Last Minute Resistance from Sexy Women: Treating It and Beating It
Last month I shared a report that doubled as a how-to on getting threesomes ("Threesome How-To: Step-by-Step to Get Two Girls") that was a big hit, in which I covered one of my real-life interactions leading to a threesome. What people really liked about it were all the details and the analysis following the tips given in the report. Written this way, the report served as a guide to doing what I do with sex talk and getting threesomes.
I’d therefore like to keep up with the concept of combining reports and how-tos, but I will cover different elements in each of these so as not be repetitive. Today we will mostly cover:
- Logistics (more interesting than you would expect)
- Physical escalation (you will love the parts on escalation)
- And how to handle last minute resistance (LMR)
The point of including this in a report is to show you not just how
to deal with last minute
resistance, but also how to avoid it
entirely, since this resistance is most often a case of you
either not screening properly or not handling things properly, although
sometimes you really cannot handle things perfectly due to the
circumstances you meet a girl in.
My plan with my writing will often be focused about sharing material, but also sharing material within a context. This way I believe it gives you, the reader, a broader perspective about how to use the material in real life situations, and more properly shows and tells how it all works together.
The event of this report event is from last Saturday night where I pulled a really hot girl from a club. However, what makes this event interesting to me (and hopefully you) was that this girl was rather introverted, shy and if my assumption is right, not used to have a lot of random sex.
As a matter of fact, it became harder than expected to seal the deal with her. She gave me a great deal of resistance to sex (last minute resistance). Now, the cause might be that I didn’t set a proper sexual frame early on, or maybe the frame I sat was not strong enough.
Either way, we need to accept the fact that no matter how good with girls we are, we still make mistakes. Seduction is vague and it is difficult to always calibrate perfectly for every girl. Also keep in mind that seduction is very context-sensitive, which sadly doesn’t always give you the chance to have full-control over the interaction (and your girl's emotions).
I believe it’s necessary to cover some earlier events from the night out. But in order to make things more exciting and hopefully educational for you, I’ll add in some advice along the way – my “content only policy” applies here as well.
This happened on a Saturday night. Sadly, I had to work Saturday morning, and it was a very hard day at work. I came home and was really tired. When you are tired, your vibe becomes weaker, your motivation lower and your “game” sloppier. Usually I avoid going out when I feel like shit. But sometimes you simply really want to go out.
What motivated me? Well, the thing is that you never really know where you’re going to end up even when you go out unmotivated and unenergetic. Frequently, the best nights out are the least expected ones. I can’t count how many times I have been out, expecting jack all to happen, considering those nights to be all about “just chilling” or “taking it slow”, only to have these times result in me having my mind blown out from all the unexpected crazy goings on that unfolded instead.
I believe this is a strong motivator to go out regardless how you’re feeling. I know it is for me. It is exciting to just jump into it and see what happens. Of course sometimes nothing will happen and it sucks, but honestly it is worth it, because as long as you’re open for it, life will offer you some chances that you need to take... from which you will be rewarded with crazy, exciting experiences from time to time.
Getting Dressed and Getting Out
Being in a down mood, I had to compensate with some great style. So I fix my hair with high quality hair wax (I highly recommend Goldwell Roughman - you can buy this cheaply off of eBay) and dress myself up. I wanted to dress in a masculine yet provocative way. My main idea was to dress in a way that is very sexual and dark at the same time (dark and sexual is just sexy), but all in a classy way.
I decided to wear a red shirt (red basically just screams out “sex”; actually, in his “Fashion for Men” article, Chase cites some research showing this makes you more sexually attractive to women), a black slim-fit dress jacket, a red pocket square, black jeans with some cool details and a black rivet belt. I wore some shiny classy boots as well to round out the image. I was on the receiving end of multiple compliments from girls during my night out as a result of my attire.
As mentioned above, I felt like hell. I tried to get some sleep before going out without any luck. So I had to improvise: I swallowed:
- 1 glass of orange juice,
- 1 huge cup of green tea,
- 4 capsules of fish oil and
It actually worked out quite well. Try it out once; it is actually a very healthy little mix for you.
I first went to a bar, but it was a little dead, unfortunately. Nothing much happened, so I decided to head to a club nearby. The club was a bit more packed. I got myself a glass of scotch and was ready to go.
Usually clubs are good because you can do a lot of dance floor stuff. But for some weird reason, I have grown a little bored of dancing with girls and personally prefer verbal game these days. But should you do verbal game on a dance floor? Heck no!
So what I usually do is to head to the smoking area. Smoking areas are nice because people are there to talk to each other. On the dance floor, for whatever reason is usually the place where most men do their lame approaches. But in the smoking area most men don’t approach girls. Therefore, you will most frequently not face nearly as much closed-offedness as the dance floor when you approach women there – it is all more open and genuine.
Either way, I spot a sweet blond girl there, whom we’ll call Natalie. We started talking and the vibe was good. I sadly don’t really remember how it all started out, but it is a little irrelevant for this report. All I can tell is that she approached me. Now you might wonder – how is that possible?
There are a few things that lead to this:
My style often gives me a lot of attention. A red shirt definitely makes you stand out. Not only do you express confidence by wearing something original, but also women become more curious about you. A man who dresses really well is always a bonus for girls.
Sexy, peacocked dress gives women a reason to approach you – as you are dressing in rather particular way.
Of course, as vague as it sounds, body language – a confident sexy body language – never hurts (but keep in mind that this is usually not enough on it’s own to make women approach you).
The most crucial reason – hovering. Ask yourself how women make men approach them. You will easily figure out that they use what is called “hovering”, a kind of approach invitation, which men can also do in order to make women approach them.
Hovering is basically all about just standing beside your girl while you act like you do something else. This way you can easily catch her attention. Once she starts giving you an eye, you count it as a subtle sign of interest, but you will also use this as a reason to approach her. For example, if she gives you eye contact, respond to it by giving some eye contact in return. This way it creates a vibe that implies that you “accidently met each other – it just happened”. This is a very genuine and mutual form of opening, which makes the opening very strong.
We got into a conversation and started talking about sex in order to set a sexual frame. At some point I asked her where she lived. She answered that she lived really far away (over one hour of car ride from the club). At that point I somewhat lost my interest. I could have brought her to my place; but that for reasons of privacy is not an option. So for me this interaction was a dead end… unless she was a very spontaneous and adventurous girl who was sexually open – if yes, I could have gone for a bathroom pull or something.
Turned out she disqualified herself to my expectations. She mentioned that she loved dirty sex, but mostly in relationships. This was probably not 100% true, but to me her words just told me that she would probably give me a hell lot of resistance – because she wanted a boyfriend, and when women want a boyfriend they often hold themselves back when it comes to one-night stands, because in the conventional girl-world, a one-night-stand is incongruent with relationships, which means that having a one-night stand would simply break her frame.
Of course I could have gone for it, pushing through the resistance, but she lived far away, so I decided to move on. It is important to move on once you spot a bad deal like this, because your night is short and we plan to get laid.
I went to the bathroom, which is a unisex one (awesome!). I took a leak and went out. On the way out I spotted a very hot girl with her male friend (who turned out to be gay). As she walked in I asked her if she could “pee for me as well” which generated some laughter. I wanted to talk to her, so I decided to wait till she was done peeing. In order to not come across as a creepy stalker, I went for the mirror in order to fix my hair in the meantime. She came out and I asked her how it was:
Anna: It was great.
Alek: Did you know that some people have pee-fetishes, who enjoy golden showers?
Anna: Yeah I know, are you into that?
Alek: I do understand why some people enjoy it; there is certain aspect of dominance in it… but not my cup of tea!
As you can see, I talked about something rather extreme, so extreme that it doesn’t get taken seriously. However, the topic is very sexual. This is good way to transition into a sexual topic.
The way this works is that by being so extreme, people start thinking you are joking. When it comes to women, it lowers her walls, because she has nothing to fear – you are joking, after all – right?
Meeting the Gay Friend
Her male friend popped up. I introduced myself. He seemed like a cool guy. Anna asked me if I was gay. This is usually a sign of interest (but can go both way… it can also be a sign of disinterest) because women believe most very fashionable attractive men are gay – which is not always the case.
Alek: Why do you think I am gay?
Anna: You dress a little too well for being straight?
Alek: So it is actually possible to be too hot to be straight?
Anna: I think so… but please answer me… are you gay? [making her beg for a response is always good, as it sets a little chasing frame]
Alek: No I am not. I eat pussies not dicks. [you have to be straightforward on shit-tests like this, in order to make it clear where you stand]
Anna: Oh so sad… you and Adam [her gay friend] would be so sweet together. [i.e. you are hot enough for her friend, then you are probably hot enough for her as well – I consider this a subtle sign of interest]
Adam: No, he is not gay, I can sense it on him… but yeah, he dresses well.
Alek: Thanks, buddy. If I were gay, I would have eaten you up right away.
My last statement is somewhat interesting. There are some important elements to take note off:
First of all, I show off a lot of sexual confidence – telling him that the only reason for me to not fuck men is because I don’t find them attractive. This creates a perception of me as a man who knows what he wants and who isn’t afraid to go for it.
Secondly, it shows some sexual openness, as I am not scared of homosexuals, I accept them (I actually really like them – they are usually very cool people). It shows that homosexuality for me is not an issue. The worst thing you can do when you interact with homosexuals is to not show them respect (treating them like actual human beings). Women really like gay men (not sexually) and by behaving in a disrespectful manner toward them, you are disrespecting the girl’s friend – which she won’t respond well to. But even better, by treating gay men well, you display an image of you as sexually open, which, we by now know, is a good thing.
The interaction went well. The problem, however, was that my girl was rather introverted. I tried to drag her into the conversation but she was always a little bit on the outside, letting her very extroverted gay friend do the talking. I never really had the chance to interact alone with my girl.
Nor was she really participating in the conversation. What made it even harder for me was the fact that she never really gave me any clear signs of interest, but only few small and subtle ones. I could have capitalized on them, but I don’t want to settle for a girl unless I know its on. As you guys know, I am a busy man who doesn’t want to waste time on bad leads… so, I ejected.
Near Closing Time
At around closing time, I met a smoking hot Brazilian girl - Isabella. I was dancing on the dance floor with my shirt almost wide open. If a woman wants to get laid, they show off a lot of skin and behave in a rather dirty and promiscuous way. Well guess what… it actually attracts men. However, there is something to be learned here: we men can do the exact same thing and also attract the opposite sex.
Worth noting that I had one or two (maybe three) buttons keeping my shirt somewhat closed off. You don’t want to get into trouble with the bouncers.
Isabella was “accidently” away from her group (yes, sometimes by the end of the night girls can be alone by themselves… especially if they are looking for a mate) looking at my belly pretty shocked (probably thinking: you are such a dirty man – which in my opinion is exactly what I wanted her to think).
I reached my hand out, like if I was about to give her a handshake. This is a rather innocent move and most somewhat receptive girls will grab your hand in return and shake it – as if you were just introducing yourself to her. However, once they grab my hand, I pull them into me and place their hands on my shoulder. This is a wonderful dance floor opener, and it works most of the time.
We then danced for a bit. I started progressively touching her body. Slowly moving from innocent to more intimate areas, such as going for her upper arms and shoulders into touching some more intimate areas such as her hips and the side of her stomach.
In order to make it all more powerful, I made sure that the escalation was mutual – I made her touch me in return.
The reason for that being so powerful is rather obvious – think about it, what is the best scenario… one where you only touch the girl and she doesn’t touch you back, or the one where both of you are touching each other?
The second one is obviously the best, as it creates a little bubble and makes the seduction mutual – creating the “we are into each other” type of frame, which is very powerful. Furthermore, it also forces her to invest in you – as she is touching you, which is also very powerful and sets a frame of her chasing you.
But the question is… how do you make her touch you in return? It is actually very simple: you just grab her hand and put it somewhere on your body. Really it is that simple.
From there you progress by leading her hands to different areas on your body by following a simple escalation pattern (make her touch your innocent areas first… and if she is receptive, make her touch more intimate areas). At the end I made her touch my belly, which by the time was uncovered. Making her touch your skin will make her really horny (touching naked skin is hot).
Going for the Kiss
It all worked well, and after a while I decided to go for a kiss, so I pulled her closer to me as I wanted to cut the spaces between us even more. I gave her strong eye contact, which I will only break 2 seconds after she breaks it, in order to come across as very dominant (important to break it eye contact when she breaks, unless you want to come across as creepy – but again always after she breaks it first).
I then moved closer and closer to her lips – slowly because I wanted to do it in a seductive and sensual way. I got to her lips and started biting them softly. I then pulled back a little… in order to tease her a bit. This is a very sexy thing to do. Most men, once they get the chance to kiss a girl, they usually go for it as fast as they can.
There are a few reasons for why teasing is so powerful:
It makes her ask for more. This makes women crazy and horny - she wants it badly, but only gets small bits of it. Her desire will therefore just grow bigger and bigger – which is something we want to happen.
It makes you stand out. Most men don’t do this.
It creates a perception of you as great lover. The fact that you tease her, which is something that turns most women on, gives her an idea about how you are in bed (maybe you are a dirty little tease in bed too?).
It shows a lot of confidence (sexual confidence) because you are in control of the situation.
Quick tip: this goes for any scenario where you are escalating on a girl (which means that this goes for dance floor seductions, but also when you are home alone with a girl and going for the kill). Every time you escalate, make sure you communicate to her that you are enjoying doing it. This will make her feel sexy and will arouse her.
Knowing that you arouse someone else will make you horny. This principle applies to women as well. Show her that you are enjoying smelling, touching and feeling her body, by either making sexual noises, breathing heavily or telling her directly how much she turns you on (last one is a little risky, as you might give “away” too much), and she will become excited.
After teasing Isabella for a little bit (I like to tease women for quite a while actually… I love making women go crazy that way), I went for the kiss – a strong passionate kiss, where I bite and suck her lips.
We kissed for quite a bit and after a while she randomly grabbed my hand, and simply walked me out of the club (!!!).
Outside we finally got to introduce ourselves to each other. I knew it was on – she enjoyed my kisses, she actually dragged me out of the club and she was very direct with her touch when we were on the dance floor, making the overall vibe between us quite strong.
But her interest toward me became even more obvious when she started asking me where I lived. I told her I lived far away (which isn’t true, but for logistical reasons I can’t bring people over at the moment – no, I don’t live with my parents). As my logistics are bad, my only option was to figure out her logistical situation, so I now asked her where she lived. But it turned out she lived even farther away than the first girl I approached!
Damn it, it definitely was not my night. These were my choices so far that night:
I had one girl that lived far away, who was obviously into me, but seems to really be into getting a boyfriend (Natalie, the first girl)
I had an even hotter girl who was even more into me, but lived even farther away – screw my life (the Brazilian girl, Isabella)
There was the really hot redhead girl I met in the bathroom (Anna), who was somewhat into me, but had only given me a few very subtle signs of interest. At no point there has been any “it’s on moments” with her, where it becomes somewhat obvious that there is something going on between us – that we are a potential match. I also had no idea where she lived
Now it all came down to decision-making.
The first girl, Natalie, was out of the question because she was the least attractive of the three. She also seemed to be too obsessed with finding a boyfriend. Isabella, however, was smoking hot and seemed really turned on. She was obviously up for a one-night stand as she somewhat tried to get to my place (asking me at that point in the interaction where I lived was somewhat of a sex invitation). I could have gone for a hotel room pull, but my money is short. Bathroom pull was an option but it was soon closing time and 10 minutes of bathroom sex is not good enough for me.
I decided to keep talking with Isabella for a little bit until I figured out how to deal with the situation. But, to my shock, Anna (the redhead) popped up again, calling out to me with a, “There you are Alek”. She was now somewhat competing for my attention – but for all I know she was just trying to be friendly and enter the conversation.
Isabella backed off and told me she was going inside to see her friend – which was probably a trick to see if I was really willing to go for her. She was breaking rapport with me in order to make me to run back to her, trying to make me chase her. Wise move from her, but I could use this to my advantage: I’d talk a little more with Anna and find out whether she a) lived nearby, b) had some interest in casual sex, c) and was into me or not. As I’d be talking with her outside, I could easily catch up with Isabella when she left the club, in case things went south with Anna.
Adam was with her and I decided to get under a roof as it’d started raining. It is always wise to do a little change of location as it creates some rapport. We talked a little, until a very creepy man stood beside Anna gazing her down in a really creepy way. She asked him to stop, but he didn’t. I had to “rescue her” by dragging them away from him. We then made fun of the guy…
Alek: Geez what a creepy guy. Strong eye contact is sexy, but he is doing it in such a creepy way.
Anna: Yeah absolutely.
Adam: Well, I sometimes meet some men who are that direct. [of course you do… gay men are usually very direct…]
They then asked what I worked with to which I told them I was writing about sexual utopias. From there, I mentioned that I am deeply concerned with sexual openness, laying out my utopia where every set of people who are into each other simply just have sex with one another.
Alek: But the problem is that is that for example women can’t just fuck round without being judged – it is so unfair… [trying to show some understanding in women social-cultural/political position when it comes to sex]
Adam: Yes; if a girl fucks too many men she gets labelled a slut, whereas we men, gay especially, can just fuck around as much as we want.
Alek: Give me a hug Adam… you are spot on.
Anna: Yeah! It’s so unfair…
After some further sex talking, I start using an assumption.
Alek: Anna, to me you seem like a very sweet and innocent girl [assumption]… but I believe you still are a woman, which means you have certain needs.
Anna: Of course I do! Isn’t that just being human? [this is an okay reaction, but not a perfect one]
We talked about sex a little more, but I never got the desired reaction that I hoped for from her. I didn’t get the “whoa you are so right”, the “how do you know all this?” or the “stop it you’re turning me on” reaction. I didn’t get any strong nonverbal signs of interest either. She also remained a little bit on the outside of the interaction.
I asked them both where they lived. Adam lived close by and Anna not too far away. So far she was my best bet for the night, even thought I highly prefer extroverted and sexually direct women. But she was very hot – one hell of a body… so, I decided to go for it. But I couldn’t be direct with my proposal to go to her place, as she never gave me any heavy signs of interest.
Therefore, I had to deliver my offer in a very indirect way, which is by far less powerful, as the sexual frame of the interaction was still rather lacking. But I could always do my best out of what there was later. I’m better of having a somewhat interested girl with good logistics than a very interested girl with bad ones (logistics is so important that even with a very interested girl, bad logistics increase the chance that something goes wrong or she cools off or second-guesses herself before you make it somewhere alone that these can really wreck things for you a lot more often than you might think or like).
Alek: I am not tired at all. I want to have more fun tonight after closing time. Adam would you like to have more fun tonight?
Adam: No, I am a little ill… and tired…
Alek: Anna, are you ill and tired? Do you want to have some more fun tonight? We could host an after party!
Anna: I am not tired! [this is awesome!]
Alek: Yeah, fuck it, really let’s not leave the night like this. Why don’t we have an after-party at your place – we can share the cab fee.
Anna: That’s cool to me. But I have a friend over… can’t we head to yours?
Alek: I can’t, I live with 3 other people. Don’t worry, we will be calm… if you have a balcony we can sit there and drink.
Anna: Okay, well, let’s do that.
Alek: Adam, are you sure you don’t to come with us?
Adam: No man, but thanks for your offer!
What I am doing here is acting like I want this gay guy to come with just in order to not make it too direct that I am willing to be alone under a roof with Anna. Again, I go rather indirect because she hasn’t given me any strong signs of interest.
Anna and I took a cab back to her place… I had to create an “it’s on moment” and break the social barrier in order to create a vibe that “there is something going on between us”.
So in the cab, I grabbed her hand and caressed it. This made room for me to escalate more intensely later on, as it’ll be less awkward once we’d already had some physical contact, making what was to come later much more natural for her.
Escalating to Sex
At her place, we took a few beers and sat outside smoking. I tried to talk about sex in order to try to set a sexual frame but it really didn’t work out that well. Well, when something doesn’t work out for you, you have to change strategy… in this case I decided that going nonverbal might be a better option…
Outside, we sat on a couch and I took her leg over mine. This is a good way to start the escalation. I started caressing her legs while telling her how soft they were. This stirred a rather positive reaction from her.
It was getting really late (5 o’clock in the morning) and I had to seal the deal now or it would be too late. If it gets too late you risk having the women fall asleep or being “too tired to do that [sex]”.
Being dominant is attractive, so when she came back from the bathroom after going, I ordered her to sit on my lap, and so she did, which was a good thing. This way I could hold around her and touch her body. She wasn’t that receptive to my touching, but she accepted my moves, which by now was good enough. After being outside for a bit we went inside.
We sat on the living room couch and put some music on (really sexy track is Bison’s “Way to LA”). I was now about to escalate to sex. I put her legs over mine in order to create a certain connection. I then started touching her body…
- Her upper arms and shoulder first…
- Her belly next
- Then down to her hips
- To her legs
- Then slowly sliding my hand up to her skirt
- Her hips again
- And her belly
- To the area around her breasts
In order to make the escalation mutual, at that the same time I was touching her, I made her touch:
- My upper arms and shoulders
- My chest (opened my shirt up and made her touch my skin)
- My belly
- My neck
- My pubic area
I repeated this pattern a few times, with some elements of teasing in between. Basically “teasing” when it comes to escalating (to not mix with making “fun of women”, which is just lame in my opinion) is all about doing one step backward for every two steps forward you make. For example, I might touch her upper arms and shoulders first, then her belly, then her shoulders again, then again her belly before going for her hips, back to her belly, then further down to her hips again… etc…
While escalating I also:
- Gave her a strong eye contact
- Smelled her hair
- Smelled her neck (followed with some slow and strong breathing)
I then went in for the kiss, where I grabbed her neck and slowly pulled her closer to my lips. My lips were five centimetres from hers. I kept the distance for a few minutes in order to tease her a bit and create some tension. I then as always finished off by kissing her passionately. By now, many barriers between us had been broken, allowing me to:
- Suck her neck
- Lick and suck her ears
- Touch her breasts
- Slide my hand under her skirt and grab her ass…
- Slide my hand under her shirt and touch the soft skin of her belly
- Pull her over me and make her dry-hump me
I then stood up, grabbed her and dragged her to her bedroom (I did some scouting when I arrived at her place).
In her room, I undressed her bit by bit while I continued escalating and kissing. I undressed myself first, with the excuse that going to bed with clothes on is not hygienic (which is true, I believe… who wants dirty clothes you’ve been wearing outside in bed?). I left my shirt on, however, in order to not look like an undressed idiot while she was somewhat fully dressed.
Things looked really good, but I would soon face some serious last minute resistance (LMR).
Anti-LMR Technique #1: Sexual Teasing
I start sucking and licking her whole body… by following a typical teasing escalation pattern. My aim is to lick my way down to her pussy by doing multiple back and forth moves in order to make her horny and ask for more.
This is a simplified scheme of how I do it – lick her:
- Lower part of her belly (near her pubic areas)
I then tried to remove her pants, which was rather difficult, as she gave me some resistance here.
Anti-LMR Technique #2: Persistence
Once a girl is reacting badly to your moves, take a huge step back, and try it all over again a little later. This way, you don’t come across as pushy, giving you room to make her even more horny by escalating even more, giving you higher chances to proceed (and pass through last minute resistance).
So I stopped for a few seconds, then repeated my whole pattern: I started licking her body all over again, beginning from her neck to the lower part of a stomach. I finally got her to take off her pants… but once I tried to go for her vagina, her hands came down, blocking it.
Persisting, I tried 3 times to get down there without luck. A good rule of thumb is to not persist more than 3 times. You don’t want to come across as pushy and you don’t want to risk getting into legal trouble, as you can never really know where her limits are.
Anti-LMR Technique #3: Make Her Touch My Dick
Time to change strategy… I took off my shirt and laid down beside her. I touched myself a little in order to force myself into getting hard, but the whisky I drank earlier in the night made this a rather difficult task. But, fortunately, I managed to get somewhat of an erection. I rarely face last minute resistance, and when I do, it unfortunately turns me off.
I took her hand and made her touch my chest, my belly and then my cock, telling her she was making me hard. When it came to touching my dick she hesitated. I persisted and got her to “somewhat” touch my dick, but nothing that could lead things forward. It was time to consider the “last option”…
Anti-LMR Technique #4: The Last Option
I told her that I had too much whisky in my blood that night, and that I was a little tired. I also told her that the whisky was making my cock rather lazy and that we should better sleep. I kissed her goodnight and fell a sleep. Usually there are three possible expected outcomes in this scenario:
After a while she wakes you and shags the stuffing out of you
You wake up the next morning and you escalate again and you will most likely have sex with her
Nothing happens, that’s life, and at least you got some sleep
I actually felt asleep. The next morning we woke up and I started kissing her again. This time I escalated right away without any resistance and we had sex twice.
Last Minute Resistance: A Short Analysis
I rarely get last-minute resistance because I usually set a sexual frame, which makes women perceive me as a sexual being – which makes sex something expected from me. This means that if a girl keeps up interacting with me she is accepting the frame I am setting – that I am a sexual man who loves sex and loves to have sex just for pleasure of it. I also frame myself as a man who seeks sex without complications. In this case, this frame was not set properly because of the situation.
Resulting from this, she didn’t get the right perception of me, which pretty much mixed up the expectations she had of me. I also had a hard time making her horny, as she never really showed any strong signs of attraction toward me. When I finally started escalating I had to break huge walls – as the frame that was set was not as sexual as I hoped for.
The girl was also shy and introverted. She actually admitted being shy a little later on. I rarely go for shy girls, as I am myself very extroverted. I also enjoy being sexually open, and discuss sex freely. This girl didn’t really allow me to do so.
I am sure that if Isabella (the Brazilian girl) lived nearby and I went back to her place, sex would have happened without any reservations. Different girl and a different scenario – both are strong elements when it comes to determining the outcome.
To recap the major points from the report:
You never know what the night can lead to. You should therefore just jump into it and grab the opportunities life offers you
Screen out women who don’t qualify to meet your needs
Logistics comes first – bad logistics equals most of the time no sex (you need to be able to sacrifice a hot, very receptive girl to another hot one who might be less receptive, but who has good logistics)
Escalating with teasing is hot
Mutual escalation is powerful
Setting a sexual frame is important because it removes the chances for getting last minute resistance
When you face last minute resistance, don’t give up and persist with the techniques I have given you
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