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id=\u0022comment-15368\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/15368#comment-15368\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/15368#comment-15368\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ENot for me\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAnonymous (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Thursday, 17 October 2013  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/how-conspicuous-consumption-helps-men-get-laid\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EVery interesting to see all of this backed up by scientific data but I must say conspicuous consumption to me just seems a little tasteless and showy.  Throwing cash around here there and everywhere is not something I think I would ever be into.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI really love a girl to want me for the elements closely linked to ME, ie my inner game, conversation skills, fundamentals, charisma, sex etc etc.  Utilizing something like cash to get girls in my eyes seems like a bit of an easy way out, even a cop out if you like,  of developing those skills and moulding yourself into a better man.  Cash develops a \u0027why bother with anything else\u0027 mentality.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI would just imaging pouring girls champagne and thinking hmm we\u0027ll this is wokin but really it\u0027s only working because iv\u0027e got money.  It would ruin some of the fun for me.  It wouldn\u0027t really feel like the girl was digging me but rather that green dollar bill.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EA potent weapon, but I do believe it would be foolish to rely on something as fleeting as money.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI much prefer to down play my finances and pursue the mysterious lover \u0027does he have cash or doesn\u0027t he, either way hes fucking sexy so whatever,\u0027 route.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EA few questions I would like your opinion on though, Chase.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E1) Who wins, cash strapped lover v cash splashing rich man?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E2) I would imagine one should only splash out cash when he is genuinely very wealthy, it always seems transparant to me when some middle manager type is trying hard to be that rich guy but isn\u0027t really, am I correct here?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E3) Despite scientific date I strongly believe that there are girls and just people in general actually who are highly tuned off by people who splash their cash about, because I think some people can see clearly when someone is Utilizing his material value in effort to subtly gain social value\/sex\/friends and I do\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nbelive that people cotton on to how that man operates and see him as slightly false.  Your thoughts?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E4) Of course let\u0027s say you have a man who has spent a\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nWhile honing his skills an IS genuinely charismatic without\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nmoney and has no problems with girls. When do you belive is the time for this man to add conspicuous consumption to his game?  Under what circumstances?  Is it even nesacery for that man? No matter what, the man who displays his cash is always going to have a higher boyfriend value to his name then a man\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nWho seems to have no cash.  With this in mind would it not just be more effective to continue without splashing cash.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt\u0027s an interesting topic though, so hard to know whether it\u0027s more effective to be the guy who girls wonder has cash and have  that air of mystery to your name, or to lose that slight mystery and start showing your monetary value right up\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nIn people\u0027s faces.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOne other reason that I would be hesitant in showing my money would\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nbe the constant wondering of who your true friend were.    Who\u0027s only playing with you for your wealth and connections and who\u0027s genuine etc.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1215\/15368\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-15448\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/15448#comment-15448\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 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rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ETroy (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Friday, 18 October 2013  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/how-conspicuous-consumption-helps-men-get-laid\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/15368#comment-15368\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003Ei would agree with you that to use conscipous consumption is a waste, produces false reactions and results, and makes us seducers look fake infront of persons that know what we are doing by throwing away money.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E    i can tell a story from the bible with conspicous consumption:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E      there was a man by the name of the \u0022prodigal son\u0022. his father was very rich and split his wealth in two for each of his sons. the \u0022prodigal son\u0022 decided that he wanted his share of the wealth instantly and took it, left his fathers house and spent his money on partys, sex, and girls. in the end, he got broke and all his fake friends abandoned him and he became a homeless man eating out of a pigs pen. in the end he came to his senses and here it what i think came to his mind:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E1) he developed false reactions and results\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E2) he made fake friends\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E3) set the wrong expectation as the rich\/try hard guy\/too cool\/stupid\/too easy going to care guy!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E3) he will be abandoned if something should happen to his wealth and he got broke.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E4) everyone or at least most of his social circle would abandon him.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E5) that money should have been given to charity, the poor and needy who really need it.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E   now there is some contradiction between this article and \u0022its not your investment in her that matters, its hers in you\u0022 article where it is said that flaunting riches doesnt earn friends, girlfriends and lovers. i dont get the difference.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E     now i am not a mean person and i would share what i have sometimes and pick up the tab, buy a little champagne but this is not my style. much respect to you chase but i would love your insight on this. thanks!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv 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data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/15523#comment-15523\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EConspicuous Consumption vs. Investment\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Saturday, 19 October 2013  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/how-conspicuous-consumption-helps-men-get-laid\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/15448#comment-15448\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003ETroy-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cem\u003E\u201cnow there is some contradiction between this article and \u0022its not your investment in her that matters, its hers in you\u0022 article where it is said that flaunting riches doesnt earn friends, girlfriends and lovers. i dont get the difference.\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIn \u0022\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/its-not-your-investment-her-its-hers-you\u0022\u003EIt\u0027s Not Your Investment in Her; It\u0027s Hers in You\u003C\/a\u003E\u0022, I mentioned that thoughtlessly piling on time and money into getting a girl is not the way to win her heart over. In this article, by contrast, recall highlighted specifically the importance of not spending money on her for the sake of HER, so much as spending money because YOU want to spend money - on drinks, on nice places, etc. With conspicuous consumption, you\u0027re the bright shiny object that women want to touch and have some of the glitter rub off of onto them too; with what the guys I pointed out in the article on investment are doing wrong, these guys are dumping value all over women in an attempt to woo them, rather than drawing women to them with glitter and gloss around \u003Cem\u003Ethemselves\u003C\/em\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThink of it this way: when you spend big on YOURSELF, and maybe let them join in on your OWN adventure, women say, \u0022Ooh!\u0022 and it\u0027s fun and exciting and novel.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhen you spend big on them, purely for the purpose of trying to win them over, women go, \u0022Meh,\u0022 and it\u0027s weak and needy and kind of pathetic.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1215\/15523\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-15521\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/15521#comment-15521\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/15521#comment-15521\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EMore on Conspicuous Consumption\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Saturday, 19 October 2013  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/how-conspicuous-consumption-helps-men-get-laid\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/15368#comment-15368\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EAnon-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u0027d mostly agree with you on the tastelessness of it. When you see\npeople who are \u0022old money\u0022, their styles are usually understated and\nthey don\u0027t often conspicuously consume. Conspicuous consumption might\nbe a short-term attraction trigger specifically because it signals\nsomeone living laviciously and wastefully who\u0027s probably on the \u0022boom\u0022\npart of a boom-and-bust cycle. It might also be a \u0022get in while the\ngetting\u0027s good\u0022 opportunity for women - when a man\u0027s spending\nlaviciously, if she can net him for something short-term, she\u0027s liable\nto get a good deal of that slipshod spending spent on her, as well,\ngiving her more resources and increasing her security. Or it may be the\nnovelty factor - here\u0027s a chance to experience super upscale hotels,\ncrazy sports cars, very expensive things, and have amazing stories to\ntell. May just be a combination of all those things.\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ECash-strapped lover vs. cash-splashing man: in my experience, the\ncash-strapped lover who is \u003Cspan style=\u0022font-style: italic;\u0022\u003Egood\u003C\/span\u003E\nwill usually trump the cash-splashing man, simply because the guys who\nhave cash have spent much more of their time getting good with getting\nmoney than getting good with getting girls, and the cash-strapped lover\nhas simply conditioned himself to be more appealing on a greater number\nof dimensions. Of course, if you could take all the advantages of the\ncash-strapped lover and give him cash to splash around too, then you\u0027d\nhave a hybrid who does better than either... but I\u0027ve seen this only a\nhandful of times in my life. Very often you\u0027ll see cash-splashing men\nwho don\u0027t know how to close, and get girls very worked up and excited,\nonly for them to be picked up at the end of the night by cash-strapped\nlover types.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOn throwing around cash when wealthy as opposed to being a middle\nmanager: I\u0027d very much agree with you, however, what you\u0027ll find is\nthat usually the ones who are ACTUALLY throwing around cash are either\n1.) trust fund babies who haven\u0027t had to work for what they have and\ndon\u0027t really value it, 2.) the \u0022suddenly rich\u0022, like professional\nathletes or singers, or 3.) those middle managers who think they\u0027re\nhotter stuff than they are, and are just saying \u0022charge it\u0022 to\neverything because they\u0027ve got a corporate expense account they can put\na little wear and tear on or they just got a promotion and they want to\nenjoy it. The genuinely rich who have earned that wealth slowly over\ntime almost never splash cash around like this, conversely.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EGirls being turned off by cash-splashing: I\u0027ve seen some really\nstrange things around this. I\u0027ve watched a lot of girls who are usually\nnot materialistic, and who will dismiss men doing this as wasteful and\nchildish, nevertheless begin displaying strong signs of attraction\naround these men when these men are conspicuously consuming. The only\nwomen I\u0027ve seen who appear to actually be immune to it are women who\nare simply around it all the time - VIP hosts, women who work with the\nnewly rich, etc. Not every girl ACTS on her excitement - many of them\nyou will even see reject these men, despite their excitement levels,\nbecause either their logic or their nervousness \/ reservations override\nthat excitement - but it is still there.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf you\u0027re already good and have cash to splash around: there are\nways you can do this in small doses that give girls little bursts of\nexcitement without going overboard. e.g., if you order drinks, and a\ngirl says, \u0022Oh, that\u0027s too much! It\u0027s too much!\u0022 and you wave it off\nand are generally unconcerned and just throw your money or card down,\nthat serves as conspicuous consumption, and she\u0027s impressed. In a more\nlogical moment, she may think, \u0022Oh, I wonder if he can REALLY afford\nthat, or if he\u0027s just trying to impress me?\u0022 but there in the moment,\nif you\u0027re genuinely smooth, she gets turned on. It\u0027s the same with\nsomething like a really nice hotel room or a very nice place.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EEven though it\u0027s weath, which would normally up your\nboyfriend\/husband value, conspicuous consumption communicates a message\nto women that says, \u0022This guy spends money on women like he\u0027s very used\nto spending money on women - he\u0027s NOT going to stick around!\u0022 So, maybe\na little counterintuitively, rather than up provider value, it actually\nnukes provider value and ups lover value. Of course, if you stick\naround, buy her expensive gifts, chase after her, and start assuring\nher there really is nobody else - you can move into boyfriend land.\nOtherwise, from what I\u0027ve seen, guys who conspicuously consume and get\ngirls they want as girlfriends who\u0027ve watched them conspicuously\nconsume actually have a REALLY hard time getting those girls to trust\nthem... their relationships are tumultuous. It can be fun to do when\nyou\u0027re single and have cash to burn, but when you start looking for a\nrelationship, you want to nix this behavior and - if you ever let on\nthat you used to do it - make it pretty clear that your days of\nconspicuous consumption are over.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/p\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1215\/15521\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-15387\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/15387#comment-15387\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Troy\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Troy\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Troy\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Troy\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/15387#comment-15387\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003Ei might try it but prefer to not throw it away!\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ETroy (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Thursday, 17 October 2013  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/how-conspicuous-consumption-helps-men-get-laid\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHey Chase,\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E   This article was an eye opener for me! i might use a little conspicous consumption in the future, yeah!. Today\u003Cbr \/\u003E\ni have a topic that is not directly related to seduction but i want to share what ive learnt with you chase and the girlschase readers.  \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E     You recently put up an article on getting turned on and beating approach anxiety with new girls. I have read the forums and seen several persons with this problem. One of that to getting turned on that i have some experience with is \u0022penis size and confidence in the bedroom\u0022. I have found by research that most men think that their penis is too small and it makes men low on confidence, feel inadequate to do the job and get what the girl and guy wants.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E     Now i have experienced small penis syndrome. my dick is 5 inches which is average but i always felt insecure about my size. i decided to do something about it and now i am currently making my dick bigger. ive gained some girth and 1\/4 inch length after 8 months exercising my dick. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E    What i want to share with you that you can share with the girlschase readers here is this website url: \u003Ca href=\u0022http:\/\/www.google.com.jm\/gwt\/x?gl=JM\u0026amp;hl=en-JM\u0026amp;u=http:\/\/www.pegym.com\/\u0026amp;q=pe+gym\u0026amp;sa=X\u0026amp;ei=Wh5gUtXwBoXg8ATO64GgDw\u0026amp;ved=0CB0QFjAA\u0022\u003EPEGYM\u003C\/a\u003E. A quick google search and there it is. i stumbled upon girlschase.com and pegym.com at the same time and they have made a great impact on my life ever since. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ECurrently im working on four things in my life:\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n1) My social skills (using your insightful information)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E2) My school work and degree\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E3) Becoming a better athlete ( a 400m sprint runner) and toning my muscles at the gym.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E4) My penis exercise routine for improved confidence and higher testerserone levels.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E    Please to check out pegym.com and tell me what you think about it and if anyone got any questions regarding penis size that you refer them to there because you told me that you would need someone a little more informed to avoid this being hear say!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003Ethanks much from your reader, Troy!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1215\/15387\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-15525\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/15525#comment-15525\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/15525#comment-15525\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EPEGYM\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Saturday, 19 October 2013  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/how-conspicuous-consumption-helps-men-get-laid\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/15387#comment-15387\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003ETroy-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe site\u0027s rather poorly laid out, and seems to be just a jumble of HTML and images - I\u0027m assuming you mean the stuff on jelqing?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EA brief Google search on \u0022jelqing\u0022 turns up \u003Ca href=\u0022http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Penis_enlargement#Jelqing\u0022\u003Ethis Wikipedia article\u003C\/a\u003E that cites research showing that, despite claims by adherents of results, these don\u0027t appear to hold up in laboratory studies, which probably means there\u0027s some measurement bias happening among believers (if it can\u0027t be replicated by people doing it in controlled settings with precise measurements).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThere also appears to be some measure of risk of \u0022 blood vessel tearing, scar formation, pain, disfigurement, and desensitization of the penis if done incorrectly\u0022 - I think I\u0027d probably advise guys to focus more on sleeping with more women, which will almost certainly (and very quickly) dispel any concerns they have about penis size.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1215\/15525\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-15927\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/15927#comment-15927\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Troy\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Troy\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Troy\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Troy\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/15927#comment-15927\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003Etwo sides to the story\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ETroy (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Sunday, 27 October 2013  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/how-conspicuous-consumption-helps-men-get-laid\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/15525#comment-15525\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EChase!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E       Well i would agree with you that sleeping with girls is better than doing some penis exercises to make it bigger. For several reasons sleeping with girls out weighs the time to do penis exercises such as:\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n1) No abstaining from sex since sex can diminish penis growth. More sex is best than pulling at your dick. I agree!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E2) Attraction doesnt expire with girls since you take action.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E3) More experience, increased dominance and confidence as a result of sleeping with girls instead of doing penis exercises with little to no sex.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E     However, i find there to be good advantages to doing these penis exercises:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E1) It builds confidence knowing that you have a nice bulge in your pants.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E2) Penis size influences girls attration levels when it is bigger than average.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E3) Gives advantages to hit a girl in areas she no other guy could reach before.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E     So i would say there are both advantages and disadvantages to choosing between sleeping with girls and penis exercises. Also, when it comes to penis exericises, it is only when the exercises are not done properly that there are bad side effects.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E     So to wrap this up, i am in High School and i believe that students should abstain from sex and just focus on meeting lots of girls and improving until they leave school, and then they can have sexual relationships. So i agree partly with you, Chase, but i am young so now is the best time for me to improve my school grades, my penis size and meeting lots of girls at the same time until im older.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E    Much respect to you my seduction and socializing teacher and keep doing what you do best on here!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E- Troy\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1215\/15927\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-15388\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/15388#comment-15388\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/15388#comment-15388\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EMartial Arts\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAnonymous (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Thursday, 17 October 2013  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/how-conspicuous-consumption-helps-men-get-laid\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHey Chase!\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nThis is off-topic, but something I\u0027ve wanted to ask you about. You\u0027ve mentioned a couple times that you are learning some martial arts. Can you explain a little more which type you are learning and what you think the merits of that style are; why you chose it over others, etc.? \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThanks!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1215\/15388\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-15528\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/15528#comment-15528\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/15528#comment-15528\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ERe: Martial Arts\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Saturday, 19 October 2013  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/how-conspicuous-consumption-helps-men-get-laid\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/15388#comment-15388\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EAnon-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\n\u003Cp\u003ESure. I\u0027m taking Krav Maga right now, basically because it\u0027s one of the most practical self-defense systems that\u0027s taught, and is focused on repetitively drilling you on being able to respond to real-world threats until you have an automatic response. Things like being choked, being attacked on the ground, dealing with multiple attackers, dealing with knife and gun attacks (in my last class, we disarmed attackers with AK-47s pointed at our heads), and things like this.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\n\u003Cp\u003EHere\u0027s a video on Krav:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\n\u003Cp style=\u0022text-align:center;\u0022\u003E\u003C!-- VIDEO FILTER - INVALID CODEC IN: [video:http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=Iv4rdJ0EKS0] --\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\n\u003Cp\u003EThe other one I hear highly recommended and have a lot of friends endorse is Wing Chun - here\u0027s a video on that:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\n\u003Cp style=\u0022text-align:center;\u0022\u003E\u003C!-- VIDEO FILTER - INVALID CODEC IN: [video:http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=hp9-jKO_K98] --\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\n\u003Cp\u003EWhat my Wing Chun friends tell me is Krav has a faster learning curve, but Wing Chun is ultimately the more powerful style - basically, someone who\u0027s trained in Krav Maga for one year will beat someone who\u0027s trained in Wing Chun for one year, but someone who\u0027s trained in Wing Chun for 10 years probably beats someone who\u0027s trained in Krav Maga for 10 years.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\n\u003Cp\u003EAnyway, I\u0027m too busy to spend more than 4 to 6 hours on training a week, and figured Krav probably gives me the faster learning curve, plus earlier training on dealing with weapon disarms, so went with that, at least for now.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1215\/15528\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-15392\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/15392#comment-15392\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/15392#comment-15392\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EForeign\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAnonymous (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Thursday, 17 October 2013  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/how-conspicuous-consumption-helps-men-get-laid\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003ECan you make an article on how to attract english women from the united kingdom, like do they find american men attractive\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1215\/15392\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-15529\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/15529#comment-15529\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/15529#comment-15529\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EEnglish Women\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Saturday, 19 October 2013  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/how-conspicuous-consumption-helps-men-get-laid\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/15392#comment-15392\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EAnon-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYes - I have that one on the article queue.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMeantime, English women aren\u0027t all THAT different from their American peers - they just have a drier sense of humor, and are a little bit softer in demeanor. They do like Americans - attractive Americans who have their fundamentals down, of course ;)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1215\/15529\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-15398\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/15398#comment-15398\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022J.B\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022J.B\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022J.B\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022J.B\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/15398#comment-15398\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EI remembered you mentioned in\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EJ.B (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Thursday, 17 October 2013  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/how-conspicuous-consumption-helps-men-get-laid\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EI remembered you mentioned in article that a women will either be attractive to you or not from the get go and that little will change their mind because attraction is either there or not. But i was wondering how men like Style or Mystery who are not that attractive hooked women that were more attractive than they were. Can you explain this a little further?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1215\/15398\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-15531\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/15531#comment-15531\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/15531#comment-15531\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EAttraction\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Saturday, 19 October 2013  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/how-conspicuous-consumption-helps-men-get-laid\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/15398#comment-15398\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EJ.B.-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYes, for the most part, attraction is either there or it isn\u0027t. It certainly CAN be there with women who are more physically attractive than you - if you\u0027re \u0022kind of physically attractive\u0022 and she\u0027s \u0022very physically attractive\u0022, that\u0027s not necessarily going to preclude her from being attracted to you if you have a lot going on. I\u0027m assuming you\u0027re talking about physical attractiveness here - on overall attractiveness, people tend to end up with people who are similarly attractive to them overall.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003Ee.g., a guy may be plain-looking but well-dressed, witty, and sexual, and ends up with a girl who is cute, but made up to look HOT with her hair, makeup, and clothes, and maintains an externally high-value-looking aloof appearance. The two are of roughly equal \u0022overall\u0022 attractiveness.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe reason why I harp on fundamentals so much is that these are the things that let you upgrade the caliber of woman you end up together with. The more attractive you make yourself overall, the more attractive will be the women you get overall, too.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1215\/15531\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-15409\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/15409#comment-15409\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Knight\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Knight\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Knight\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Knight\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/15409#comment-15409\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EGold\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EKnight (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Friday, 18 October 2013  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/how-conspicuous-consumption-helps-men-get-laid\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHa, I was about to post the exact same gold digger prank! Lucky I read the article before I posted. I reckon that man could do pretty well for himself if he learnt what you teach. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1215\/15409\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-15431\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/15431#comment-15431\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/15431#comment-15431\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EThe dirth of time and abundance mentality\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAnonymous (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Friday, 18 October 2013  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/how-conspicuous-consumption-helps-men-get-laid\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003Ehey chase, i recently read your article on cold approach. and i must say i am a huge fan of cold approach. But i would like ur opinion on this. i am still new to picking up girls and even though am practicing. I age 25 and on the verge of making some of the most important decisions of my life.. I have to juggle my university, student job, the pressure of adjusting in a foreign land as well as work on my dream of being an entreupeneur some day. But still i want to be able to sleep with the girls am attracted to. The problem is its nearly impossible for me to go out every night, i can hardly go out may be on the weekends.This doesnt allow me to have multiple options or abundance mentality... and even though i have 4 or 5 or them juggling them is such a difficulty as there is absolutely not enough time or mental space. What key factors would you suggest that would allow me to stay out of scarcity but at the same time keep a rotation of girls the few of them that you encounter...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1215\/15431\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-15532\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/15532#comment-15532\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/15532#comment-15532\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ERe: The dirth of time and abundance mentality\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Saturday, 19 October 2013  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/how-conspicuous-consumption-helps-men-get-laid\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/15431#comment-15431\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EAnon-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EUnfortunately, there\u0027s really no way to \u0022hack\u0022 abundance mentality - you only get it by having a history of experience with women and confidence in your ability (based on actual results) to get new women in quick amounts of time.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt\u0027s the same as abundance with anything else - say, with money; the only way you can feel like $10 million is an abundant resource is if you\u0027ve already made $200 million, and you have a business or contacts in place that allow you to raise $10 million at the drop of a hat, more or less.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYou can will it all you want before you get there, but there\u0027s really no way to truly have abundance until you actually have abundance, as it were.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf you don\u0027t have time to work on girls, the best you can do is just keep in mind that you\u0027re emotionally overreacting - at least a little bit - because you don\u0027t have an abundance mentality on women yet, and try to logically tamp down and control some of those overreactions when you see them and can head them off at the pass.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1215\/15532\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-15493\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/15493#comment-15493\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Alex T\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Alex T\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Alex T\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Alex T\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/15493#comment-15493\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ELTR etc\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAlex T (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Saturday, 19 October 2013  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/how-conspicuous-consumption-helps-men-get-laid\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EOn another articles comment section you were talking about how most people eventually cave into their nature and end up with kids and a long term partner etc, because that is what the brain and body want.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd I agree, you see this happen everywhere, even to the guys you swore would never have kids etc because they just wernt the type - they end up having kids.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHowever whilst I accept that this is a normal pattern in a healthy life, and do believe that at some point I probably will have kids and maybe even marry a girl if that\u0027s what she really desires (though marriage is definitely not something I\u0027m sold on) I do genuinely believe that after maybe 5 years or even longer until the kids are older that in most cases people do start to crave single life again\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EGuys do start to crave casual sex, it\u0027s yet another natural pattern. \u00a0This pattern though is one that few guys act upon. In effort to maintain a strong family.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMy questions:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E1) Does this not mean that there is a problem with the way we currently view family\u0027s etc, doesn\u0027t it in many ways inhibit our natural urges and tendencies, and force us to stop ourselves from acting upon them\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E2) Is there any research in what happens to a mans testosterone, drive \u0026amp; libido etc after he caves into that \u0027settling down\u0027 period for some time.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E3) what are your thoughts on dealing with those times in a settled relationship where inevitably you end up thinking \u0027hmm this has been great but I really lust at the thought of sleeping around again, haven\u0027t done that for years\u0027.\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E4) The act of \u0027settling down INDEFINITELY\u0027 to me just doesn\u0027t seem natural, I genuinely do not believe that relationships are meant to last forever, it\u0027s just human psychology, once we have had something for a while it begins to lose it value, except maybe in very rare true love soul mate style relationships that perhaps retain love over time (but I\u0027m not even sure if these exist). So then what is the answer? Give into what we desire and go back on the prowl or what?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EGuess it depends on just how long you\u0027ve maintained LTR with kids, if you started when you were 40 and were with a girl for 15 years and now at 55 your having these urges but you just think ah too late for me. \u00a0 But if you started younger and your only 40 something is it right or wrong to chase after what you are craving?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThanks Chase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1215\/15493\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-15534\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/15534#comment-15534\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/15534#comment-15534\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EOver the Long Term\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Saturday, 19 October 2013  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/how-conspicuous-consumption-helps-men-get-laid\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/15493#comment-15493\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EAlex-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EGood questions.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ELong-term monogamy does go against our natures - both men\u0027s and women\u0027s; in hunter-gatherer groups, even where there is monogamy, there is invariably high levels of infidelity by partners of both sexes, and frequent break ups of monogamous relationships (including those with children). It\u0027s only in our relatively recent settled \/ agrarian lifestyles that monogamy has come to the fore, because it allows for more productive societies that steamroll their less productive non-monogamous ones.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMonogamy is a sort of \u0022sacrifice by the individual for the good of society\u0022 type deal; your life is not \u003Cem\u003Equite\u003C\/em\u003E as fulfilling, but society overall is better off and, hence, the genes that you pass on are better off too, and stand a better chance of surviving and flourishing. So it\u0027s a weird structure in a way that is at once both useful and sometimes not so satisfying.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMen\u0027s testosterone noticeably plunges in committed long-term relationships; the sole exception is among men who do not view themselves as monogamous - e.g., who continue looking for other women and who have affairs. These men do not see the testosterone drops that their more faithful peers do. Men with lowered testosterone levels presumably make for more easily-controlled mates, behave more agreeably, and end up in relationships more likely to last the test of time.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOn how you deal with getting \u0022the itch\u0022: that\u0027s got to be up to you, and what you decide is best for you, for the woman you\u0027re with, and for any children involved if it\u0027s a relationship that\u0027s produced children. There\u0027s a hard decision to make there that\u0027s going to affect everyone, and some sacrifices are going to have to be made one way or the other - because at that point, what everybody wants is no longer in line, and something or somebody has got to give. No easy answer there, I\u0027m afraid; there are plenty of people who will happily tell you what you \u0022should\u0022 do, but no one really has the answers. I might suggest, if the itch gets too bad, simply talking to your girl and saying, \u0022I\u0027m getting this itch for other women, and I\u0027m not sure if I can control it much longer, but I don\u0027t want to hurt you, either. What do we do?\u0022 She might elect to end the relationship, or she might say or do something else that surprises you entirely. She might say she\u0027s getting the itch for other men, too - and then you\u0027ll be facing some interesting decisions about what happens next.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThis is one area where I wish there was a cleaner, easier answer, but there really isn\u0027t. It comes down to \u0022Someone\u0027s going to get hurt, and someone\u0027s not going to get what he or she wants\u0022 and maybe more than one someone if there are kids there too. We seem to be undergoing a cultural transition right now where it\u0027s becoming increasingly accepted for men and women to come together for a while, bear children, then split up again to pursue new mates, similar to our hunter-gatherer origins. However, until the transition is complete, we\u0027re facing a lot of very bristly emotional situations with a lot of expectations based on outmoded ideals that aren\u0027t anywhere near as relevant for the times today as they were in the times they emerged.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1215\/15534\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-15527\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/15527#comment-15527\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Henry\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Henry\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Henry\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Henry\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/15527#comment-15527\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EGood points\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EHenry (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Saturday, 19 October 2013  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/how-conspicuous-consumption-helps-men-get-laid\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EChase,\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EGreat points about the reasoning behind why you shouldn\u0027t throw your money around. I get a kick out seeing chumps throw money at women only to have them go home with someone else.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBy the way, I\u0027ve been waiting forever for the article about moving out to a new city and starting new! :) Do you think it\u0027ll be up sometime soon?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThanks,\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nHenry\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1215\/15527\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-15535\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/15535#comment-15535\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/15535#comment-15535\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ENew City, Fresh Start\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Saturday, 19 October 2013  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/how-conspicuous-consumption-helps-men-get-laid\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/15527#comment-15527\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHenry-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAh, thanks for the reminder - I vaguely remember someone asking about that ages ago (or me saying something about that), but I think that was before I started keeping track of article ideas - just searched, and it wasn\u0027t on the list. I\u0027ve added it there.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAs far as when it hits the site, well - if one of the other writers elects to tackle that one, it may come up sooner, but that \u0022move overseas\u0022 article took a lot out of me on relocations for now - I spent half a day writing that damn thing (it was 14,000 words), and just thinking about another \u0022move\u0022 article makes my stomach frown.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt\u0027ll get here sooner or later though - especially now that it\u0027s made it onto the list!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1215\/15535\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-15533\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/15533#comment-15533\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022V\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022V\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022V\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022V\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/15533#comment-15533\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ECharacteristics Of Authority\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EV (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Saturday, 19 October 2013  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/how-conspicuous-consumption-helps-men-get-laid\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHello Chase, What are characteristics of authority? Thank you!!!!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1215\/15533\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-15536\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/15536#comment-15536\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/15536#comment-15536\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ERe: Characteristics Of Authority\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Saturday, 19 October 2013  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/how-conspicuous-consumption-helps-men-get-laid\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/15533#comment-15533\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EV-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThink of an imposing police officer, or school teacher, or boss -\nanyone you instantly meet and feel some mixture of fear and respect\ntoward. That\u0027s authority.\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe main characteristics of an authority figure are mainly that this\nis someone who has power over you but whom you do \u003Cspan\nstyle=\u0022font-style: italic;\u0022\u003Enot\u003C\/span\u003E have power over. e.g., your\nboss can fire you; you can \u003Cspan style=\u0022font-style: italic;\u0022\u003Enot\u003C\/span\u003E\nfire your boss.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo, chiefly down to one-sided power dynamics: they can do to you,\nbut you cannot do to them. People adore authority figures who treat\nthem fairly and well, and they despise authority figures who do not.\nYou might also say that being placed on a pedestal is something else\nthat goes along with being an authority figure; you are no longer a\n\u0022person\u0022, but rather a \u0022figure\u0022 instead.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/p\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1215\/15536\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-15543\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/15543#comment-15543\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Alex T\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Alex T\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Alex T\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Alex T\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/15543#comment-15543\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EFurther on LTR\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAlex T (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Saturday, 19 October 2013  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/how-conspicuous-consumption-helps-men-get-laid\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHey Chase thanks for the response to my comment on LTRs above.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYes I agree most men will be faced with that horrible decision at some point during an LTR where their desire for new women becomes so much that they have to act upon it.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E1) In another articles comment section you said that if you begin to like a girl a lot or rather if you really like her from the off you will pursue a LTR with her, but what are your thoughts on monogamy in LTRs?  This girl you like would you remain monogamous with her for 10+ months\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBecause in my thinking , if at some point during a relationship your going to come to lust after other women, wouldn\u0027t it be a better idea to have these LTRs non monagamous  from the START so that you DON\u0027T have to face that terrible and awkward situation of explaining to a potential wife and kids that you are going to be being with someone else sometimes etc\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMonogamy to me really does seem silly actually. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E2) Then the problem we arrive at is convincing these potential girlfriends that yes you do like them but also that you are a man who will always at some point want other women, so let us have this relationship in a way that allows us if we want to experiment with other people.  How do you inconceivable a girl that though?  My thinking is that at this time in life it really isn\u0027t possible?  So should LTRs really be something worth pursuing at this point?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E3) Such a tricky situation still because I\u0027ll admit whilst I\u0027d love to have a\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nGirlfriend and kids in a non monogamous relationship I don like the thought of her being with other men that much... So unfair ha\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EFuck all that maybe I\u0027ll just stick to casual and ONS\u0027s ha much easier.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1215\/15543\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-15687\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/15687#comment-15687\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/15687#comment-15687\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EMonogamy \/ One-Sided Monogamy\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 21 October 2013  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/how-conspicuous-consumption-helps-men-get-laid\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/15543#comment-15543\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EAlex-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u0027m a big believer that you want to always start your relationships\noff as casual \/ ambiguous, as discussed in \u0022\u003Ca\nhref=\u0022\/content\/how-start-relationship-new-girlfriend\u0022\u003EHow to Start a\nRelationship with a New Girlfriend\u003C\/a\u003E.\u0022 After that, depending on your\ngoals and what you\u0027re trying to accomplish, you can move to monogamy a\nfew months down the line if you want, though it\u0027s better to keep her at\nleast \u003Cspan style=\u0022font-style: italic;\u0022\u003Esomewhat\u003C\/span\u003E uncertain as\nto whether you really have hung up your single guy cape. Not\nfreaking-out-all-the-time uncertain, but not entirely sure.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf your biggest goal socially \/ romantically is building your skill\nset with women, you should NOT do monogamy until (at least) you achieve\nyour goals - suck it up and just tell women your life is too unstable\nright now to commit to anything serious or exclusive, and that you\u0027ll\nonly end up hurting them if you try, and you don\u0027t want to do that and\nyou don\u0027t want to lie. It\u0027ll suck to say if you find a girl you really\nlike, but you\u0027ll also realize some pretty incredible things about how\ncrazy attracted women get to you when they CAN\u0027T lock you down, and how\nmuch even high caliber women whom you previously thought would \u0022never\nbe with\u0022 a man like that actually will be.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAs far as monogamy in general, there are plenty of people (and\nplenty of men) who just WANT this, and if you want it, I see no problem\nwith it... although I do recommend making sure you want it because you \u003Cspan\nstyle=\u0022font-style: italic;\u0022\u003Ewant\u003C\/span\u003E it, and not because you\u0027re\nscared of losing a given girl and think that promising her your undying\nfidelity is the only way not to.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAs for one-sided monogamy, when you\u0027re in a relationship with a girl\nand you tell her you just can\u0027t give her the kind of settled commitment\nshe\u0027s looking for right now, if you\u0027re meeting her needs as a\nrelationship partner, she will invariably settle into an exclusive\nrelationship with you if she\u0027s anything other than sex-crazy. However,\nthis only occurs after large amounts of drama and efforts to shoehorn\nyou into the relationship structure she wants you in. If you can\nwithstand that, eventually it settles down, she decides that you\u0027re\nstronger than any other man she\u0027s ever been with, and falls harder for\nyou than anyone she\u0027s ever fallen for. Any disruption to meeting her\nneeds though will cause all these problems to come crashing back to the\nfore, and if she\u0027s too open about the unconventional nature of your\nrelationship with friends, family, coworkers, etc., or they start to\npick up on it on their own, they will pressure her until she bursts.\nThat makes this a very challenging relationship structure to run - it\u0027s\nrewarding, but it also takes a great deal of time and effort and\nemotional energy (probably why most guys just yield to monogamy - it\u0027s\na lot easier, if less rewarding).\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/p\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1215\/15687\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-15558\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/15558#comment-15558\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022hunt\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022hunt\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022hunt\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022hunt\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/15558#comment-15558\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EYounger Girls\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003Ehunt (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Saturday, 19 October 2013  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/how-conspicuous-consumption-helps-men-get-laid\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EChase,\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EGreat article, this is a very interesting subject. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ECould you make an article on how to get younger girls? I know that theres not going to be too much of a difference if youve aced your fundamentals, but I remember in a previous article you said that you can get away with being more of an \u0027asshole\u0027 because younger girls\u0027 view on social power isnt as developed as girls that are more mature. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWould be cool to know what you think\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHunt\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1215\/15558\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-15689\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/15689#comment-15689\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/15689#comment-15689\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ERe: Younger Girls\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 21 October 2013  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/how-conspicuous-consumption-helps-men-get-laid\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/15558#comment-15558\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHunt-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESure - it\u0027s on the list! Basically, yeah - you need to be a bit more blunt, lead harder, kill some of the subtlety, and be a bit more of a dick (especially if you\u0027re younger yourself - not so much if you\u0027re older, as attainability becomes an issue here). Younger girls are less practiced socially, and need you to take charge more and show them what to do, and not use so much subtlety that you\u0027re over their heads, as can happen if you become calibrated to women in their mid- to late-20s, or older, etc.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1215\/15689\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-15562\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/15562#comment-15562\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/15562#comment-15562\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ESemi-experienced in this dating game but got stymied\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAnonymous (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Saturday, 19 October 2013  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/how-conspicuous-consumption-helps-men-get-laid\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHi Chase, I figured this was a little more relevant to another article but here goes:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThere\u0027 s this girl (we are both college students) that i hooked up with twice... and didnt hook up again when she got a bf. Their relationship lasted for a year but once they broke up she called me over and we had sex once. That was before the summer.. We were not in the same area so we texted each other a couple of times, met up once.. but when we got back to college after the summer break i just couldnt get her to follow any of my requests. I asked her out 4 times, shes always busy (but she is) but she never reschedules on her own volition. we were about to room together for a quick weekend getaway this week (so i was like hell yes!) , but she found someone else to room with (some girl) and she immediately changed her plans. But she keeps texting (maybe for emotional validation) so... \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003Ea) is this recoverable?\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nb) is this worth recovering?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESome background on this girl: I know shes a little on the party-girl side, i know a couple of the guys shes hooked up with before so I figured getting together after she turned single shouldn\u0027t be too hard but clearly this isn\u0027t the case. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1215\/15562\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-15691\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/15691#comment-15691\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/15691#comment-15691\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EFormer Hookup Going Cold\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 21 October 2013  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/how-conspicuous-consumption-helps-men-get-laid\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/15562#comment-15562\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EAnon-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThat happens when for one reason or another the girl just isn\u0027t all\nthat excited about sleeping with you. There\u0027s not a whole lot you can\ndo when she\u0027s already had you three times... that\u0027s the point at which,\nif you\u0027re giving her what she needs, she\u0027s sold on you, and wants more\nand more, or, if she isn\u0027t, she\u0027s ambivalent, and can take it or leave\nit (right now she\u0027s leaving it).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe best thing you can do at this point is get her to join you at a\nparty where there are other attractive girls (ideally, more attractive\nthan she is) who like you and will be flirting with you. Build some \u003Ca\nhref=\u0022\/content\/how-preselection-can-get-you-girls\u0022\u003Epreselection\u003C\/a\u003E,\nlet her see that other women desire you, and her competitive instincts\nwill come back out to play and make her want you again.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThen, next time you\u0027re in bed, really do a good job and give her a\nhell of an experience to turn her into a repeat customer - see these\narticles on this:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cul\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/how-be-good-lover-and-give-girl-orgasms\u0022\u003EHow to\nBe a Good Lover (and Give a Girl Orgasms)\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/make-her-orgasm-hard-sex-8-minutes-or-less\u0022\u003EMake\nHer Orgasm Hard from Sex in 8 Minutes or Less\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/how-start-relationship-new-girlfriend\u0022\u003EHow to\nStart a Relationship with a New Girlfriend\u003C\/a\u003E\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/p\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1215\/15691\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-15603\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/15603#comment-15603\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/nick\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Nick\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Nick\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Nick\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Nick\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/15603#comment-15603\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EHey Chase,How do you deal\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/nick\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/nick\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ENick\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Sunday, 20 October 2013  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/how-conspicuous-consumption-helps-men-get-laid\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHey Chase,\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nHow do you deal with people(friends or people not close to) who have experienced a great loss recently(death of family,lost house,etc.). People usually just offer their condolences\u0022so sorry for your loss\u0022 or just act awkward. What is a good way to act genuine?  \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAlso, interesting questions alex asked. I have been thinking about this a lot lately and I don\u0027t think I will ever do monogamy just open relationships. To many good women out there just to only wrestle in the sheets with one for 30 years.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n I would like it if the girl pursued other men, so she is happy, my organ doesn\u0027t detach( from all her attacks), so she doesn\u0027t complain about spending so much time together(cause to much of a good thing is bad), but if you build yourself into a high value man and an amazing lover will she pursue other men or just only want you for herself?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E Its possible to have an open relationship while married with kids but how viable is it? I can speculate all kinds of problems with it.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThis is where I get stuck I want one thing but I don\u0027t know how good it would be with kids,lover and best friend, other lovers and all that responsibility. I will have my muse(4 hour workweek term) before I start a family so I have more time with the kids but still I just don\u0027t have enough information to make a decision.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI am making an assumption but I can\u0027t imagine you having kids while doing the whole \u0022till death do us part\u0022 ;) so I bet we have the same problem. Please let me know if you find a solution and I will also try to find one.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMuch Success,\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nNick\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1215\/15603\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-15612\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/15612#comment-15612\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Alex T\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Alex T\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Alex T\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Alex T\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/15612#comment-15612\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EInteresting\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAlex T (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Sunday, 20 October 2013  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/how-conspicuous-consumption-helps-men-get-laid\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/15603#comment-15603\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EYeh I find the whole monogamy\/non monagamous\/open relationship thing to be very interesting too.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt\u0027s hard to really decide which is the right path to take.  In many ways it seems an individual thing (some guys probably would be happy with just one girl of that all they belive they are capable of) but many guys like us will always long for other women after a spell of monagamy, it\u0027s just nature.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe question is, is it right to act upon that nature.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u0027ve kinda come to the thinking that if you let the girl know and if she is happy with a non monagamous relationship (not one where you absolutely HAVE to have sex with other people, but where the idea is open and accepted if at some point you wish to pursue) then actually I see no reason why that relationship cannot be a happy and healthy one.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe problem comes for me when kids get involved.  It\u0027s your duty as a father to bring those kids up in a happy, supportive and safe environment where those kids feel secure and develop into happy balanced individuals with good morals.  Can you do all that in a non monagamous relationship?  Jury\u0027s out for me, would love to hear chases thoughts on this.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI think maybe this is where the sacrifice comes into play.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAccept monagamy, marriage and convention in order to bring up those kids properly\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nOR accept that you are just not to type of person who is meant to have kids, you have abundance mentality, you are in touch with your sexual nature, perhaps this is the curse of becoming a seducer, it does close you off to more conventional things at times.  Question is will you sacrifice your freedom for kids.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EFor me if in the future (long way till kids yet for me) I decide that by living my life the way I want will damage my kids in any way, then actually I think I\u0027d rather opt against kids, and I don\u0027t see anything wrong with that.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI accept most people at some point do start to desire children but I think if you have bee open to women and your sexuality for a long time I really belive that the seducers lifestyle will always be apart of you and that desire for other women will always follow you.  Which is a great thing and at times a not so great thing.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPart of me strongly believes that some people just should not have kids due to personality, lifestyle, circumstances whatever.  \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut hey perhaps bringing up kids in a household where monogamy isn\u0027t practiced would actually turn\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nOut to be a good thing, perhaps it will help install different and beneficial ways of thinking in our kids, perhaps bringing up children in the way we do today is not actually the healthies thing for\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nThem, who knows.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1215\/15612\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-15692\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/15692#comment-15692\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/15692#comment-15692\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ELosses, Monogamy\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 21 October 2013  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/how-conspicuous-consumption-helps-men-get-laid\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/15603#comment-15603\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003ENick-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWith losses, just say, \u0022There\u0027s not much I can do except say I\u0027m sorry, and offer my help if you need it or my ear if you\u0027d like to use it,\u0022 in a quiet, commiserating voice, then either sit quietly with her and put your arm around her or leave her alone (if she\u0027s really heartbroken and just needs to sob), or ask her if she wants to talk about other stuff or if she\u0027d rather be by herself. Many people after your condolences would prefer you to just talk with them more or less as usual (just have a \u003Cem\u003Eslight\u003C\/em\u003E air of sadness \/ delicacy about yourself, but otherwise be your normal chipper self), because it\u0027s a lot easier to deal with pain if everyone else isn\u0027t standing around moping about it and making you feel miserable too.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOn monogamy - let me just say don\u0027t worry about it. You\u0027re still very young, if I recall right - you\u0027ve got plenty of time to figure out what you want here, and you WILL figure it out. Whom you are at 40 is very different from whom you are at 30 is completely different from whom you are at 20. When you\u0027re 20 and trying to figure out what you\u0027re going to do at 35, trust me - you\u0027re going to be very far off the mark. When you look back on the past, it\u0027s easy to see how much you\u0027ve changed, but looking forward to the future, most people greatly underestimate how different they will become.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhen you\u0027re a high value guy, women invariably want to lock you down. You can commence relationships where the woman is exclusive to you - because you\u0027re meeting every one of her needs - but you\u0027ve made it clear you are not, but even then, you must keep that side of things completely discrete around her, because the more reminders of it she has, the more the cognitive dissonance of living in a relationship which every other human being around her in Western culture tells her is wrong, wrong, \u003Cem\u003Ewrong\u003C\/em\u003E (in other cultures, like Africa or the Middle East, there is not this societal pressure for monogamy, and men with multiple lovers is far more accepted; in much of Asia, it\u0027s commonly understood and accepted that men will have mistresses, although if the wives are unhappy, like any other woman, they will stray).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAs for children, you can certainly have these without wedding vows - throughout most of human history, this is the way children were conceived, born, and raised, and it\u0027s quite common in many societies now to have children without marriage as well. In our current setup, these children are normally at a disadvantage because they\u0027re raised in unstable homes, so the challenge if you want children without marriage is mainly a balancing act, as well as a financial one - can you make enough money to support children you aren\u0027t with physically all the time, and hire them outstanding tutors, mentors, put them in great schools, and still be as much of a powerful presence and rock in their life as possible (and continue to have a great relationship with the mother)? Or will you have more ordinary financial means, making it challenging or impossible for you to give them the advantages money brings, and not being able to make up for some or all of that with face time either, since you are not married to the mother and are not always with her? Much of it seems to come down to money, but maintaining a strong relationship with the mother even if you aren\u0027t together (nothing damages children more than their parents hating each other - if your body is built from two people who don\u0027t get along, what does that say about YOU?) and helping and guiding children to lead happy, productive, self-directed lives goes a long way too.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1215\/15692\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-15626\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/15626#comment-15626\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/royce\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Royce\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Royce\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Royce\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Royce\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/15626#comment-15626\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EHighschool Pickup\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/royce\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/royce\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003ERoyce\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Sunday, 20 October 2013  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/how-conspicuous-consumption-helps-men-get-laid\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EGreat article, Chase! It\u0027d be great if you could make an article about high school pickup. Thanks and I appreciate the work you have.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n-Royce\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1215\/15626\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-15634\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/15634#comment-15634\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022african boyo\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022african boyo\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022african boyo\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022african boyo\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/15634#comment-15634\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003Einfidelity\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003Eafrican boyo (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Sunday, 20 October 2013  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/how-conspicuous-consumption-helps-men-get-laid\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHey chase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIve read the article on how to prevent cheating but the reality is that people will cheat more often than not. My question is then how do you recover from being cheated on. Is it just a case of going out and getting more woman\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1215\/15634\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-15642\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/15642#comment-15642\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022african boyo\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022african boyo\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022african boyo\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022african boyo\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/15642#comment-15642\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EMore simply put my question\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003Eafrican boyo (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 21 October 2013  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/how-conspicuous-consumption-helps-men-get-laid\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/15634#comment-15634\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EMore simply put my question is how do you get over the paranoia of thinking every girl will cheat on you again after one or two have done it already\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1215\/15642\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-15693\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/15693#comment-15693\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/15693#comment-15693\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EAdjusting After Cheating\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 21 October 2013  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/how-conspicuous-consumption-helps-men-get-laid\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/15642#comment-15642\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EBoyo-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EProbably the first thing you should do is sit down and do a post-mortem on the relationship - write down everything about it: how it started, how it progressed, why things went into decline, what led to the straying. Unless the girl is crazy \/ a nympho, you can probably pinpoint things you did or things that happened as a result of your actions or behavior that precipitated your woman\u0027s reactions - because women are reactive, they\u0027re almost always doing what they do in response to what YOU do. Once you understand how your actions precipitated her actions, that takes a load off your mind.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe other thing to do is realize that you can never be 100% secure in a relationship - even with the most loyal woman in the world, there\u0027s still a 1% chance that a perfect storm of events occurs to put her in the position of being furious at you and wanting to quit the relationship, meeting her dream guy in an incredibly romantic scenario with perfect logistics, and it \u0022just happening.\u0022 So, you go out, work on your skills with women, get them to the point where you can replace a girlfriend with an equal or better girlfriend in a short period of time, and then the issue of losing a girl to straying becomes more a philosophical one than an emotional one.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt also helps to really enjoy being single and know you have options. If you know this, even in a great relationship, some part of you is going to long for the freedom of no responsibilities to anyone, and mountains of women to tear through 24\/7 once more.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1215\/15693\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-15674\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/15674#comment-15674\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Anonymous\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/15674#comment-15674\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EHaving a problem with girls after first date\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EAnonymous (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 21 October 2013  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/how-conspicuous-consumption-helps-men-get-laid\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHi Chase!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI am currently having a problem with girls after first date, especially dates during the day. I have been able to get better results when alcohol is flowing during the date but sometimes the girl only has time or only wants to do a lunch date. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI do the lunch date, and I am able to get her laughing but sometimes the conversation runs dry at the end and we leave. Then I text her a few hours later saying:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u0022Hey, had a great time talking with you, hope to see you around when were not busy :)\u0022\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E(I realize now that this comes across as like seeking validation but a lot of times I have girls who end up thinking I\u0027m not interested so I did this to make sure they didn\u0027t go into autorejection.)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnyhow, I usually get very spotty interest back from the girl, even though the girl was very excited going in.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI usually attributed this to the fact I didn\u0027t escalate on the girl, but some of the these girls I dated were ultra-conservative, no sex before marriage types too so I am not really sure what is going on. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EDo you have any tips of how I can troubleshoot? \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThanks Chase!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1215\/15674\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-15695\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/15695#comment-15695\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/15695#comment-15695\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ESecond Date\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Monday, 21 October 2013  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/how-conspicuous-consumption-helps-men-get-laid\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/15674#comment-15674\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EAnon-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESee this article: \u0022\u003Ca\nhref=\u0022\/content\/3-second-date-strategies-make-her-flirt-and-swoon\u0022\u003E3\nSecond Date Strategies to Make Her Flirt and Swoon\u003C\/a\u003E\u0022 - particularly\nthe section titled \u0022How to Get a Second Date if Your First Went Okay.\u0022\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EEspecially pay attention to the \u0022trying to be nice\u0022 part (the text\nyou\u0027re sending after the date), and the \u0022ending the date early\u0022 part.\nIf you\u0027re going to sleep with her, you can have a long, drawn-out date\nif you like, then invite her back home and wrap it up with fantastic\nintimacy together. If you\u0027re NOT, don\u0027t draw it out - make it short,\nsnappy, and leave her wanting more. Otherwise, it\u0027s going to get\nawkward, and if she\u0027s the one who has to end the date, that means she\u0027s\nmaking logical decisions, which means it isn\u0027t \u0022magic\u0022 - it isn\u0027t \u0022just\nhappening.\u0022\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd women want to be with men who make things \u0022just happen\u0022, where\nit\u0027s magic. If the girl has to step up and decide to do this or do\nthat, a repeat performance becomes unlikely. You\u0027re the man - you must\nlead.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf you can\u0027t lead her to do anything further with you, then you can\nlead by ending the date and picking up again later.\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/p\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1215\/15695\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-15716\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/15716#comment-15716\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/340breeze\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022340Breeze\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022340Breeze\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022340Breeze\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022340Breeze\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/15716#comment-15716\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EHow to titillate and why do lovers have an easier time?\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/340breeze\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/340breeze\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E340Breeze\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 22 October 2013  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/how-conspicuous-consumption-helps-men-get-laid\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003ETwo questions for you today Mr. Amante.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThere\u0027s alot of awesome content on this site, but there\u0027s so much material that I\u0027m wondering if you\u0027ve written an article or two that ties all the ideas together and illuminates the relationships between the various component parts? My end goal is to put women into a trance state, FAST.  Like within the first or second date time frame, not over months. Make it such that they can\u0027t get enough of me, and give them extreme butterflies.  It\u0027s more than just conversation and deep diving, being dominant, and leading.  It\u0027s the interactivity, spontaneity, improvisation and fun factor.  Show them things they never even knew existed.  \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENothing against american women, but most don\u0027t excite me early on.  They have alot of expectations and requirements and I have to excite them first (put in alot of effort) to get any action!!  I say this because after visiting other countries, particularly Latin countries and locales, I\u0027ve found that women there can be extremely exciting and fun, on their own initiative!! They just bring the energy, and ready to treat you well right away if they like you. In those Latin countries, women still make you work, but it\u0027s fun. A Latin woman will know prior to going out with you that she will sleep with you if you are manly enough,  but she will make it fun for you... make it seem like you won\u0027t get any at all.  She erects enough barriers to confuse you, test you a little to see what you do.  But if you\u0027re confident and you \u0027play along\u0027 and be a little cocky and chase frame her a little, eventually she \u0027surrenders.\u0027 \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo my goal is to learn to do to American women what those Latin women have done to me.  I\u0027ve visited Latin countries (Santo Domingo, San Juan, Brazil) and women that I met were EXPERT seducers.  Some of them seem to live for seduction, as if making a man want them is at the top of their priority lists!  So when reading material on this site for the first time, I thought back on my experiences with them...I had no clue back then (prior to reading this site) how to label the things they did to me.. but now I know that those women personify seduction.  Effortlessness.  Mystery.  Intrigue.  Chase frame.  Push pull.  They know to impact your emotions!  How to give you just enough to excite you and make you crazy for them, but then they suddenly confuse you and are deft at resisting your initial advances.  They see how you look at them, after they made you want them, and they chase frame you for the spite of it then push you away (\u0022I know you want some of this papa, but not tonite!\u0022  And it\u0027s even sexier in their sultry accents!)  They\u0027re beautiful both inside and out, and have good bodies.  And the ones I\u0027ve encountered had just enough attainability. But the thing is, their stuff works well on confident aggressors, and not so much on the weak type of man.  \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo I think that\u0027s part of the problem I run in to when I try to pull this off here in the West sometimes.  A lack of sexual confidence.  Some (but not all) women that I encounter here are visibly uncomfortable on the first date.  Most times I am not yet able to be on auto-pilot and \u0027play along\u0027 with an American woman\u0027s seduction (to me women here want you to seduce them, unlike in Latin locales where if a girl likes you she will seduce you without you even realizing it).  \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EInstead here, I have to spend time trying to calm their nerves and (re)establish any sexual vibe.  I have to deep dive to learn about their stories, ask interesting and thought provoking questions (even though this sometimes gets a bit difficult if a woman is a little dull, or she provides answers that don\u0027t really spark conversation).  It\u0027s like I have to persist hard sometimes just to get conversation going and flowing well.  I have to cut thru bs get her to take off her masks.   This takes a while.  Then if i pass the initial challenge of getting to interesting conversation, then as she warms up slowly, the next challenge is trying  to turn things sexual.  With some women I have to remember to talk about the madonna complex bullshit and that I understand their sexuality and their need to be discreet.   Another challenge is with some girls that if I\u0027m too witty, too cocky, too soon, they tend to auto-reject or give me attitude.   Obviously there are ways to deal with these things (alcohol) but it\u0027s still part of the challenge!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnother challenge is that some women here just don\u0027t take the bait and just don\u0027t respond in seductive ways.  For me, I usually have to repeatedly encourage them to become sexual around me.  Because if you give these women the chance, they would talk about the most boring neutral things that have absolutely nothing to do with seduction.  And I have to keep remembering to twist the words that they say into sexual things, make myself into the object of desire, to flirt, to really lead everything.  More so than I had to in Latin locales.  And it\u0027s all doable of course, but for me it\u0027s a struggle to always have to remember the steps to take. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut my end goal is to titillate the women that I like here in America.  Not just make them like me and want me, but to turn them into putty in my hands.  To give them extreme butterflies.  To do to them what the expert latin women have done to me.  To me, this is the pinnacle of seduction. And I  want to do it FAST! But the challenge I\u0027m learning is dealing with insecurity of the women.  I can\u0027t tell you if I appear effortless or not yet.  Because with some interactions with some women, it\u0027s not effortless at all in my head!  I\u0027m not yet on autopilot and I really have to struggle to keep things going, to remember which steps to take, because without it, the interactions die down fast!   However every now and then, the rare woman comes along where I can just be on autopilot.  Invariably this woman is confident, spicy, interesting, sexually open, and ready to make things happen.  I guess these are the \u0022experienced women\u0022 you speak about in some of your articles.   So how to titillate the more \u0022girl next door\u0022 types without them first having a drink or two? \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd the second question I have is, why is it that the lover guy ends up having a much easier time with women?  I\u0027ve noticed that when you jockey for the bf position, some women (30\u0027s and \u0027traditional\u0027) get emboldened and starts wanting you to \u0022court\u0022 and chase them like it is 1800 (even though they know that they have other \u0022hidden\u0022 suitors).   Why do they make the bf candidates work so hard?  Is it because they know they can get away with their shenanigans with men who aren\u0027t as bold and pushy?   \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHowever, if you manage to become the lover of these same women, and you erect a \u0022no relationship\u0022 barrier, but you treat them extremely well when you\u0027re around they appear to become more attracted to you.  Especially when you don\u0027t even try hard at all, or promise her things like the other guys who are pursuing her do.  Even if you ignore her, and you erect the \u0022no relationship\u0022 barrier, some women start to chase you down (even though they\u0027ve been told that you don\u0027t want a relationship).  \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhy do they end up working so hard for mr. unavailable (who makes them invest with their time, emotions, thoughts (from scintillating convo) and bodies ) but they work less hard for mr. available (who is still good at conversation, and good, logical choice, only difference is he puts in much more effort than the lover because he really likes the girl)?  \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1215\/15716\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-15994\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/15994#comment-15994\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/15994#comment-15994\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003ERe: How to titillate and why do lovers have an easier time?\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 29 October 2013  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/how-conspicuous-consumption-helps-men-get-laid\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/15716#comment-15716\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EHey Breeze-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI responded to another comment posted a few days after yours on the\nsame \u0022where do I start\u0022 topic - we\u0027re rolling out a diagnostic quiz\nthat gives you a downloadable eBook with links to 60 to 80 of the most\nrelevant articles on the site most relevant to where you\u0027re at in a\nvery navigable, useable, not-overwhelming way - that\u0027s coming out\nextremely soon (all four eBooks are done and on the server, just need\nto tie up some loose ends on the quiz tech and we\u0027re live). In the\nmeantime, we do have some other \u0022getting started\u0022 options, and you can\nget a good overview of them in this response I had for the reader with\nthe similar question: \u0022\u003Ca\nhref=\u0022\/content\/how-make-her-love-you-passionate-love-and-old-love#comment-15841\u0022\u003ERe:\nOverwhelmed\u003C\/a\u003E.\u0022\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EGetting women into trance-like states is basically down to a\ncombination of your fundamentals, how deep and intimate you take your\nconversations, and how quickly and intuitively you\u0027re moving things\nforward (so a girl never feels like it\u0027s stalled out... which is maybe\nthe biggest buzz killer of them all). How unshakeably confident\/certain\nof yourself you are and how sexual your voice is are two of the bigger\nfundamentals for this... really strong eye contact and very close\nproximity (leaning in real close, and having her do the same) are quite\nbig as well.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAs for the nervousness \/ discomfort, it might help to think of this\nas a \u0022test\u0022 - it isn\u0027t really, but it functions the same way... if a\ngirl is nervous, and you are sexual and sexually appealing, just keep\nit steady or even dial it up as you go through conversation with her,\nand her nervous energy transitions over into excited energy. If you\nrespond by dialing down your sexual energy, you put yourself into the\n\u0022platonic\u0022 box, which is where less sexually confident women would\nprefer a man be - you simply need to steamroll the girl with sexuality\nwhile building a solid connection with her at the same time. If you do\nthis properly, she\u0027ll \u0022surrender\u0022 to the sexual vibe and say to\nherself, \u0022You know what? This guy\u0027s cool. I\u0027m just going to go with it.\u0022\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf it\u0027s not effortless in your head, but you don\u0027t \u003Cspan\nstyle=\u0022font-style: italic;\u0022\u003Ethink\u003C\/span\u003E you\u0027re coming off awkward or\nincongruent, and you\u0027re reasonably experienced, you\u0027re probably mostly\neffortless-looking to socially attuned girls, and\ncool-but-still-learning to very socially experienced ones. If a girl\u0027s\nnervous around you though (in the excited, \u0022oh no I don\u0027t know how to\ncontrol these feelings what do I do\u0022 sense), she almost certainly sees\nyou as completely smooth, effortless, and well put-together.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnyway, with naturally not-very-sexual women, it really comes down\nto a battle of wills - you\u0027re being sexual, she\u0027s not. So long as you\ncan keep the conversation rolling and going deeper and deeper into who\nshe is, the more she bonds to you, the more she will begin to yield to\nyour frame - the only way you lose this is if you get flustered and\nbreak character, or if she\u0027s just more unflappable than you are.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAs for women getting emboldened with boyfriend candidates - yes, you\nactually reach a point where you can see it in their facial expressions\nor eyes - it\u0027s like a light switch: they first meet you, and it\u0027s\nconfusion, and they\u0027re not sure how to proceed with you, and you do or\nsay something a little too boyfriend-y and they smile and relax and you\ncan \u003Cspan style=\u0022font-style: italic;\u0022\u003Esee\u003C\/span\u003E in their heads\nthey\u0027ve just said, \u0022A HA! \u003Cspan style=\u0022font-style: italic;\u0022\u003EGotcha!\u003C\/span\u003E\nYou want to be my \u003Cspan style=\u0022font-style: italic;\u0022\u003Eboyfriend!\u003C\/span\u003E\nGreat - I know \u003Cspan style=\u0022font-style: italic;\u0022\u003Eexactly\u003C\/span\u003E how to\nplay this one.\u0022\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt\u0027s almost like playing a game of chess (or any other game), where\nyou start off not knowing how your opponent is going to proceed, but\nthen he makes a move that shows you exactly what kind of game he\u0027s\ngoing to play - and you now know just how to beat him.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhat the lover does is he keeps the girl in a state of continual\nconfusion, more or less, as to what he will do next and what his\nintentions are. She\u0027s never able to say with certainty, \u0022There - I\u0027ve\ngot it! He just wants to sleep with me once, and then he\u0027s done with\nme!\u0022 or, \u0022Ah, I know - he wants a relationship with me!\u0022 Instead, she\u0027s\ncontinually strung along, trying to figure out what he\u0027s after and what\nhis deal is and what his angle is, but she can\u0027t quite put a finger on\nit, and that (along with everything else about him) intrigues her even\nmore.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EJust like when you\u0027re playing that chess opponent, and you can \u003Cspan\nstyle=\u0022font-style: italic;\u0022\u003Enot\u003C\/span\u003E figure out his strategy... it\u0027s\nmaddening to you, but also fascinating, and addictive. You\u0027ve \u003Cspan\nstyle=\u0022font-style: italic;\u0022\u003Egot\u003C\/span\u003E to figure it out... you \u003Cspan\nstyle=\u0022font-style: italic;\u0022\u003Ehave\u003C\/span\u003E to figure it out! You\u0027re so \u003Cspan\nstyle=\u0022font-style: italic;\u0022\u003Egood\u003C\/span\u003E at this game, goddamn it...\nthis guy is \u003Cspan style=\u0022font-style: italic;\u0022\u003Enot\u003C\/span\u003E going to\nconfuse you!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe fun drains out of the game the moment you know the strategy the\nother guy\u0027s going to follow and you know that you can beat it. So long\nas he\u0027s a mystery though, you\u0027re intrigued, and you can\u0027t quit playing.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003Cbr\u003E\n\u003C\/p\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1215\/15994\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-15859\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/15859#comment-15859\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/robertnyc\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022robertnyc\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022robertnyc\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022robertnyc\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022robertnyc\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/15859#comment-15859\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EAmazing Article\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/robertnyc\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/robertnyc\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003Erobertnyc\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Friday, 25 October 2013  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/how-conspicuous-consumption-helps-men-get-laid\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003EChase - the amazing thing you did with this article is you accurately turned all the mainstream theory on its head on why women like rich guys.  Mainstream teaching says its because the rich guys have resources and offer the woman stability and security.  But you pointed out that its really the reckless spending the women like and it\u0027s just the opposite of what the mainstream teaches.  \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWomen don\u0027t get turned on by the conservative \u0022millionaire next door\u0022 who saves his money and lives below his means.  It\u0027s actually the opposite because the conspicuous consumption is exciting and fun and demonstrates a \u0022live for today attitude.\u0022  \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBy the way - do you think faking it in this area would be effective?  I have seen guys have a Porsche key chain when they don\u0027t have a Porsche and a replica Rolex.  I realize this may not be the same as actually seeing  the reckless spending in person.  \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1215\/15859\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022indented\u0022\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-15995\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-node-author well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/15995#comment-15995\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n  \u003Cimg class=\u0022authortag\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/all\/themes\/custom\/girlschase\/images\/comment-author-1.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Author\u0022 width=\u002260px\u0022 height=\u002260px\u0022 \/\u003E    \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/picture-1-1492164307.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Chase Amante\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/15995#comment-15995\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EFaking Conspicuous Consumption\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 title=\u0022View user profile.\u0022 class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 about=\u0022\/users\/chase-amante\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EChase Amante\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 29 October 2013  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/how-conspicuous-consumption-helps-men-get-laid\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/comment\/15859#comment-15859\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003ERobert-\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYou know, I\u0027m not sure... but I think it helps a little. I wore counterfeit Rolexes for much of my life, actually - I bought a fake one off a street dealer in New York City when I was 14 years old, and that one last me a number of years. Then in 2006 I bought another counterfeit Rolex in Beijing that I wore a few more years. I eventually ditched the fake Rolexes because I found them too garish \/ ostentatious for where I was taking my fashion sense, but back when I was a teen and much more heavily into \u003Ca href=\u0022\/\/www.girlschase.com\/content\/peacocking-now-scientifically-proven-get-you-girls\u0022\u003Epeacocking\u003C\/a\u003E, I tried to show my Rolex off \u0022accidentally\u0022 whenever I had the chance to... it was my feeling back then that even if people weren\u0027t \u003Cem\u003Esure\u003C\/em\u003E if it was real or not, I got a small status boost from it regardless.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhen I visit China, I notice that just about every woman walking around there has a Gucci bag or Louis Vuitton boots - all knockoffs, of course, bought for a fraction of the price of the real thing, but you\u0027d never be able to tell the difference unless you were a fashion fanatic. Generally, when it comes to figuring out if something is worth doing socially or not, if you see women doing it opportunistically when they have the chance to, it\u0027s probably a safe bet.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo, in this case, all I might say is... it probably doesn\u0027t hurt, and may very well help, though of course not to the magnitude of some of the other examples above.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChase\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E      \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022pull-right\u0022\u003E\u003Cul class=\u0022links list-inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli class=\u0022comment-reply first last\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/reply\/1215\/15995\u0022\u003Ereply\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca id=\u0022comment-86663\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cdiv class=\u0022comment comment-by-anonymous well clearfix\u0022 about=\u0022\/comment\/86663#comment-86663\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:Post sioct:Comment\u0022\u003E\n      \u003Cdiv class=\u0022user-picture\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/all\/modules\/contrib\/lazyloader\/image_placeholder.gif\u0022 alt=\u0022Dameon Jones\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Dameon Jones\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003Cnoscript\u003E\u003Cimg typeof=\u0022foaf:Image\u0022 class=\u0022img-responsive\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.girlschase.com\/sites\/default\/files\/pictures\/circle-guest-85x85.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Dameon Jones\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 title=\u0022Dameon Jones\u0026#039;s picture\u0022 \/\u003E\u003C\/noscript\u003E  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \n    \u003Ch3 property=\u0022dc:title\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/86663#comment-86663\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022\u003EContractions\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022submitted\u0022\u003E\n            Posted by \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:has_creator\u0022\u003E\u003Cspan class=\u0022username\u0022 xml:lang=\u0022\u0022 typeof=\u0022sioc:UserAccount\u0022 property=\u0022foaf:name\u0022 datatype=\u0022\u0022\u003EDameon Jones (not verified)\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E on Tuesday, 29 May 2018  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\n  \u003Cdiv class=\u0022content\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cspan rel=\u0022sioc:reply_of\u0022 resource=\u0022\/content\/how-conspicuous-consumption-helps-men-get-laid\u0022 class=\u0022rdf-meta element-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-items\u0022\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022field-item even\u0022 property=\u0022content:encoded\u0022\u003E\u003Cp\u003ENice article chase. 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