that she did so much for you and worked so hard to prove herself to you and you did not put out. If you choose to draw this process out and delay having women invest in you and prove themselves to you, having them instead do this over a longer period of time, you can uncompress things and extend the challenge as long as you like, within reason\u2026 though of course it helps if you\u0027re around the girl in social circle and\/or have access to her over time, to repeatedly ping her and keep the anticipation high, as well as guard against her losing interest if she sleeps with someone else in the meantime, which doesn\u0027t always happen but sometimes will.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1325\/23701\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-23534\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/23534#comment-23534\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/monsterzrock\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Rocker4Hire\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Rocker4Hire\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Rocker4Hire\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Rocker4Hire\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/23534#comment-23534\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EFeb. 6, 2014 NY Times article about equal marriage = less sex\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/monsterzrock\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/monsterzrock\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ERocker4Hire\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Wednesday, 12 February 2014  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/your-sexual-market-value-whos-afraid-desperate-men\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHi Chase,\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHey, welcome to San Diego! LOL! I\u0027m a native San Diegan and a lot of what\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nyou mentioned is very true. I\u0027m still trying to figure out which areas\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nare hiding all of the hot, 40-somethings.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI just wanted to share this link from a New York Times article about sex and marriage equality. I know it doesn\u0027t directly relate to THIS article but it does strike a couple of chords about a man\u0027s desperation or changing his standards, etc.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022http:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2014\/02\/09\/magazine\/does-a-more-equal-marriage-mean-less-sex.html\u0022\u003Ehttp:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2014\/02\/09\/magazine\/does-a-more-equal-marriage-me...\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI would love to see your take on this as well as the other writers and other member comments. The article does hit on a number of themes you\u0027ve written about before.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1325\/23534\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-23703\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/23703#comment-23703\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/23703#comment-23703\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EEqual Marriage, Hot 40-Somethings in SD\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 17 February 2014  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/your-sexual-market-value-whos-afraid-desperate-men\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/23534#comment-23534\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EMonsterz-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYeah, that article gels pretty nicely with my experiences. I\u0027ve had men criticize me for letting a long-term girlfriend do too much work while I just sit around, but then turn around and ask me how to get their girlfriends or wives to put out. They don\u0027t seem to understand the concept of \u0022sex as reward\u0022; when a guy\u0027s working as hard as his woman is, sex is something that is an equal trade between the two of them he hopes to maybe get from her possibly IF she wants it. Conversely, when she\u0027s working hard to keep her man happy, she also begins to view sex as both validation of their relationship (and her hard work), and also a reward for everything she\u0027s done; I\u0027ve had multiple girlfriends refuse to let me off the hook from giving them sex even when I was very tired after \u0022all they\u0027d done\u0022 (e.g., cooked me a big dinner, really cleaned my place up, etc.). Of course, you\u0027ve got to take your responsibility as provider of that reward serious, and make the sex very good ;)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAs for where to find the hot 40-somethings in San Diego... have you tried Del Mar? I found myself in a random nightclub next to a restaurant I\u0027d had dinner at with a group of friends there once in 2008 or 2009, and the buddy I went to the nightclub with and I found ourselves transported into another dimension, with a club filled with 40+ women in flashy low-cut dresses, with fake breasts, tiny waists, tanned skin, and more plastic surgery than you could shake a stick at. There were more women than men, and the men who were there ranged from 20-somethings out cougar hunting to men around the women\u0027s own ages. I saw one tiny woman with an incredible body whose face was stretched back so far I thought she must\u0027ve been 60, though my friend though she was in her 40s, and she was dancing so hard that the 25-year-old she was shaking her booty with couldn\u0027t keep up. I\u0027m told that place closed down, but I wouldn\u0027t be surprised if somewhere else, probably in Del Mar, took its place. A quick search on Yelp shows a few different bars open in Del Mar right now.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1325\/23703\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-23535\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/23535#comment-23535\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022David26\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022David26\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022David26\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022David26\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/23535#comment-23535\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EThe ideal mind state\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EDavid26 (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Wednesday, 12 February 2014  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/your-sexual-market-value-whos-afraid-desperate-men\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EI suddenly understand the strengths of the male drive. I\u0027ve done my best to abstain from masturbation. Instead of feeling indecisive about people, I instead think \u0022forward, forward!\u0022 Even when I have awkward silences  or make offhand comments I don\u0027t turn red or eject. I feel like I can stand my ground during these possible awkward moments, and I sort of transfer this sort of confidence where the other person also feels at peace with the lull or silence. It\u0027s like a sort of mutual understanding, when you are good friends you don\u0027t mind enjoying the silence together and don\u0027t get awkward. I feel like when you whether a silence or awkward moment together you get a bit closer, and the other person can see you as a leader since you helped them into a better state. As a curiosity, have you felt something similar?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1325\/23535\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-23704\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/23704#comment-23704\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/23704#comment-23704\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EComfort with Silence\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 17 February 2014  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/your-sexual-market-value-whos-afraid-desperate-men\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/23535#comment-23535\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EDavid-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYes, getting comfortable with what are awkward pauses for most people is an important part of developing socially. You can manage this even when less juiced with your vital essences with enough training and exposure (and practice just staying steady and calm during silences), but not having ejaculated recently gives you a major focus boost.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EEjaculating from sex is another one that robs you of focus; I\u0027ve seen some guys experiment with having sex but no ejaculation for a month, and by the end of the month they had women opening them and propositioning them like crazy (sex raises testosterone; ejaculation lowers it; lots of sex with no ejaculation seems to just be a straight shot to the top for your t-levels).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1325\/23704\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-23568\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/23568#comment-23568\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/23568#comment-23568\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EAwkward Situation\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAnonymous (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Thursday, 13 February 2014  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/your-sexual-market-value-whos-afraid-desperate-men\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EAwesome article Chase. I don\u0027t really know how to word what I\u0027m trying to ask so I\u0027ll describe a hypothetical situation. Let\u0027s  say a girl asks to use your phone and you let her, but then she accidently drops it and you\u0027re in a situation where you can\u0027t get mad and don\u0027t want to seem like an ass for getting mad but also you don\u0027t want to let it go SO easily like it\u0027s nothing. All the while she is saying sorry etc. This didn\u0027t happen to me but my question is in regards to those type of tense situations.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThanks\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1325\/23568\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-23705\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/23705#comment-23705\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/23705#comment-23705\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ERe: Awkward Situation\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 17 February 2014  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/your-sexual-market-value-whos-afraid-desperate-men\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/23568#comment-23568\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EAnon-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI get it. It\u0027s where someone hurts you or your property accidentally and is genuinely sorry, but you still don\u0027t want to look like the pushover nice guy who goes, \u0022Oh, no! It\u0027s fine! I didn\u0027t even like that phone anyway!\u0022 using his best Buddy the Elf impression.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIn situations like that, you usually want to look annoyed, shake your head a bit, kind of sigh, and say, \u0022It\u0027s fine - it\u0027s fine,\u0022 while not making eye contact with the other person. You\u0027ll usually hold up your hands in a slightly dismissive \/ waving off gesture at around mid-body as well, and shrug up your eyebrows. Then just talk to someone else and ignore the person who caused the harm.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EEssentially, you express your annoyance, then turn away from the other person and treat her like someone who\u0027s socially awkward. That\u0027s if this is a relative stranger. If it\u0027s someone you know and are close to, you\u0027d just look at the broken phone (or whatever it is), take a deep breath, sigh slowly, then look at her with a, \u0022Well, you can\u0027t win \u0027em all,\u0022 look \/ pseudo-smile, and crack a joke about it (\u0022And thus, my trend of no phone lasting longer than 6 months with me continues\u0022).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1325\/23705\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-23589\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/23589#comment-23589\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/23589#comment-23589\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EHey\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAnonymous (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Friday, 14 February 2014  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/your-sexual-market-value-whos-afraid-desperate-men\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHey, could someone direct me to that article about \u0022finding out if she lies\u0022 ?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThere was an insight on how to spot lies and there was a picture with Eyes, where they move, what it means ...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E I can`t find it anywhere and i really need to read it again.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThanks.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1325\/23589\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-23706\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/23706#comment-23706\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/23706#comment-23706\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EArticle on Reading Lies\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 17 February 2014  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/your-sexual-market-value-whos-afraid-desperate-men\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/23589#comment-23589\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EAnon-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThat\u0027s this one right here:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/content\/tactics-tuesdays-tell-someone-lying-someone-whos-not\u0022\u003ETactics Tuesdays: Tell Someone Lying from Someone Who\u0027s Not\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1325\/23706\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-23597\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/23597#comment-23597\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Troy\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Troy\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Troy\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Troy\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/23597#comment-23597\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EExpectations\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ETroy (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Friday, 14 February 2014  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/your-sexual-market-value-whos-afraid-desperate-men\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHey Chase,\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI should comment on this read. It was good and opened my eyes a bit more. Reason is because usually i see other men much lower status than me and what comes to mind is how i could help them to stop being such dirt bags. This article opened my eyes more that i should stop worrying about other people so much (not in a cold hearted way) and instead focus completely on my development.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhile reading this article, a essential insight ive been thinking of was \u0022Expectations\u0022. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhen you talk about desperate men, what this mainly stems from is a lack of abundance with women, experience and especially anxiety formed by a man looking at expectations when he meets a girl and totally messes up because of fear of failure.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt occurs to me from personal experience and what ive seen that the word \u0022expectations\u0022 have some good in life, but for the most part in socializing and seduction, having expectations can actually be detrimental to a mans improvement in these areas. when you find a girl you like and you think:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E- I want to bang that chick\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n- I want that girl to be my girlfriend\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n- I want a date with that girl\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n- I want that girl\u0027s phone number\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n- I want (whatever) from that girl...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E...What if when a man sees that sexy girl that ABSOLUTELY blows his mind, but he LACKS the experience or skills to pull off those things when he approaches that girl? Simple- he acts out of fear, puts the girl on a pedestal, undermines his own value then loses the girl. whats worse is that failure sucks and everytime that man fails without doing some self-analysis and looking at the goal ahead of him, he possibly falls prey to victim mentality or depression or INCREASED SOCIAL ANXIETY.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u0027ve been there, you have been there and every other man has been there before. that crippling word, \u0022EXPECTATIONS\u0022 is to me a powerful brakes in a truck that prevents it from moving even when the gas pedal is being pushed on a sound truck with the engine on and petrol in the tank.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThere are a few articles on here similar to this topic but i find this topic on expectations rather interesting and may be a similar topic to \u0022Women on Pedestals\u0022 and \u0022 How to Get Perfect 10 Girls\u0022 article but interesting in its own right for its own neat article.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EJust imagine if men had no expectations in dating and seduction. Every fool and his brother would be trying to get a girl the moment they got a chance. I think desperate men, men with anxiety, men with lack of experience and an abundance mentality, and other social phobias is going around with too many expectations when meeting women.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u0027d love to see an article on \u0022Expectations\u0022 if that interests you, Chase?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhat do you think?\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nToo many men fear rejection and failure because of expectations? \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI think for this article the desperate men have too much phobias and lacks social calibration. To me, the million dollar question is: What are the ways that a man could let go of expectations?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI think this is a simple but essential mindset to get down\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETroy\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1325\/23597\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-23627\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/23627#comment-23627\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022TORNADO\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022TORNADO\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022TORNADO\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022TORNADO\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/23627#comment-23627\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EExpectations - A Different View\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ETORNADO (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Saturday, 15 February 2014  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/your-sexual-market-value-whos-afraid-desperate-men\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/23597#comment-23597\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EI actually like your idea but I just wanted to share my idea of \u0022Expectations\u0022 too.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIts different from yours but has the same meaning in a different way. I was infact in a strenuous relationship with a girl for one and a half years who kept stringing me along. She used the sentence \u0022Expectations kill bonds\u0022 after I proposed her a 100 times and at the fag end of our tenure pleaded her to tell me where I went wrong. She used to feel that I expected too much from her.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut the funny story is that she was the one who started with all of this. Whenever she used to go somewhere, she used to inform me, if she didn\u0027t hear back from me when she texted or called me she used to get nervous and start apologizing etc. All of this played its own role in my mind and I eventually I also started doing the same things.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe turning point like Chase explained in his article \u0022Attraction has an expiry date\u0022 was when I hit the downward curve and she started resisting to small things like moving her, phone calls etc. She also stopped doing all those stuff like informing me, apologizing etc.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut, unfortunately I was still in that mode and when I continued to be in the same mode, she used to get irritated and tell me that I expect too much from her - asking her details and that I think too much when I used to get crazy when she used to not take my calls or not reply to my message and I used to tell her that she used to do the same things before, she used to avoid that topic altogether.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EEven though I don\u0027t talk to her now, this has sort off formed as a habit which annoys the other girls in my life. Even though I am very cautious now, sometimes I slip and start doing those things with the new girls I know and this has led to some of them even friend-zoning me.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe point I am try to make Troy is that sometimes these \u0022Expectations\u0022 are created by the opposite sex themselves in your psychology.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENow I am not trying to say that this girl who I met was pure evil or a witch. But it so could have happened that she did these things inadvertently. When I met her, she was a newbie and I was already a powerful guy, well settled with many friends and projects. Probably that could have instilled fear and respect and she used to do those things as a means to worship me and then I screwed things up by putting her on a pedestal.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EConcluding, I only would say that watch out, sometimes these expectations are not created by us, but by them. We should just see to it that we maintain our cool and not let these things affect our psyche. Cheers!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1325\/23627\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-23707\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/23707#comment-23707\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/23707#comment-23707\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EDifferent Expectations\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 17 February 2014  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/your-sexual-market-value-whos-afraid-desperate-men\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/23597#comment-23597\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003ETroy-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYeah, that\u0027s an interesting way of thinking about it, and worth exploring in an article. The inexperienced man expects rejection and no success; the experienced man excepts to go through rejection and ultimately find success; and so on and so forth.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMeantime, you can use visualization to help reset expectations, but the only real way to consistently change these is by going out and getting enough experience in that you realize your expectations were wrong, and new ones take form in your consciousness instead.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1325\/23707\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-23602\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/23602#comment-23602\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/23602#comment-23602\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003E\u0026quot;She\u0026#039;s bragging and\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAnonymous (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Friday, 14 February 2014  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/your-sexual-market-value-whos-afraid-desperate-men\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003E\u0022She\u0027s bragging and showboating..\u0022 Love that\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOnly recently did I make this level. Now some women\u0027s hands tremble slightly as we talk.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThey don\u0027t completely trust me, and probably shouldn\u0027t\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1325\/23602\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-23610\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/23610#comment-23610\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022V\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022V\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022V\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022V\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/23610#comment-23610\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EHelp\/Stop sucking with women\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EV (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Friday, 14 February 2014  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/your-sexual-market-value-whos-afraid-desperate-men\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EChase hello, I\u0027ve been deep inside my thoughts lately and it\u0027s been wrecking my emotionally. I attract girls and I always attracted girls.  It\u0027s just I was never good with them and I guess im still bad now since im writing this. On this part I would just like to know what I can do to get rid of the pain I had in the past?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI always tried getting laid when I was younger,  but I could not get it for the life of me and people would make fun of me for being a virgin at 14. They never knew anything about me they just assumed I guess because I had no girlfriend. They made fun of me for years and for those years I was trying to get laid like a mad man to no avail. I didn\u0027t lose my virginity until later and then when me and my ex got into it one day she told everyone she took my virginity. I told her I wasn\u0027t a virgin and fucked her like I wasn\u0027t but, she still insisted that she took it and told everyone that. Good thing is nobody had anything to say about it. But for some reason people always worried about my sex life and girlfriends I had all the time. I\u0027d tell them I wasn\u0027t a virgin and all, but people wouldn\u0027t believe and just kept making fun of things they really shouldn\u0027t care about. I even had this one girl ask another if I was a virgin. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt just makes me so angry that they really care about my life so much and to keep talking shit about me. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMy questions for this part are:\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n1. Why was everybody so worried about my sex life to such an extent that a girl asked my fuckin close friend if I was a virgin?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E2. How could they tell or why didn\u0027t they believe I wasn\u0027t a virgin? I wasn\u0027t nervous about it or anything and actually I never even did anything to provoke it. They would just say it for no reason in the middle of nowhere.  Why?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E3. How can I stop thinking about this? It drives me crazy and I really feel that I am my past and that no matter how good I get with women I\u0027ll still remember those horrible times.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n4. I honestly care so much about people thinking bad of me and I want to stop it. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPart 2 is basically me trying my ass off then and now to get laid and it hasn\u0027t gotten me anywhere but feeling like shit.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u0027ve been trying to fuck girls since I was 13 but it never happened.  I would ask out countless girls and I didn\u0027t get any. When I got somewhere with a girl she wouldn\u0027t go through with it. This is my luck in a nut shell. One time my friend had this girl give him oral, he fucked, and took pics of here. I got her to my place and I got soo close then she just snapped out of it and put her clothes back on. She offered to suck my dick but I had to return the favor and I said no. Basically I had a hard time trying to fuck a hoe. Anyway,  I\u0027ve been trying all my life and I\u0027ve just been rejected and rejected after so many years. Now in my years girls are a lot more easier because I\u0027ve gained experience, got older, and this site right here, but im still not having any luck. Getting my lay counts up are extremely difficult and I don\u0027t want to waste time I want to get may lays up serious and stop sucking with women so much. I read the article about victim mentality and it probably sounds like that, but Im taking the blame and saying I suck with women and I want to stop. I honestly don\u0027t want to sleep with women just to get a nut,  I actually want the experience of all the different girls, from race, body, personality,  everything. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMy questions for this second part are:\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nCan you explain what you think about my story of trying to get laid and getting rejected since 13 and how a hoe even rejected me?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd could you please do an article on how to not suck with women?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThank you chase!!!!!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1325\/23610\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-23616\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/23616#comment-23616\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Verisimilitude\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Verisimilitude\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Verisimilitude\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Verisimilitude\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/23616#comment-23616\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ESucking with women\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EVerisimilitude (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Saturday, 15 February 2014  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/your-sexual-market-value-whos-afraid-desperate-men\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/23610#comment-23610\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EV,\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThere are so many parts to this that. But don\u0027t let your past drag you down. It sounds like you need to work a bit more on fundamentals and the right way to approach. Read the article on dealing with failure for more on not getting down.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1325\/23616\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-23708\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/23708#comment-23708\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/23708#comment-23708\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ERe: Help\/Stop sucking with women\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 17 February 2014  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/your-sexual-market-value-whos-afraid-desperate-men\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/23610#comment-23610\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EV-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u0027d agree with Verisimilitude, it sounds like your fundamentals need much more focus.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI get the impression from reading your comment that your focus is entirely, \u0022How do I get laid?\u0022 and not, \u0022How do I become more attractive to women?\u0022 nor, \u0022How do I improve my skill set with women?\u0022\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThat\u0027s kind of like a guy deciding he wants to be rich, and then constantly asking himself, \u0022How can I make millions? God, it\u0027s so frustrating that I don\u0027t have millions,\u0022 without ever stopping and saying, \u0022What kind of a business do I have to build that will produce things other people want so much that they will buy in spades?\u0022\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIn other words, your focus is on you and what you want, instead of on others and what they want. But nobody\u0027s going to give you anything unless you start giving them what they want. Women have zero interest in giving you sex because you want sex. They only want sex with you if you give them the experiences and emotions and excitement they need to want sex \u003Cem\u003Ewith\u003C\/em\u003E you.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u0027d focus on a mindset shift more than anything - quit thinking about what you want, and instead start thinking about what you need to give other people in order to get it. What\u0027s this girl need in order to WANT to sleep with you? Give her what she wants, and you\u0027ll get it.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhen you\u0027re younger, kids put a focus on virginity because sex has become the rite of passage in Western society since we have no other way of becoming a man. A boy doesn\u0027t become a man until he\u0027s had sex. So, other young men will tease you about not being a virgin... and in so doing, hope that they imply to others that they themselves are not virgins. What you\u0027ll generally find though is that once a guy\u0027s actually lost his virginity, he stops caring about virginity; so, ironically, the kids teasing you about virginity invariably turn out to be virgins themselves.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1325\/23708\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-23636\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/23636#comment-23636\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Gem\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Gem\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Gem\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Gem\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/23636#comment-23636\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ETyping skills\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EGem (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Saturday, 15 February 2014  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/your-sexual-market-value-whos-afraid-desperate-men\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHey Chase,\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u2019ve been trying to improve my typing and get it faster and wondered if you have any tips (I\u2019m willing to bet you type pretty darn fast)? I write a fair bit on keyboard, almost every day and at the very least a few thousand words every couple of days.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMy typing is off, I should mention, in that I didn\u2019t learn traditional typing and a few fingers on my right and left hand are off from traditional typing (especially on my left). I type 70 wpm on average but I feel this is really slow compared to how fast I could type if my fingers were always properly placed. I\u2019ve come to recognize that when learning any skill, your fundamentals\/basic procedures are most crucial to master before learning and advancing more (because they end up being the foundation on which everything else is built; unstable foundation means flimsy building regardless of how tall it becomes).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI guess this roots to a deeper question here then: when fundamentals of any skill are off, would a person have to fix the fundamentals and learn from the beginning? Or maybe they would just have to fix a thing or two with their fundamentals and then they could retain\/practice the intermediate bits that they\u2019d already learned?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo in the context of my typing, would I have to learn to type properly and learn everything from scratch, or would there be some way for me to fix a few things and get good at typing normally?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E-Gem\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1325\/23636\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-23709\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/23709#comment-23709\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/23709#comment-23709\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ETyping \/ Fundamentals\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 17 February 2014  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/your-sexual-market-value-whos-afraid-desperate-men\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/23636#comment-23636\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EGem-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt\u0027s generally most difficult teaching the \u0022unteachable\u0022 people who\u0027ve learned to do things a certain (wrong) way, but then aren\u0027t willing to change that way or don\u0027t see what they\u0027re doing as wrong. It\u0027s something I\u0027ve seen time and again with seduction... the guys who have the hardest path toward results are the ones who\u0027ve learned some alternate means of pickup that doesn\u0027t work that well for them, then refuse to do anything any differently because they\u0027re so certain it\u0027s correct, but want you to help them get more success anyway. It\u0027s kind of like if a guy insisted that he wasn\u0027t going to do anything other than friend zone, because friend zone is the ultimate way to eventually make it into any girl\u0027s heart, he\u0027s \u003Cem\u003Ecertain\u003C\/em\u003E, but he\u0027d still like you to help him get more girlfriends, please.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThat\u0027s very different if you know what\u0027s wrong and are willing to fix it, though. With typing, I\u0027d probably advise looking up some of those typing games (there are games you can play where you have to type words, and a little guy shoots at word monsters and things of that sort), and forcing yourself to type the \u0022correct\u0022 way, assuming you already know where your fingers should go. If you don\u0027t, I\u0027d advise going through a \u0022learn typing\u0022 program (you can find them online) - that\u0027ll be starting from scratch, essentially, but learning typing doesn\u0027t take too long, and since you\u0027re only doing a few fingers, you probably won\u0027t find it too challenging.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAlternately, if you REALLY want your typing to go as fast as possible, and you\u0027ll be starting from scratch anyway, get a Dvorak keyboard and learn on that. The Qwerty keyboards that are standard today were actually designed to slow down typing by placing the most commonly-used letters in weird positions, to prevent rapid typists from jamming up typewriter machinery; Dvorak is a keyboard optimized for normal usage that allows you to type significantly faster if you learn it than even the fastest Qwerty keyboardists can type.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1325\/23709\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-23644\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/23644#comment-23644\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Balla\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Balla\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Balla\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Balla\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/23644#comment-23644\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EWhat to rap about?\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EBalla (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Saturday, 15 February 2014  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/your-sexual-market-value-whos-afraid-desperate-men\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EChase, is there a way I can make hits in the rap game and stay relevant without talking about drugs and gang banging? \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhat else can I rap about to make good songs and how do I get more experiences on life?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThanks\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1325\/23644\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-23710\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/23710#comment-23710\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/23710#comment-23710\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ERe: What to rap about?\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 17 February 2014  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/your-sexual-market-value-whos-afraid-desperate-men\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/23644#comment-23644\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EBalla-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYou can rap about whatever you want, just make the music good. I\u0027d argue that the talk about drugs and gangbangs slips by more than anything do to good music more than that the content makes the music float; most rap artists are far too boring in their use of the same topics again and again. Hits are mostly only hits because of the music. There are exceptions - there are songs that win awards for their content, or are specifically noted for being profound - but even those usually have great music.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EStandard content + great music = popular hit. Great content + great music = popular hit + awards. 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