How to Give a Girl (Amazing) Oral Sex: 4 Simple Steps


how to give a girl oral sexA reader asks:

Hey Chase, any quick tips on performing oral sex on girls and stimulating the clit specifically? I checked out the other articles but I couldn't get anything specific on the subject.

We seem to get asked this one a lot... and always on articles that have nothing to do with sex. So let's address it: how to give a girl oral sex.

This is one a lot of men seem to struggle with, but you may be relieved to know it's actually much simpler to learn how to give a girl orgasms through oral sex than it is to learn how to give her orgasms via penetration.

There's no rhythm you must learn to be good.

You needn't exhaust yourself heaving your body back and forth.

You won't even have to learn about the g-spot, the deep spot, the vaginal back wall, or Ricardus's “r-spot” from his article on how to be a good lover.

In fact, all you need to make a girl orgasm from oral is a little patience... and a willing tongue.

And, of course, my 4 simple steps.

WARNING: this one is not safe for work... there is one section below where words do not suffice, and graphics simply are needed. So make sure there's nobody around you can get in trouble with for looking at clitoris pictures before you proceed (and if there is... what are you doing reading an article about oral sex at work, anyway).


How to Give a Girl Oral Sex That Makes Her Climax

What fun is oral sex that doesn't end in an orgasm?

Well, actually, you can use it for more than an orgasm – it also makes great foreplay to the main even if you intend on having penetrative sex with her too.

In fact, I'd strongly recommend that if this is your first time sleeping with her, you DON'T let her orgasm through oral sex – I've heard far too many tales of men licking a woman to satisfaction, then readying himself for vaginal sex only to have the girl tell him no, sorry, she's had enough – thanks!

And then of course he never sees her again.

Instead, if it's your first time together, just use it as a tool to get her turned on... but don't let her achieve full satisfaction until you're inside of her and have fully consummated your togetherness. Then you can give her as much satisfaction as she wants.

However... if the girl in question is a lover, girlfriend, wife, friend with benefits, or other regular paramour of yours, you're probably going to want to take her all the way at least from time to time, just to spice things up... and anyway, making a girl cum with a different part of your anatomy than usual can be a whole lot of fun.

Now for some reason, most of the information on the Internet about how to give a girl oral sex seems to be vague or incomplete, and I think that's very wrong. So, let's rectify that: use these four (4) steps of mine in order below, and you will bring a large majority of the women you give oral sex (or cunnilingus) to to orgasm within 5 to 10 minutes.

Let's dive in (pun quite possibly intended).


Step 1: Before You Please, You Must Tease

how to give a girl oral sexTeasing is an important step of all forms of foreplay, but unless you have a battle-hardened tongue with the musculature in place to lick for days, you want a girl as warmed up before you start licking heavily so that you'll spend as little time furiously licking as absolutely necessary.

Because unless you are a pro, I promise you that by the time she achieves climax, your tongue will feel like it is about to roll up into a tiny ball of spasming pain.

That's the price you pay for delivering some orgasmic goodness, I'm afraid.

Thus, first, unless you want a long slog of endless licking that never seems to move her much closer to climax, you must tease.

Teasing is very good for orgasms because it heightens anticipation and builds sexual tension before the main event of the act.

She knows you're going to lick her clitoris.

You know you're going to lick her clitoris.

But what she doesn't know is when you are going to lick her clitoris... and how much you're going to tease her and make her want it first.

I recommend you escalate oral sex with her in this order:

  1. Start by running your fingertips up and down her inner thighs – do not touch her pussy yet

  2. Begin to kiss and lick her inner thighs in addition to running your hands up and down her legs, drawing closer and closer to her pussy, still without actually touching it

  3. Once having done this for a while (one minute or several... you can take as long as you like actually – so long as she's enjoying it, the slower you go, the more anticipation you will build and the more she'll want it), move up to just beneath her pussy

  4. Begin very lightly whisking your fingers across the outside of her pussy – running along inside the creases between her labia majora (outer lips) and her thighs – again, you should NOT have touched her pussy yet – don't break the anticipation by getting over-eager and touching her without sufficient build up

  5. Start kissing and licking her outer labia, returning every so often to her inner thighs, and even her pelvis (the part of her waist above the pussy and below the belly button), then back again to the outer labia

  6. After you've done this for a while, move to stroking, then kissing and licking, the labia minora (inner lips of the vagina), returning every so often to the outer lips, inner thighs, and pelvis, and going to and fro all these locations

  7. Finally, you can begin licking and touching her vaginal opening as well

  8. DO NOT touch her clitoris yet – your aim at this part of the experience is to make her feel like you are giving attention to everything BUT her clit – ignoring her most sensitive part. She may even ask you to lick or rub her clitoris, or try to guide your head or tongue or hand there – don't let her. If she tries, just tell her, “Patience,” in a deep, sensual voice, with a mischievous, knowing smile and sticky sexual eye contact, and continue doing what you're doing

If you need tips on physical escalation for before you reach the point where you're touching and licking her inner thighs with her panties off, refer to these articles:

By this point in the escalation, she is extremely aroused, and her clitoris is engorged with blood and throbbing for your touch (the female clitoris expands and hardens much the same way the male penis does when aroused... only, at a far smaller scale).

But it is not time to give her what she most wants.

Not yet, anyway.


Step 2: Getting Your Hands Dirty

Well, maybe not DIRTY dirty (unless she didn't get properly washed first, that is), but they're certainly about to get a little oilier and a good bit more aromatic.

how to give a girl oral sex

The next step in turning her on is to begin using your hands with her, to really rub her pussy and insert a forefinger or a thumb inside her.

The goal here is not to go all out in fingering her; you're not going to stick three fingers in, or start fisting her. You're not using the “come hither” move to make her squirt, either. You're not trying to find her g-spot.

Instead, all you're doing is rubbing the outside of the pussy, and inserting a finger partway inside of her, and moving it in and out.

At this point, you will STILL not have touched her clitoris... and you want to be very careful not to rub it by accident.

The ABSENCE of touch is what makes this so exciting for her. By not touching her clitoris, but touching everywhere else important, you create a vacuum of sensation that makes her long for your touch there more and more and more.

In fact, she will almost certainly even begin to fear that you will not touch her clitoris... what if you do all of this build up, and get her THIS aroused – more aroused than she's been in a long time, or perhaps ever – and then you don't get to her clit?

What if there's some sort of interruption that occurs before you're able to get around to reaching her most sensitive piece?

She's on the verge of dying from anticipation.

And all you're doing is licking her labia, rubbing her labia, darting a finger halfway in and out of her pussy, and making her wonder if you're ever going to give her what she is now so deeply craving.


Step 3: Commit to the Clit

At last, it's time: you're going to focus your attention – and all the attention of your tongue – upon her clitoris.

And this is where most men who are trying to learn how to give a girl oral sex find themselves misled: they read a lot of articles about all this creative stuff you're supposed to do during oral, and they watch a lot of porn with people jumping all over the place during oral that is designed more to titillate the voyeurs watching than satisfy the participants performing.

Because once your tongue hits the clit, you are not going to do anything wild, creative, inventive, or crazy.

You're just going to STAY there. Like as if your tongue is made out of lead, and her clitoris is a magnet drawing it right there.

(and by the time you're done, your tongue will definitely feel like a piece of lead, I promise)

You are going to lick and lick and lick at that clit like it is the only thing in the world for you to do. And you are going to keep licking, and do NOTHING else, until she climaxes.

how to give a girl oral sex

And once she starts climaxing, you will still keep licking – just as hard, just as consistently – and not stop until she pulls you off or starts laughing because it's become ticklish (which happens after certain kinds of climax quite often for many women).

At no point after you begin licking her clit will you:

  • Lick her labia or vaginal opening

  • Lick her thighs or legs

  • Do anything other than lick her clitoris with passion and fury

In fact, I'd suggest you throw out the advice you've probably read elsewhere about fingering her while you lick her, too.

You can do this during the buildup to clit-licking, but NOT once you start licking her clit. It's just too distracting; it will move your focus off of licking her clit, and onto making sure you are fingering her properly, which is going to mean you do a poorer job on the most important part, and it's going to overstimulate her, which reduces the amount of attention she's able to give to the clit, which is where all her pleasure is going to be coming from at this point.

Once you hit the clit, you simply must commit.


Step 4: Pull the Hood Back as She Nears Orgasm

As you bring a girl you're giving oral sex to close to orgasm, it's time for the final pleasure booster: you're going to pull her clitoral hood back.

What is the clitoral hood? It looks like this (here's that NSFW part I mentioned earlier):

how to give a girl oral sex

On the left, you see the entire female genital area, with the top of the genitals – where the clitoris is – highlighted.

On the right, you can see the clitoris – it looks like a tiny penis head – poking out from a fold of flesh – that flesh is called the clitoral hood.

Most of the time, the clitoral hood performs the function of protecting the sensitive flesh of the clitoris, exactly as the foreskin protects the sensitive glans on an uncircumcised male penis (the head of a circumcised penis becomes keratinized and desensitizes due to friction and abrasion with clothing and air).

Because the clitoris is so sensitive, you will NOT pull back the hood right away – start licking an unhooded clitoris too soon, and this will be painful for her, not pleasurable.

YET, once she is very turned on and growing near to orgasm, you can lift up the hood at this point, fully exposing the clitoris to the licking of your tongue... and her groin will explode with pleasure.

To pull back the hood, simply place the forefinger from one of your hands on one side of the clitoris, and your middle finger of the same hand on the other side, forming a ‘V' (or peace sign) with your two fingers, and then gently push the skin there back and up. This will reveal the bulb of her clitoris – and amplify the sensation she gets from your licking.

At this point, just keep licking and licking and licking until she cums.

Don't forget: you're committed to the clit.

If your tongue starts feeling like it's been worked so hard you may never be able to speak again, just push on anyway; you'll be glad in the end and so will she.

(and if you do this often enough, you'll get an extremely muscular, deft tongue as your compensation)

Reminder: girls who are very inexperienced (not all of them; but some) or who come from backgrounds of being sexually repressed may have a little or a lot of difficulty reaching orgasm, no matter what you're doing with them or how good you are in bed or at oral or anything else – if that's the case and you need to train a girl to open up to orgasm, see these articles on that:


How to Give a Girl Oral Sex: Recap

Let's sum up the lessons here on how to give a girl oral sex that's going to bring her to climax and make her scream (from pleasure, unless you push the clitoral hood back too soon):

  1. Before you start to please her, tease her – and the more of this you do, the more anticipation you build, and the more desperate she will be to experience your tongue on her ladybits. Do not touch her clitoris yet

  2. Once you've completed teasing, it's time to start inserting your fingers midway into the pussy and rubbing its exterior – again, without touching the clitoris, not even brushing or rubbing it accidentally. You're not going all out with fingering her either – it's just a later-stage form of teasing

  3. Once she's reached the point where she is about to EXPLODE with desperate desire, it's time for the main course – for you to begin licking her clitoris. Keep in mind the mantra that to the clit you must commit. If you stop licking the clitoris to focus elsewhere, you will “break the spell” you put her in and she will fall farther away from orgasm rather than continue to climb steadily toward it

  4. Finally, as she nears climax, use the second and third digits on one of your hands to push back her clitoral hood and flick her clitoris fully with your tongue. Don't do this too soon or it will be very uncomfortable for her, but once her clitoris is fully engorged with blood and she is nearing climax, doing this will amplify her pleasure and give her a sensation that none but the most experienced lovers she's enjoyed before have given her

One final tip for added intensity: maintain eye contact with her throughout the session – just keep staring up at her. If she doesn't look at you, that's fine, but every time she looks down and sees you staring right back up at you while you provide her pleasure with your tongue it's a major hit of “Wow, this guy knows what he's doing”, which, no matter what she says about how experienced or not she likes her men, thrills every girl, and enhances her pleasure further.

how to give a girl oral sex

And that wraps us up. If you follow these steps, don't be surprised if you have women wondering where on Earth you learned to how to give a girl oral sex like that... and if you don't want to tell them “a little website called Girls Chase”, you can always just shrug and say that you're a cunnilingus natural.

Following a performance like the one you'll give her following these steps, she'll almost assuredly be inclined to breathlessly agree.

Yours,
Chase Amante

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Comments

Anonymous's picture

Sex


Great article thanks for this one chase.

My questions,

How long after making her cum should you wait until vaginal sex (she's going to be very sensitive down there after cumming)

Why do you recommend not making a girl cum from cunnilingus the first time you fuck her?

Cheers

Matt's picture

It's up to her WHETHER you're


It's up to her WHETHER you're going to fuck her after you make her cum. Chances are, she won't want to after an orgasm.

And that's also kind if why you should only make her cum by vaginal sex the first time. If you meet a new girl and make her cum by oral sex she got what she want and doesn't have to add another man to her "list" (of men she fucked. A girl normally wants to keep that number low).

If you fuck her the first time she's already partly commited and chances are higher you'll see her again.

Also, question to Chase if he reads this: If you use this for teasing, how far would you go? Do everything but the clit and then fuck her? Or even start licking the clit but stopping before the orgasm?

David Riley's picture

Balance is Key


Hey Matt,

Like in your response to the user about not giving her a complete feeling. You want to bring her so close to orgasm but not completely that she's just begging to fuck you at the end of it. You want to lick her clit a little but stop before she orgasm. Especially, if this is a new girl as the article points out. It's also important to escalate during oral too. Multitask remove your clothes, and let her feel your body. Act like you're done and go back down on her. Keep her guessing, make her the one that needs sex the most.

Take care,

Just Dave

esahc etnama's picture

Chase, in your article on "5


Chase, in your
article on "5 ways to answer a social challenge" you
said that back when you were in school, you got good at replying back
to anyone who tried to tear you down. insult you, .....
My question is : did you get good by using the 5 steps you indicate in the article?
And also, how to really reply back and tear someone down?
For example, Whenever I try to answer back when someone insults me, whatever I say, the guy just
says: "Okaaay, what rubbish did you just say?". this really gets me
upset and I cant find anything to say to his "okaaay" answer.
Any idea in dealing with these situations?
If you think I will get better results using the 5 steps in
"answering a social challenge", please give me an examples using
the steps in the type of situation I wrote above.

Peacer's picture

Awesome.. !


Oh.. Chase.. !

Awesome article.. Waited for this long long time.. !

Thank you.

flower's picture

Great piece, insightful,


Great piece, insightful, informative and well written. Sorry if this sounds pretentious, but you really have the humor and i should say sensitivity that is particular to great artists which only very few people in this world possess!! And I don't use the word artist indiscriminately

Marty's picture

Safe oral sex


Chase:

Glad to say I do most of this already, within relationships at any rate—at least there's something here I'm already capable of :)

However, what's your view on avoiding STDs in cunnilingus? I know you have a separate article on the general subject; I adopt a commonsense approach to protection during vaginal sex, but when it comes to casual partners, I'm always a little nervous that I might catch something while giving cunnilingus (not that I can ever resist doing it, anyway).

Thankfully that hasn't happened to date, but the mainstream advice (dental dams etc.) seems to take all the fun out of it. What is your assessment of the real risk, being a man with a multiplicity of partners?

-Marty

Mike's picture

Staying on the right path--What are your thoughts?


Hey Chase,

First off I'd like to say how much I appreciate all the priceless information you've put out for guys like me who want to improve themselves and become the best version of themselves that they can be! I've been reading articles on the site for almost a year now and it's safe to say that I've made huge improvements thanks to you; from previously a virgin to now having slept with multiple girls. I also appreciate the advice you gave me last September here--http://www.girlschase.com/content/how-steal-girl-under-her-boyfriend%E2%80%99s-nose#comment-14288

I have a new situation for you though, this time I sealed the deal! Frist time I went out with this girl from my social circle but had not talked before, we went to eat and vibed incredibly well, the best I ever have with a girl. We split the bill(as your suggestion) and I invited her home to watch a movie. Within 5 or 10 minutes I began escalating but got some last minute resistance and she said she wasn't going to have sex because she just met me.

So instead of pushing it and possibly losing her like I've done when I've pushed the envelope with other girls, I let it slide and we just made out while watching movies and ended up hanging out for 7 hours that night. The one thing that stuck with me was that she said she felt like she'd known me longer than just that day and constantly commented on how much we had in common.

I texted her the next day to hang out and she came and picked me up and we went to a drive in. Once again, the whole time there we had an incredible connection, I am not sure why it went so great this time compared to others as I didn't do anything differently. At the drive-in she resisted my escalation for a good part of the 2 movies we watched but I finally broke through and we banged for a solid 45 minutes to an hour in which she orgasmed multiple times.

By this point it was 3 in the morning and we capped the night off with some Mel's in which she paid for my food and then she drove me home. Next morning I texted her as you suggest, and set something up on Monday to go on a hike today. Then I did not text her until last night to confirm and she texted me this morning saying she in another town and didn't know when she'd be back today but she'd let me know when she found out.

So the whole day I've been stressing about this girl wondering if she still likes me because she flaked on me after I gave her great sex and she commented multiple times about how she can't believe she just met me because it feels like she's known me forever. I haven't felt this way about a girl for a long time(mostly because I haven't been looking for a relationship, just casual sex) and I know I'm starting to think about her too much(which I know is bad) even though I have other options.

Long story short it seems like this is the girl of my dreams, and based on my story here, would you say I have reason to worry why she flaked, or am I doing all the right things and just need to chill the hell out? If so, how can I continue to build a solid foundation with this girl for a relationship if we both want that?

I know you're an incredibly busy man Chase, but if you could please take the time to give me some of your insight into this situation then it would be immensely appreciated! Thank you for your time brother!

Best,

Mike

David Riley's picture

Just Relax


Hey Mike,

Chase has me assisting and helping out with comments and answering concerns on articles. Now with that being said, I will say that once you slept with a girl you're doing fine. All you have to do is play it cool and keep meeting and interacting with different women. You won't be so consumed with this one particular girl and fall into oneitus. You will be surprised how often girls will reappear over time after you slept with them. Girls will not come back if you start chasing them after sex. Girls love being with men they feel they have to work to get.

Take care,

Just Dave

Mike's picture

Good call


Thanks for the insight Dave, that definitely helps clear things up in my mind!

triannad12's picture

Random w/you in mind though.


http://www.apa.org/monitor/2013/02/ce-corner.aspx

Evidence on a large scale for my poo Chase. Love ya!
Tri-

TORNADO's picture

Sexcalation


Hey Chase,

Been a while. So the situation is there are two girls. There is this girl no.1 who had friend-zoned me, but then when I cut contact she came back. Now its a equal chase kind of a thing I think. I feel good here because unlike the previous girl, in this one - I rarely invest, she's ready to invest on me (cover more distance, pay for my meals etc. to some extent).

Now here's my question. I am thinking of escalating sex (I am outside the US now and will be away from her for few weeks). Here are some sub questions:

1) Last day before I left when we had a walk after dinner, she was complaining about how her ex left her because of her resistance to sex and regretted about it and said she should not repeat it. She kept saying "She felt like having some action" and "The atmosphere felt romantic". She was talking about her ex before that though which got me confused. Was that some sort of a Hint or just a vent of frustration to a friendzoned guy?

2) When I came here and texted her how I miss the USA already and she was like "What about me?" with some angry smileys to which I replied, that's why I texted you to say that lol. I suggested a Skype for the next day to which she immediately agreed. She's asked me to get her back a particular perfume she loves if it was possible for me. Should I get it or will it be wrong as it is an investment on her?

Overall, I am confused. I read so many of your articles. She rarely touches me or compliments me like some of your articles mention about a girl being into a guy. She's older to me by a couple of years but tells me she doesn't date young guys. But she tells me stuff about what she wants in life - sexually and generally and tells me her personal most things like using the different perfumes or a combination daily. I keep the conversation pretty sexual these days and I also sometimes tease her with white guys just to get her excited. She never teases me with any girl though and is there with me for my most important days always - birthdays, before leaving country etc. and for the last day when a guy tried to setup a meet with her, she bailed on him because she was with me.

The overall standpoint on our relationship is this - Both literally reach out to one another alternately (she calls one day, I call the other day). We both only decide to meet if we are free (I no longer leave all my work and go behind like I used to with the previous one). Seems pretty balanced unlike before (Where I thoroughly chased her, we had a small fight and I cut off). Should I escalate for sex with her when we meet up next time? My point is do I have some chance with her or is she just another type of girl with a different flavor of frienzone? I have increased stuff such as sexual innuendos, touch etc. but I am still trying to figure out what else to do.

Meanwhile, there is this another girl who is like a backup for me who has more interest in my past than my future. However, this girl is crazy. When I called her, she literally left her project to be with me. So my situation is I have two girls currently and its kinda cool to get messages/calls from these two to fuel up my confidence. My only fear if I go for escalation is losing out on this aspect. What do you advise?

David Riley's picture

Go after both


Hey Tornado,

Chase has me helping out with comments and answering concerns and questions on articles. Now, I will say go after both. Don't spend time wondering make things happen. The worst either of the girls could say is "no". Don't be afraid of rejection embrace it. I've gone after girls who've boldly tried to friend zone me in the past and I just decline the frame. "You don't know me well enough." It's make the girl question everything about me at that point. She knows I'm not concerned about losing her or what ifs.

1.) You can use these as excuses to ask sexual questions. "When was the last time you got some?" or "Sounds like you might decent in bed." Be bold, she's just checking to see if you're the kind of guy who knows that women do enjoy sex.

2.) You can say, "I might get it if you're a good girl." It's a basic conditional statement that takes care of girls asking you for things. They know they have to behave and that you won't just shower them with gifts in the future. It's also important to note, that you should only invest in girls who are equally investing in you. I would note that it's not usually a good idea to buy women gifts before you've slept with them.

There's nothing wrong with talking to multiple women. I would suggest keep talking to other women so that they can see you have options. This will increase their attraction for you.

Take care,

Just Dave

Alex S.'s picture

Kicking bad habits


Hi Chase, fantastic article as usual.

I was wondering if you could do an article on how to kick bad habits. I know there's an article already on this site on creating a new habit, but I feel like kicking a bad habit is a whole different story, as I've succeeded in creating a new habit but been failing miserably at kicking one out.

So I would really appreciate it if you could do a step-by-step article on kicking a bad habit out.

Thanks!!

David Riley's picture

Noted


Hey Alex,

I will let Chase and the authors know about your suggestion.

Dave

Anonymous's picture

Impressions


Hey Chase, i am curious about this subject.

In your articles you often talk about leaving an Excellent Last Impression.
And that leaving a strong last impression is better than a strong first impression.

Can you clarify this, what exactly do you mean by Strong Last Impression?
And any examples of this, if you can.

I have no problem making a good first impression and maintaining that impression throughout our interaction, but it seems i don`t understand and don`t know how to leave a strong last impression.

To me a good first impression is maintained throughout the entire time i am with her, but when does a good last impression come into play and how to use it?

Again, a million thanks for the hefty insight provided in your articles.
Regards.

David Riley's picture

Lasting Memory


Being a guy that makes out with a girl or giving her amazing sex would be an excellent last impression. Making a move on her would also be another good. I use to let girls take something of mine and something hers at the end of a date. It was a good way to cement the memories and make sure I see her again. Another way to do this would be take a girl somewhere new and exciting for her.

Just Dave

Anonymous's picture

Yeah, but isn`t the whole


Yeah, but isn`t the whole "kissing a girl at the end of the date" thing a bad strategy to employ ?

Personally, when i kiss a girl, i want to continue making out with her for some while..
If i manage to get her to bed it is super, if i don`t, i still have something in place to build on, and eventually get her into bed.

Any other tips on leaving an excellent last impression without kissing or having sex ??
Just enough to make her even more eager to see me again..

David Riley's picture

Beginning Middle End


Hey Anon,

Yes, to get more specific in my comment I was referring to sleeping with a girl and making out with her during the date. Not at the conclusion unless you were already making out with her during the date. Then yes because it will seem rushed and it will have too much pressure on that kiss. It's also very cliche and it's what a lot of guys do. Basically Anon, you want to set yourself so far apart from the other guys that you'll be in your own leader.

Beginning: Get to know her on a deeper level and get her to invest heavily in you. Get her talking and telling you all about her secrets. Touch her plenty during the date. Too many guys are afraid to touch girls. When you touch a girl it cements the connection between you two. It's very natural for two people who like each other to touch.

Middle: Build up sexual tension with her tease her, but don't over do it. You don't want to come off as a jerk. Share something interesting about yourself. "A lot of people don't know this about me, but . . . " Give her a secret to know about you. Telling secrets is another way to cement the connection between you two. Find out about her childhood, family, friends, dreams, and passions. Really attempt to get to know the real her. Make her feel special and that you genuinely care about her.

End: Finally suggest a meetup for the future where you guys can see other again. Do this during the date, set it a couple days away. Be a leader, "Hey we should do XYZ on Friday. Does that work for you?" Make her part of the plan. Women love men who can lead and have direction and can get what they want. When you show a girl a good time and get to know her, she'll be thinking about. The most important thing is to have fun. No one wants to be on a serious or boring date. If you want a girl to remember you don't be boring. Be passionate and give her some rush of emotions.

Hope that clears things up for you better,

Just Dave

Anonymous's picture

has she reached an orgasm?


Great article Chase, loved it from beginning to the end. I actually had a question about my own relationship and whether she has had an orgasm or not. Like you said in step 1 to tease, I do that fairly well, and when I do go down on her, she moves her hips and legs quite frequently, making me shift from one side of the bed to another, lol. While exhaling loud (not extremely loud ), and moaning (not loud or aggressive, but in a sensational tone). But I've never heard her have her "Ohhh" moment. And I'm usually going down on her for quite some time, well over 20 minutes. She s usually pulls me big back to kiss me and doesn't want me to go down on her again, mainly cause she wants to go down on me. But I'm just wondering, if she has gotten or orgasm or close to one?

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  • HTML tags will be transformed to conform to HTML standards.
  • You may insert videos with [video:URL]

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