Girls Chase - Get girls chasing YOU! How to meet women, get dates, have relationships http://www.girlschase.com/insights en Making the Approach: Picking and Choosing Girls to Meet http://www.girlschase.com/content/making-approach-picking-and-choosing-girls-meet <div class="field field-type-text field-field-summary"> <div class="field-items"> <div class="field-item odd"> You never really beat approach anxiety – but you can get much more targeted in your approaching. In fact, this is one of the biggest secrets of successful seducers. </div> </div> </div> <div class="field field-type-text field-field-category"> <div class="field-items"> <div class="field-item odd"> Pickup Tech </div> </div> </div> <div class="field field-type-filefield field-field-preview"> <div class="field-items"> <div class="field-item odd"> <img class="imagefield imagefield-field_preview" width="700" height="467" alt="making approaches" src="http://girlschase.girlschaseinc.netdna-cdn.com/sites/default/files/making-approach-3.jpg?1414773288" /> </div> </div> </div> <meta name="description" content="You never really beat approach anxiety – but you can get much more targeted in your approaching. In fact, this is one of the biggest secrets of successful seducers."> <p><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">Note from Chase:</span><span style="font-style: italic;"> this was a “lost article” of Alek’s that was originally supposed to be the a piece in his series on <a href="/content/why-do-girls-act-bitchy-when-you-walk-approach-walls"><span style="font-weight: bold;">bitchy girls</span></a> and </span><a href="/content/hit-and-run-pickup-clubs-if-first-she-does-not-respond"><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">hit and run game</span></a><span style="font-style: italic;">. It slipped through the cracks and never got published. In it, there is a reference to his upcoming article; this article’s in fact already out, and it’ll be linked to where referenced. But that’s the backstory – here’s Alek...</span><br> </p> <hr> <p>We may keep writing articles covering fancy seduction techniques, but what is the point if people don’t go out there and try them out?</p> <p>Fact is, most people stay at home and don’t talk much to women, not because they are lazy, but because they suffer from approach anxiety. Now, many of you might consider this to be a post for beginners, <span style="font-weight: bold;">but, as a matter of fact, many more experienced seducers have trouble approaching too</span>.</p> <p><img style="width: 100%;" alt="making the approach" src="http://girlschase.girlschaseinc.netdna-cdn.com/images/making-approach.jpg"></p> <p>I will here share a confession and some insights on approach anxiety while criticizing the classic way of doing things (i.e., approach a lot until you get used to it). 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So what’s the deal with gay guys – why do girls like them so much? </div> </div> </div> <div class="field field-type-text field-field-category"> <div class="field-items"> <div class="field-item odd"> Female Mind </div> </div> </div> <div class="field field-type-filefield field-field-preview"> <div class="field-items"> <div class="field-item odd"> <img class="imagefield imagefield-field_preview" width="700" height="467" alt="girls like gay guys" src="http://girlschase.girlschaseinc.netdna-cdn.com/sites/default/files/girls-like-gay-guys-3.jpg?1414657287" /> </div> </div> </div> <meta name="description" content="You might’ve already noticed, but some girls REALLY like to hang out with their gay friends. So what’s the deal with gay guys – why do girls like them so much?"> <p style="font-style: italic;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">Note from Chase:</span> this is a guest post from Sarah Williams of Wingman Magazine. In this article, Sarah shares the features in gay men that women find so alluring, and why women keep gay men in their lives and around them. If you haven’t spent much time in gay bars, you might be surprised how cute and sexually available the women who hang around gay men can be; if you’d like a peephole into why this is, this article’s a solid primer on the subject. Take it away, Sarah.</p> <hr> <p>Imagine the scene: a bar, a pretty girl or even a group of good looking girls, all hanging out with just one guy in their circle. He doesn’t seem to be a Dan Bilzerian playboy type either. He’s just their friend, laughing and having a great time with all of them. This lucky guy is simply surrounded by hot females, who all get along very well with him, instead of hanging out with a bunch of dudes talking about football. He doesn’t seem to be doing anything special, but the most <span style="font-weight: bold;">beautiful chicks stick to him</span> like bees to a honeycomb... They all have so much fun together!&nbsp; He treats the presence of beautiful girls around him as a naturally comfortable situation. Why couldn’t that be you who so easily enters and enjoys a group of beautiful girls without being completely awkward?</p> <p><img style="width: 100%;" alt="girls like gay guys" src="http://girlschase.girlschaseinc.netdna-cdn.com/images/girls-like-gay-guys-1.jpg"></p> <p>There is one major different between you and him – you’re not <span style="font-weight: bold;">gay</span>.</p> <p> You’ve probably seen at least one pretty girl or even a group of pretty girls laughing and having fun with a gay guy. I personally love to hang out with gay guys even though I’m looking for straight men. As a single woman who lives in a big city, I have quite a bit of choice with whom I hang out with. I love going out with my girlfriends, and I’m friends with guys both at work and outside of work, but most of my very best male friends are gay!&nbsp; And I’m definitely not the only female who appreciates their company…</p> <p> What makes gay guys so special that women love to hang out with them?&nbsp; What makes so many females choose gay guys as their best friends?</p> <p>The answer is more complex than just sexual orientation. It touches on certain common characteristics and typical behaviors gay guys display towards women. 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However, if you’re not a RESPONSIVE talker, you’ll do yourself in more often than not."> <p>I had a tiresome dialogue on a long train ride yesterday where I found myself being sidetracked on irrelevancies in what originally seemed like it’d be an engaging conversation.</p> <p>Throughout the course of this unfortunately lengthy conversation (it was a 6 hour train ride), this man repeatedly ignored points I’d made, talked over me, and argued with me over the most tangential points to our primary conversation subject.</p> <p><img style="width: 100%;" alt="talk less listen more" src="http://girlschase.girlschaseinc.netdna-cdn.com/images/talk-less-listen-more-1.jpg"></p> <p>The tragedy to me was that the conversation had started off with the possibility of being truly engrossing, only for my seatmate to repeatedly divert us to arguing over semantics like the definition of the word ‘training’ (which didn’t even matter; we could’ve used any other word if we had different definitions for what constitutes training and what doesn’t, but my interlocutor couldn’t let it go).</p> <p>The funny thing was that repeatedly throughout this conversation, this fellow brought up wanting to trade numbers with me, to meet up with me again and bring me along to some free class he was attending, and other things of that nature; and he kept offering me food he had with him and even bought me a bottled water off the drink cart when it came by and I wasn’t present (and I didn’t have any small bills to pay him back for it). The entire time he kept telling me I could pay him back the next time I saw him, which only made me grate my teeth more.</p> <p>I felt like a pretty girl being hounded by a really nice but really clueless and annoying guy. I kept hoping someone was going to come along and save me. Because it was a packed train ride, there wasn’t anywhere else I could escape to, either (though in retrospect I suppose I could’ve snuck off to the meal car; didn’t think of it). Eventually I was able to let this conversation die long enough for me to fall into a nap and be free.<br> </p> <p>It occurred to me that this man probably does this with everyone; he enters into these alienating conversations with people, tries to lecture them, ignores any indication that they may know as much or more about a subject than he does, and gets sidetracked on irrelevancies. And that can happen to anyone who’s reasonably educated and passionate about a subject from time to time; I’m sometimes (on rare occasions) guilty of this myself, too.</p> <p>Yet, had this fellow known the value of talking <span style="font-style: italic;">less</span>, instead of struggling so mightily to be heard and to be <span style="font-style: italic;">right</span>, he wouldn’t have needed to resort to bribery and manipulation to try to coax me into meeting him.</p> <p>He could’ve simply given me the chance to talk a little bit, and genuinely engaged with me instead.</p> <div class="field field-type-text field-field-email-signup"> <div class="field-items"> <div class="field-item odd"> <div style="background-color: rgb(51, 51, 51); background-image: url(http://www.girlschase.com/images/newsletter/signup-header-bg.jpg); color: rgb(255, 255, 255); height: 40px; width: 560px; text-align: center; vertical-align: middle; font-family: Arial;"> <h2 style="padding-top: 8px; font-size: 20px; color: #FFF;">Get Your FREE eBook on Texting Girls</h2> </div> <!-- subscription_form_mqxqfz --> <div id="subscription_form_mqxqfz" style="padding: 10px; text-align: center; background-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); width: 540px; background-image: url(http://www.girlschase.com/images/newsletter/header-shadow.png); background-repeat: no-repeat;"><br> <p style="text-align: left;"><img style="width: 150px; height: 185px; padding-right: 5px;" alt="how to text girls pdf" src="http://girlschase.girlschaseinc.netdna-cdn.com/images/newsletter/how-to-text-girls-pdf-model.png" align="left"> Sign up for our email insights series and get a copy of our popular ebook “How to Text Girls” FREE. <a href="/dating-tips-newsletter">Learn more ...</a></p> <form method="post" action="http://www.girlschase.com/email/a.php/sub/1/mqxqfz" style="color: rgb(75, 75, 75); line-height: 1.5; font-size: 12px; font-family: Arial;"> <span style="overflow: hidden; text-align: center; font-style: italic; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);">Enter Your Best Email Address&nbsp; ↓</span> <br> <input id="email_address" name="email_address" value="" style="width: 360px; height: 30px;" type="text"><br> <div align="center"> <div style="padding-right: 36px;" align="right"> <div style="width: 314px; height: 115px; background-image: url(http://www.girlschase.com/images/newsletter/button-background.png);" align="center"><input style="margin-top: 30px; background-color: rgb(204, 51, 0); color: rgb(245, 214, 204); width: 260px; height: 50px; font-size: 130%; font-style: italic;" value="Get Instant Access" type="submit"></div> </div> </div> </form> </div> <!-- subscription_form_mqxqfz --> <hr> <p><img src="http://girlschase.girlschaseinc.netdna-cdn.com/images/header/pick-up-artist-package-header.jpg" alt="pick up artist package header" width="100%"></p> <a href="/how-to-be-a-pick-up-artist" title="How to Be a Pick Up Artist"><img src="http://girlschase.girlschaseinc.netdna-cdn.com/images/mastery-pick-up-package-140x140.jpg" style="margin-right: 5px;" alt="how to be a pick up artist" align="left" height="120" width="120"></a> <p>Trying to piece together a seduction strategy bit-by-bit, article-by-article, question-by-question? 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In addition to this, Sean gives an in-depth overview of a number of the dating sites he’s reviewed and is familiar with, with plenty of fresh intel on the digital dating landscape there for anyone who’s interested.</p> <div class="field field-type-text field-field-email-signup"> <div class="field-items"> <div class="field-item odd"> <div style="background-color: rgb(51, 51, 51); background-image: url(http://www.girlschase.com/images/newsletter/signup-header-bg.jpg); color: rgb(255, 255, 255); height: 40px; width: 560px; text-align: center; vertical-align: middle; font-family: Arial;"> <h2 style="padding-top: 8px; font-size: 20px; color: #FFF;">Get Your FREE eBook on Texting Girls</h2> </div> <!-- subscription_form_mqxqfz --> <div id="subscription_form_mqxqfz" style="padding: 10px; text-align: center; background-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); width: 540px; background-image: url(http://www.girlschase.com/images/newsletter/header-shadow.png); background-repeat: no-repeat;"><br> <p style="text-align: left;"><img style="width: 150px; height: 185px; padding-right: 5px;" alt="how to text girls pdf" src="http://girlschase.girlschaseinc.netdna-cdn.com/images/newsletter/how-to-text-girls-pdf-model.png" align="left"> Sign up for our email insights series and get a copy of our popular ebook “How to Text Girls” FREE. <a href="/dating-tips-newsletter">Learn more ...</a></p> <form method="post" action="http://www.girlschase.com/email/a.php/sub/1/mqxqfz" style="color: rgb(75, 75, 75); line-height: 1.5; font-size: 12px; font-family: Arial;"> <span style="overflow: hidden; text-align: center; font-style: italic; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);">Enter Your Best Email Address&nbsp; ↓</span> <br> <input id="email_address" name="email_address" value="" style="width: 360px; height: 30px;" type="text"><br> <div align="center"> <div style="padding-right: 36px;" align="right"> <div style="width: 314px; height: 115px; background-image: url(http://www.girlschase.com/images/newsletter/button-background.png);" align="center"><input style="margin-top: 30px; background-color: rgb(204, 51, 0); color: rgb(245, 214, 204); width: 260px; height: 50px; font-size: 130%; font-style: italic;" value="Get Instant Access" type="submit"></div> </div> </div> </form> </div> <!-- subscription_form_mqxqfz --> <hr> <p><img src="http://girlschase.girlschaseinc.netdna-cdn.com/images/header/pick-up-artist-package-header.jpg" alt="pick up artist package header" width="100%"></p> <a href="/how-to-be-a-pick-up-artist" title="How to Be a Pick Up Artist"><img src="http://girlschase.girlschaseinc.netdna-cdn.com/images/mastery-pick-up-package-140x140.jpg" style="margin-right: 5px;" alt="how to be a pick up artist" align="left" height="120" width="120"></a> <p>Trying to piece together a seduction strategy bit-by-bit, article-by-article, question-by-question? 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Instead, here’re 7 to-the-point non-PC tips to keep your relationship in tip-top shape for years to come. </div> </div> </div> <div class="field field-type-text field-field-category"> <div class="field-items"> <div class="field-item odd"> Relationship 101 </div> </div> </div> <div class="field field-type-filefield field-field-preview"> <div class="field-items"> <div class="field-item odd"> <img class="imagefield imagefield-field_preview" width="566" height="566" alt="relationship advice" src="http://girlschase.girlschaseinc.netdna-cdn.com/sites/default/files/relationship-advice-preview.jpg?1414422295" /> </div> </div> </div> <meta name="description" content="Most of relationship advice out there is garbage. Instead, here’re 7 to-the-point non-PC tips to keep your relationship in tip-top shape for years to come."> <p>I’ve been exposed to relationships of all lengths, types, and sizes throughout my years on this earth. And through close observation, I’ve noticed that, although people think that their relationship is singularly unique, that is almost never the case. In fact, I may go as far as to say that that’s never the case.</p> <p><img style="width: 100%;" alt="relationship advice" src="http://girlschase.girlschaseinc.netdna-cdn.com/images/relationship-advice-1.jpg"></p> <p>Whenever I see a dysfunctional relationship, I pretty much see the same symptoms that I see and will see in every other dysfunctional relationship. And the same goes for the healthy relationships I see as well. So if you find yourself in a relationship, or even thinking about being in one, then let me give you a few tips about certain features I’ve noticed that every healthy relationship has.</p> <p><span style="font-weight: bold;">In a nutshell, I believe that most relationships don’t have a strong enough trajectory of improvement.</span> The partners in the relationships simply aren’t invested enough in growing the dynamic to be deeper and richer. They do so to a point, and then kind of let the relationship plateau, until someone inevitably becomes dissatisfied.</p> <p>And because of this fact, <span style="font-weight: bold;">I believe that most people are in relationships that aren’t right for them</span>. This is a particularly troublesome problem in the West, where <a href="/content/shes-not-so-socially-savvy-you-must-be-it-her"><span style="font-weight: bold;">emotional intelligence is at an all-time low</span></a>. People simply don’t invest enough time in understanding themselves and how they react and interact with other people, and, in turn, they don’t understand how to delve deep into the perspectives of other people.</p> <p>So today I want to talk about how people and relationships can move toward having healthier and happier dynamics, because a truly fulfilling relationship can transform the way you live your life. 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You can go right here to get started and be downloading your programs in minutes: <strong><a href="/how-to-be-a-pick-up-artist" title="How to Be a Pick Up Artist">How to Be a Pick Up Artist</a></strong>.</p> </div> </div> </div> <div class='sexybookmarks-gc_standard_x-2060'></div><p><a href="http://www.girlschase.com/content/7-bits-relationship-advice-every-relationship-needs" target="_blank">read more</a></p> http://www.girlschase.com/content/7-bits-relationship-advice-every-relationship-needs#comments Emotions Relationships Mon, 27 Oct 2014 15:05:21 +0000 Colt Williams 1564 at http://www.girlschase.com Classroom Body Language Part II: Positioning and More http://www.girlschase.com/content/classroom-body-language-part-ii-positioning-and-more <div class="field field-type-text field-field-summary"> <div class="field-items"> <div class="field-item odd"> Should you sit next to her? What should you do before class? And is it ever the right move to change seats near her mid-class? These are all good questions… </div> </div> </div> <div class="field field-type-text field-field-category"> <div class="field-items"> <div class="field-item odd"> Social Life </div> </div> </div> <div class="field field-type-filefield field-field-preview"> <div class="field-items"> <div class="field-item odd"> <img class="imagefield imagefield-field_preview" width="700" height="501" alt="classroom body language" src="http://girlschase.girlschaseinc.netdna-cdn.com/sites/default/files/classroom-body-language-1.jpg?1414294892" /> </div> </div> </div> <meta name="description" content="Should you sit next to her? What should you do before class? And is it ever the right move to change seats near her mid-class? These are all good questions…"> <p style="font-style: italic;">This is the follow up to “<a href="/content/classroom-body-language-and-other-casual-situations"><span style="font-weight: bold;">Classroom Body Language and Other Casual Situations</span></a>”.</p> <hr> <p>Women <a href="/content/why-girls-dont-follow-logic"><span style="font-weight: bold;">don’t see the world logically</span></a>; when it comes to body language they explicitly avoid logic and instead just “feel” things out. They generally don’t think “Oh it is okay that that guy chose a corner” or “Well he just wasn’t feeling social today”, they generally take things you do as if it relates to them somehow and end up thinking you don’t like girls or are “usually grumpy” or something.</p> <p style="font-weight: bold;">So if you want to get good at body language in a confined space, like in a classroom, you will need to act as if women will never hear your rationalizations for acting passive.</p> <p><img style="width: 100%;" alt="classroom body language" src="http://girlschase.girlschaseinc.netdna-cdn.com/images/classroom-body-language-1.jpg"></p> <p>In the absence of girls reading you logically, you need to pay attention to what you do:</p> <ul> <li>Positioning</li> <li>Social momentum and how it is affecting your mood</li> <li>How it might relate to her</li> </ul> <p>Most guys just look for where to sit in a very logical way, but it is here at the start that their body language is set into motion to be bland, as they don’t care about what they are doing around women and lack appreciation for their environment and what their positioning communicates. Try to never just randomly pick a spot or let the crowd push you into a corner. It is okay to feel exposed; it will force you to stop playing around and think about your body language.</p> <p>Great body language will allow you to sit anywhere openly.</p> <p>Few people know this, but body language relies on social momentum, so never cut and run from exposure; never shroud your shoulders and turn away from everything. Small social interactions fuel <a href="/content/sexy-body-language-men-learned-hot-girls"><span style="font-weight: bold;">body language</span></a>, and this fuel is necessary to highlight how you feel about women to the women who look at you.</p> <div class="field field-type-text field-field-email-signup"> <div class="field-items"> <div class="field-item odd"> <div style="background-color: rgb(51, 51, 51); background-image: url(http://www.girlschase.com/images/newsletter/signup-header-bg.jpg); color: rgb(255, 255, 255); height: 40px; width: 560px; text-align: center; vertical-align: middle; font-family: Arial;"> <h2 style="padding-top: 8px; font-size: 20px; color: #FFF;">Get Your FREE eBook on Texting Girls</h2> </div> <!-- subscription_form_mqxqfz --> <div id="subscription_form_mqxqfz" style="padding: 10px; text-align: center; background-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); width: 540px; background-image: url(http://www.girlschase.com/images/newsletter/header-shadow.png); background-repeat: no-repeat;"><br> <p style="text-align: left;"><img style="width: 150px; height: 185px; padding-right: 5px;" alt="how to text girls pdf" src="http://girlschase.girlschaseinc.netdna-cdn.com/images/newsletter/how-to-text-girls-pdf-model.png" align="left"> Sign up for our email insights series and get a copy of our popular ebook “How to Text Girls” FREE. <a href="/dating-tips-newsletter">Learn more ...</a></p> <form method="post" action="http://www.girlschase.com/email/a.php/sub/1/mqxqfz" style="color: rgb(75, 75, 75); line-height: 1.5; font-size: 12px; font-family: Arial;"> <span style="overflow: hidden; text-align: center; font-style: italic; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);">Enter Your Best Email Address&nbsp; ↓</span> <br> <input id="email_address" name="email_address" value="" style="width: 360px; height: 30px;" type="text"><br> <div align="center"> <div style="padding-right: 36px;" align="right"> <div style="width: 314px; height: 115px; background-image: url(http://www.girlschase.com/images/newsletter/button-background.png);" align="center"><input style="margin-top: 30px; background-color: rgb(204, 51, 0); color: rgb(245, 214, 204); width: 260px; height: 50px; font-size: 130%; font-style: italic;" value="Get Instant Access" type="submit"></div> </div> </div> </form> </div> <!-- subscription_form_mqxqfz --> <hr> <p><img src="http://girlschase.girlschaseinc.netdna-cdn.com/images/header/pick-up-artist-package-header.jpg" alt="pick up artist package header" width="100%"></p> <a href="/how-to-be-a-pick-up-artist" title="How to Be a Pick Up Artist"><img src="http://girlschase.girlschaseinc.netdna-cdn.com/images/mastery-pick-up-package-140x140.jpg" style="margin-right: 5px;" alt="how to be a pick up artist" align="left" height="120" width="120"></a> <p>Trying to piece together a seduction strategy bit-by-bit, article-by-article, question-by-question? 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Actually, it can be quite useful – properly wielded. </div> </div> </div> <div class="field field-type-text field-field-category"> <div class="field-items"> <div class="field-item odd"> Mindsets </div> </div> </div> <div class="field field-type-filefield field-field-preview"> <div class="field-items"> <div class="field-item odd"> <img class="imagefield imagefield-field_preview" width="566" height="566" alt="being a showoff" src="http://girlschase.girlschaseinc.netdna-cdn.com/sites/default/files/being-a-showoff-preview.jpg?1414177706" /> </div> </div> </div> <meta name="description" content="You’ve realized you have a tendency or desire to show off. Should you fight it? Or embrace? Actually, it can be quite useful – properly wielded."> <p><img style="border: 1px solid black; width: 283px; height: 425px; margin-left: 15px;" alt="being a showoff" src="http://girlschase.girlschaseinc.netdna-cdn.com/images/being-a-showoff-1.jpg" align="right">In “<a href="/content/locating-good-low-competition-sexual-markets"><span style="font-weight: bold;">Locating Good Low Competition Sexual Markets</span></a>", a reader writes in asking about the desire to show off:</p> <blockquote style="font-style: italic; font-family: Georgia;"><span style="font-size: 24px; color: rgb(204, 0, 0);">“</span>Hey, Chase,<br> <br> I would like to see your article on desire to show off. I have such problem in me that usually I want to be seen as awesome and seek for approval, but it is something that really fucks up with my goals, because I forget my stuff to do and chase approval of peers and girls instead. Such situation where I get flaky girls not responding, or rejections actually bothers me a lot and is extremely painful and I feel so stuck in seeking validation, so I’m insecure and this off putting, I know. Any thoughts?<span style="font-size: 24px; color: rgb(204, 0, 0);">”</span></blockquote> <p>The desire to be impressive; it’s one that almost every man has to some degree or another.</p> <p>Some of us have it on a grand scale, while others only have a tiny drop of it; but if no one cared about being powerful and letting all the world know it, action movies (and tales and stories) where the guy gets to save the day wouldn’t be nearly so popular in our time and times past, and dreams of becoming a star or celebrity would be far less common dreams to dream.</p> <p>Yet, the desire to be impressive can lead us to some pretty ignominious ends:</p> <ul> <li> <p>Crippling <a href="/content/how-demolish-approach-anxiety-forever"><span style="font-weight: bold;">approach anxiety</span></a> because we fear looking the opposite of impressive if we approach her and come off poorly or are rejected</p> </li> <li> <p>Inaction when we should take action, because we don’t want to risk making the wrong move, looking bad, and messing it all up, all of this leading to missed <a href="/content/escalation-windows"><span style="font-weight: bold;">escalation windows</span></a> and <a href="/content/attraction-has-expiration-date"><span style="font-weight: bold;">expired attraction</span></a></p> </li> <li> <p>A tendency for a great many men to require <a href="/content/sex-and-alcohol"><span style="font-weight: bold;">liquid courage</span></a> before they’re even ready to start approaching, and a much easier time approaching anonymously in dark, crowded nightclubs (where it’s harder, the competition is fiercer, and the overall quality is lower) than on the street in broad daylight (where it’s easier, the competition is nil, and the overall quality is great)</p> </li> <li> <p>Valuing <a href="/content/reactions-women-or-results-women"><span style="font-weight: bold;">reactions over results</span></a>, because buddies or disciples are far more impressed by hopped up antics that get girls clapping and screaming than they are by subdued conversation... even if that latter is more likely to lead to a girl in your bed<br> </p> </li> </ul> <p>Plus all number of other success saboteurs.</p> <p>How do we deal with being a showoff then – do we suppress it, or can we use it?</p> <div class="field field-type-text field-field-email-signup"> <div class="field-items"> <div class="field-item odd"> <div style="background-color: rgb(51, 51, 51); background-image: url(http://www.girlschase.com/images/newsletter/signup-header-bg.jpg); color: rgb(255, 255, 255); height: 40px; width: 560px; text-align: center; vertical-align: middle; font-family: Arial;"> <h2 style="padding-top: 8px; font-size: 20px; color: #FFF;">Get Your FREE eBook on Texting Girls</h2> </div> <!-- subscription_form_mqxqfz --> <div id="subscription_form_mqxqfz" style="padding: 10px; text-align: center; background-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); width: 540px; background-image: url(http://www.girlschase.com/images/newsletter/header-shadow.png); background-repeat: no-repeat;"><br> <p style="text-align: left;"><img style="width: 150px; height: 185px; padding-right: 5px;" alt="how to text girls pdf" src="http://girlschase.girlschaseinc.netdna-cdn.com/images/newsletter/how-to-text-girls-pdf-model.png" align="left"> Sign up for our email insights series and get a copy of our popular ebook “How to Text Girls” FREE. <a href="/dating-tips-newsletter">Learn more ...</a></p> <form method="post" action="http://www.girlschase.com/email/a.php/sub/1/mqxqfz" style="color: rgb(75, 75, 75); line-height: 1.5; font-size: 12px; font-family: Arial;"> <span style="overflow: hidden; text-align: center; font-style: italic; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);">Enter Your Best Email Address&nbsp; ↓</span> <br> <input id="email_address" name="email_address" value="" style="width: 360px; height: 30px;" type="text"><br> <div align="center"> <div style="padding-right: 36px;" align="right"> <div style="width: 314px; height: 115px; background-image: url(http://www.girlschase.com/images/newsletter/button-background.png);" align="center"><input style="margin-top: 30px; background-color: rgb(204, 51, 0); color: rgb(245, 214, 204); width: 260px; height: 50px; font-size: 130%; font-style: italic;" value="Get Instant Access" type="submit"></div> </div> </div> </form> </div> <!-- subscription_form_mqxqfz --> <hr> <p><img src="http://girlschase.girlschaseinc.netdna-cdn.com/images/header/pick-up-artist-package-header.jpg" alt="pick up artist package header" width="100%"></p> <a href="/how-to-be-a-pick-up-artist" title="How to Be a Pick Up Artist"><img src="http://girlschase.girlschaseinc.netdna-cdn.com/images/mastery-pick-up-package-140x140.jpg" style="margin-right: 5px;" alt="how to be a pick up artist" align="left" height="120" width="120"></a> <p>Trying to piece together a seduction strategy bit-by-bit, article-by-article, question-by-question? 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However, there is a kernel of truth buried within it: that of congruence. </div> </div> </div> <div class="field field-type-text field-field-category"> <div class="field-items"> <div class="field-item odd"> Mindsets </div> </div> </div> <div class="field field-type-filefield field-field-preview"> <div class="field-items"> <div class="field-item odd"> <img class="imagefield imagefield-field_preview" width="700" height="464" alt="being yourself" src="http://girlschase.girlschaseinc.netdna-cdn.com/sites/default/files/being-yourself-3.jpg?1414092109" /> </div> </div> </div> <meta name="description" content="“Just be yourself” can be distracting and ineffective advice. However, there is a kernel of truth buried within it: that of congruence."> <p style="font-style: italic;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">Note from Chase:</span> this is a reflection piece by Alek on the redeeming qualities of the “be yourself” advice that I discussed as often harmful and distracting in <a href="/content/just-be-yourself-worst-dating-advice-known-man"><span style="font-weight: bold;">my piece on it</span></a> a few years back – primarily, Alek uses the phrase to discuss the importance of congruence.<br> </p> <hr> <p><img style="width: 282px; height: 426px; margin-left: 15px;" alt="being yourself" src="http://girlschase.girlschaseinc.netdna-cdn.com/images/being-yourself.jpg" align="right">The most famous dating advice there is “Just be yourself.” Often times, when men ask women for advice, this is the answer they receive. But does this advice have any desirable effects?</p> <p>Most of us would say no. Good men have tried to be themselves without getting any results. Many of us would say that “just be yourself” is terrible advice, because it doesn’t tell us anything about what women are actually attracted too, nor does it inform us of any specific ways to attract them.</p> <p>And then you have site like Girls Chase that give you guidance on how to seduce women. Without being arrogant, the huge amount of information on this site (and other similar sites) makes <a href="/content/why-mainstream-dating-advice-so-ineffective"><span style="font-weight: bold;">mainstream dating advice</span></a> look like crap.</p> <p>But is there any truth in “just being yourself”? In my opinion there is, and that’s what this post will be exploring. Keep reading and you might find some revealing facts. 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however, if you have friends who are <a href="/content/5-big-differences-between-naturals-and-%E2%80%9Cpua%E2%80%9Ds"><span style="font-weight: bold;">naturals</span></a> with women, you’ve almost certainly seen it before.</p> <p>You know: that buddy of yours who just has the most laid back “dates” ever – all he ever does is hang out with girls <span style="font-style: italic;">super</span> casually, and then they just somehow always stumble into his bed?</p> <p>Wouldn’t it be cool if you could consistently do that?</p> <div class="field field-type-text field-field-email-signup"> <div class="field-items"> <div class="field-item odd"> <div style="background-color: rgb(51, 51, 51); background-image: url(http://www.girlschase.com/images/newsletter/signup-header-bg.jpg); color: rgb(255, 255, 255); height: 40px; width: 560px; text-align: center; vertical-align: middle; font-family: Arial;"> <h2 style="padding-top: 8px; font-size: 20px; color: #FFF;">Get Your FREE eBook on Texting Girls</h2> </div> <!-- subscription_form_mqxqfz --> <div id="subscription_form_mqxqfz" style="padding: 10px; 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It may sound silly, but these are fun and easy ways to get naughty in a jiffy. </div> </div> </div> <div class="field field-type-text field-field-category"> <div class="field-items"> <div class="field-item odd"> Pickup Tech </div> </div> </div> <div class="field field-type-filefield field-field-preview"> <div class="field-items"> <div class="field-item odd"> <img class="imagefield imagefield-field_preview" width="560" height="420" alt="seduction games" src="http://girlschase.girlschaseinc.netdna-cdn.com/sites/default/files/seduction-games.jpg?1413827299" /> </div> </div> </div> <meta name="description" content="When’s the last time you played spin the bottle or truth or dare? It may sound silly, but these are fun and easy ways to get naughty in a jiffy."> <p><span style="font-style: italic;">This post is Part 4 in my series of Next Level Seduction series, a series dedicated to illuminating and breaking down the most advanced concepts, processes, and subtleties involved at the highest level of seduction. It’s about discussing ideas that most men may not necessarily think about and identifying the nuances of living your life as a highly sexual and desirable male. So, if you’re new to the game, you can either ignore this or try not to be intimidated. You can read Part 1 <a href="/content/next-level-seduction-pt-1-showing-r-selection"><span style="font-weight: bold;">here</span></a>, Part 2 <a href="/content/next-level-seduction-pt-2-long-game"><span style="font-weight: bold;">here</span></a>, and Part 3 <a href="/content/next-level-seduction-pt-3-state-game-address"><span style="font-weight: bold;">here</span></a>.</span></p> <hr> <p>Do you remember that experience when you were younger; the feeling of being an adolescent or teenager and wondering about what girls were thinking?</p> <p>And then, somehow, you found yourself in a situation where you were in a circle with a bunch of your friends. And there was always small talk about classes or the newest movie everyone wanted to see, but inevitably, one inquisitive child would ask about or propose playing a game.</p> <p>Maybe it was truth or dare. Maybe it was spin the bottle. Maybe it was seven minutes in heaven. Or maybe, just maybe, it was never have I ever. And then there would be that moment; that moment where a couple people giggled, a couple people looked at each other, a couple people blushed, and one or two brave souls admitted that they wanted to play too.</p> <p><img style="width: 100%;" alt="seduction games" src="http://girlschase.girlschaseinc.netdna-cdn.com/images/seduction-games.jpg"></p> <p>And then the game would begin. And by the end of it, something memorable would always happen. Maybe you got to kiss your crush at the time, aka, the girl of your dreams. Maybe you got to feel a girl’s body for the first time. Or maybe you just saw two of your friends disappear into a closet and were riveted and shocked when they told you the story of what happened during the recap the next day.</p> <p>But, no matter what happened, that experience (or those experiences) have always remained with you. Maybe you brought it back in high school and something interesting happened. 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