GIRLS CHASE MONTHLY SUBSCRIPTION
• Unlimited access to GirlsChase.com
Yesterday I went out with a guy I mentor, and he asked to watch me do some direct daytime approaches.
"Sure, no problem," I told him.
I scouted around for a while, and saw a really cute girl walking along, wearing a blue blouse and big sunglasses, apparently looking for a taxi, her cell phone in hand. Usually I don't go for women who are visibly occupied like that -- taxi-searching and texting / calling, as her headspace is going to be elsewhere -- but I wasn't seeing all that many cute girls around solo, so up I went.
"I saw you walking here, and I had to come tell you," I began -- and she put her hand up and waved me off. "...that you're incredibly cute. I'm Chase," I finished. She waved me off again. I walked next to her, matching her stride.
"What's your name, then?" I asked, sticking my hand in her direction. She smiled, turned her head away, and waved me off again.
"I'm sure you've got to be called something," I said. "Your friends don't just call you this [I demonstrated waving], right?" She cracked a bigger smile, laughed, and kept walking.
Comments
Chase never mentioned
Chase never mentioned anything about his own feelings of rejection in his earlier days! It seems the closest he could come to it was vicariously through his ex girlfriend. He mustn't be human!
about rejection
so i know this girl for a couple of months. we work together and connected well, i teased and joked and made fun of her and she liked it all. we kept in touch over chat (we live in different cities) where i made her laf. She told me that i was funny. on couple of occasions I felt that she was jealous as well of me meeting other chics. so finally when i asked her out casually she said no. I mean i didnt know how to react but i acted cool and disconnected the call. I dont undersatnd when signal were so clear why she said no. And what do you advice how do i behave with her now??
Hullo guys..i tend to
Hullo guys..i tend to approach alot of women I open up really well but I think my biggest failure is to take them to bed because I oftenly don't get much success well..so wat can I do to sleep with more girls
Gotta disagree
Sometimes like in the example with the taxi, it is just the situation that she's rejecting but most of the time it is you. If she finds you unattractive then she is telling you that she doesn't want you and she thinks she can do better. Those are the difficult to get over rejections, not the ones where she's busy or you screwed up the approach.
Maybe
I dunno. You seem to be saying that rejection is something that happens because the woman is busy. In that story she was clearly not rejecting you but was very occupied with something else and that probably isn't the standard reason. An unattractive man will have to assume that it's his appearance that caused the rejection every time unless there's an obvious alternate reason.
It all makes sense know...
Chase, i think this line is killer: "If you go direct on a very beautiful, confident girl, and you come on strong and powerfully, she may be flattered and excited to meet you. If you do the same thing to a girl who's only somewhat cute and not accustomed to that kind of attention, however, she may very well buckle under the pressure and bow out of the interaction early on."
I think I might have just experienced this yesterday. I walked a girl home from a bar, everything seemed to go well. She let me buy some beer for us for the road, she seemed to be excited about the fact that I offered to walk her home. I behaved very confidently, constantly kept her talking, played by the "the law of least effort", made witty comments, touched her shoulder in a leading manner as we crossed a bunch of people on the sidewalk, etc. we even went into a little bit of deep-diving, as she told me some about her previous boyfriends and how it didn't work out. As we arrived, I insisted on going with her into the building where she lived (hoping that I might just make my way into her apartment). But at that point she already seemed a bit nervous and she made it clear that I shouldn't come with her. I asked her what the problem was, and she asked me if I was aware of the fact that I am kind of big-headed and overly confident... She told me that it's clear that I am intelligent, smooth with girls, good at "the game", etc., but she said that it's not her thing. She even told me that I was having "problems"... (I still have no idea what she meant by that...)
I kept thinking about this whole scenario, played it back a lot of times, wondering about where I might have made a mistake... I suspected that I might have been "too much" and I even might have looked like a guy who thinks that he can get any girl he wants... But I also wasn't sure if I was really doing that badly, because I kind of thought that this approach would have just worked perfectly with other type of girls... It really didn't seem like she just wanted to make me chase her, she really looked intimidated and nervous... Now after reading your article, I am kind of thinking that she might have thought that I was somehow out of her league, you know... She was scared (?) of something, which makes perfect sense if I think about it...
What's the trick of making these kind of girls feel relaxed and safe, Chase? Is that just as simple as toning down the confidence a bit? I guess with some girls there's just this thin line you have to find... (Which takes a lot of practice, I guess)
Anyway, thank you for all this amazing work, I am literally devouring your articles in the last week... Please, keep up the good work. Some (actually, most) of this stuff is really a game changer for even the more experienced ones... I always found the hidden mechanism of the human mind fascinating and exciting. Knowing about these psychological mechanisms almost feels like being somehow invincible, or frighteningly powerful, to say the least (in a good way).
unsuccessful with girls through out my life
Hi Im someone that has missed out on experience's and been very unsuccessful through my life till this my life till this point Im still feeling very bitter and resentful towards girls in general and guys that have had there moments with them and still having success with girls easily on the regular basis including friends and people I know. Ive had nothing but endless rejections and girls who have messed me about saying there interested then blowing me off last minute, lead on. This has got to the point where its extremely personal for me and and being a late starter at my age is not a very good look. Even tried online dating like plenty of fish and tinder and none of those Im wasting my time on them On POF doesnt matter what you say in your message you wont get a reply back only views no hits for me, tinder simular, had a few matches but not a single convosation back off anyone or get a match but its a fake profile with a webcam site link on it. Sorry about the depressing paragraph but all forms of rejection from girls I take its very personal to me.
What should I do?
There is this gal I work with I could totally tell she was into me. I finally muster the
courage to ask her to come and have a drink with me after work and she agreed.She
expressed that she was trying not to drink I didn't hear her, number one mistake.By
the time she got there I had already had a few and was very loose at that point.
Anyway, I am 40 and she is twenty-five, and I felt like we connected on some levels, I
guess I was wrong. I walked her out to her car and she said" I will see you at work
next week" So, I hugged her, oh man, idiot!.Then I messaged her on face book for her
number, because I was really buzzed and want clear. Yes, I have very bad game.
She made her rejection more clear.Part of me says chase her, and the other part
says leave her alone. Can you guess which part is my penis? I have to work with
her tonight and we have not seen each-other since last week..Its going to be
awkward!!!!! How do I adjust my thought process to deal with this? How should I
treat her?
How am I supposed to take
How am I supposed to take life less seriously? Life is a big deal when you don' thave alot going for u? I'm angry all the time and I dont know how to chill out. I get angry at people telling me life isnt a deal big when their life is better than mine, so how do I not take life so seriously
Great article Chase! Im
Great article Chase! Im someone with diagnosed anxiety and this really helps to keep my self esteem from being obiterated !
she just reject me
after spending 2 weeks, fliring in IM, ask her go out, and etc.today I ask her to go to my house! and then she laugh hard! seriously! at first minute its hurts so bad! and then I change my mind! and tell her, I am so sad! :( because if I am not sad with your rejection, that would be rude! :P Lmao
I am curious what will happen next! ;) I am sure, she will think that I am unshakeble bastard! lol
if we treat sex like sales, I
if we treat sex like sales, I think normal conversion would be 1-10% if we targeting the right niche, it could be 50%, so if we meet 100 girls, at least we can get 10 or 50 if we good enough lol
How to act when a girl rejects you
I do not cope with rejection, I have been rejected too many times and I hate all women now.
I have never asked a woman
I have never asked a woman out because rejection is always guaranteed, therefore there would be no point. I am invisible to women and always have been - I'm 38 and no woman has ever even smiled at me. There is nothing about me that could attract any woman, and this is my permanent state - there is nothing to be done.
Leave a Comment