When a girl does something good, you can reward her with a cheek
kiss… and open up the floodgates of romantic and sexual potential.
This is a fun little tactic I’ve employed over the years that does a lot of good things for you.
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The tactic is simple: when she does something you like, give her a peck on the cheek, neck, shoulder, or lips.
There’s a little nuance to it, because the power of the kiss will be tied to the level of investment she gives you. The bigger the investment, the weightier the kiss. The lesser the investment, the lesser the kiss.
I’m going to do a quick section to tell you why this is good. And then I’ll give you a few examples of how and where you’d use it.
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example
is just a movie, but this article reminded me of this movie
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yBI44xnQ9oE
Cheek Kiss Example
HG-
Fun clip!
Here it is embedded, for any readers:
Chase
Crazy or just Restless?
Hey Chase,
Very cool tactic that one with the kissing. I'm sure you have a lot of funny stories with girls that either rejected you in a weird way, or with girls that lighted up after you did that and were all jumpy (and then jumped on you ;) )
Anyway, the thing I wanted to ask you is the following scenario :
Let's say you manage to bed a very high value girl (relative to you), tapping to your "lover" power, but both of you realize you want this relationshiop to continue, because you connect very well. But as the relationship grows, the girl demands more and more for you to become a provider also. Is it possible for your girl to start acting crazy and create lots of drama, because she feels restless and anxious...either for you to step it up or to decide that she needs to dump you?
More general, I'd like to ask, Is super-crazy always super-crazy?Or it may be due to unfullfiled meets that amplify her mild-craziness and the girl act this way in hopes of you to step up?
Cheers,
John.
Chaotic Behavior in Unstable Early Long-Term Relationships
John-
Yes, that will certainly happen. Depending on the girl and what her needs are for a provider, you will have an easier or harder time meeting them. Much of the time it isn't just about provision, but security, too; she entered a fun-but-unstable relationship with a lover, and now that it's progressing toward something longer-term, the level of uncertainty is too high and she causes drama to make you either bring the uncertainty level down or get her out of the relationship.
All 'super-crazy' behavior is in this sense (in an unstable relationship and behaving in a chaotic, unstable, desperate way) is a girl who feels like she is stuck in a situation with no good way out, squeezed by the chaoticness of it. Whether she is 'actually' crazy (i.e., reading chaos/instability into a situation that most sane women would find stable and unchaotic) or she is responding normally (i.e., any woman will freak out if her situation becomes chaotic enough) you will have to sniff out based on what you know of the girl and how chaotic of a situation you've created for her.
Chase
Handling this?
Hey Chase. Im going through this right now. She's causing drama cause she wants the courtship to progress but i want to keep it static, not ready to take it farther. If i give into her now, wont it set a bad precedent? Cause drama whenever u want something from me :/ And how to give her what she wants on MY TERMS? How to go about it if there's a mini breakup/soft next and u want to convey that i will give u want u want but wait a little and on my own terms?
You forgot to mention that
You forgot to mention that this kiss tactic works awesome in a relationship to condition good behavior as well. Put a sidenote in there!
In Relationships
Hum-
That it does!
-C
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