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How to Escalate with Girls in Social Circle

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Peter Fontes's picture

content="Pete dives into explaining how to take a girl you’re friends with socially and turn her into a lover of yours – without disrupting your circle (or her reputation).">

social circle escalateAnd off she went. That girl from my social circle kissing behind the bushes with that other dude. It's not like I was in love with her or anything, but damn I'd wanted to kiss her.

When I was in high school this kind of scenario would play out with girls at parties and social gatherings all the time. I had next to no understanding of what to do to actually attract these girls... and even had I known they were attracted, I had no idea how to move the interaction forward. I eventually resigned myself to the belief that I'd only get what came my way by chance.

You can probably relate to that in some way, shape, or form. In my first article on the 'Pros' and 'Cons' of social circle I gave you a broad overview of what to expect out of social circle. In this article we're going to get down to the nitty-gritty of what my adolescent self didn't know during my high school years: how to escalate on girls from your social circle.

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Anonymous's picture

Could the escalation window always be open in a social circle if your not really in the friendzone with her?

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Peter Fontes's picture

Hey there,

In social circle the window to get a girl is something that can be much more drawn out and in a state of flux. So if you haven't reached the super-duper friends point then yes the escalation window could still be open or made to re-open. If you're doing what I said at the start of the article, the flirty with all girls thing, then it should be open with most girls in there by default.

Alternatively, if you haven't been doing that and you don't think a girl sees you like that then you can use cold approach or girls from extended social circle to reignite the passions of the girls in your immediate social circle. I'll be going through that in a later article.

Hope that helps.

Pete

Rico Suave's picture

Het Pete...insightful article.

Still my concern is further by getting into the core: How to bed multiple girls from your social circle.

The second point that you clarified on your first article is using your social circle to attract other girls at a night club...BUT what happens with the lady from your circle that you are secretly sleeping with?
She will see you are seducing other girls from you circle or outside of it. May she be present or not other girls from the circle will tell her.

If I hang out with my secret girl and my circle: How can I seduce other girls?

For me that´s the million dollar question. Hope you can clarify that.

All the best, and welcome to Girls Chase.
Rico Suave

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Peter Fontes's picture

Hey there Rico,

I see that you posted two comments, but I'll just use the one reply to address them.

Yes, you can sleep with multiple girls from the same social circle. But if you start dating one in immediate social circle it get's a little trickier. It's a little different for extended social circle as a lot of the time the girls won't know each other or know each other that well.

What'll help you sleep with multiple girls from the same social circle is your reputation. If you are displaying boyfriend attributes then that's the kind of response you'll illicit from the girl. However if you are known as a guy who sleeps with a lot of girls and doesn't get tied down then you can manage a girls expectations much better and this is what allows you to be with more than one girl.

The technique of using cold approach to help bump up attraction in a social circle should only be used if you're not attached. If you are already dating a girl from a social circle it is not advisable to pick up other girls in front of her unless you have some kind of agreement.

Also, when I say that you should use discretion when you go after a girl, it doesn't mean that if you intend to keep sleeping with her over a period of time that it should be a massive secret from everybody else. If you intend to keep a girl from a social circle around then that'll stamp out your ability to get girls from that social circle from the time you are with her. This is another reason why using cold approach and social circle in tandem is important.

I'll be covering all this in more detail in my next two articles, so stay tuned.

Pete

robertnyc's picture

Hi - sorry to post this here but I have tried emailing your company several times over the last 2 weeks and have not gotten any response.

On June 12, 2013 I bought the mastery package and downloaded all of the files. However none of the files (audio or video) are able to be played. I have tried several media players and have updated them all but they are giving me error messages. Can you tell me how to play the files and whether they come in DVD/CD format? Thanks.

Robert
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Chase Amante's picture

Hi Robert-

Sorry you're having problems, both with getting files to play and with getting a response. On email, Genaro's pretty good about getting everyone prompt replies usually - have you been using the contact page and still not hearing anything back?

On files, if it's happening with audio too, it sounds like they're downloading as corrupt for some reason (if it was just the movies files, I'd say try downloading VLC player first, but if the files themselves are corrupt that won't make any difference). Could be an Internet connection thing or any number of other reasons.

I'll ask Genaro to send you a Dropbox link tonight to try downloading them from a separate source.

Chase

Robert nyc's picture

Chase - thanks a lot. I received the email from Genaro and was able to watch the videos and listen to the audios.

Rico Suave's picture

Is it possible to sleep with 2 or more girls that are really attracted to you from your circle simultaneously or a time gap must happen between one another - you end up with one, and then you sleep with the other?

What happens when you are hanging out at a night venue with your circle and you secret girl from the circle and want to do cold approaches? You have to take advantage from all the attraction that the females in your social gathering provides you by seducing other women non related to your venue...but obviously drama will happen with your secret girl.

How to manage that?
Rico Suave

Anonymous's picture

Say your with a girl who once had feelings for you but decieds over time that you may be too Possessive and said she doesnt want anything to do with and go's back with her ex. But later(like a few weeks) says she "want to be friends but you make to hard, with all these feelings you have". Whats the best thing to do here? Cause this is my situation we've been on and off for like a yr but never actually dated or done anything really? Just talked, talked about feelings and future relationships. The one time i felt like i could've really had her was a copule of months ago when she seemed to be getting over her ex (who she dated for 3yrs).this was in highschool we were both suppose to be going to school in New York for college where she said she wanted to start our relationship. But instead i guess she got tired of me or jumped at the first shot she had to get back with her ex (who too moved to NY and began to disregard her). This was a little after graduation, but here i am in my college dorm room at 1am receiving a long txt from her about beging friends and wanting me in her life and how i make her question her relationship with her ex(whos now her current) bc of how special i make her feel and so on...its like she doesnt kno what she wants! But i kno i want her, ikno i would turn down 1000 girls for her but i also kno getting her wont be easy. Like right now we're all patched up and stuff but i havent txt her or anything, its like i dont kno what to say, i want to start building the frame of being the guy that can get her. She's attached to her ex but she also has alot of interest in me. I guess i just have to get it together..but where do i start??

Velour's picture

Hey Pete,

Thanks for the solid advice in your articles. It's been fun employing your moves.

My question concerns a couple of attempts on my part to hold a girl's hand as a hidden move and her holding our hands up for anyone to see. Both of the girls I've tried it with did this similarly. They weren't angry or anything and it wasn't overtly like, "Hey look at what he's doing". It was simply taking our hands from being hidden to being visible. The first time I dismissed it as awkwardness, but now with the second time I'm wondering if you've encountered this and what I should be learning from it?

They liked me touching them secretively in other ways, like stroking their legs, leading up to it. Is it rejection?

Francesco's picture

Hey Pete, you're article is enlightening to say the least, yet there's a point that still isn't clear to me. Do you make your hidden move after you've got IOIs from all the girls or just the one you're interested to ? And if she blocks your move, do you step back to the flirting until you get more IOIs ? Thanks for helping a brother out dude ;)

Mike-'s picture

Not sure if anyone is watching this article, since it's 5 years old now. But I was just re-reading it, and something came to my mind.

At some point, you need to move past the stage where you're just flirting with the girl and make a move, and Peter recommends doing one of these "hidden moves" to test the waters. The safest of these is to take her hand. That still strikes me as a pretty big move, and could be awkward if she's not into it. How do I tell if she'd be receptive to that, what will it be like if she rejects me, and how do I make it less awkward if she does?

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