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How to Socialize Better: I Want vs. You Want

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By: Chase Amante

Jul 23, 2022

A man may be focused on what he wants… or he may be focused on what others want. Too extreme a focus on either of these leads to dysfunction in his social life.

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Pleasant People Get Pleasant Treatment

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By: Chase Amante

May 16, 2022

Want the people around you to treat you better? Here’s a very simple solution for that: treat THEM better, first. Pleasant people get pleasant treatment.

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How to Deal with Opinionated People

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By: Chase Amante

Apr 18, 2022

People have all kinds of aggressive, often ignorant opinions. About everything! To deal with this without losing your head, you must first put things into perspective.

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Friends Who Value You Less Than You Do Them

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By: Chase Amante

Mar 14, 2022

You may have friends you feel you need more than they need you. Why does this happen with friends, and what can you do to make it a realer, more equal friendship?

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Some Friends Are Bad for Your Dating Health

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By: Chase Amante

Mar 13, 2022

Don’t let friends’ unproductive beliefs about women seep into your skull. Be careful how the friends around you affect the way you think about dating, sex, and romance.

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Zero-Sum Power Dynamics & Empowering Others

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By: Chase Amante

Nov 15, 2021

When people want power from you, they may pretend it’s in your interest, too. But is it? Power grabs may be cooperative, competitive, or competitive masquerading as cooperative.

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Social Skills 101: Basic Social Skills Are 100% Crucial

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By: Chase Amante

Sep 10, 2021

It doesn’t matter how slick you look or how many great tips you’ve absorbed. Good basic social skills must come first if you wish for social success.

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Do You HAVE to Be Your Group's Alpha to Look Good?

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By: Chase Amante

Aug 28, 2021

When you go out with the guys, do you need to be the alpha male? What if your girlfriend is there and she’s watching – will she lose respect for you if you’re not alpha?

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Men Need Their Own Space to Stay Psychologically Healthy

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By: Chase Amante

Jun 5, 2021

Men more and more find themselves enmeshed with women in every aspect of their lives. But this isn’t healthy for men – or men’s relationships with women.

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Social Success Requires You Be Social

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By: Frankie Bismarck

Dec 20, 2020

Can you learn to be social, alone in a room, on your computer or phone? Not really – you must get out into the world and socialize.

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Transmitting Bad Vibes; or, Why People May Not Like You

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By: Frankie Bismarck

Oct 4, 2020

Bad vibes can poison your interaction without you being aware of it. So how do you know if you have a bad vibe problem? And if so… how do you FIX it?

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Don't Talk About Pickup to Other People

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By: Chase Amante

Sep 20, 2020

You should not talk about game with most people. It might be tempting to (especially when it's a major point of interest of yours)… but mum's the word.

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Are Your Friends Not into Pickup or Self-Improvement? Find New Ones

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By: Tony Depp

Jun 1, 2020

Should you talk to your friends about pickup? Most aspiring seducers end up alienating their buddies when they do, so it’s best to find or build your own community.

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